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Guys? Cim In Your Normal Relationships?

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Okay, so some guys say CIM is as routine to them in a relationship as water is to us as human beings. Some guys only see escorts that offer CIM. Some guys for whom CIM is essential in a punt will settle for an escort that catches their fancy as long as she offers OWO - so at least he lives in hope of an accident if she isn't vigilent enough.

I can't recall a relationship where CIM was asked of me. Neither do I remember spitting, the after-math of CIM in my neck of the woods. So I'm pretty certain that despite enough opportunities to have been asked, it never came up until I turned pro.

So guys, do you ever ask for CIM in your relationships? If you've never asked, but always/often wanted, what has held you back? What kind of responses have you had from wives, girl-friends or one night stands if/when you asked for CIM?

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current partner will do it and swallow - I get the impression it is more to keep me happy than for her enjoyment - and I dont go there every time we shag - more a weekend special :P

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I'm seeing it more and more as time goes on. When I was first dating at 17/18 it was almost unheard of, and post Uni I've dated girls roughly the same age as me, so the girls that I saw at 21 are 35 now, and I'm much more likely to get CIM and swallowing as standard, from girls from essentially the same upbringing, if that makes sense. When I've been lucky enough to go out with girls much younger than me (say early 20s now), it seems pretty much a given.

Part of it is also confidence. I used to say as I was getting close "can I come in your mouth?" and the answer invariably would be "no" so I wouldn't. Now, I just say "I'm coming" or "I want to come in your mouth" and put the onus on the default answer being yes. I'm not about to hold a girl's head and make her do it, it's not that important to me, but I'd be lying if I didn't say I liked it a lot. I don't get a negative response from doing this, and the girls I date seem happy to do it.

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I have never really asked for it to be honest, its basically just happened of it's own accord, more often than not either as treat for some good deed or another or as a substitute when its been time of the month. I reckon about 80% of my relationships have involved CIM to a greater or lesser degree, in fact I can only remember one who wouldn't swallow. The only thing that I think of that possibly explains a relatively healthy success ratio is being unselfish about reciprocating with oral and not being too pushy?

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The response I've had in various reltionships has been varied, I had an ex girlfriend who couldn't get enough of it, she loved CIM and I have met a few like that. I had another who did it beaise she felt she was duty bound to do so. Inevitably there were ones who would not and I can't say it bothered me really. One inparticular springs to mind she preferred it over her tits and as I reacall she had a carcking pair and I was only too happy to oblige!

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CIM/swallowing has never been a no-no in my previous relationships. As Crossfire says, some girls enjoy it. Never had quite the same success rate with A-levels though :mellow:

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Missus confesses to loving it but it don't happen much these days - mind you, thats as much to do with me as her.................

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CIM has never been on the menu for me in my civilian relationships. It's one of the main reasons I started punting a couple of years ago.

My wife regards oral sex (either way) as abberent behavior of the highest order and won't even discuss it let alone take part. Having been married for 25 years, I have to tax my brain to remember my earlier relationships but, having done so, although one or two girls offered oral, none of them ever even hinted that they would go as far as CIM. Interestingly, I never asked.

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I've heard somewhere that nowadays most under 18 lads think that cim is the normal way to have sex due to the high volume of internet porn watched.

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For me it's a dealbreaker if a girlfriend won't take my cum in her mouth and swallow. I never ask for it, I just assume she'll do it.

For that reason all my girlfriends have swallowed. Only various one night stands and some working girls have stipulated no CIM.

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I'm seeing it more and more as time goes on. When I was first dating at 17/18 it was almost unheard of, and post Uni I've dated girls roughly the same age as me, so the girls that I saw at 21 are 35 now, and I'm much more likely to get CIM and swallowing as standard, from girls from essentially the same upbringing, if that makes sense. When I've been lucky enough to go out with girls much younger than me (say early 20s now), it seems pretty much a given.

AGree with this

am similar age

Back in the day CIM was rare

Now with girls 20-25 when I am lucky enough to date them CIM is standard :D

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Maybe it will become less common as more people become aware of the risks. See www.physorg.com/news/2011-02-oral-sex-linked-cancer.html

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Maybe it will become less common as more people become aware of the risks. See www.physorg.com/news/2011-02-oral-sex-linked-cancer.html

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I've heard somewhere that nowadays most under 18 lads think that cim is the normal way to have sex due to the high volume of internet porn watched.

Strangely i've only seen one or two porn vids with CIM. 95% end in facials

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Strangely i've only seen one or two porn vids with CIM. 95% end in facials

perhaps their aim isn't very good. :lol:

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Strangely i've only seen one or two porn vids with CIM. 95% end in facials

Best CIM ever captured on film must surely be in that Japanese film of 35 years ago 'Ai No Corrida'. You only realise he's come in her mouth when she lets the sperm trickle out from her lips. Very beautiful.

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Strangely i've only seen one or two porn vids with CIM. 95% end in facials

Depends on what you have been watching. Gonzo porn by companies like Red Light District has themed porn series like Cum Swapping Sluts where they do as the title suggests and the females end up normally swallowing. There are many other similar themed series that include CIM.

As to the thread i have often indulged in CIM with partners who enjoyed it.

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I've heard somewhere that nowadays most under 18 lads think that cim is the normal way to have sex due to the high volume of internet porn watched.

I read an article about a year ago, that some young girls are pretty shell shocked after their first sexual experience these days. The girls expect a sensual romantic touching first experience only for the bloke to pull out before cumming and spray it over their face etc as this is what they have seen in porn.

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I read an article about a year ago, that some young girls are pretty shell shocked after their first sexual experience these days. The girls expect a sensual romantic touching first experience only for the bloke to pull out before cumming and spray it over their face etc as this is what they have seen in porn.

I suspect that is just one of those anti porn articles with little basis in reality. The average young man having his first sex would be too scared to do that, and even if he wasn't, he would cum too quickly to get from vagina to mouth.

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I suspect that is just one of those anti porn articles with little basis in reality. The average young man having his first sex would be too scared to do that, and even if he wasn't, he would cum too quickly to get from vagina to mouth.

The OP was about the girl's first experience - No mention of what previous experience the boy concerned may or may not have had.

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My partner would almost never suck it never mind get some cum in her mouth. Before marriage, so we're going back into the 1970's I had one gf who routinely sucked and swallowed and would give a bj on request any time any where without reciprocation being required. I had another who was up for anything and loved cum on her, so facials, breast relief, wanking into a dilated orifice, anything. The rest would hardly touch my cock before intercourse even when prompted. I didn;t marry for sex, and sometimes regret finishing with the all services one - life would certainly have been different, but she has got through three husbands (2 x RIP ).

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Danish Pia did refer to the girl's first experience. One can assume that she's with a mate with a bit more experience and now the nerve to treat her like a spunk bucket. What an awful first time experience that must be. :(

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Pru

I suspect that is just one of those anti porn articles with little basis in reality. The average young man having his first sex would be too scared to do that, and even if he wasn't, he would cum too quickly to get from vagina to mouth.

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My long term partner, liked CIM/snowball/swallow, and my experience has been CIM/swallow with 90% of my partners. I tend to seek out ladies who give me the GF experience, and have seen a bit of the world. I don't imagine it would be a deal breaker, I could imagine being in love, so long as she had ample money, and didn't mind me nailing whores several times a week.

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In my first marriage, the wife was a bit undeucated on the topic of oral sex, and didnt really like giving or receiving. So that lasted so long and the current Mrs T initally gave me great oral and swallowed for a number of years after met. Even gave me a BJ driving up the A38 through Devon once. However, I have a feeling she knows I've stuck my cock in a few places and mouths I shouldn't and a few times too often, and now oral is a big no - even with the temptation of flavoured sprays. She does expect me to lick her on occasion, which is a bit one-sided, so I am not being a push over and rationing her oral to get my own back. I'm a control freak at heart. :D

Some how I doubt it, so back to the WGs to get what I want......

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I've never expected it and actually doesn't do a great deal for me so I don't particular seek it out with WGs. The missus will do it occasionally though.

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