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Apprehensively dipping toe in again, after last post (which I felt was light-hearted - d'oh!) got a tad argumentative.

Right - Holidays. I'm going away for a week with a regular. We've met lots before including overnights, I like and trust him, and I don't think there will be any problems.

We've addressed issue of my safety (aS much as I trust him,the world is as it is) and what is expected of me etc. Would you ask someone, what would you expect of them and do you think it's a really bad idea?!!!

Kizz x

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i think its a great idea and if i could afford to take a sexy escort away i would, but would want naughty fun when i wanted it, but you must like the guy a little to want to go off with him, it cant just be for the cash and holiday im sure, just have a good time and dont worry im sure will be great, :)

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i think its a great idea and if i could afford to take a sexy escort away i would, but would want naughty fun when i wanted it, but you must like the guy a little to want to go off with him, it cant just be for the cash and holiday im sure, just have a good time and dont worry im sure will be great, :)

I have a couple of clients that I holiday with quite regularly. I trust them both implicitly (have to because we go abroad which means they have to know my real name, address etc), but if being honest I would say think it through long and hard. Its a long time to be with someone and can be difficult at times especially on the personal side of things.

The way I work it, is to insist on two rooms (that way I still get my personal space if I need it), they pay for the holiday and any personal time is charged accordingly. It works for us.

You also have to take into account any loss of earning while you are away, which is why I always try to schedule these trips during quiet weeks.

Hope you have a lovely time.

Holly

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i think its a great idea and if i could afford to take a sexy escort away i would, but would want naughty fun when i wanted it, but you must like the guy a little to want to go off with him, it cant just be for the cash and holiday im sure, just have a good time and dont worry im sure will be great, :)

Have never done this and cant see I ever would even if I wasnt married. ! Hand on heart, is there any guy who would spend a week abroad on holidays who at the very least did not have some designs on the girl ?

To be fair, I dont actually know, but I would guess the attitude of " I want sex when I want it " would probably not succeed. Whilst someone could adjust to sex at anytime on an overnight or overday, 7 days with the same person would change those rules I would think. Maybe others who have done this before could help here ?

Now if you were paying thru the nose -- things might be different. Met a WG a few years ago that got 16k for a weeks sailing with a guy and a small group around the Med.

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I went to italy for 10 days with a wg cos we were both single and both needed a holiday. She paid her own way infact she insisted,we stayed in the same room and was so natural it was scary. We never had any awkward moments or disagreements. I must add something happended whilst i was in the company of ?. And helped her out of a situation so after that we became close so it was a natural progression to go away on holiday. We are still good mates and always know if their is a problem we are there for each other. As for normal punter/wg relationship it would be so different.

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Sits down closes eyes and dreams ,if only i could.

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Apprehensively dipping toe in again, after last post (which I felt was light-hearted - d'oh!) got a tad argumentative.

Right - Holidays. I'm going away for a week with a regular. We've met lots before including overnights, I like and trust him, and I don't think there will be any problems.

We've addressed issue of my safety (aS much as I trust him,the world is as it is) and what is expected of me etc. Would you ask someone, what would you expect of them and do you think it's a really bad idea?!!!

Kizz x

Of no interest to me, when i go on holiday its with people who i love and/or who are really good friends. Hope you have a great time. :)

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Kizzie, don't be downhearted, we managed to get the thread back on track :)

You don't have a Velma costume do you? ;)

As for going on holiday with a WG, if I had the money I probably would, but I don't. :(

Just as she would have to have her time alone, I would to - I have good books to read! :D

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I took a WG on holiday last month to Cyprus for a week. We do get on great with each other so we had a lot of fun and we're sort of the same age, im 30 shes 20.

We shared the same room. I gave her £1500 for the week. We agreed to goto the GUM clinic together to prove we were both clean so we wouldnt need to use condoms while we were away.

I paid for everything. Before we went away i had bought for her a variety of clothes, bikini thongs for when she was sunbathing around the pool, a variety of hold up stockings and short tight dresses but not micro mini short just enough to hide the stocking tops underneath when we were out in the evening so it looked like she wore tights, and as requested she always went commando so no knickers.

We both loved the holiday. Both had times to ourselves to do our own things. One afternoon i had been out for a walk while she was sunbathing at the hotel, i got back she wasnt anywhere to be found, so i went to our room and she was there on the bed missionary with some bloke id never seen before, he got off her he mustve thought i was her boyfriend, i quickly said sorry and for them to carry on as i left the room. An hour later she came down all apologetic saying she thought id be gone for longer but i was totally cool about it.

We had a great time, really fun times.

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I took a WG on holiday last month to Cyprus for a week. We do get on great with each other so we had a lot of fun and we're sort of the same age, im 30 shes 20.

We shared the same room. I gave her £1500 for the week. We agreed to goto the GUM clinic together to prove we were both clean so we wouldnt need to use condoms while we were away.

I paid for everything. Before we went away i had bought for her a variety of clothes, bikini thongs for when she was sunbathing around the pool, a variety of hold up stockings and short tight dresses but not micro mini short just enough to hide the stocking tops underneath when we were out in the evening so it looked like she wore tights, and as requested she always went commando so no knickers.

We both loved the holiday. Both had times to ourselves to do our own things. One afternoon i had been out for a walk while she was sunbathing at the hotel, i got back she wasnt anywhere to be found, so i went to our room and she was there on the bed missionary with some bloke id never seen before, he got off her he mustve thought i was her boyfriend, i quickly said sorry and for them to carry on as i left the room. An hour later she came down all apologetic saying she thought id be gone for longer but i was totally cool about it.

We had a great time, really fun times.

Sparkstar I hope this bloke had brought some condoms along to his holiday. Other than that sounds like you had a great time.

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Sloppy seconds?

She made him use a condom, so no :P

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I took a WG on holiday last month to Cyprus for a week. We do get on great with each other so we had a lot of fun and we're sort of the same age, im 30 shes 20.

We shared the same room. I gave her £1500 for the week. We agreed to goto the GUM clinic together to prove we were both clean so we wouldnt need to use condoms while we were away.

I paid for everything. Before we went away i had bought for her a variety of clothes, bikini thongs for when she was sunbathing around the pool, a variety of hold up stockings and short tight dresses but not micro mini short just enough to hide the stocking tops underneath when we were out in the evening so it looked like she wore tights, and as requested she always went commando so no knickers.

We both loved the holiday. Both had times to ourselves to do our own things. One afternoon i had been out for a walk while she was sunbathing at the hotel, i got back she wasnt anywhere to be found, so i went to our room and she was there on the bed missionary with some bloke id never seen before, he got off her he mustve thought i was her boyfriend, i quickly said sorry and for them to carry on as i left the room. An hour later she came down all apologetic saying she thought id be gone for longer but i was totally cool about it.

We had a great time, really fun times.

Hello again Sparky !

Thought you had disappeared for a while - glad to see you back !:)

I've just read your post and found it all very nice until I got to the bit where you found her working overtime LOL

It might seem strange but you could actually say she was being a bit 'unfaithful' to you here.

You paid for her holiday, her time @ £1500, bought her clothing, paid for everything, and then had STI checks for safety.

I would expect she had a good deal out of you, so I would have thought you could have requested some exclusivity as you have paid plenty for her time.

Did you discuss any terms before going away? After all the holiday was a business arrangement.

BTW I am presuming you are not in a relationship with this girl.:blink:

B)

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Apprehensively dipping toe in again, after last post (which I felt was light-hearted - d'oh!) got a tad argumentative.

Right - Holidays. I'm going away for a week with a regular. We've met lots before including overnights, I like and trust him, and I don't think there will be any problems.

We've addressed issue of my safety (aS much as I trust him,the world is as it is) and what is expected of me etc. Would you ask someone, what would you expect of them and do you think it's a really bad idea?!!!

Kizz x

Hi Kizzie

I think its a great idea to have a holiday with someone who you feel right with! :D

Proving of course, you feel comfortable about their identity, and they yours, and you agree whats expected, clearly stating any boundaries.

Hope you have fun ! :)B)

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I just think this blurs the boundaries between work and pleasure. A very thin dividing line perhaps, but it would worry me.

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......so i went to our room and she was there on the bed missionary with some bloke id never seen before, he got off her he mustve thought i was her boyfriend, i quickly said sorry and for them to carry on as i left the room. An hour later she came down all apologetic saying she thought id be gone for longer but i was totally cool about it.

We had a great time, really fun times.

I admire your coolness; you describe it in such a neutral way, like you'd discovered she'd gone and done some extra clothes shopping whilst you were away. Was it part of the deal that she could bed other guys, either for money or for fun?

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Hey puntaprima! ive been busy with other things is why i havnt been on.

Shes the girl i talked to you about, we was going to have a weekend together but instead then agreed to go on holiday together.

To be fair to her, £1500 is on the cheap side for a week. I remember my ex girlfriend (an escort) told me the rich men pay around £4-5k to go away on holiday with them. All in all, not counting myself, i spent nearly £2.5k on her that week.

We agreed on terms before we went away. Among other things i told her just be yourself, dont pretend to be someone your not like escorts tend to do, dont go out your way to impress me or anything, and if she sees anyone she fancies then go for it as i want her to have a nice time. All i asked in return was GFE, DFK, BB, OWO and for her to dress classy yet borderline slutty so people knew im banging this stunning fit young lady.

Her GFE was superb! when we were out she made it clear to people she was my girlfriend and genuine at that. When i was talking with other men they all said how lucky i am to have her as my girlfriend. I thought; if only you knew how much money ive paid for her though lol. Me laying there by the pool absorbing the sun, she gets on top of me with just her thong on, rubbing my body and giving me right deep passionate kisses, the men were checking her out you just knew what they were thinking about.

So all in all, money worth well spent!

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I admire your coolness; you describe it in such a neutral way, like you'd discovered she'd gone and done some extra clothes shopping whilst you were away. Was it part of the deal that she could bed other guys, either for money or for fun?

Yeah just as i said in my previous message, it was part of the deal. Ive known some escorts charge bare minimum £3k to go away on holiday with a client. So i figured if we go more as a swinger type of couple rather than a business thing then she'd catch on and be her personal self and not escort.

I just read it and thought BS, like most of his other posts <_<

Whats BS about my posts? Ive always said things that ive done, whats the point in saying things that havnt happened...

We are talking punting here on this forum, where we can make fantasisies come true, im passed all that since ive found escort websites, im doing everything i ever wanted to.

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I often thought about taking a wg on holiday with me, but never got round to it

Looking through **, there a girl who is willing to go away on holiday with you, but I would have to give her a miss, until you look at her likes..... Bareback, Unprotected sex

Now no doubt there will be someone who takes her up on her offer

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I suppose it all depends on the ground rules set but I think I'd rather keep holidays and punting apart. Unless you're loaded and can drop a few grand without noticing it plus the WG is ready, willing and able at any time, I'd say there is better value for money having 10-15 punts for the same cost.

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They read like a 13 year old boys fantasies!

Not many 30 year olds have £1500 plus other cost to spend on a week long punt, now do they? And on top of being a regular punter too!

As for finding the girl in bed with another client...that's so unbelievable too....I for one, think you're full of **** and this isn't the first of your "stories" that have struck me as pure fantasy!

I get £2500/month after tax/ni, i live at my parents house, run a car thats worth £500, all my direct debits and cheap rent come to £500/month so ive got £2k/month to waste.

If you believe what i say is said out of fantasy, then you carry on doing so by all means. Just makes me think it goes to show that some men on here really havnt seen and done much in life. Ive only been punting for 3 years yet with many more to come. If you think what i say is fantasy... seriously man youve done nothing in life in terms of sexual fun.

It may seem like my grammer/typing seems a bit off, i cant help that. When i was a kid i had a slight learning disability and was partially deaf at the time. Sort of had it all my life actually. Hence "not the fastest tool in the shed" or a "bright spark".

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i live at my parents house

Just makes me think it goes to show that some men on here really havnt seen and done much in life.

If you think what i say is fantasy... seriously man youve done nothing in life in terms of sexual fun.

Read the first sentence, then the second one! A 30 year "man" doesn't live at home with mum and dad..."dude"!

As for you third sentence, I'm refering to fantasy as in a story that a person makes up! Sexual fun is objective, what one person regards as a turn-on another wont....you can't just spout out that someone has done nothing.....take the simplest form of sexual deviancy...how many guys have you had sex with, do you get the point? BTW I still don't beleive your holiday with a wg story, none of it rings true...even the bit about going to a GUM clinic then having BB sex for the week....not many wg's are that dumb! For one, HIV has an incubation period of 3-6 months, so any results are pretty meaningless.

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Read the first sentence, then the second one! A 30 year "man" doesn't live at home with mum and dad..."dude"!

As for you third sentence, I'm refering to fantasy as in a story that a person makes up! Sexual fun is objective, what one person regards as a turn-on another wont....you can't just spout out that someone has done nothing.....take the simplest form of sexual deviancy...how many guys have you had sex with, do you get the point? BTW I still don't beleive your holiday with a wg story, none of it rings true...even the bit about going to a GUM clinic then having BB sex for the week....not many wg's are that dumb! For one, HIV has an incubation period of 3-6 months, so any results are pretty meaningless.

Well Kid, I happen to know my ex's ex-hubby who has lived with his mum for over 10 years [after they divorced] - since he was 30 ! :blink:

Dont you think you are being a bit hard on Sparky here though? :mellow:

He has been very honest in revealing a good reason for his content and presentation, and perhaps that may explain some naivety in his posts - rather than BS.

Of course we are all entitled to our opinion and to express it, however Its a bit harsh to say his posts are BS because you cannot say for sure that they are anything but true. I agree that not all of us can quite understand exactly why he shared such detail and why he made out he was 'cool' about the WG doing extras with others and having BB sex, but if he said he agreed it was ok for her to do so and she was happy also, then we should accept that, even if some of us find it a positively strange arrangement.:unsure:

As regards his other posts, I think Sparky just really enjoys what he does, and enjoys telling this forum about it, and thats what the forum is for isn't it?

Some posts do raise issues and require questioning, I agree, but to be abusive and personal without a valid reason is not a decent way to behave.

I should know because I have been on the receiving end a few times myself, and it can get out of hand very easily.

Each to their own I think !B)

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Dont you think you are being a bit hard on Sparky here though? :mellow:

He has been very honest in revealing a good reason for his content and presentation, and perhaps that may explain some naivety in his posts - rather than BS.

Harsh, maybe. He did ask me to elborate on why I thought his posts were BS, so I did. I wasn't being critical of his presentation, just on how truthful his accounts are. He strikes me as a Walter Mitty type, perhaps he is being honest and his learning difficulties put me onto the wrong "scent". I've said all I want to on the subject <_<

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I've had a couple of chaps ask me away on holiday, but they thought the holiday would be payment in itself - and that I would behave as their girlfriend throughout. So share the same room, and be intimate as the mood takes us. I had to explain it doesn't work like that. The thing is I never was the type of girl who would sleep with someone to get a holiday in the first place, or think I owed it because someone had done something for me. Of course in the latter situation it would have to be a something I required in the first place, one person's holiday is not another person's paradise.

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