long dong dave

Foolish Or Normal

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Am I just an old fool?

Had an appointment with one of Divine’s new girls, well to be honest I’ve seen her 3 times in the last 10 days I cannot get this girl out my head, Never had feelings for a working girl before she makes me feel alive and young I have punted for years and this is a new experience for me.

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I suggest you go to another establishment where they have cold showers. You will then soon get over it. B)

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I think it's normal to feel this for a good WG - it's their job to make you feel special. You just have to maintain perspective.

If it's not embarrassing you financially, and you bear in mind that she's probably that nice to the guys before and after you, I don't see an issue. :)

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I started getting affected by a wg to the extent that my wife noticed the change in my mood. Decided to see other girls for a bit (it helped that she was away and not available) and my mood has returned to normal. I will see her again in due course but the break is a good idea.

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I have to stop thinking of this girl was walking around shops in Aberdeen today with my wife, in Debenhams wife picking up her normal thermal multi packs of pants, I was looking at the sexy lingerie sets thinking Hope would look stunning in that and found i had a massive hard on, never been so happy to carry my wife’s shopping to hide it

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Am I just an old fool?

Had an appointment with one of Divine’s new girls, well to be honest I’ve seen her 3 times in the last 10 days I cannot get this girl out my head, Never had feelings for a working girl before she makes me feel alive and young I have punted for years and this is a new experience for me.

If its made you feel alive and young your not a fool just a punter having fun. Just remember your paying for a service, in this case, for you, a great service, but still a paid service. Enjoy. :D

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I was seeing the same escort almost every week for a while - it go way too much, I had feelings for big time, I then (for varoius reasons) didn't see her for 9 months. I saw her again and it felt strange. The old feelings were not there and did not come back in anyway. I saw her completely differently so before. So I guess a break does the world of good.

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Agree with all said, if you enjoy it and can afford it, then go for it.

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I suppose the cynical punters response is - ask her to see you for a date (without paying) and see what here response is.

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I have to stop thinking of this girl was walking around shops in Aberdeen today with my wife, in Debenhams wife picking up her normal thermal multi packs of pants, I was looking at the sexy lingerie sets thinking Hope would look stunning in that and found i had a massive hard on, never been so happy to carry my wife’s shopping to hide it

Is it only me, or do others have a picture of Dave walking round Debenhams (other retailers are available!) with the shopping bag hung on the end of his erection?

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Surely if you can afford to return and it makes you feel good and puts a spring back in your step then it is great. I think it is normal and also nice that you have not become jaded. All of that of course presuming that you are not financially ruining yourself or it turns into agony.

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Enjoy it while it lasts and don't make any demands on her.

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long dong dave

no you are not unusual.

That said,im currently seeing a girl who is only mid 20s and has a partner and who packed in parlour work when she met him.

We got on really well(both off the wall humour)and we meet once a week in her flat.

Can I get her out my head?No is the answer and if you work out the formula to do so ,let me know.

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I'm in a similar situation as well, not been doing this that long, 6 months, but one girl i seen recently i can't stop thinking about her. Seen her 6 times in about 3 weeks, and when not with her I'm constantly thinking of her, from when i wake up till i go to sleep. now planning on forcing myself to see other girls. but I know i'll keep seeing this girl for a long time. I'm amazed how strong my feeings are for her, but know there only one way :(

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Richardson,ive tried seeing my old regulars...one in partic is a great full on girl but very quiet.

Maybe the answer lies in my current favs personality because while ive been punting many years,ive seen lots of girls with amazing looks and bodies but never found one with such a buzzing outgoing attitude.

I would even book her just for the company as has been the case at the time of the month lol

Edited by jim breaks

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To say someone is a fool is very harsh, but I have seen around 150 girls and have not developed these feelings at all, to me it is just a matter of convenience. I think bert's comments reflect a lot of punters views on this, even if not reflected on this forum. See whether she would see you for free. I suspect she would not, although I do know of ladies who have stopped escorting as they have fallen for. a client.

Remember, a really good escort will try to get a punter to engineer the feelings you describe so as to get repeat business.

Each to their own of course, and the main thing is that you are happy. I just hope you do not end up bitterly disappointed

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So glad to hear i'm not alone in this topic, money is no issue for me so i guess i'll just carry on. And on the plus side my happy mood is impacting on my wife as she seems happy too!

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So glad to hear i'm not alone in this topic, money is no issue for me so i guess i'll just carry on. And on the plus side my happy mood is impacting on my wife as she seems happy too!

Would it be cheeky to ask for her number then? I guess so!

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Contrary to popular belief I don't think any of us have sex without any emotions. If anyone wanted just a body sleep with get a blow-up doll. I presume you first chose this girl because you liked the look of her.

As other people have said ask her on a date. But as you’re married you'll be crossing the line from sex/fantasy to an affair.

If you can afford it, you might as well kept the fantasy and just have her as an escort. Don't see why you want to change that? Unless of course if you love her.

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I may be wrong, but I would think most men have no feelings whatsoever for the ladies they see for paid sex.

This could be a generational thing though, I think young men are much harder with their emotions than men over 40. Unfortunately, witht the rise of the so called ladette culture from the nineties, I think young men view women as sex objects and nothing more. So if they pay for sex I doubt they will feel any emotion.

On the other hand, men over 40 have more respect for women, so I can see how they would take more time to actually talk to an escort and hence develop feelings.

I am merely speculating, truth is it is hard to know. But dave is happy, so good luck to him

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Am I just an old fool?

Had an appointment with one of Divine’s new girls, well to be honest I’ve seen her 3 times in the last 10 days I cannot get this girl out my head, Never had feelings for a working girl before she makes me feel alive and young I have punted for years and this is a new experience for me.

Why are you an old fool????

The WG is doing her job if she makes youe feel alive and young. When someone makes you feel good about yourself it's hard not to feelsomething ;)

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Please be careful; there's the potential for too many innocent victims. You, her, your wife, her partner(??), family, friends ........

Sorry to put a downer on you but I'm adding a large dose of realism to the mix

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Foolish, in my opinion - it'll end in tears.

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I'm quite shocked quite a few of you have said as long as the guy has the money to continue, no problem.

I would have thought seeing the same lady every three days and long dong dave saying he had started to form some sort of feelings for her would be an indication he is getting too involved.

I don't think LDD is foolish, sex is a physical and emotional thing and sure the gents can fall for an escort easily, I guess.

However, almost certainly the feelings won't be reciprocated, so that can only be a bad situation ultimately for him.

My advice (for what it is worth) would be to assess your own feelings. If you are having a good time and have the finance, no problem. If you feel you are getting more involved than you should, then be cautious or you could end up feeling hurt in the long run.

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