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Shall We Start With A Massage?

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is it only me that gets a bad feeling when a punt starts with the lady saying this? instead of just going with the flow as she walks into the room, it is like she has it all set out for each punt.

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sometimes asking it is an ice-breaker, whether he accepts it or not. Feel free to decline and say, I'd rather do xyz instead. Some ladies couldn't deliver a successful massage if their lives depended on it. But they use it as a time filler to reduce the actual penetration, kissing, oral or whatever else.

I normally start by asking the guy how many times he plans to cum. Then a massage can be the interlude while he builds up again.

About once a year, I'll get a guy that suggests starting with a massage. For some, finding a lady that gives a good massage is as important to whatever else he's going to get out of the punt. I personally think a massage should follow an orgasm, to work with the relaxation and sleepiness that follows shooting one's load.

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Pru

is it only me that gets a bad feeling when a punt starts with the lady saying this? instead of just going with the flow as she walks into the room, it is like she has it all set out for each punt.

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When I was a novice punter, I accepted the offer of a "masssage". But I soon found out that this was usually a waste of time, after 15 minutes I was still totally flaccid. Now I just go for it, the minute I am in the room, and post shag, the girl can do her "massage", if she wishes.

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is it only me that gets a bad feeling when a punt starts with the lady saying this? instead of just going with the flow as she walks into the room, it is like she has it all set out for each punt.

I reply with "How about I give the massage?"

Basically, so I can control the time and get alot of sneaky gropes, licks and kisses in :D

BTW, if she responds with no for her receiving a massage, thats a big warning sign that its not going to go well in my experience.

Whenever she asks what I like when she turns up I just respond with "hmmm, how about we just go with the flow".

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is it only me that gets a bad feeling when a punt starts with the lady saying this? instead of just going with the flow as she walks into the room, it is like she has it all set out for each punt.

Its often a timewasting tactic in my experience, if i wanted a massage i would of booked one. I agree with you about it is like it is all set out, that wont wash with me, i know exactly what i require and clarify this before handing my cash over.

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I find it tends to be the new-ish girls who ask you if you want a massage. They probably haven't realised that most blokes would rather cut to the chase as it were.

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Agree, it's usually a sign that she is following the Parlour Script, even worse when she has asked you to undress while she goes out of the room - so clinical, like you're about to have a rectal exam or something.

Thankfully, most of the girls I have seen in the last couple of years at my local parlour (Intimate Massage, Bedford) are happy to go with the flow, starting off with kissing as we both gradually disrobe each other - much better!

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Funny thing that! This happened to me just a day or so ago with a girl who has quite a lot of positive P.N. reports - no negative ones at all. I agree that quite often it is a "time wasting" tactic. Stupidly I agreed to the massage which went on for quite a few minutes & would have lasted even longer if she had not taken a phone call during our meeting. Her actual service was o.k. but certainly not brilliant by any means. I paid for an hour but just got 50 minutes. Says it all, doesn't it!! :(

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I remember these were the very first words I heard on my first punt !

At the time it seemed ok as it was new, so i went along with it and found it was a good icebreaker as I was too nervous to speak much.

After a few punts the suggestion of a massage never seemed to be brought up and I cannot remember hearing it since.

Perhaps some girls are good at asssesing a punters requirements/experience and so only use the massage offer if they look to be nervous or new ?

:)B)

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I remember these were the very first words I heard on my first punt !

At the time it seemed ok as it was new, so i went along with it and found it was a good icebreaker as I was too nervous to speak much.

After a few punts the suggestion of a massage never seemed to be brought up and I cannot remember hearing it since.

Perhaps some girls are good at asssesing a punters requirements/experience and so only use the massage offer if they look to be nervous or new ?

:)B)

You may be right but IMHO it is usually a "time wasting" tactic. It happened to me before with the only disappointment I have ever received at HOD S. Kensington

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I remember these were the very first words I heard on my first punt !

At the time it seemed ok as it was new, so i went along with it and found it was a good icebreaker as I was too nervous to speak much.

After a few punts the suggestion of a massage never seemed to be brought up and I cannot remember hearing it since.

Perhaps some girls are good at asssesing a punters requirements/experience and so only use the massage offer if they look to be nervous or new ?

:)B)

I still get offered it on occassion mainly from foreign WGs, i politely steer the conversation onto what i am actually after, which she would of been aware of from when i spoke to her on the phone. :)

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I rarely accept the offer of an icebreaker massage. It does nothing for me and simply delays what I am actually there for.

I often accept the offer of a massage between rounds as it's a relaxing way to spend time recharging the tank. It's rare to find a good masseuse working as an escort though.

I agree at EE girls in particular are quite cute at using the massage tactic to reduce the amount of sex time in a booking.

All of this is largely manageable via confidence and experience though. I dislike my punts to run to a script, but upon occasion am happy to be led as long as I am ok with where I am being led to.

P.S. (to Puntaprima), the first words I heard on my first punt were "so would you like me to suck your cock then?". No wonder I took to it like a duck to water :D

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It has never occurred to me to offer a massage at the beginning of an appointment.

Occasionally a client will ask for one and I am happy to do it .... I have no training

and always tell them this. However I do my best and they are usually well received ;)

To use a massage as a time wasting tactic is likely to be the workings of a lady who

does not much like this job.

Doesn't apply to me at all! :P

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It has never occurred to me to offer a massage at the beginning of an appointment.

Occasionally a client will ask for one and I am happy to do it .... I have no training

and always tell them this. However I do my best and they are usually well received ;)

To use a massage as a time wasting tactic is likely to be the workings of a lady who

does not much like this job.

Doesn't apply to me at all! :P

I'm very similar Adele but I will offer a massage at the end if a guy has run out of sexiness, and isn't interested in watching me!Once again I tell him I'm not trained in that area, but had no complaints.

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Ah absolute bollox to those that think it is a time wasting exercise, (actually most of you were careful to say usually) if you do not want one fairynerf say so.

A part of my service is the massage, as I include a b2b massage as part of my gfe.

I will start of rubbing myself all over your back, running my hair, nipples, fanny, fingers, fingernails, dry humping your leg, reaching underneath, nibbling your (_Y_) cheeks, nibbling neck, making the hairs on the back of your neck stand up...............

But mostly that lasts all of a few mins before I am flipped over and ravished :D

S x

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Ah absolute bollox to those that think it is a time wasting exercise, (actually most of you were careful to say usually) if you do not want one fairynerf say so.

A part of my service is the massage, as I include a b2b massage as part of my gfe.

I will start of rubbing myself all over your back, running my hair, nipples, fanny, fingers, fingernails, dry humping your leg, reaching underneath, nibbling your (_Y_) cheeks, nibbling neck, making the hairs on the back of your neck stand up...............

But mostly that lasts all of a few mins before I am flipped over and ravished :D

S x

Sabs, but whats wrong with starting meeting with a glass or two of wine? I always thought that was a right way. Then everything can flow after. ;-)

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Sabs, but whats wrong with starting meeting with a glass or two of wine? I always thought that was a right way. Then everything can flow after. ;-)

Because I do not particularly want to be all squiffy at 11am! I am such a lightweight.

I do sometimes share a glass of le vino in the bath if it is later in the arvo but I rarely work in the evenings.

S x

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My gut response to a suggestion by the guy to give me a massage would be one of alarm, especially where no prior rapport has been built up via email correspondence or phone calls.

Hmm, a client that I probably had never spoken to until that day suggests I lie down flat on my tummy with my face against the pillow, then pins me down with 200 lbs of weight. A lady turning down a massage doesn't necessarily mean things aren't going to go well, surely. You never turn your back on a stranger or put yourself in a position of disadvantage. If the guy came with the intention of attacking and robbing the lady, she's f*cked the moment she consents.

There's one idiot called The Pillow Man and that's one of his boasted modus operandus for successfully over-powering working girls. Whether he has actually done any of what he claims or not is a matter for debate, but it did make me take a step back the first time he made one of his menacing phone calls outlying his strategy for unprotected anal rape.

Other details of what he boasts to do I won't go into here. But any lady that has read the numerous warnings about Christopher Pillow Man (I haven't had a call from him for over a while now) will have alarm bells ringing if a guy she hasn't had a chance to get comfy with offers to give her a massage. It sounds harmless enough, but ...

Untrained massages can also be dangerous and men have powerful hands even with the best of intentions. An ex hurt my neck and rendered me unable to move a muscle by the following day during a so-called massage. He belonged to the "it-has-to-hurt-to-be-really-working" school of massage thought.

A client did give me a massage recently. He'd fired off a couple of rounds and had a massage from me, then offered me one in the time left over as he clearly wasn't going to rise to the occasion again. By then, it was the most natural offer in the world so I didn't have to think twice. He was actually trained and it was lovely.

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Pru

I reply with "How about I give the massage?"

Basically, so I can control the time and get alot of sneaky gropes, licks and kisses in :D

BTW, if she responds with no for her receiving a massage, thats a big warning sign that its not going to go well in my experience.

Whenever she asks what I like when she turns up I just respond with "hmmm, how about we just go with the flow".

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Some of the gents I've seen come back partly for the massage. I often get asked if I'm trained - I'm not, but don't see the point in doing something half heartedly.

Since it involves elements of senuous teasing and body to body contact, it somehow falls flat if given after a guy has come - though is very appropriate as a 'reawakener' midway through a session.

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Well, I am a trained masseuse. And am pretty good I'm told. But a proper massage is not really all that sexy. Relaxing, certainly. Enjoyable, pleasurable. But my focus shifts to a different place when I touch somebody sexually, sensually. When I massage, Im thinking about making them feel good of course, but I'm thinking about the interplay of the muscles, the knots and bumps in their back, its all about soothing, not arousing. If someone wants a massage, I'm really happy to do that, but I don't offer it, especially right at the beginning. Have offered it as a sort of bonus package at the end before though.

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Its often a timewasting tactic in my experience, if i wanted a massage i would of booked one. I agree with you about it is like it is all set out, that wont wash with me, i know exactly what i require and clarify this before handing my cash over.

Wise words, take note, can I just add , take a look around the room and say ,

" but you haven't got a massage table ? "

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I find it's often just part of a girls routine and the more mechanical punts I've had have began with a massage. However, I generally do enjoy it sometimes. If the girl has a nice touch, it's a great way to break the ice and ease into a punt. I've actually found a few times I enjoy it too much and end up wasting a bit too much time on the massage!

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A part of my service is the massage, as I include a b2b massage as part of my gfe.

I will start of rubbing myself all over your back, running my hair, nipples, fanny, fingers, fingernails, dry humping your leg, reaching underneath, nibbling your (_Y_) cheeks, nibbling neck, making the hairs on the back of your neck stand up...............

OK Sabs, I'm convinced that some girls know how to give a decent "get me in the mood" massage :D (starts looking at the train timetable for London to York ;) )

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OK Sabs, I'm convinced that some girls know how to give a decent "get me in the mood" massage :D (starts looking at the train timetable for London to York ;) )

LOL. You are so easily enticed. :-)

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I rarely start with a massage and prefer to start with a little striptease /lapdance ect but a massage at the start if done in the right way can be as sexy as hell and if it what the guys wants then that ok but most are happy to go with the striptease /lapdance option

often the massage is after the first bit of fun as a way to relax /chill for a few mins before moving on to hopefully round 2 and then another massage

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