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"Reasons for punting" may be an overdone topic but looking back at previous threads it looks like its always put down to:

a) Get something you couldn't get without paying (looks/age/services/variety)

B) Experience (for nervous newbies)

c) Relaxation (hobbyists and those who have something they need to share)

d) Power

Or any combination of the above, and it seems people often speculate on D but never say its a reason for them, just for others

For me its partly A partly C, but also a large part of why I punt doesnt fall into the above, but I cant believe I'm unique here, so I thought I'd share and also see if anyone else has reasons that don't fit into the usual 4 above.

I guess the best way to describe my other reason is "hero delusion", best explained with an example of how several punts have gone for me. Go to a parlor towards the end of the day, as you chat to the girl its obvious its been a long day, suggest starting with a massage and then after swapping anecdotes about how shit a day/weeks its been offer to swap positions and spend 60% of the time reverse massage 40% of the time receiving massage, no happy ending. I call it "hero delusion" because of the response to this or similar scenarios is normally the girl often drops (or appears to drop) her working persona and opens up, you have a natter oddities of sex industry, and often get told how there aren't many "nice guy" punters like yourself.

And i guess thats the kick, leaving with the impression real or otherwise that you were unique for a bit, that you cheered up someones day and that you benefited from a real conversation and not a working facade. I say real or otherwise as no doubt the more seasoned service providers can spot this kind of punter and change the service to provide the scenario above, in a kind of assumed role play. And its definitely a delusion that punting this way is any "nicer" whatever that means as at the end of the day you've still paid for a sexual service even if its just a naked massage.

No doubt there will be some knocking this post, but will be interesting to see if there are any other more unusual punting reasons out there, and what people think of the above.

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Biggest reason for me is a), but I have other reasons too:

1. I like sex with a stranger and related to this, first time experiences with a new "partner". On a purely personal level (not in a competitive way with anyone else), I'm also playing something of a "numbers game". I have a punting diary, each girl gets an A4 page write up together with a picture of her....I keep a tally each year of the number of different girls I've had sex with and also have a running total since I began. Some people collect stamps in an album, I'm collecting pictures and accounts of prostitutes that I've had sex with B).

2. I enjoy the whole process of punting; searching/finding a girls website/profile, phoning her to make a booking, finding her address and meeting her. This is all an enjoyable part of the hobby, for me, it's not just about the sex.

3. The buzz. I find punting pretty damn exciting and nothing else gives me the same sort of kick. I guess I'm an adrenalin junkie and punting gives me the biggest "fix" out of anything I've tried.

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"Reasons for punting" may be an overdone topic but looking back at previous threads it looks like its always put down to:

a) Get something you couldn't get without paying (looks/age/services/variety)

B) Experience (for nervous newbies)

c) Relaxation (hobbyists and those who have something they need to share)

d) Power

Or any combination of the above, and it seems people often speculate on D but never say its a reason for them, just for others

For me its partly A partly C, but also a large part of why I punt doesnt fall into the above, but I cant believe I'm unique here, so I thought I'd share and also see if anyone else has reasons that don't fit into the usual 4 above.

I guess the best way to describe my other reason is "hero delusion", best explained with an example of how several punts have gone for me. Go to a parlor towards the end of the day, as you chat to the girl its obvious its been a long day, suggest starting with a massage and then after swapping anecdotes about how shit a day/weeks its been offer to swap positions and spend 60% of the time reverse massage 40% of the time receiving massage, no happy ending. I call it "hero delusion" because of the response to this or similar scenarios is normally the girl often drops (or appears to drop) her working persona and opens up, you have a natter oddities of sex industry, and often get told how there aren't many "nice guy" punters like yourself.

And i guess thats the kick, leaving with the impression real or otherwise that you were unique for a bit, that you cheered up someones day and that you benefited from a real conversation and not a working facade. I say real or otherwise as no doubt the more seasoned service providers can spot this kind of punter and change the service to provide the scenario above, in a kind of assumed role play. And its definitely a delusion that punting this way is any "nicer" whatever that means as at the end of the day you've still paid for a sexual service even if its just a naked massage.

No doubt there will be some knocking this post, but will be interesting to see if there are any other more unusual punting reasons out there, and what people think of the above.

Definately A and the buzz and fun i get are my reasons. As to being unique i have often been told by WGs i am, then we sometimes laugh and i agree. Whatever gives you satisfaction at a punt is all that matters as long as its consentual. I am paying for a delusion and am more than happy to do so. :)

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"Reasons for punting" may be an overdone topic but looking back at previous threads it looks like its always put down to:

a) Get something you couldn't get without paying (looks/age/services/variety)

B) Experience (for nervous newbies)

c) Relaxation (hobbyists and those who have something they need to share)

d) Power

Or any combination of the above, and it seems people often speculate on D but never say its a reason for them, just for others

For me its partly A partly C, but also a large part of why I punt doesnt fall into the above, but I cant believe I'm unique here, so I thought I'd share and also see if anyone else has reasons that don't fit into the usual 4 above.

I guess the best way to describe my other reason is "hero delusion", best explained with an example of how several punts have gone for me. Go to a parlor towards the end of the day, as you chat to the girl its obvious its been a long day, suggest starting with a massage and then after swapping anecdotes about how shit a day/weeks its been offer to swap positions and spend 60% of the time reverse massage 40% of the time receiving massage, no happy ending. I call it "hero delusion" because of the response to this or similar scenarios is normally the girl often drops (or appears to drop) her working persona and opens up, you have a natter oddities of sex industry, and often get told how there aren't many "nice guy" punters like yourself.

And i guess thats the kick, leaving with the impression real or otherwise that you were unique for a bit, that you cheered up someones day and that you benefited from a real conversation and not a working facade. I say real or otherwise as no doubt the more seasoned service providers can spot this kind of punter and change the service to provide the scenario above, in a kind of assumed role play. And its definitely a delusion that punting this way is any "nicer" whatever that means as at the end of the day you've still paid for a sexual service even if its just a naked massage.

No doubt there will be some knocking this post, but will be interesting to see if there are any other more unusual punting reasons out there, and what people think of the above.

Your hero delusion comes under option D.

You are playing on a girls, want to get what you need.

That is a power play,

You like the power you get from it, Girls open up more, Girls, tell you how sweet you are.

What you don't/won't recognise is that the girl would probably have told you all that anyway.

Owing to the fact that a WG will never tell you anything she doesn't want you to know, no matter how nice you are.

sorry to burst your superhero bubble.

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For me it was just to be able to feel a girl and experience kissing one, as i never was interested in girls during uni and only in last few yrs iv had the urge!

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Your hero delusion comes under option D.

You are playing on a girls, want to get what you need.

That is a power play,

You like the power you get from it, Girls open up more, Girls, tell you how sweet you are.

What you don't/won't recognise is that the girl would probably have told you all that anyway.

Owing to the fact that a WG will never tell you anything she doesn't want you to know, no matter how nice you are.

sorry to burst your superhero bubble.

Not bursting any bubbles - I did say hero delusion any punting is a delusion of sorts...

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...... for a SHAG without the WAG.......:D

simples

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Reasons for punting...?

Easy question, I'm greedy........

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I do it because I enjoy being with a woman and because I like experiencing a beautiful female body. The sex is not as important as the first two reasons.

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Alot of guys have mentioned A here, but i don't buy that, unless you are maybe over 70. Nowadays, it is actually pretty difficult not to pull a pretty hot girl in a club if you try, sometimes you don't even try, it is pretty common for me to leave my mates, sit on my own in a busy bar and a girl will come over. 15-20 years ago, when i was in my prime, that never happened and sharking on my own often ended in frustration. So you guys say A probably because you are not socialising much, perhaps because you are married?

Of the others you mention, i don't see the power point at all. How is paying for anything power? When i buy a car, when i give my bank details for the DD, and the salesman/woman brings me over the twentieth cup of tea, and some nice biscuits and offers to throw in free mats, am i exerting power over him and his company? Of course not, i am merely paying for something i want.

Most of us have no power at all, we have to answer to somebody, perhaps the Prime Minister, Judges in the supreme court, maybe they have power, but seeing an escort is not power.

For most, i don't buy the experience argument either, most guys (and girls) experiment in their early or mid-teens, and by our mid-twenties most people are confident in the bedroom.

The hobbyist seems the more plausible option, but there is one option not mention here, DISCRETION!!

For most men, pulling in a club or a pub or at the gym is not an option once employed and/or married. They want better sex, but need it to be discreet. What we are in fact paying for is an escort's silence. That is why i see them, and one of the reasons i do not see them more than once as rule (albeit i have broke that a few times).

I know for a fact many celebrities see escorts for the same reason, and the only way for male escorts to be successful is to see female celebrities, a thriving industry. But for female celebrities the same reason applies, DISCRETION.

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Alot of guys have mentioned A here, but i don't buy that, unless you are maybe over 70. Nowadays, it is actually pretty difficult not to pull a pretty hot girl in a club if you try, sometimes you don't even try, it is pretty common for me to leave my mates, sit on my own in a busy bar and a girl will come over. 15-20 years ago, when i was in my prime, that never happened and sharking on my own often ended in frustration. So you guys say A probably because you are not socialising much, perhaps because you are married?

Of the others you mention, i don't see the power point at all. How is paying for anything power? When i buy a car, when i give my bank details for the DD, and the salesman/woman brings me over the twentieth cup of tea, and some nice biscuits and offers to throw in free mats, am i exerting power over him and his company? Of course not, i am merely paying for something i want.

Most of us have no power at all, we have to answer to somebody, perhaps the Prime Minister, Judges in the supreme court, maybe they have power, but seeing an escort is not power.

For most, i don't buy the experience argument either, most guys (and girls) experiment in their early or mid-teens, and by our mid-twenties most people are confident in the bedroom.

The hobbyist seems the more plausible option, but there is one option not mention here, DISCRETION!!

For most men, pulling in a club or a pub or at the gym is not an option once employed and/or married. They want better sex, but need it to be discreet. What we are in fact paying for is an escort's silence. That is why i see them, and one of the reasons i do not see them more than once as rule (albeit i have broke that a few times).

I know for a fact many celebrities see escorts for the same reason, and the only way for male escorts to be successful is to see female celebrities, a thriving industry. But for female celebrities the same reason applies, DISCRETION.

Really? You know that as a fact?

I'm guessing, but many celebrity females will be of the Alpha variety and in no need of any male escorts, with potentially many suitors, discretion or not...

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for me being 50 i like being with the sexy slim 20 year olds which i wont pull now, there lil firm tight figures and some with real dirty lil ways, and maybe not knowing what they look like before and being pleased when they turn out to be pretty or attractive

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Reasons for punting...?

Easy question, I'm greedy........

Yep !!

I second that :D

Other main reason is the extreme physical pleasure and release, and the ease with which punting allows it to be experienced and achieved with an attractive woman of your choice...........wouldve thought that was obvious ??!

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I think point A should be subdivided into 'services' and 'looks, age, variety'.

Certainly I, and I suspect many others, punt as their wives or partners no longer or never have provided or enjoyed certain servcies.

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I punt because I want my cake and to eat it too.

It is morally reprehensible I'm sure, but I am very greedy when it comes to sex and I like to fuck a lot, and to fuck a lot of different women. I discovered quite early in life that the best way to do this is to have a willing girlfriend and to live with her and be able to enjoy her more or less whenever I want, and then to go out punting every so often.

Punting is discreet and doesn't have the dangers of pulling; the emotional entanglements of affairs; the endless possibilities of being caught by someone with my trousers down. A professional girl isn't going phone me at home asking for another date, or get jealous like a civilian girl might.

Punting offers me the chance to fuck lots of different sorts of women, young and old, large and small, different classes and races etc. I also enjoy the cloak and dagger aspect of it. Bad as it sounds, I enjoy cheating. It makes the sex with the prostitute sexier knowing I'm cheating, and it makes sex with my girlfriend more exciting too. Often I will go home and fuck my girlfriend after I have punted and will recreate the punt with her.

In an ideal world girlfriends would want to share the punting experience and I could bring home girls for us to enjoy together, or we could go as a couple to massage places, brothels or sex parties. Unfortunately, not many women like chasing pussy with the keenness that I do, so I guess I'll be sticking with my current arrangements for the foreseeable future.

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Rimalot, you sound quite a catch! :) :)

Sorry to pick you up, but your girlfriend isn't exactly willing(as you say) is she?:)

There are plenty of women that you describe- willing to swing basically.

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Please ignore that random word at the end of my post!lol

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Rimalot, you sound quite a catch! :) :)

Sorry to pick you up, but your girlfriend isn't exactly willing(as you say) is she?:)

There are plenty of women that you describe- willing to swing basically.

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Is that sarcasm Heidi lol?

My girlfriend is very willing to have sex with me (and enthusiastic), just not willing to participate with other women, paid or unpaid, though we do share sharing as a fantasy.

I've had a few girlfriends in my time and they have all been more or less totally monogamous, even the ones that have been less than 'pure' in their previous sex lives. I know there are women who like to swing, and I have had some good encounters with more adventurous women when free and single. However, I've never had a long term relationship with one.

I'm not sure why that is. Could be simple chance. Could be that they are not attracted to me, or I to them. Who knows. I am very happy with my current girlfriend and we have a great sex life and I don't punt as often now I'm with her as I did with previous girlfriends. I still go for massages regularly, but generally for little more than a wank thrown in with a therapeutic massage (though if she takes her clothes off then that's fine by me!) However, occasionally I feel a strong urge to have lots of sex with lots of girls at a party and revel in the heady, sexual atmosphere like a Roman at an orgy. I just wish I could take her with me that's all.

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Oh that didn't work out right!:

I was trying to say most people want their wife/husband/partner to themselves.

Its not just a female thing.

And most people would be pissed off if their partner didn't care that they shagged around

It is unusual to find people who would be happy in this set ip :)

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punting you pay for your time. end of your time you separate.

no swapping phonenumbers, and hoping to do the same next week etc etc

far simpler...

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Oh that didn't work out right!:

I was trying to say most people want their wife/husband/partner to themselves.

Its not just a female thing.

And most people would be pissed off if their partner didn't care that they shagged around

It is unusual to find people who would be happy in this set ip :)

Yes I'm sure you're right.

I'm just not built for monogamy and enjoy having sex with lots of different women. I do know men who have shagged around and still get jealous if they suspect their wife or girlfriend of having done similar. People are quite inconsistent.

I enjoy the cheating part, but I would still prefer sex with other people to be something we share, rather than something I have to do in secret. Watching her with a man or woman while I fuck another woman would be very exciting for me. I just wish she shared my desires in that way.

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I punt because I'm single and find it far more ethical to pay a lady for an hour of her time than to try and chat someone up either in person or 'virtually' on a dating site with the sole intent of having sex with them.

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Your hero delusion comes under option D.

You are playing on a girls, want to get what you need.

That is a power play,

You like the power you get from it, Girls open up more, Girls, tell you how sweet you are.

What you don't/won't recognise is that the girl would probably have told you all that anyway.

Owing to the fact that a WG will never tell you anything she doesn't want you to know, no matter how nice you are.

sorry to burst your superhero bubble.

I think Autumn Temptation makes a good point with good analysis.

The "power" argument is valid in many situations where we don't believe it is. It is present in all sorts of transactions and naturally must occur when humans and emotions are involved. In this situation an escort uses his/her power of attraction to exchange for the clients economic power.

I think some have detailed a point E) To have the physical without emotional ties, yet surely this is ultimately point D) Power. This isn't to believe the use of power is always a bad thing, it is the underlying values used and outcomes achieved.

You can equally argue the "power" argument is on both sides. In the situation the original poster makes he states the sort of "hero" encounter he desribes leads to no "sexual encounter" via the use of emotional tools, sympathy, tiredness etc. You could argue this has manipulated him into being provided with less a service than otherwise he expected. The skill is in making him feel satisfied with what has happened.

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I would agree that its never been easier to have casual sex, but its still easier to pay for it. One major reason I punt is that its actually good for your health. Men can reduce their chances of prostate probs, by shagging regularly.

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Add another one for A. ;)

I'm suprised more guys dont partake in this.

I'm new to this if you'd have asked me even 6months ago if I'd ever pay for it I'd have said no way. But I think its a very misunderstood scene.

TBH I have no interest in being in a relationship its just too much effort. I look around and see most other guys putting up with so much crap just to be with a (average) woman who'll give them sex a few times a week.

The WG I'm seeing at the moment is absolutley gorgeous and treats me as if she's crazy about me who cares if I'm paying for her time it still works out cheaper than being in a relationship if you consider the fact that I'd rather have occasional sex with a stunner than regular sex with the type of girl I'd probably attract otherwise.

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