gibert2

How To Get A Thai Wg Girlfriend

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I'm on number 3 now with a 4th on the boil.

I've posted re the first one some time ago.

I can't say names but all 4 are still listed on the usual sites.

It's become somewhat of an addiction to get the words "I love you" - not a healthy one.

How to get one?

1) The overnight. It's possible but bloody difficult to engage on any level other than raw sex in your typical one hour appointment. The girls like long appointments, there is the opportunity to relax and I find outcalls even more likeable from t he girls perspective because if you Iive alone like me they get the opportunity to play house. No Thai girl will leave without washing up. It's a cultural imperative. At the end of the day time to talk, fuck, laugh, drink, eat is the raw essence of any relationship and the overnight is this in microcosm.

2) Sex. It can't be all about the sex. I like overnights because for me a lot of great sex is in the head. If I like someone I just have better sex. The girls do too. Getting away from the hourly bang bang bang of their Paddington flat is a relief. And talking about real stuff is a joy. There are several topics which after you've spent some time with Thai w.g's will be key things in their life. Their immigration status, how much money they owe for getting here (first 3 months of their time here) , their kid/kids, where they've worked in the world, etc . You'll pick all this up, - but these are the things uppermost in their mind. Aside from food another abiding obsession...oh and cleaning. It is all very interesting and makes for an intimacy that goes beyond the frantic fuckfest that is their daily life.

3) Direct contact. This is the bit agencies hate. And will punish girls, no jobs, if they find out. So approach cautiously and with discretion. I don't ask for numbers, if we exchange numbers I make it very clear that if she wants me too I'll book her through the agency. And if you're still paying for time really it makes no odds. While the agency picks up 50 of the 150, the girls would rather give up the 50 than risk the wrath of no jobs for a month. But when you get direct contact there is a real opportunity for the relationship to develop. It's absolutely the case that a lot of the girls feel very lonely, never venturing beyond the block they live on. Well you can imagine can't you, it must feel pretty soulless at times. So if you're nice things go from there. And there is a point here which is BE NICE. I like to think that punter net punters get this, but oh boy there are some really quite unpleasant men out there.

Ok my made up 3 rules

So you've spent a lot of time in each others paid company, you know each other, the sex is great (and it needs to be but maybe not in the full anal, cum in face way - bear in mind that's like every appointment!) and you're talking and texting outside of this time.

Well at some point you will find yourself in a relationship

The three I have had, one is still ongoing, were characterised by

1) Love - they will say they love you. All 3 said that. And I believe them

2) Money - this will change. One of mine refused all cash whatsoever. Took a holiday for a day or two if she wanted to see me. For her cash soiled what we had. This went so far that if

necessary she would pay the agency fee per hour to fit me in. In effect those hours with me cost her 50quid an hour. Another one asked for no money but when I offered a gift , took it and why not. I can afford it. And she needs the money. Rents for w.g's are atrociously high. And she had a bond to pay. The least I could do. The third had a very different view which was a kind of discounted rate. More on her though in the "why you shouldn't go out with a Thai w.g" bit

3) Sex - you find out actually what they like. And oh boy it's very different from what you saw in that first appointment. Blow job queen actually hates giving blow jobs. The orgasm you gave through oral sex in the other appointment was faked - she can't bear people going down on her etc. Don't get me wrong the sex is wonderful and the technical aspects which they've had to oractise combined with the passion of a love based relationship is just great.

I've banged on too much and have to run, I'll follow up with a "why you shouldn't" post shortly for anyone who is interested

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What you're describing in terms of immigration status, what they owe for getting here, punishment for direct contact with a punter, payment of her bond, hates giving blow jobs etc etc sounds very much like someone who's been trafficked.

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Well trafficked covers a range of stuff

Most Thai girls in London pay to get her - about £30,000

They pay it back through working

They came entirely voluntarily though obviously it's not a nice topic

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Well trafficked covers a range of stuff

Most Thai girls in London pay to get her - about £30,000

They pay it back through working

They came entirely voluntarily though obviously it's not a nice topic

The problem is what happens if they get sick and cant work, i imagine their traffickers/controllers or associates dont pay sick pay and dont like losing the money she is making for them.

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The problem is what happens if they get sick and cant work, i imagine their traffickers/controllers or associates dont pay sick pay and dont like losing the money she is making for them.

There are lots of issues with it yes

But then I think to view the punting universe as happy hookerville is naive - I'm not suggesting you are by the way

The girls borrow the money to come, then pay it back when they're here. Then everything they earn is for them

They come voluntarily, though economics guide this as they do to degree for all of us

It wasn't the intention of the post to dwell on this but for anyone who visits Thai w.g's in London you should consider that this is the reality

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More on this in "why you shouldn't"

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It's become somewhat of an addiction to get the words "I love you".

I don't understand why you would set out to do this.

There seems to be a lot of unpleasant delusion going on here.

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I don't understand why you would set out to do this.

There seems to be a lot of unpleasant delusion going on here.

You should give him credit. Maybe he was never loved. Maybe he will pay any amount to hear those words. Come to think of it there maybe opportunities for new services for WGs. I can already see the acronyms under the list of services "ILU"

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I sense yet another row brewing for this thread and maybe that's more "why you shouldn't" :rolleyes:

There'll be more debates about the nature of trafficking; questions as to why the OP feels the need to share this in the first place; lots of sweepng generalisations made and disagreement on all sides. Still....if it keeps you entertained......yawn....

I might just sneak a peek to watch the drama unfold....I can't help myself :)

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Delusion - possibly?

Unpleasant? Jimmy - I hardly think so

Unhealthy - undoubtedly

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Delusion - possibly?

Unpleasant? Jimmy - I hardly think so

Unhealthy - undoubtedly

Gilbert.........more please..........fascinating and educational !

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It Is true that Thai girls In London do get bored, and many find a friendly guy to spend time with. Gibert you must be very handsome man to have 4! :)

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Well trafficked covers a range of stuff

Most Thai girls in London pay to get her - about £30,000

They pay it back through working

They came entirely voluntarily though obviously it's not a nice topic

Just because the only way for them to come get here was to volantarily tie themselves to a bonding contract does not mean that they are not trafficked, and it most certainly means that they are exploited. You should read back on some of the Thai girl orientated threads.

On another note why someone would specifically target a working girl for a girlfriend yet again amazes me, for what reason would you choose a thai wg over another thai girl who is not in the industry. Is it just because you can forgo the usual social quaqmire and get to meet them easier than another girl?

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Gilbert.........more please..........fascinating and educational !

Seconded ! :)

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Just because the only way for them to come get here was to volantarily tie themselves to a bonding contract does not mean that they are not trafficked, and it most certainly means that they are exploited. You should read back on some of the Thai girl orientated threads.

On another note why someone would specifically target a working girl for a girlfriend yet again amazes me, for what reason would you choose a thai wg over another thai girl who is not in the industry. Is it just because you can forgo the usual social quaqmire and get to meet them easier than another girl?

Chloe has a strong point here. Why would you want to look for a thai wg to be your girlfriend ? She is here to work and send money home, she doesn't need these distractions.

Take a trip to the temple at wimbledon this sunday for the UK songkran festival. Lots of TG there. But they will be with friends so that would make it more of a challenge to meet one. It's taking the easy option to get a wg.

BTW gibert, when she says " I love you " does she say it in english or in her native language ? IMO there is a big difference.

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Just because the only way for them to come get here was to volantarily tie themselves to a bonding contract does not mean that they are not trafficked, and it most certainly means that they are exploited. You should read back on some of the Thai girl orientated threads.

On another note why someone would specifically target a working girl for a girlfriend yet again amazes me, for what reason would you choose a thai wg over another thai girl who is not in the industry. Is it just because you can forgo the usual social quaqmire and get to meet them easier than another girl?

Well just on this - this is an immigration scam. The girls borrow the 30k to pay for the visa.

Now who they borrow off determines a lot I think

In almost every instance it's someone they know. A lot borrow off girls who have retired. A lot of girls currently working will lend to get another girl over here and she pays them back. I know two instances where they have borrowed from family

I have never come across any "mr bigs" - it's a personal industry. If there is a mr big it's the guy picking up the cash to sort immigration

The girls come here because they know they will make a lot of money after they have paid the 30k back. They have almost all worked before. From Bangkok to Singapore, to japan Australia. Almost all are 30+

Now it's not a pretty tale, and we all have to make moral judgements about stuff ourselves in this game, but for me this is not a trafficking story

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Oh and sorry on the why not a non working Thai girl?

There aren't any

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Chloe has a strong point here. Why would you want to look for a thai wg to be your girlfriend ? She is here to work and send money home, she doesn't need these distractions.

Take a trip to the temple at wimbledon this sunday for the UK songkran festival. Lots of TG there. But they will be with friends so that would make it more of a challenge to meet one. It's taking the easy option to get a wg.

BTW gibert, when she says " I love you " does she say it in english or in her native language ? IMO there is a big difference.

I think that's nonsense ( by the way I love your field reports)

She doesn't need distractions? Actually everyone needs a break from work. The last thing most girls want to do on their day off is hang out at their flat with the girl they share with. I would not consider myself a distraction, but a break.

I'm not big on judging love just on saying it but by the behaviour that goes with it

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Oh and sorry on the why not a non working Thai girl?

There aren't any

??????

There are plenty of 'non working' Thai girls here.

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Oh and sorry on the why not a non working Thai girl?

There aren't any

What? I thought you knew a little about TG untill I read that. So all TG here in London are wg. Funny only yesterday a thai non wg asked me where can she find an english bf ? I have been asked this same question many times. Even can I recommend a friend. I couldn't help her ,I am a lot older than her . She is 23 years old and in this country only 3 weeks.

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Well I don't know much about non working Thai girls, I just have never come across any...

Where do they hang out? Advice here could bring this potentially unhealthy punting quest to an end

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Oh and sorry on the why not a non working Thai girl?

There aren't any

Oh Really?

I work in Local Government and I am aware of 3 care workers in my Local Authority who are Thai.

My late wife was a nurse and worked with a couple of Thai nurses in her Essex hospital. Im still quite friendly with one of them actually.

Also my dentist has a dental nurse from Thailand.

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I'm sorry. Everyone seems to know Thai girls but me. I got that wrong

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Oh and sorry on the why not a non working Thai girl?

There aren't any

So all the female staff, in every Thai restaurant throughout the country, is also on the menu? I think not.

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Well I don't know much about non working Thai girls, I just have never come across any...

Where do they hang out? Advice here could bring this potentially unhealthy punting quest to an end

I work with one Thai girl in my office. She's late 20's and a smart lady. Came over here to study, got a degree, got a good job. Often socialise with her and have met some other of her other Thai friends with respectable (if that is the right word) city jobs. If you'd like to meet one, they can often be found hanging around in Louis Vuitton stores :P As well as a habit for expensive handbags and sunglasses, as you alluded to yourself, their other weakness is food. Take a walk through chinatown or earls court and you hear countless telltale Kaa'ing. Can also be found in the vicinity of universities and tourist hotspots on the lookout for a handsum man to take a photo for them and their friends :)

As WorldPunter said, the new year festival will attract them in their droves to the temple in Wimbledon, but it does feel a little wrong to advise somebody to go on the pull at a temple.

Still looking forward to the 'why not' post.

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