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The Magic Has Gone!

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Used to live in London, did a fair amount of mongering, had a great time then moved away then didn't have the opportunity.

Had a weekend end London recently, Friday pm had an excellent massage with HR in soho then had a nice punt on Sunday pm in a walk up.

Problem is, each time felt so humdrum and I had to really concentrate to 'finish'. Haven't mongered in a while so thought the opposite would be true.

Therefore I think I might have to retire as I think the magic has gone. Very depressing. Anyone else had this issue?

Off to learn base-jumping.

Dave

p.s. the massage lady tried to rip me off for £40 for HR, then backed down to £30 normal and £40 for touching. I paid £20 for HR no touching as is right. The previous guy, a regular, frequently pays £40 for HR only apparantly...shame on you.

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Used to live in London, did a fair amount of mongering, had a great time then moved away then didn't have the opportunity.

Had a weekend end London recently, Friday pm had an excellent massage with HR in soho then had a nice punt on Sunday pm in a walk up.

Problem is, each time felt so humdrum and I had to really concentrate to 'finish'. Haven't mongered in a while so thought the opposite would be true.

Therefore I think I might have to retire as I think the magic has gone. Very depressing. Anyone else had this issue?

Off to learn base-jumping.

Dave

p.s. the massage lady tried to rip me off for £40 for HR, then backed down to £30 normal and £40 for touching. I paid £20 for HR no touching as is right. The previous guy, a regular, frequently pays £40 for HR only apparantly...shame on you.

With experiences like that who can blame you.

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Built your hopes up too high perhaps. Have you considered punting nearer your new home to assess the local scene. This might not give you quite so much anticipation and therefore not lead to a let down.

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I've had punts like that, nothing really wrong with the girl and she's doing as good a job as the others. On reflection I put it down to a few things.

Punting too much in a short space of time.

Punting when I was not really horny but had the opportunity to punt and passing on that meant I would not know how long until I had the next chance.

Average punts following a great punt.

I don't think it's a case of the magic being gone just the timing was not right for you.

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Used to live in London, did a fair amount of mongering, had a great time then moved away then didn't have the opportunity.

Had a weekend end London recently, Friday pm had an excellent massage with HR in soho then had a nice punt on Sunday pm in a walk up.

Problem is, each time felt so humdrum and I had to really concentrate to 'finish'. Haven't mongered in a while so thought the opposite would be true.

Therefore I think I might have to retire as I think the magic has gone. Very depressing. Anyone else had this issue?

Off to learn base-jumping.

Dave

p.s. the massage lady tried to rip me off for £40 for HR, then backed down to £30 normal and £40 for touching. I paid £20 for HR no touching as is right. The previous guy, a regular, frequently pays £40 for HR only apparantly...shame on you.

I have thought of giving up after having a bad punt but then had a good or better punt and thought how glad i am that i didnt.

You could think about trying something new to you, this change may reinvigorate you. Enjoy the base-jumping. :)

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Do something different try a TS or book 2 hours with a vicious DOM :D

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Therefore I think I might have to retire as I think the magic has gone. Very depressing. Anyone else had this issue?

I always find that in the months of January and February my sexdrive is pretty low. The cold/damp weather and dark nights do not inspire me to want to go punting...I'm pretty sure things will pick up in spring and I see no point in forcing the issue and spending money, if I'm not all that interested. I do not know if this is common for other guys but I always feel much more frisky in the summer.

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Do something different try a TS or book 2 hours with a vicious DOM :D

Very good advice. There's lots to experiment with besides Light touch's suggestions.

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Do something different try a TS or book 2 hours with a vicious DOM :D

LOL as well as being funny, its probably good advice.

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Do something different try a TS or book 2 hours with a vicious DOM :D

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Do something different try a TS or book 2 hours with a vicious DOM :D

The magic hasnt gone for me, but I did have my first 2 hour booking on Friday (but not with a vicious dom). This was a completely different experience from my usual 1 hour booking (which is an increase from my standard 1/2 booking last year). OK, twice the cost, but it was much more relaxed and enjoyable such that I'm considering going for 2 hours once a week rather than 1 hour twice a week in the future. It's important though that you get on well with the lady in question.

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Punting when I was not really horny but had the opportunity to punt and passing on that meant I would not know how long until I had the next chance.

I've been in that situation. Looking forward to a business trip for some time, had a list of 3 possible girls to see and on the day I have a headache. I went ahead with it anyway and it wasn't the best. Not sure when the next oppurtunity will come up :(

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I wonder to a certain degree if this is all evidence of the fact that great sex is really all a mind thing and that a stunning female figure is not always enough even for us males who are supposed to be horny 24/7. Its ridiculous to say but after a few punts there is a certain 'sameness ' to those hot,stunning 23 yo EE girls. The excitement does lessen naturally-- its a great formula but it only goes so far.

Punting will probably always be like this because normally there is a limit , a ceiling, a line which restricts how far your enjoyment can go because that real emotional factor is missing. This is why it is important to try to be more adventurous when punting. This can be difficult to do because no-one wants to go on a punt which ends up being a complete disappointment ( and a waste of money) and perhaps this is why I tend to book those ladies which more obviously I find attractive. Its expensive and time consuming to try a wide variety / range of escorts and services. However, I intend to try and give it my best shot !!:D

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I wonder to a certain degree if this is all evidence of the fact that great sex is really all a mind thing and that a stunning female figure is not always enough even for us males who are supposed to be horny 24/7.

In my experience the best looking women are never the best fucks. It's more wow what a beautiful woman rather than, wow what great sex. But you wont learn that until you've had a few out of your league women.

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In my experience the best looking women are never the best fucks. It's more wow what a beautiful woman rather than, wow what great sex. But you wont learn that until you've had a few out of your league women.

I dont agree. In my experience its impossible to generalize like that, it depends on the individual. I have punted with fantastic stunners and stone cold ones, the defining attribute all the fantastic ones had was a great attitude, they were warm, friendly and enthusiastic.

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I always find that in the months of January and February my sexdrive is pretty low. The cold/damp weather and dark nights do not inspire me to want to go punting...I'm pretty sure things will pick up in spring and I see no point in forcing the issue and spending money, if I'm not all that interested. I do not know if this is common for other guys but I always feel much more frisky in the summer.

We are both alike!

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