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Im worried as I havent a lot of sexual experience, do escorts care? When I do eventually sort out my next punt im going to tell them in my own way that I havent had a lot of experience,Is it best to tell the people on the phone or the actual girl your with?

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When I didn't have much experience, I never worried about it. Now that I do, I certainly don't worry about being "any good". Sex is about enjoying yourself, quit worrying and just get on with it and I wouldn't bother telling the girl, it's cool to be shy, sometimes I like to just play at being coy, for the fun of it!

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If you smell nice and clean, you're polite and respectful and pay the right amount without complaining, why would any escort care how experienced you are? I wouldn't say anything to an agency or maid on the phone, they're unlikely to bother passing the message on. Tell the girl you're with if you think it'll make things easier.

Stop worrying, most girls would rather be with you than with some cocky idiot that thinks he's the world's greatest lover.

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My advice would be to look for an indie who is happy to take visits from inexperienced guys. There are plenty out there. Then just tell the truth and you will be very well looked after.

Search around on here, read the posts of the ladies who are all very friendly. You will find what you need here.

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Im worried as I havent a lot of sexual experience, do escorts care? When I do eventually sort out my next punt im going to tell them in my own way that I havent had a lot of experience,Is it best to tell the people on the phone or the actual girl your with?

In my experience WGs dont care either way and many are used to meeting inexperienced punters.

If the people you refer to are an Agency or Parlour i would check on here whether they are reputable, if so let them know and see what they say. If the lady you actually punt with is good or better at her job then she should look after you. :)

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I agree with all of the above. I've spoken to guys who were nervous about seeing me simply because they had assumed they would have to perform like 'studs'. I'm not some sex-crazed woman lining up guys to see if they can satify me. All I want is a pleasant meeting, with someone clean and polite and we can see what happens from there. No further expectations.

Also being with a man performing like the 'studs' in porn films does not get me, or most other women off.

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Im worried as I havent a lot of sexual experience, do escorts care? When I do eventually sort out my next punt im going to tell them in my own way that I havent had a lot of experience,Is it best to tell the people on the phone or the actual girl your with?

If you're really that worried, just lie back and let the girl do all the work. You don't need any experience to just lie there. When you get more confident try taking the lead a bit and suggesting some different positions.

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We (the ladies) think it's lovely to be chosen when you're new! Well, I do.

A decent level of escort will be very considerate to your needs, so research carefully to find the right one.

Read her site and blog, you'll get a good idea if she is right for you. Avoid the ones who say the same old bumph, they are just looking for a 'catch all', not for a particular man.

A good escort does care, she cares that she is right for you, and cares that you have a good time in her company too.

I wouldn't spring it suddenly, have a chat on the phone first, then you both know how to 'go with the flow'..

It's meant to be be fun, right? Being honest is a good way to start.

We have met boys of all levels of exp, and to be honest, newbies are cute!

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Unlike what some of the others posters have said within this thread, I do feel some ladies are more comfortable than others in seeing less experienced guys.

As Dollymopp suggests, it is about communication.

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Im a clean lad so no problem there, Im going to tell them when I meet them face to face. Hopefully I wont get laughed at. Hopefully when I tell her, she can think to herself 'He wont know much so ill take control'.

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Im a clean lad so no problem there, Im going to tell them when I meet them face to face. Hopefully I wont get laughed at. Hopefully when I tell her, she can think to herself 'He wont know much so ill take control'.

Why would she laugh?I don't think not being experienced is funny, now a man coming in with "I'm going to give you 59 minutes of hard pleasure 'cos that's what you want love" is hilarious.

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Why hope? Just come right out and say you'd like it if she took control. It's a totally normal request, quite common and won't cause any amusement. Good luck, and have fun!

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Im worried as I havent a lot of sexual experience, do escorts care? When I do eventually sort out my next punt im going to tell them in my own way that I havent had a lot of experience,Is it best to tell the people on the phone or the actual girl your with?

Firstly stop worrying,like Dolly said its supposed to be fun,and no they don't care.If you're worrying you/re not enjoying.I'm disabled so a bit limited to what i can do position wise,but it dosn't matter,we have a good laugh.Escorts are the best girls in the world,they wont judge or laugh at you.so just enjoy yourself.

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Im worried as I havent a lot of sexual experience, do escorts care? When I do eventually sort out my next punt im going to tell them in my own way that I havent had a lot of experience,Is it best to tell the people on the phone or the actual girl your with?

Im new to the punting scene also lightning, and I havent had too much experience. I found emailing or speaking on the phone with the WG im interested in helped very much. The response I got was great, and they were happy to take control until i felt comfortable to have more of an input into things. And they mentioned we are both there to have fun etc. I wouldnt like to start with an agency WG as I would not have the direct contact with her. Hope that helps :)

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Im new to the punting scene also lightning, and I havent had too much experience. I found emailing or speaking on the phone with the WG im interested in helped very much. The response I got was great, and they were happy to take control until i felt comfortable to have more of an input into things. And they mentioned we are both there to have fun etc. I wouldnt like to start with an agency WG as I would not have the direct contact with her. Hope that helps :)

Very good advice. I agree wholeheartedly

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I've had positive experiences with agencies and even Amsterdam windows when I was completely clueless. I just told them at the beginning and it was fine. I would note that you can have amazing fun learning, especially in an environment where you are not under pressure. Once the girl knows you there is no awkwardness. It's bliss...and now I'm day dreaming...

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