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So I spend money on watching porn, sex chat lines and I feel I am wasting money ( £200 - £300 ) per month and so I thinking of trying the real thing and becoming a punter.

Do you have any recommendations for Thames Valley for a 1st timer? Sexy indie, really don't think I'm ready for a parlour..

Thanks

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So I spend money on watching porn, sex chat lines and I feel I am wasting money ( £200 - £300 ) per month and so I thinking of trying the real thing and becoming a punter.

Do you have any recommendations for Thames Valley for a 1st timer? Sexy indie, really don't think I'm ready for a parlour..

Thanks

Why pay all that when you can have the real thing in the flesh ??:mellow:

I have often wondered who actually calls these chat lines or adult channel lines, when its actually less expensive to go for a 30 minute parlour punt ! :blink:

I suggest you put your phone away now and start searching the net for parlours near to you.

Best to do some research yourself first, then ask the forum when you have found some likely WGs !

You dont have to be ready for a parlour - you just go - thats how I started !!:)B)

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You pay for porn!? :blink:

And yes, the only way to find out whether you'll like it is to try it. I don't have any recommendations I'm afraid.

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Yep I pay for porn :-(

Will let you know how I get on with my encounters!!!

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You pay for porn!? :blink:

And yes, the only way to find out whether you'll like it is to try it. I don't have any recommendations I'm afraid.

i have a reccomendation

find one u fancy, book her, see her.

simples

its not rocket science.

and this idea that parlours are for hardened punters is crap. if you pick a good parlour it will be exctly the same.

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Research a few and then put 2 or 3 names up here and ask for comments. You will be surprised at the help you get if you do a bit of work first. Many of us are less keen to help those who will not help themselves.

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just go for an independent girl not to young and with some good feed back to her name, if she has pics make sure you look about the pictures and not just her, if they are done in a nice clean property then the chance the girl will be well groomed, girls with nice nails make me think she looks after herself, good luck and well you will worry i did, but wow so pleased i started meet some real sexy girls over the last year, i to was a professional wanker, but now just a semi pro

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So I spend money on watching porn, sex chat lines and I feel I am wasting money ( £200 - £300 ) per month and so I thinking of trying the real thing and becoming a punter.

Do you have any recommendations for Thames Valley for a 1st timer? Sexy indie, really don't think I'm ready for a parlour..

Thanks

I don't know if I am in a position to advise as it is so recently that I was asking for it.

But, as a veteran of just one punt I can offer you the following:

1. I was studying the message boards and agency and independent websites for months before I decided to take the plunge.

2. Even after deciding it took me a couple of months to pick the girl. I made several shortlists which were regularly updated. It is important to study the market and FRs on punternet. I decided if I was going to pay for this I needed my escort to be hot, not too young but under 30, experienced but considerate of me being a first timer and have a history of positive feedback, both on PN and on any agency or independent site. I cannot tell you how many times I chose a girl only to discover a lukewarm or less than glowing report which would put me off.

3. I have studied the Thames Valley scene and, compared to London, the choice is pretty sparse. But I suppose it depends on what you are looking for. There are one of two indies with a good reputation who made my shortlist. PM me if you want some pointers.

4. I had to have a whiskey breakfast to give me the dutch courage to make the booking. After booking my nerves disappeared but soon began to mount again, peaking as I rang the buzzer at the girl's appartment.

5. I chose wisely as my girl tried her best to put me at ease. I had a good time.

6. Was it worth the £150 I spent? Well yes and no! I spent an hour with a mostly naked gorgeous woman - my field report gives more details. My nerves meant I didn't make the most of the experience, but I am sure I will be more confident next time.

You haven't said much about your background, age or experience. Personally I am doing this to gain sexual confidence. It is almost part of a personal development program (which also includes study, exercise, better eating, doing new things etc.) I am well aware from other punters on this site that punting can be addictive and I can see why. Arguably you can have sex with women who would be way out of reach in the 'real' world (although I don't believe that). But I wouldn't be doing this if I was single and will stop if my status changes.

Good luck and have fun!

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Personally I am doing this to gain sexual confidence. It is almost part of a personal development program (which also includes study, exercise, better eating, doing new things etc.)

Sounds like the complete clean living plan .... with a bit of dirtiness thrown in !!! :lol: :lol:

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It is almost part of a personal development program (which also includes study, exercise, better eating, doing new things etc.)

My boss at work has had me create a 'personal development plan', may be I can add this to that :-)

In respect to your questions I"m in my late 20's, to be honest I don't have that much sexual experience and I feel that life experience is passing me by and I don't want to had regrets. Hence the original post.

The thing is ( I know i'm crazy ) I read other posts about parlors not providing clean towels, girls that are shall we say not clean, its has the reputation of being all very seedy and dirty and you read the FR's and posts in the forum and at times you think you know what actually I'll give it a miss, ohh then there's the whole you might catch something undesirable as well.

As I said crazy :blink:

Hence the post asking for any recommendations in the Thames Valley!!

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My boss at work has had me create a 'personal development plan', may be I can add this to that :-)

In respect to your questions I"m in my late 20's, to be honest I don't have that much sexual experience and I feel that life experience is passing me by and I don't want to had regrets. Hence the original post.

The thing is ( I know i'm crazy ) I read other posts about parlors not providing clean towels, girls that are shall we say not clean, its has the reputation of being all very seedy and dirty and you read the FR's and posts in the forum and at times you think you know what actually I'll give it a miss, ohh then there's the whole you might catch something undesirable as well.

As I said crazy :blink:

Hence the post asking for any recommendations in the Thames Valley!!

You should remember though, that not all parlours are dirty, and some do have very high standards. If you shop around you will find what suits you, and you dont have to always pay a premium price either. Most WGs I have met have been immaculate and provided very professional [and enjoyable] services. I have had a few poor experiences, but thats only because I got so used to having so many good ones ! In real terms I have never had a punt bad enough to make me feel that it was too seedy or dirty to continue punting. My only advice would be to remain annonymous at all times.:)B)

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My boss at work has had me create a 'personal development plan', may be I can add this to that :-)

In respect to your questions I"m in my late 20's, to be honest I don't have that much sexual experience and I feel that life experience is passing me by and I don't want to had regrets. Hence the original post.

The thing is ( I know i'm crazy ) I read other posts about parlors not providing clean towels, girls that are shall we say not clean, its has the reputation of being all very seedy and dirty and you read the FR's and posts in the forum and at times you think you know what actually I'll give it a miss, ohh then there's the whole you might catch something undesirable as well.

As I said crazy :blink:

Hence the post asking for any recommendations in the Thames Valley!!

Go for it. I am in my late 30s but otherwise probably in a very similar situation to you.

Maybe it's a bit early in my punting career to say this. But I reckon if I had visited 3 or 4 escorts in my early 20s it would have helped my confidence and I would have taken opportunitie that I have missed (or sadly turned down) over the last 15 or 16 years. Clearly I mean with women but I think also beyond that.

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Do a bit of research and book. Simple as that. Punting is much healthier than those other things you mentioned and it's better value. You can day dream about it for days. Porn is about 0.025% as good.

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Do a bit of research and book. Simple as that. Punting is much healthier than those other things you mentioned and it's better value. You can day dream about it for days. Porn is about 0.025% as good.

Yep - I'm not convince at all about porn. There's an increasing body of research that it rewires your brain to be excited by porn, and not the real thing. (search for porn neuroplasticity if you're interested)

When I was watching too much, I certainly experienced problems reaching a climax when doing the real thing. Since I eased off, that's gone away.

For some reason, cracking one off to a movie often leaves me feeling drained and lethargic, whereas after sex I feel happy and energised.

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Yep - I'm not convince at all about porn. There's an increasing body of research that it rewires your brain to be excited by porn, and not the real thing. (search for porn neuroplasticity if you're interested)

When I was watching too much, I certainly experienced problems reaching a climax when doing the real thing. Since I eased off, that's gone away.

For some reason, cracking one off to a movie often leaves me feeling drained and lethargic, whereas after sex I feel happy and energised.

Wow, that really interesting. I must confess to being an enthusiastic enjoyer of porn. Maybe I'll have a break for a few days and see how I get on with my next punt :)

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So I spend money on watching porn, sex chat lines and I feel I am wasting money ( £200 - £300 ) per month and so I thinking of trying the real thing and becoming a punter.

Do you have any recommendations for Thames Valley for a 1st timer? Sexy indie, really don't think I'm ready for a parlour..

Thanks

If you can afford to spend that much on porn and sex chat then I'd definitely recommend you take up punting instead. I used to waste £hundreds on lap dances at a local gentlemen' club at the end of boozy nights out before I was made aware of this website and realised that for the same money I could actually be having sex with with gorgeous women, rather than just being teased by them.

One very nice indie I'd recommend you consider for your first punt is 'The English Rose' (f.k.a. Scarlett) who is based in Hemel Hempstead and has lots of good FRs.

Do a bit of research and book. Simple as that. Punting is much healthier than those other things you mentioned and it's better value. You can day dream about it for days. Porn is about 0.025% as good.

...For some reason, cracking one off to a movie often leaves me feeling drained and lethargic, whereas after sex I feel happy and energised.

Agreed and agreed.

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