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Do You Think By Offering Anal Attracts The Wrong King Of Clientele

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Hi there,just wondering if by offering anal attracts the wrong clientele?.thinking that buy offering this service your up for anything and they can treat you with no respect.just lately Ive had nothing but idiots and time waster responding,i'm thinking that maybe because i openly offer this service,i'm bound to get some idiots.Don't get me wrong Ive had some wonderful gentleman that love this service.Just got me wondering lately.what does anyone else think??? :unsure:

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I believe I have just looked at your page on **. I have to say, I do not believe your offering "A" ( or indeed any one of a number of other services) is the issue - it's just idiots and timewasters doing their thing.

If I was near the Golden Mile I would be happy to book you ( including the "A")

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I believe I have just looked at your page on **. I have to say, I do not believe your offering "A" ( or indeed any one of a number of other services) is the issue - it's just idiots and timewasters doing their thing.

If I was near the Golden Mile I would be happy to book you ( including the "A")

Well thank you kind sir.Still the time wasters carry on but hey what can a girl do,just keep smiling.Someone genuine will soon be along im sure.xx. :D

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Hmmmm. That's hard for us punters to answer. I am sure some of the ladies here will be able to provide a better answer. What I can say though is that I am a (very, very occasional)) partaker of this service and I don't regard myself as an idiot or timewaster :D . And the purple site is renowned for attracting fools and wankers to respond to ladies profiles, so it might not be the A that's the problem, simply the site.

Have you always offered this service Cherry? If not, did you notice an upsurge in said idiots and time wasters when you started offering it?

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I have always offered this service since i placed my profile on the purple site(lol),which is now almost 2 years ago,just noticed the last 3 months have been a nightmare.xx. :huh:

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Its more accepted now, just think its the way things are going because a lot of us have noticed an increase in timewasters. The last client I had anal with is from here and he is lovely, so don't think it that.

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I would say it's quite possible. I find the idea of Anal sex quite disgusting. It is clearly unnatural and apart from Gays (who have little choice) I cannot see why anyone would want to do this.

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Hi there,just wondering if by offering anal attracts the wrong clientele?.thinking that buy offering this service your up for anything and they can treat you with no respect.just lately Ive had nothing but idiots and time waster responding,i'm thinking that maybe because i openly offer this service,i'm bound to get some idiots.Don't get me wrong Ive had some wonderful gentleman that love this service.Just got me wondering lately.what does anyone else think??? :unsure:

Could be more likely to attract the guys that think they're in a porno movie. And of course the porno stuff can appear quite rough at times.

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No, I don't think that's the issue. I only see women that do either CIMS or A, but that's got nothing to do with respect (which I always have plenty of) or lack thereof and all with personal taste and preference.

If you were offering sub services and particular kinds of role play and stuff like that, I think that would be more strongly correlated with getting the occasional fruitcake.

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And the purple site is renowned for attracting fools and wankers to respond to ladies profiles, so it might not be the A that's the problem, simply the site.

Doesn't the feedback system help to weed out said wankers? (question aimed more to wgs than Northwinds)

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No, I don't think that it attracts the wrong clientèle, but why not take it off and see what happens? Best way to find out is to test it.

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I would say it's quite possible. I find the idea of Anal sex quite disgusting. It is clearly unnatural and apart from Gays (who have little choice) I cannot see why anyone would want to do this.

I too could never understand anal sex; I always thought there can't possibly be anything in it for the woman, except pain, and why would a guy want to do it when he can have the "real thing"? But I've learned an awful lot about sex in the past few years, not least from this forum, and I completely understand the attraction now. It's not something I'm particularly interested in myself, having tried it once, but I can understand the attraction for both parties if that's their thing.

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I would say it's quite possible. I find the idea of Anal sex quite disgusting. It is clearly unnatural and apart from Gays (who have little choice) I cannot see why anyone would want to do this.

I have no interest in anal sex myself but do like anal play, whats unnatural and disgusting to you isnt for others, many ladies love anal sex and some say they prefer it to vaginal sex.

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Hi there,just wondering if by offering anal attracts the wrong clientele?.thinking that buy offering this service your up for anything and they can treat you with no respect.just lately Ive had nothing but idiots and time waster responding,i'm thinking that maybe because i openly offer this service,i'm bound to get some idiots.Don't get me wrong Ive had some wonderful gentleman that love this service.Just got me wondering lately.what does anyone else think??? :unsure:

Quite frankly I assume it attracts men who would like Anal sex. If you offer it and they reply I'm not quite sure how they can be thought of as wrong type of client. Surely the wrong client is the one doesnt like anal sex!

I think the caliber of clientelle does vary depending on how you present yourself on the internet, and where you find those clients or rather where they find you is very important. Some sites are treated as nothing more than online porn magazines by some visitors and real contact with the girl in the picture is just part of the ritual as or before they masturbate.

Having a zero tolerance to poor attitude and manners along with an eye for the way the client presents himself in an email or telephone conversation can weed out a good amount of these socially challenged dullards at the first hurdle. One or two will always slip through but these can be dealt with as they reveal themselves.

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Doesn't the feedback system help to weed out said wankers? (question aimed more to wgs than Northwinds)

It does if you take notice of guys feedback yes :D

I personally won't see anyone with no feedback unless they are a new member and guys with negative feedback off well thought of WG's :blink:

I f they don't read my profile and email me shite asking about anything thats clearly stated in my profile I just delete it :rolleyes:

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Hi there,just wondering if by offering anal attracts the wrong clientele?.thinking that buy offering this service your up for anything and they can treat you with no respect.just lately Ive had nothing but idiots and time waster responding,i'm thinking that maybe because i openly offer this service,i'm bound to get some idiots.Don't get me wrong Ive had some wonderful gentleman that love this service.Just got me wondering lately.what does anyone else think??? :unsure:

If you have offered A for a while and had very few problems with twats and timewasters then I daresay recent negative changes may be down to advertising in different areas. I always know when my details have been lifted and put up in a new area, as there is a distinct change in the type of enquiries I get.

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If you have offered A for a while and had very few problems with twats and timewasters then I daresay recent negative changes may be down to advertising in different areas. I always know when my details have been lifted and put up in a new area, as there is a distinct change in the type of enquiries I get.

Does that happen a lot? I only ask as I am not aware of it. I can see that it could be a real problem. How does one keep control of ones web persona?

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Does that happen a lot? I only ask as I am not aware of it. I can see that it could be a real problem. How does one keep control of ones web persona?

Not alot but when it happens it becomes evident within a few enquiries. :D

Contact mags lifting details can be a pain, and not much you can do. I have had 2 phones for a while now - one which is advertised and another number which I give to clients I would like to see again. SWitch the advertised one off for a few days if it's twatty calls and just keep to the known clients - has kept me relatively sane, and the twatty calls stop.

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Im the type of client who is easy going, laid back, happy fun type, never fails to show up (sometimes a bit late, traffic), i always ask and never forces her into anything, and i always have the utmost full respect for the WG.

Ive never been keen on anal, ive given it to girlfriends=s in the past but its not that much different to vaginal sex. I do see appeal of it, the taboo aspect? of "having a woman" in both her holes.

I just love pussy way too much.

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Hi there,just wondering if by offering anal attracts the wrong clientele?.thinking that buy offering this service your up for anything and they can treat you with no respect.just lately Ive had nothing but idiots and time waster responding,i'm thinking that maybe because i openly offer this service,i'm bound to get some idiots.Don't get me wrong Ive had some wonderful gentleman that love this service.Just got me wondering lately.what does anyone else think??? :unsure:

As with all WGs I've met, I treat them with the sort of respect they desreve, the same as I would expect to be shown, all the ladies I've met so far have been just that,(Ladies).

I would like to think that the punters would all have this same attitude but,I suppose you will always have some that are "Pigs" for want of a better word.

I do like anal and am glad that it is offered,I think that if a girl offers this service then we should at least show our appreciation by realising that just because it is offered doesn't mean that the girl has cheapened herself,like some men,I would imagine that some women like anal and as such,we should do it and enjoy it together?

As you can probably tell, I enjoy anal and it would be a great shame if ladies were put off by the few idiots that there inevitably are.

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Doesn't the feedback system help to weed out said wankers? (question aimed more to wgs than Northwinds)

The feedback system doesn't help the WGs filter out the stupid, inane and downright malicious texts and emails that get sent by these types. I am friendly enough with a few WGs that they have shared a few of the sorts of offers they receive and they range from the incredibly stupid through to the utterly terrifying. God knows what motivates the senders.

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No, I don't think that's the issue. I only see women that do either CIMS or A, but that's got nothing to do with respect (which I always have plenty of) or lack thereof and all with personal taste and preference.

If you were offering sub services and particular kinds of role play and stuff like that, I think that would be more strongly correlated with getting the occasional fruitcake.

What are you basing that theory on?

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Just wanted to add, that I mainly/only see escorts who offer this service and often find that they haven't done if for a week. Glad of the practice they say!

Of course it is generally an extra services, which will limit the type of punter who is going to ask for it. Maybe this is the problem, if you do not make it clear that it is extra, guys may call hoping that it is 'all inclusive' and looking for it on the cheep, and therefore they could be considered the 'wrong' sort of client. Sometimes girls do include it the price, other times they ask another £100! Some girls really enjoy it, even have orgasms, others don't appear to enjoy it at all!

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I have to say that since I started offering anal sex as a service over a year ago, I haven't seen an upsurge in idiots as a result of offering it. And from **, the number of idiot enquiries has not increased either. I even promote my Anal Masterclass Sessions and that attracts only genuine enquiries from the guys that have always been interested in Anal but not taken the plunge ( :P ) either due to a failed attempt that made them lose their steel, or being under the misguided impression that they are too well endowed for anal. The Anal Masterclasses have always been light hearted and relaxed.

I don't charge extra for it as I've always had a policy of not charging extra or by service. I haven't increased my rates either since I included it. I enjoy it, I offer it. And I agree, I don't get requests for it half as often as I had hoped. I may be lucky to get one person request for A Levels and it actually happens. Not every one that asks for it at the enquiry stage goes on to do it. Apart from when touring Ireland where I am buggered to my wee heart's content, it can sometimes feel like taking a vintage car out for it's Sunday outing when it does come up. I also find that despite offering it in profiles and on my web site, I still get a lot of clients unaware it is on offer. So I try to drop it into conversation or early in the booking when there's still time to do it and enjoy it.

Where I advertise, and maybe the area, is what can account for a surge in idiot enquiries. Also the nationality of the caller based on their accent can often be a clue that the call is going to end with me book marking yet another fool for my phone book's avoid list. It's getting such that as soon as I hear a voice on the phone, I know I may as well pretend to be too busy to see them for all the good engaging them in conversation.

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Pru

Just wanted to add, that I mainly/only see escorts who offer this service and often find that they haven't done if for a week. Glad of the practice they say!

Of course it is generally an extra services, which will limit the type of punter who is going to ask for it. Maybe this is the problem, if you do not make it clear that it is extra, guys may call hoping that it is 'all inclusive' and looking for it on the cheep, and therefore they could be considered the 'wrong' sort of client. Sometimes girls do include it the price, other times they ask another £100! Some girls really enjoy it, even have orgasms, others don't appear to enjoy it at all!

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Oh, and to add, it isn't doing anal that will attract the wrong kind of clientele but how you do it! I got into a heated email exchange with a well hung guy that I was considering for some anal filming to add to my collection at the ** site. He said I should make sure I got gaping shots as that is the money shot. That may be the case, but I'm having to leave that particular niche alone. I told him that such a clip was going to attract absolutely the kind of guy I don't want any where near me. And turn off the kind of guys I want to attract. The kind of guy that thinks I don't care about my welfare.

The gaping parade can get pretty gross with their expectations, and this is regardless of their social background or nationality. I was trying to make him understand that I don't want the kind of guy that gets off on seeing a butt hole being debased by forceful stretching, spitting, double dipping, ATM and goodness knows what. :blink:

Yes, some degree of gaping can be expected (although I've never seen the view from behind when I'm being pounded via the back-door which is another reason I've been curious to get a camera running to capture the view), but it's the way it gets over-done in the porn movies that makes me grimace and look away.

I've also found that when I get MFM enquiries, the majority come up with distasteful suggestions that do make me think I've stumbled into the land of imbeciles. They've seen extreme porn and don't get it that the ladies in those movies are sometimes either under duress or under the influence of drugs to have some of those things inflicted on them.

Now, one lady's client from hell is another lady's client of choice, just as some men think Anal is disgusting and others feel it a necessity, like one married regular who has nicknamed himself the Anal Assassin and visits for his Anal Fix. But there are aspects of anal play that border on the extreme and the ill-advised and occasionally, one may get these guys living in a fantasy world inspired by porn that think money can buy them any extremity.

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Pru

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