Professor37

Cowgirl Anxiety

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I have been experimenting with various positions and one position in particular that has caused me much anxiety is the Cowgirl. As my luck would have it, most ladies that I have visited prefered this position. In a porn movie, the girls seems to go at it like a pogostick. This is something I could never do, as one time when I tried, it ended in much pain when my cock slipped out and got pounded head-on by the lady's rapidly descending bottom. Apparently Cowgirl is the most common cause of a fractured penis.

I do enjoy a good, slow Cowgirl but quite often I had to ask the WG to slow down, which can sometimes spoil the mood. Do any of you have similar problem with the Cowgirl ?

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I like cowgirl but find that I sometimes cum too quickly as I'm not in control. I prefer reverse cowgirl since you can watch the action better.

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Reverse cowgirl is good but I prefer cowgirl as you can see the girls face and reach up to feel her breasts, also iff she leans back and grinds on you rather than bouncing you can play with her clit which always has the desired effect ;)

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Reverse cowgirl is good but I prefer cowgirl as you can see the girls face and reach up to feel her breasts, also iff she leans back and grinds on you rather than bouncing you can play with her clit which always has the desired effect ;)

Exactly, i love to see her face and all of her front while shes riding me. When shes going faster causing you to reach climax quicker, just pull her down for a kiss or sit up all the same so you dont climax.

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Hi everyone

I have been experimenting with various positions and one position in particular that has caused me much anxiety is the Cowgirl. As my luck would have it, most ladies that I have visited prefered this position. In a porn movie, the girls seems to go at it like a pogostick. This is something I could never do, as one time when I tried, it ended in much pain when my cock slipped out and got pounded head-on by the lady's rapidly descending bottom. Apparently Cowgirl is the most common cause of a fractured penis.

I do enjoy a good, slow Cowgirl but quite often I had to ask the WG to slow down, which can sometimes spoil the mood. Do any of you have similar problem with the Cowgirl ?

Never had a problem like you mention in Cowgirl and can only suggest that you say to the lady beforehand that you prefer that position slow, hopefully this wont then spoil the mood when it comes to doing it.

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You need to find a lady with control. I have a special technique for this position and am quite careful, but I have had a few chaps tell me that some ladies have caused them anxiety doing this!

Oh and don't believe everything you see in porn, a lot of it is merely showing off for the camera.

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I find it difficult to not ejaculate too early in cowgirl, as mentioned above lack of control is probably the reason.

Never been to worried about injuries, had a few "slips" and minor discomfort but never anything serious.

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Grinding cowgirl is slightly easier for me to control. The most difficult is the crudely named 'squat fucking'. I really wish there was a better name for it.

I've not had the falling out problem followed by the bent knob, the girl is much more likely to crush my balls, depending on how I have my legs!

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I'm sure there is a name for it Tibbs ...a lovely position if ever there was one .. a personal fave !!

How about "Crouching Dragon ignites my fire !!"

Prof .. I'd just ask the lady to treat you gently .tell her your concerns and what you do like and I'm sure she'll adapt.

and if in any doubt whatsoever ...............Go and see Strawberry ! !! :P

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Do any of you have similar problem with the Cowgirl ?

I've experienced the exact same thing! An over enthusiastic WG going at it like the "clappers", my penis coming out on the up stroke and geting crunched on the down! I also share your anxiety, as I'm aware of potential injury that can result. I have a few remedies for this now: In an upright CG position, I prefer to just let the girl grind, I don't get much stimulation myself, but enjoy watching her. If I do let her ride up and down, it's short stokes with me deep, I also like to put my hands on her hips and control the pace and depth. My favourite position is if the girl comes down to me with full body contact and we can kiss and embrace, I like her to be stantionary and me do the work.

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How about "Crouching Dragon ignites my fire !!"

Hmm, that's a good one - Or Crouching Tiger, Hidden Snake (if only in my case... :rolleyes::lol: )

From reading what Kid A wrote reminded me of a non-WG time with an ex who was very vigorous - doing it reverse stylee and it popped out of one hole and almost wound up in the other! Despite the fact that I was just lying there doing nothing but clamping down on my Kegels trying to last as long as possible, of course it was my fault :blink:

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Well, the trick with a bucking bronco is to stay firmly in the saddle.... :D

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From my experience, WGs tend to enjoy this position. I think all you need to do is ask them not to go too fast!

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You need to find a lady with control. I have a special technique for this position and am quite careful, but I have had a few chaps tell me that some ladies have caused them anxiety doing this!

Oh and don't believe everything you see in porn, a lot of it is merely showing off for the camera.

I am just wondering if there is a correct technique ? I always thought that in the Cowgirl position, all I had to do was just lie there and keep it up. But now I think that I should move in sync as well. I think doing it correctly so that both can enjoy is in reality much harder. I guess you are right in that, the way it is done in a porn movie is probably unnatural and I suspect lots of takes and editing goes in to completing a Cowgirl scene. I can see myself really enjoying the more vigorous and rough Cowgirl, but until I than I would need to practice more.

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Hi everyone

it ended in much pain when my cock slipped out and got pounded head-on by the lady's rapidly descending bottom. Apparently Cowgirl is the most common cause of a fractured penis.

Tell her to stop trotting and start cantering. She should be in a canter or gallop anyway so she can rub her clit against your pubic mound, a trot, going up and down instead of rubbing, will do hardly anything for her.

It will also enable you to go on forever and elliminate any chance of a fractured penis

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You need to find a lady with control. I have a special technique for this position and am quite careful, but I have had a few chaps tell me that some ladies have caused them anxiety doing this!

Oh and don't believe everything you see in porn, a lot of it is merely showing off for the camera.

I've experienced Strawberry's cowgirl and I can recommend it. I didn't feel at all anxious, or in danger of slipping out etc.

She really goes for it. It's fantastic! So get yourself up to Cumbria and forget your anxieties.

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Hi everyone

I have been experimenting with various positions and one position in particular that has caused me much anxiety is the Cowgirl. As my luck would have it, most ladies that I have visited prefered this position. In a porn movie, the girls seems to go at it like a pogostick. This is something I could never do, as one time when I tried, it ended in much pain when my cock slipped out and got pounded head-on by the lady's rapidly descending bottom. Apparently Cowgirl is the most common cause of a fractured penis.

I do enjoy a good, slow Cowgirl but quite often I had to ask the WG to slow down, which can sometimes spoil the mood. Do any of you have similar problem with the Cowgirl ?

Don't mind cowgirl although I don't find it as stimulating as either missionary or doggy,for me anyway. I was with a WG on Tuesday this week,skinny Polish girl, I just let her take charge and the whole session was cowgirl,it was very good although, because she was skinny I could feel her bones in her bum as she slammed down on me,I mean she really slammed down on me I've never had a girl slam so hard and fast,anyway,I'm still feeling it today,I have some pain either side of my groin exactly where I felt her bones hitting me, still is worth it for the manic ride she gave me!

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cowgirl is just great, so is reverse cowgirl. amazing view. :D

i did always believe though that for the girl to get the most from it then she should be grinding rather than going up and down. the up and down suits us blokes the best.. I've also always felt that i can last a lot longer in this position compared to doggy for example (the best position).

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I've experienced Strawberry's cowgirl and I can recommend it. I didn't feel at all anxious, or in danger of slipping out etc.

She really goes for it. It's fantastic! So get yourself up to Cumbria and forget your anxieties.

If cowgirl was an olympic sport Strawberry would win gold every time.

She is simply the best!!!

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Apparently Cowgirl is the most common cause of a fractured penis.

Not really an answer to your question, but I can't resist it!

Some years ago I bought a handsome young bull - he wasn't cheap, and (alas) I didn't insure him.

One day, it seems, he spied a likely heifer, and she was willing: only trouble was the fence between them. His prick was a long one (as is normal with bovines) and, poor bugger, he broke it. When I got there, he was looking unhappy, and it was still extended, but drooping and kinked, with flies buzzing round it. Next day the knacker called, put a .22 bullet in his head, and winched his corpse up into the truck.....

No, Cowgirl worries me too!

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Oh and don't believe everything you see in porn, a lot of it is merely showing off for the camera.

What, you mean some of it isn't? ;)

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I love this position but I can see where you're coming from as it has sometimes worried me that if a girl's going a bit too rapidly, it could cause some damage but I've been lucky enough not to slip out. I love to see all of a girls lovely face and body as she rides me and grinds on me, it's perfection! I also love when the girls more squatting, more 'froggy style' than cowgirl, and moving up and down my cock like that. Feels better and gives a great view of all the action but a lot of girls get tired legs doing that for too long which is understandable.

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Very good posi if you can get the timing right, with clapping sounds and your ball bag hitting the lady's bum area. I seem to recall quite a few liking that.

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I love this position but I can see where you're coming from as it has sometimes worried me that if a girl's going a bit too rapidly, it could cause some damage but I've been lucky enough not to slip out. I love to see all of a girls lovely face and body as she rides me and grinds on me, it's perfection! I also love when the girls more squatting, more 'froggy style' than cowgirl, and moving up and down my cock like that. Feels better and gives a great view of all the action but a lot of girls get tired legs doing that for too long which is understandable.

Yes I much prefer that 'froggy' squating style myself. Some WGs are very agile and its certainly a great feeling especially if the girl is slim and tight ! :)

Some girls are extremely good at it too, and I have met a few ! :D

IME There is less chance of 'popping out' if shes in this position too as she has more control.

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The squatting position I believe is called the "jockey" position, as the girl could be riding in the gold cup - especially if you hold her hands! At least that's what I've always known it as.

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