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Asking For Id/being Asked

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I was just wondering, following on from one of the Age Threads...I obviously would NEVER see anyone under 18 but there have been a few Guys that I have asked for ID from because they just look soooooo young!!

Ladies...Have you ever had to ask a Client for ID? Did you feel awkward about it?

Clients...Have you ever been asked for ID and how did you feel about it? Were you insulted?

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My regular was tellimg me recently she was visited by a young lad who looked 13 but swore he was 19 and wanted a "MILF" experience. She sent him off to get some ID - he came back with his licence that showed he was indeed 19. I don't think she was too enthusuaiastic but did see him. The ladies oldest client (not me!!) is 86!!

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I have had enquiries from guys saying they are young and/or look young and have warned them that I will need to see ID as I have no wish to break the law. Funnily enough, none have ever actually turned up!

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I was just wondering, following on from one of the Age Threads...I obviously would NEVER see anyone under 18 but there have been a few Guys that I have asked for ID from because they just look soooooo young!!

Ladies...Have you ever had to ask a Client for ID? Did you feel awkward about it?

Clients...Have you ever been asked for ID and how did you feel about it? Were you insulted?

Never been asked for it and if i was it would be a definite no, punting for me is anoynomous and i choose who i tell and i respect the WGs anoynomity unless she wants to tell me her real identity. I am 46 so questions of being old enough arent relevant and werent ever even when i started punting at 19. :)

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I would ask to see ID if a guy turned up who looked under 18. It's not happened yet. I would of course allow the client to cover up his name on the ID, all I need to see is a birth date alongside a photo, the rest of the information isn't important.

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Is it illegal for a WG to take money from a 16-17 year old male?

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i believe it is illegal to buy or sell sex under the age of 18 and i guess it'd be like selling booze to under 18s - illegal.

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I know it's illegal to sell sex if you are under 18, and it's also illegal for a man to pay for sex with anyone under the age of 18. I don't however believe it is illegal for a boy under 18 to pay for sex, it is however illegal for a woman to have sex with a boy under the age of consent (16).

I have a lower age limit of 18, whilst I know that it would be legal to see a boy of 17 it's a risk I'm not willing to take plus that could invite angry parents should they find out..........and let's face it 17 year olds do find it difficult to keep secrets, especially about sex lives.

So I do ask for ID if a guy is only 19 or 20, and I think this is justified. Recently had 2 bookings from 19 year olds. The first one was concerned he would be turned away at my door for looking too young. I reassured him that if he brought ID there would be nothing to worry about, but he kept on bringing this up. At the time I started to wonder if he was actually 19 or indeed younger since he said he had no problems showing me ID. Sounded as if he'd been knocked back maybe in off-licences, or clubs before.

There are 2 other situations I would insist on ID, those are a person insisting on using a withheld or payphone number. As it is I now have software on my phone which rejects withhelds, so that isn't something that comes up any more!

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I know it's illegal to sell sex if you are under 18, and it's also illegal for a man to pay for sex with anyone under the age of 18. I don't however believe it is illegal for a boy under 18 to pay for sex, it is however illegal for a woman to have sex with a boy under the age of consent (16).

AFAIK it's not illegal for someone to 'sell sex' if aged under 18. It is, however, a serious criminal offence to control someone under 18 for the purposes of prostitution:

http://sw5.info/law/

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I don't have this problem. One look at me and a girl is more likely to want to see my senior's rail card <_<

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AFAIK it's not illegal for someone to 'sell sex' if aged under 18. It is, however, a serious criminal offence to control someone under 18 for the purposes of prostitution:

http://sw5.info/law/

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This is on the same page;

It is illegal to pay for otherwise legal sex with someone who is 16 or 17. It is a defence to have a reasonable belief that they are at least 18 unless they are, in fact, under 13.

So this makes it illegal for the client to pay for sex with someone under 18. I also thought is was illegal to control anyone's prostitution, regardless of age.

Edited by Strawberry

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This is on the same page;

It is illegal to pay for otherwise legal sex with someone who is 16 or 17. It is a defence to have a reasonable belief that they are at least 18 unless they are, in fact, under 13.

So this makes it illegal for the client to pay for sex with someone under 18. I also thought is was illegal to control anyone's prostitution, regardless of age.

Re-read my post: I wasn't disputing the point that it's illegal to pay someone for sex who is under 18. I was specifically referring to the person selling sex (and indeed quoted your original words in my reply).

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Re-read my post: I wasn't disputing the point that it's illegal to pay someone for sex who is under 18. I was specifically referring to the person selling sex (and indeed quoted your original words in my reply).

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Yes I did read your post, and that was the meaning I got too. I was just clarifying it by pulling out the wording.

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Yes I did read your post, and that was the meaning I got too. I was just clarifying it by pulling out the wording.

Fair enough. :)

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I am 46 so questions of being old enough arent relevant

I must admit that it's been a while since I have been "carded" in a pub and it has never happened to me on a punt :D .

I was astonished last year though when one WG from the other site left me feedback calling me a "lovely young man" :blink: . I must be at least 20 years older than her :D .

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I don't have this problem. One look at me and a girl is more likely to want to see my senior's rail card <_<

Know what you mean Jack,if only they would ask for ID would make my day BUTLER.

I bought a bottle of scotch in ASDA recently and the lady asked if i was 21,mind you she was laughing like a drain at the time!!

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I remember once chatting to a client after the event and giving him some advice as he said his wife had just had a baby. He looked about 19 or 20, later during the conversation he revealed that he was actually 37 :o, did i feel silly...oh yes.

We dont get many clients that look under age but we did have to ask to friends for ID who arrived her the other day, they were 18 thankfully.

I also had a guy phone this week to make a booking, just as I was about to say good bye he said that the bookin was for someone who was almost 18, I had to explain that he couldnt have the booking. Sounded like an older man on the phone so I suspect it was Dad trying to make sure his son lost his cherry before he go much further in life.

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I was just wondering, following on from one of the Age Threads...I obviously would NEVER see anyone under 18 but there have been a few Guys that I have asked for ID from because they just look soooooo young!!

Ladies...Have you ever had to ask a Client for ID? Did you feel awkward about it?

Clients...Have you ever been asked for ID and how did you feel about it? Were you insulted?

At 63 I woul be delighted to be asked for ID !

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Is it illegal for a WG to take money from a 16-17 year old male?

I'm not sure - I've never had a definite 'no' answer so until I get one from a lawyer I'm sticking to my no under 18s rule :P Given that the bulk of my advertising is through 'the other site' and contains pay to view explicit galleries, under 18s shouldn't really be seeing my details at all as that definitely is illegal. My site doesn't currently contain any nudity so I guess if they approached through there it might be legal - I honestly don't know and I don't want to take any risks.

I figured it would probably be illegal is it is not permitted to sell pornography to 16/17 year olds - surely selling a full contact sexual service would be 'worse' than porn, not better? It would seem logical but then again the law often isn't, particularly when it comes to sex.

Even if it's legal, I don't think I'd be comfortable seeing someone that young. I don't ever have personal partners under 18 and haven't since I turned 18 myself, it feels all kinds of wrong.

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If I looked young enough that girl would ask for my ID I wont need to buy sex, i could borrow it for free!!!

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I've asked for ID before, but it doesn't happen often. I didn't feel awkward at all, I think it's a mutual agreement with a WG that you are of a responsible age and so is she (amongst other things). I would have no problem if somebody asked me for ID even though the agency will check as long as I have it on me and can cover my full real name.

I was sure it was illegal to see somebody under 18 as an escort, but even if it wasn't I wouldn't see a client under 18 anyway. Never been asked for ID myself, but because I am quite young I have had funny looks! Lol!

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It's funny, last night I met a guy who was 20 odd or so, (nothing to do with punting), but by his height and looks I'd have said 13 / 14, I imagine most WGs meeting him would have asked for id.

Edited by mike52

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Is it illegal for a WG to take money from a 16-17 year old male?

This was discussed pretty thoroughly on this thread (or as I like to think of it, SaSfan's last stand :D ) about 6 months ago.

The general consensus was that it is not illegal for someone in that age bracket to pay for sex, but it was never absolutely proven by reference to anything I would regard as legal precedent.

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This was discussed pretty thoroughly on this thread (or as I like to think of it, SaSfan's last stand :D ) about 6 months ago.

The general consensus was that it is not illegal for someone in that age bracket to pay for sex, but it was never absolutely proven by reference to anything I would regard as legal precedent.

Saying "a very apt word" in response to Tiggys post of "Quitter" SaSfan bowed out not yet to post again. :)

Edited by smiths

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In the US, upon a first visit, it is customary for the client to produce some sort of identification, usually a driver's license, and answer some questions in order to verify that you aren't law enforcement. This is because the the proposed commercial transaction is illegal except in certain rural counties of Nevada.

I believe that this also done so the lady can quickly memorize the name or something to identify if someone becomes violent.

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