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How Often Do You Experiment?

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Considering the large range of girls escorting (especially in major cities); girls of different ages, races, sizes and offering different services; how often are you tempted to punt outside of your "comfort zone" and try something different? In fact how far outside of your "comfort zone" have you gone, and if you did, what was the result?

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Now that is, for me at least, a very interesting question. Being quite conservative in my tastes I tend on the whole to stick with what I know I like, and to be honest I'd feel uncomfortable pushing my own boundaries because I don't like to explore her's too closely (stupid, yes I know, because 99% of the time her boundaries are probably far more flexible than mine). But being at the moment in need of a diversion I'm very tempted to look for something that I would normally not ever consider. A risk: now there's a thought (shiver).

Thanks tompunt1, you may have just given me an opening.

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Considering the large range of girls escorting (especially in major cities); girls of different ages, races, sizes and offering different services; how often are you tempted to punt outside of your "comfort zone" and try something different? In fact how far outside of your "comfort zone" have you gone, and if you did, what was the result?

I'm just doing it--something I've never considered doing before. Normally, I'm pretty conservative in my approach. But, I have booked to see a long-term submissive next week who is going to teach me about BDSM on her--a two hour appointment starting with a brief tutorial from her followed by a pracical session on her. Although I'm not going to be on the receiving end, I'm still very anxious about the prospect. Normally a pretty confident person, I'm getting apprehensive as the meeting approaches, even to the extent of being bothered about the conversation I have already booked wuth her for later this week to discuss the meeting. My boundaries are certainly being challenged. I know I will go ahead with it, and I expect it will be alright : but, I think it fits in with what the OP was talking about.

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The variety is the whole point for me. I punt to satisfy my curiosity. Big, small, black, Chinese, Thai, white, mixed, young, old etc etc. I even went with a couple of ladies I didn't find attractive at all just for the experience. I'm slowly broadening my horizons and so far so good. Only thing I don't enjoy is pain :S I’m just too soft.

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Rarely. I like a bit of tie and tease now and then, but not with women with a dom image. A couple of threesomes (one was almost an accident), and recently I had my first taste of water sports. But, on the whole, I'm as vanilla as they come.

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Considering the large range of girls escorting (especially in major cities); girls of different ages, races, sizes and offering different services; how often are you tempted to punt outside of your "comfort zone" and try something different? In fact how far outside of your "comfort zone" have you gone, and if you did, what was the result?

Variety is my spice so i have been happy to give a number of different things a go including Swinging, Fetish, S&M, Bukkake, Gangbangs, Reverse Gangbangs and Group Sex.

I discovered i had no interest in the first three and had had enough of Bukkake when i was hit on the arm by flying jizz although i was wanting to try something different anyway. Had sex with WGs from many countries especially through parties, black, white, asian, indian, tall, short, size 6 to 18 maybe bigger, aged 18-60 ish, the more the merrier.

I dont experiment as much as i used to nowadays but still like variety within my own comfort zone with the odd step outside it. :)

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I punt less often now so tend to go for what I am fairly sure I will enjoy.

My experimental days are over

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Variety is my spice so i have been happy to give a number of different things a go including Swinging, Fetish, S&M, Bukkake, Gangbangs, Reverse Gangbangs and Group Sex.

I discovered i had no interest in the first three and had had enough of Bukkake when i was hit on the arm by flying jizz although i was wanting to try something different anyway. Had sex with WGs from many countries especially through parties, black, white, asian, indian, tall, short, size 6 to 18 maybe bigger, aged 18-60 ish, the more the merrier.

I dont experiment as much as i used to nowadays but still like variety within my own comfort zone with the odd step outside it. :)

Ah yes, now there I AM with you...

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I try a new escort every other time. It gives a good balance between developing a lomng term relationship and the excitement of the unknown. I am also now willing to experiment more and try different services. I have alwasy been fascinated by spanking so I am working myself up to trying the London Retreat where the specialise in this.

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What's interesting to my mind is that the explosion in porn and sex (including punting) on the internet has 'legitimised' many activities I would never have tried or even thought of experimenting with. If you'd asked me at 18 years old whether I would ever be into BDSM or BBWs for example, I would have said no way (especially the latter.) Yet these became two of my favourite activities in my 30s.

I've done a fair amount of experimentation over the years but strangely enough not with many different nationalities. Still, I reckon I've got a decade or two's worth of punting to catch up on all those Asians, Latinas and Eastern Europeans...

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Used to a lot as a kid, but ran out of most of the chemicals now :(

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