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Being A Bit Of A Grinch At Punts

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I'm not a fan of fake anything as a general rule. If I like something, I like it for what it is because I enjoy the intrinsic nature of what I am experiencing-- I dont get off on paraphenalia. A small example that comes to mind -- I dislike hearing music played after a try is scored in say a tense international rugby match , which is done presumably to excite and heighten the atmosphere ! For me , it has the opposite effect , its false and a put on and dilutes the experience for me.

As I am conscious of all the complaints of fake orgasms and fake moaning made by punters ( and substantiated by the ladies ) , my antenna for this is up and I have found myself recently asking the lady to stop or dampen down the making of these appreciiative noises mid-punt. The reaction is often one of surprise and some confusion. One girl enquired as to why she should stop if she was enjoying herself. Another lady got somewhat hurt and defensive when I cast a jaundiced eye at her assertion that she really did have a series of orgasms upon RO. In fact aside from FK, RO is my absolute favourite service and I am more than happy to stay down if I think it is really being appreciated. So I feel a bit of a heel and a killjoy when I question the truth of the lady's positive respnses, especially when in fact I am the one enjoying trying to produce this result in the first place.! Does anyone else find themselves in this position ? Should I just shut up and get on with it no matter what ?

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I would have thought the the noises coupled with movement were a better sign of your prowess.I would shut up and carry on

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Since faking it can help the experience turn into the real thing I would accept it at face value, nothing could be a worse wet blanket than to be doubted by a cynical punter. I don't see much difference in the reaction I get from escorts, girlfriends, wives or swinging partners so I would have to doubt all of them or accept that they are having some kind of reaction and not faking. Escorts don't seem to "fake" any more than any other type of women.

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'cumandgo'.........almost an anagram of 'curmudgeon' ?

you sound like the Victor Meldrew of punting :D

(just some gentle ribbing - dont take it personally)

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I'm not a fan of fake anything as a general rule. If I like something, I like it for what it is because I enjoy the intrinsic nature of what I am experiencing-- I dont get off on paraphenalia. A small example that comes to mind -- I dislike hearing music played after a try is scored in say a tense international rugby match , which is done presumably to excite and heighten the atmosphere ! For me , it has the opposite effect , its false and a put on and dilutes the experience for me.

As I am conscious of all the complaints of fake orgasms and fake moaning made by punters ( and substantiated by the ladies ) , my antenna for this is up and I have found myself recently asking the lady to stop or dampen down the making of these appreciiative noises mid-punt. The reaction is often one of surprise and some confusion. One girl enquired as to why she should stop if she was enjoying herself. Another lady got somewhat hurt and defensive when I cast a jaundiced eye at her assertion that she really did have a series of orgasms upon RO. In fact aside from FK, RO is my absolute favourite service and I am more than happy to stay down if I think it is really being appreciated. So I feel a bit of a heel and a killjoy when I question the truth of the lady's positive respnses, especially when in fact I am the one enjoying trying to produce this result in the first place.! Does anyone else find themselves in this position ? Should I just shut up and get on with it no matter what ?

You certainly shouldnt shut up and keep quiet if it bothers you, you are after all paying. If this was to hurt the ladies feelings she seems a bit fragile for the business in my view.

I have found fake moans a turn off and nowadays say so if i believe the lady is laying it on a bit thick. I think porn has influenced some ladies to think thats what guys want to hear, if its genuine thats one thing but to start moaning after me touching her leg as happened a while back just puts me off and will take me longer to cum just as the classic "hurry up and cum" or "are you ready to cum yet" words have done.

The other point is some ladies are very good at acting and whether they are having a real orgasm or not is sometimes hard to tell, i have seen this acting first hand at parties where in order to get the punter to move on the lady fakes an orgasm which the punter thinks is real and goes for a break with a smile on his face, i then get together with the same lady and ask was that a genuine orgasm and she says no but i had to politely move him on. :)

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Well 2 weeks ago at a swinging party I was making tiny little swirls on the back of both knees of a girl who started moaning and wriggling all over the place, (not an escort) depends where you touch. One escort I met at Omega got really turned on by having her arms lightly stroked, 5 minutes of that and she was raring to go. A woman's body is very sensitive.

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A woman's body is very sensitive.

You can say that again, and, thank goodness they are all different. All you have to do is ask what turns them on and then do it. Some are more willing to talk about it but a gentle stroke all over soon reveals the weak point.

I well remember Sam, who can come bucket loads just with gentle nibbling of her nipples.

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If you're going to point out that fake moaning puts you off, it's best to do it before you get down to business rather than during!

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If you think it's genuine, then just keep your head down and shut up... ;)

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One of the reasons why I like the use of email is that you can get so many things agreed and clarified in advance in a dispassionate way .I dont think I like the idea of starting off the punt by saying " and no fake stuff now, ok ?". I go into positive mode when I go to a booking and therefore I like all nitty gritty to be already out of the way. I think this is why I want to be clearer about how I should deal with this issue as I could end up being like Inspector Clouseau otherwise.!!

From reading the posts here, the best policy seems to be to shut up and say nothing and give the lady the benefit of the doubt unless the noises and movement are so inappropriate as to be obvious faking. Difficulty is as Smiths has said, the ladies are very very good at this stuff !! But I think to approach it any other way will probably only mean one loser in the long run -- me !! :D

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That's what I was thinking. Because unless the lady is a robot, any negative remark is going to kill the mood.

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Pru

If you're going to point out that fake moaning puts you off, it's best to do it before you get down to business rather than during!

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I'm not a fan of fake anything as a general rule. If I like something, I like it for what it is because I enjoy the intrinsic nature of what I am experiencing-- I dont get off on paraphenalia. A small example that comes to mind -- I dislike hearing music played after a try is scored in say a tense international rugby match , which is done presumably to excite and heighten the atmosphere ! For me , it has the opposite effect , its false and a put on and dilutes the experience for me.

As I am conscious of all the complaints of fake orgasms and fake moaning made by punters ( and substantiated by the ladies ) , my antenna for this is up and I have found myself recently asking the lady to stop or dampen down the making of these appreciiative noises mid-punt. The reaction is often one of surprise and some confusion. One girl enquired as to why she should stop if she was enjoying herself. Another lady got somewhat hurt and defensive when I cast a jaundiced eye at her assertion that she really did have a series of orgasms upon RO. In fact aside from FK, RO is my absolute favourite service and I am more than happy to stay down if I think it is really being appreciated. So I feel a bit of a heel and a killjoy when I question the truth of the lady's positive respnses, especially when in fact I am the one enjoying trying to produce this result in the first place.! Does anyone else find themselves in this position ? Should I just shut up and get on with it no matter what ?

Some men think they know when a girl is faking but actually we are all different, some are noisy some are quiet some just have body spasms, I think maybe you should just enjoy the experience or if you prefer the girl not to be noisy in case you think its fake just tell her before an appointment what you don't like. Telling her half way through will dampen the mood.

Just my opinion no offence meant.

Shelly

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I'm not a fan of fake anything as a general rule. If I like something, I like it for what it is because I enjoy the intrinsic nature of what I am experiencing-- I dont get off on paraphenalia. A small example that comes to mind -- I dislike hearing music played after a try is scored in say a tense international rugby match , which is done presumably to excite and heighten the atmosphere ! For me , it has the opposite effect , its false and a put on and dilutes the experience for me.

As I am conscious of all the complaints of fake orgasms and fake moaning made by punters ( and substantiated by the ladies ) , my antenna for this is up and I have found myself recently asking the lady to stop or dampen down the making of these appreciiative noises mid-punt. The reaction is often one of surprise and some confusion. One girl enquired as to why she should stop if she was enjoying herself. Another lady got somewhat hurt and defensive when I cast a jaundiced eye at her assertion that she really did have a series of orgasms upon RO. In fact aside from FK, RO is my absolute favourite service and I am more than happy to stay down if I think it is really being appreciated. So I feel a bit of a heel and a killjoy when I question the truth of the lady's positive respnses, especially when in fact I am the one enjoying trying to produce this result in the first place.! Does anyone else find themselves in this position ? Should I just shut up and get on with it no matter what ?

Mmm I would have been extremely annoyed..... I mean how on earth are you able to tell them anything if your doing your job properly and have your mouth full at the time :D:P:D

Know what you mean though, I was at a private club last night where the girls worked for six hours with very few breaks, yet they were still giving it some in the verbal depart right up to end. Nobody cums that much, not even me.. :)

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Lady bouncing around while being penetrated is a similar problem. She may be excited and unable or unwilling to control herself, or she may be acting. The trouble is, it is very uncomfortable for me, and makes smooth in and out movements impossible. I never ask that she stops, in case she is not faking, but also because negative remarks spoil the atmosphere.

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