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Is My Brain All Wrong

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Yes, I'm devastated (wasn't obviously to do with punting), but part of me thinks i can now punt without guilt..... Is that all wrong?

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Sorry to hear of this. It's a difficult time

No not wrong at all. Perhaps a good time to punt before you make any long term decisions in the relationship department.

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If you've got any desire to get back together with her then I would forget punting for a while and focus on that instead.

I assume you have been punting during your relationship? If so and you feel guilty then perhaps punting is not for you whilst in a relationship, but many on here can live with it.

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Yes, I'm devastated (wasn't obviously to do with punting), but part of me thinks i can now punt without guilt..... Is that all wrong?

Sorry about your split, its never easy. Life goes on and its not wrong at all not feeling guilty after all you are single.

Shelly

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Yes, I'm devastated (wasn't obviously to do with punting), but part of me thinks i can now punt without guilt..... Is that all wrong?

Sorry to hear about your split.

Perhaps now is a time for contemplation rather than excess.

Good luck with whatever you do

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Thanks for your nice replies. I've actually been off this forum for a couple of weeks, but it's kind of comforting to know that there are others that think in a roughly similar way to me

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Yes, I'm devastated (wasn't obviously to do with punting), but part of me thinks i can now punt without guilt..... Is that all wrong?

Only you can decide if its wrong or not.

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Dont forget punting is about sex dont substitute it for something its not (been there done that)

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I think my brain's more wrong than yours.. :huh: Just hooked up with a Russian girl. Whenever I call her and it goes to voicemail, I get so restless, frustrated & let down...Is that how first love feels like?

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I think my brain's more wrong than yours.. :huh: Just hooked up with a Russian girl. Whenever I call her and it goes to voicemail, I get so restless, frustrated & let down...Is that how first love feels like?

Yes. Are you sure she feels the same way about you? Give her a little space to find out.

Good luck P

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Us ladies are for inbetweenies and scratching an itch...

Take time to heal emotionally though?

DON'T get too involved 'here', don't use it as a crutch.

Boys come here for many reasons, some are understandable, some are psychologically/emotionally unhealthy.

Being an emotionally hurt person...'we' can't fix you, we can cushion the blow a little, at times. That's all.

Only you know what's right for you. But I beg you, don't waste time in the wrong place. I would never encourage an emotionally hurt man to visit me or anyone else.

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Us ladies are for inbetweenies and scratching an itch...

Take time to heal emotionally though?

DON'T get too involved 'here', don't use it as a crutch.

Boys come here for many reasons, some are understandable, some are psychologically/emotionally unhealthy.

Being an emotionally hurt person...'we' can't fix you, we can cushion the blow a little, at times. That's all.

Only you know what's right for you. But I beg you, don't waste time in the wrong place. I would never encourage an emotionally hurt man to visit me or anyone else.

Well said Ms. Mopp.

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I think my brain's more wrong than yours.. :huh: Just hooked up with a Russian girl. Whenever I call her and it goes to voicemail, I get so restless, frustrated & let down...Is that how first love feels like?

Yep, I can get a bit like that too !:) It would be so much easier if I saw the ladies as mere sex objects.

Us ladies are for inbetweenies and scratching an itch...

Take time to heal emotionally though?

DON'T get too involved 'here', don't use it as a crutch.

Boys come here for many reasons, some are understandable, some are psychologically/emotionally unhealthy.

Being an emotionally hurt person...'we' can't fix you, we can cushion the blow a little, at times. That's all.

Only you know what's right for you. But I beg you, don't waste time in the wrong place. I would never encourage an emotionally hurt man to visit me or anyone else.

I have a pal whose first reaction ( well nearly first ) when his wife left him , was to ring up another woman and invite her over for sex. And over she came !!. I would have thought giving some comfort to a guy like that would be fine for an escort., no?

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Personally I wouldnt punt at all in such a situation - could be one of the worst things to do when youre emotionally very vulnerable.

DollyMopp said it perfectly

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Personally I wouldnt punt at all in such a situation - could be one of the worst things to do when youre emotionally very vulnerable.

DollyMopp said it perfectly

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Yes. Are you sure she feels the same way about you? Give her a little space to find out.

Good luck P

Not sure if she feels the same way, trying to be patient on this one..Part of the problem is my new year resolution - I should in any circumstances get a girlfriend by end of this year..

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Not sure if she feels the same way, trying to be patient on this one..Part of the problem is my new year resolution - I should in any circumstances get a girlfriend by end of this year..

You still have 9 months to FFS. Lighten up and enjoy life in the slow lane for a bit. Play the field, look around, take a holiday, go to Thailand, try sky diving, do a bungy jump or whatever. Don't sit around in misery thinking that the world is against you.

Give her the space to see if she has some feelings for you. If not, there are plenty more fish in the sea.

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For what its worth, I take you have seen girls before when you where married?

If so I am sure you know what to expect and If you just need a bloody good shag to let all the tension out I say go on. You only live once.

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