brummyboy2008

What Is It With These Guys?

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My favourite WG has a new man. Not for the first time. He didn't know she escorted when they met, but before it became too serious she told him. He was shocked; he said she'd have to give it up if they were to be serious. Now he's moved in and she's trying to work just days to pay the bills, I've just booked a hotel for our next meet, we previously met in the evening at her home. What right do guys like him have to dictate that their WG girl friend give up escorting without any suggestion as to how she pay the bills and without any offer to support her? Beats me.

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My favourite WG has a new man. Not for the first time. He didn't know she escorted when they met, but before it became too serious she told him. He was shocked; he said she'd have to give it up if they were to be serious. Now he's moved in and she's trying to work just days to pay the bills, I've just booked a hotel for our next meet, we previously met in the evening at her home. What right do guys like him have to dictate that their WG girl friend give up escorting without any suggestion as to how she pay the bills and without any offer to support her? Beats me.

Its up to the lady how she lives her life, i assume she loves him and love makes people do all sorts of things.

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What right do guys like him have to dictate that their WG girl friend give up escorting without any suggestion as to how she pay the bills and without any offer to support her? Beats me.

Are you assuming that he makes no contribution to the bills or is that a fact?

If fact, then she is right to continue to make her living in the way she chooses. However, if he pays his way (possibly on the condition that she finds alternative work) than maybe he has a case. Difficult one for an outsider to resolve. Each to his/her own, as I have said before today.

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If it's his personal choice that he wants a girlfriend that stays faithful to him and he's honest about it then that seems fair to me, regardless of whether it's financially practical or not.

Far more suspect is that it sounds like she agreed but then carried on working anyway. Which basically puts her on the same sort of moral ground as those of us punters that are married :huh: (ahem!) I wouldn't worry about it, it's her life and her problem.

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My favourite WG has a new man. Not for the first time. He didn't know she escorted when they met, but before it became too serious she told him. He was shocked; he said she'd have to give it up if they were to be serious. Now he's moved in and she's trying to work just days to pay the bills, I've just booked a hotel for our next meet, we previously met in the evening at her home. What right do guys like him have to dictate that their WG girl friend give up escorting without any suggestion as to how she pay the bills and without any offer to support her? Beats me.

I would assume if they are in a loving relationship then either partner has an input into the life of the other, especially around a delicate issue as escorting and their relationship.

The boyfriend surely would have more of a right to an input into his girlfriend's decisions than you as a client!

But at the end of the day it is the ladies choice. If she feels she doesn't agree with the guy, then she can elect to end the relationship, I assume?

I would have thought this guy's reaction was fairly normal, he doesn't want his girlfriend sleeping with other guys, escorting or otherwise.

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My favourite WG has a new man. Not for the first time. He didn't know she escorted when they met, but before it became too serious she told him. He was shocked; he said she'd have to give it up if they were to be serious. Now he's moved in and she's trying to work just days to pay the bills, I've just booked a hotel for our next meet, we previously met in the evening at her home. What right do guys like him have to dictate that their WG girl friend give up escorting without any suggestion as to how she pay the bills and without any offer to support her? Beats me.

With all due respect your only this ladies client and in scheme of things non important in her private life.What goes on in their relationship is for them too work through.Ladies ruduce or retire from working all the time and although its a shame when a favourite lady moves on its just part of punting.

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My favourite WG has a new man. Not for the first time. He didn't know she escorted when they met, but before it became too serious she told him. He was shocked; he said she'd have to give it up if they were to be serious. Now he's moved in and she's trying to work just days to pay the bills, I've just booked a hotel for our next meet, we previously met in the evening at her home. What right do guys like him have to dictate that their WG girl friend give up escorting without any suggestion as to how she pay the bills and without any offer to support her? Beats me.

Turn that on its head how would you feel/react if it were your girlfriend?

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He wasn't aware of it when they got together and now that he is, he's honest enough to say that it's a deal breaker for him. With that information she can make her own decision as to whether to continue the relationship or not. Sounds like two mature adults in an adult relationship to me.

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I would assume if they are in a loving relationship then either partner has an input into the life of the other, especially around a delicate issue as escorting and their relationship.

The boyfriend surely would have more of a right to an input into his girlfriend's decisions than you as a client!

I have to say that if I'm regularly paying a woman for sex I consider more weight should be given to my opinions than those of some idiot who just happens to have a good line in bamboozling a woman into offering it free of charge.

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I have to say that if I'm regularly paying a woman for sex I consider more weight should be given to my opinions than those of some idiot who just happens to have a good line in bamboozling a woman into offering it free of charge.

Really ? :D

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I think hes fair, hes said if you want to be with me you have to give this up, then its her choice as to what she wants to do.

I would never go out with a wg either so can see where he's coming from

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There are too many men who wish to control their wife or girlfriend, not just if they are WGs. I've not met either of the two people concerned (today's statement of the obvious) but from what I have read it seems like a relationship that is not going anywhere.

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There are too many men who wish to control their wife or girlfriend, not just if they are WGs. I've not met either of the two people concerned (today's statement of the obvious) but from what I have read it seems like a relationship that is not going anywhere.

And vice versa. As the vast majority of new relationships go nowhere I daresay you're on a safe bet - not much to do with the fact one is an escort and the other prefers her not to work just it seems so many people get into relationships and it's all about what they get from it rather than what they can share together.

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I would never go out with a wg either so can see where he's coming from

Playing Devils Avacado here - in reality, how many wgs do you reckon you could entice to have a relationship with you in order to decline at some point ?

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Playing Devils Avacado here - in reality, how many wgs do you reckon you could entice to have a relationship with you in order to decline at some point ?

I can't entice any girls to have a relationship with me full stop, that's the whole reason I use WGs!

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I can't entice any girls to have a relationship with me full stop, that's the whole reason I use WGs!

There are those words again! There is little wonder why some are unable to get into relationships.

S x

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Playing Devils Avacado here - in reality, how many wgs do you reckon you could entice to have a relationship with you in order to decline at some point ?

Call me an old romantic but to me if two people connect, what they do as a job isn't relevant or likely to halt that connection?

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There are those words again! There is little wonder why some are unable to get into relationships.

S x

How would you have put it?

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How would you have put it?

I don't think the request is unreasonable, but the solution needs to be given time and compromise needs to be made. Finding work that pays enough to give security is not that easy and even if you are qualified up to the hilt it takes time to find the right job that is available. Change takes time and in the interim he should be prepared for her to work to maintain her responsibilities.

I don't agree with working behind his back though. If she feels she needs to do this the relationship is already on a rocky path and does not bode well.

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How would you have put it?

Visit WGs would do for a start. "Use WGs" makes us sound like a receptacle for you to dump your unwanted baby batter. Not nice.

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He could have said "use the services of working girls" or "purchase the services of prostitutes", which would be more accurate, if somewhat pedantic. But 'use' and 'visit' are both the sort of short-hand euphemisms we tip into the social intercourse of this board to make it flow. Come to think of it, 'working girl' is a euphemism too - plenty of girls work for a living. If we had to accurately describe what we do all the time it would be hard work wading through the verbiage.

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I don't think the request is unreasonable, but the solution needs to be given time and compromise needs to be made. Finding work that pays enough to give security is not that easy and even if you are qualified up to the hilt it takes time to find the right job that is available. Change takes time and in the interim he should be prepared for her to work to maintain her responsibilities.

I don't agree with working behind his back though. If she feels she needs to do this the relationship is already on a rocky path and does not bode well.

This was my original point. He wants her to give up escorting, fair enough. She is prepared to give up for the sake of the relationship. She is trying to establish herself in an alternative career, but in the meantime still has bills to pay. Apparently he hasn't contributed to any interim solution and she is in fact working behind his back. I wonder where he thinks the money comes from to pay the bills? I think you're right about the prospects for the relationship though.

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I have to say that if I'm regularly paying a woman for sex I consider more weight should be given to my opinions than those of some idiot who just happens to have a good line in bamboozling a woman into offering it free of charge.

Wow, okay. Please say you're not serious. Talk about knee-jerk reactions...and with a hypothetical, imaginary guy who happens to be "some idiot" who "bamboozles" women no less. :huh:

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Wow, okay. Please say you're not serious. Talk about knee-jerk reactions...and with a hypothetical, imaginary guy who happens to be "some idiot" who "bamboozles" women no less. :huh:

You are right, sir, it was a knee-jerk reaction. The unfortunate fact is I just hate people who have wives or girlfriends. Hate them.

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You are right, sir, it was a knee-jerk reaction. The unfortunate fact is I just hate people who have wives or girlfriends. Hate them.

What the fuck??!?!?!

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