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About five years ago, I used to visit a (so-called and ostensible) legitimate masseuse. At first, she would wear a uniform, and just perform muscle relaxing massages, with some aromatherapy. As a (again supposed) legitimate massuese, she advertised in a sports massage booklet I picked up in the local gym.

However, I think she probably caught me excited (if one gets my meaning) one time. Legitimate massueses are trained to ignore it, as it happens from time to time, but after about 5 sessions or so, she told me to wear a towel and come into another room for additional treatments. I presumed it was just relaxation techniques she wanted to demonstrate, but she led me into a bedroom, took off my towel, took out a condom from a drawer and got on top. She said afterwards that she only did it for select clients, but I was wondering is it common for seemingly legitimate massuesses to offer "normal" massage services initially, but move on to extras afterwards?

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I wouldn't think so. Maybe she just really, really fancied you. Did she ask for money ( I mean 'extra' money) first? This is just my 2 cents worth, but I'm a trained masseuse as well, and if I'm doing a therapeutic massage, I'm not really thinking about sex. I'm thinking about the knots in the muscles, and the anatomy and physiology of their body, how to make everything smooth and relaxed (as opposed to...em...stiff and aroused). If it's in a sexual situation my focus is just different. In fact, when I worked as a massage therapist in a sports centre, I sometimes massaged guys I found really physically attractive, and it is soooo bloody distracting.

Was this at her place, or your place? If it was at a gym, there wouldn't be a bedroom I imagine. And it's a pretty risky thing to do really. As you say, it happens sometimes, it wouldn't always mean the guy wants to shag you, its a physiological response to pleasure...or is that me being naive? Is like being a nurse and guys getting a hardon when you wash them. And I'm perfectly aware that the nurse 'helping you out' with that is a big fantasy. If she actually did, it might be a very different matter, when you are lying there poorly and helpless. Lol, or am I just making it even more attractive sounding?

I wouldn't think it's common at all, but I'll be really interested to hear what other people say.

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Happened to me one time in a health spa. Had a regular massage and I was getting on well with the girl and we were quite flirty. At the end she offered HR. I said no (I had a punt booked later that day anyway). Then she indicated if I wanted sex. Of course I took her up on the offer. She left the room for a few minutes and came back with a condom, checking the corridor outside first . She dropped her knickers and hitched up her dress but not completely undress. Took off the condom wrapper taking care to hide it from sight.

Great shag and asked me for my number after (I didn't give it).

No extra charge and I think we just fancied each other. So it can happen but I'd have not said yes to a shag with her if I had not been a seasoned punter.

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I wouldn't think so. Maybe she just really, really fancied you. Did she ask for money ( I mean 'extra' money) first? This is just my 2 cents worth, but I'm a trained masseuse as well, and if I'm doing a therapeutic massage, I'm not really thinking about sex. I'm thinking about the knots in the muscles, and the anatomy and physiology of their body, how to make everything smooth and relaxed (as opposed to...em...stiff and aroused). If it's in a sexual situation my focus is just different. In fact, when I worked as a massage therapist in a sports centre, I sometimes massaged guys I found really physically attractive, and it is soooo bloody distracting.

Was this at her place, or your place? If it was at a gym, there wouldn't be a bedroom I imagine. And it's a pretty risky thing to do really. As you say, it happens sometimes, it wouldn't always mean the guy wants to shag you, its a physiological response to pleasure...or is that me being naive? Is like being a nurse and guys getting a hardon when you wash them. And I'm perfectly aware that the nurse 'helping you out' with that is a big fantasy. If she actually did, it might be a very different matter, when you are lying there poorly and helpless. Lol, or am I just making it even more attractive sounding?

I wouldn't think it's common at all, but I'll be really interested to hear what other people say.

It was at her place.

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About five years ago, I used to visit a (so-called and ostensible) legitimate masseuse. At first, she would wear a uniform, and just perform muscle relaxing massages, with some aromatherapy. As a (again supposed) legitimate massuese, she advertised in a sports massage booklet I picked up in the local gym.

However, I think she probably caught me excited (if one gets my meaning) one time. Legitimate massueses are trained to ignore it, as it happens from time to time, but after about 5 sessions or so, she told me to wear a towel and come into another room for additional treatments. I presumed it was just relaxation techniques she wanted to demonstrate, but she led me into a bedroom, took off my towel, took out a condom from a drawer and got on top. She said afterwards that she only did it for select clients, but I was wondering is it common for seemingly legitimate massuesses to offer "normal" massage services initially, but move on to extras afterwards?

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I wouldn't think so. Maybe she just really, really fancied you. Did she ask for money ( I mean 'extra' money) first? This is just my 2 cents worth, but I'm a trained masseuse as well, and if I'm doing a therapeutic massage, I'm not really thinking about sex. I'm thinking about the knots in the muscles, and the anatomy and physiology of their body, how to make everything smooth and relaxed (as opposed to...em...stiff and aroused). If it's in a sexual situation my focus is just different. In fact, when I worked as a massage therapist in a sports centre, I sometimes massaged guys I found really physically attractive, and it is soooo bloody distracting.

Was this at her place, or your place? If it was at a gym, there wouldn't be a bedroom I imagine. And it's a pretty risky thing to do really. As you say, it happens sometimes, it wouldn't always mean the guy wants to shag you, its a physiological response to pleasure...or is that me being naive? Is like being a nurse and guys getting a hardon when you wash them. And I'm perfectly aware that the nurse 'helping you out' with that is a big fantasy. If she actually did, it might be a very different matter, when you are lying there poorly and helpless. Lol, or am I just making it even more attractive sounding?

I wouldn't think it's common at all, but I'll be really interested to hear what other people say.

You have me totally confused there LS !!

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About five years ago, I used to visit a (so-called and ostensible) legitimate masseuse. At first, she would wear a uniform, and just perform muscle relaxing massages, with some aromatherapy. As a (again supposed) legitimate massuese, she advertised in a sports massage booklet I picked up in the local gym.

However, I think she probably caught me excited (if one gets my meaning) one time. Legitimate massueses are trained to ignore it, as it happens from time to time, but after about 5 sessions or so, she told me to wear a towel and come into another room for additional treatments. I presumed it was just relaxation techniques she wanted to demonstrate, but she led me into a bedroom, took off my towel, took out a condom from a drawer and got on top. She said afterwards that she only did it for select clients, but I was wondering is it common for seemingly legitimate massuesses to offer "normal" massage services initially, but move on to extras afterwards?

Well its never fookin* happened to me !! :angry:

I have gone for sensual massage with HR included which turned into non paid extras like DFK , some OWO and RO but sexual inter-action was always on the cards. I have not experienced the thrill of non paid sexual acts being introduced by a ' staright' masseuse -- money has always changed hands !:angry: Funny enough, when I know its supposed to be massage only , I seem to be able to control the 'excitement '.!

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I have visited quite a few physios, all female, some fanciable, but never got any sense that anything would develop, however one sent me to see her mate/colleague for deep tissue massage. Saw her a couple of times, and it was quite sore,the massage, but I actually got the sense that something was possible, she indicated that I had a tight lower back, blah blah, but I was seeing her for my neck. So I reckon if you had plenty of cash you could fairly soon find a massage therapist who would cross the line.I regret not keeping up the visits. There used to be a thread about this very topic on the other forum

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Well its never fookin* happened to me !! :angry:

I have gone for sensual massage with HR included which turned into non paid extras like DFK , some OWO and RO but sexual inter-action was always on the cards. I have not experienced the thrill of non paid sexual acts being introduced by a ' staright' masseuse -- money has always changed hands !:angry: Funny enough, when I know its supposed to be massage only , I seem to be able to control the 'excitement '.!

Nor me but i wouldnt of wanted it to in my scenario. I have seen physios for a back problem through my medical insurers and recommended by my doctor, i wouldnt imagine these ladies would offer extras, they certainly earn a very good living as it is. :)

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I`ve had unexpected hand relief before with a lady therapist who operated in the upstairs room of a beauty salon. Initially I went for a full body massage and nothing else, but ended up with 30 mins extra and a HE for no extra cost!

The massage was good and the jokes and chat flowed, I was covered by a towel throughout until towards the end when her massage started to go a little further up my leg followed by an accidental touch of my bits (followed by an apology). All this produced the inevitable `pitched tent`, at which point (without any encouragement from me) she whipped the towel off, grabbed some oil and gave me a lovely wank.

Afterwards, she texted me saying how much she had enjoyed massaging me and hoped I had enjoyed the massage also.

What made this experience even more exciting was the 3 or 4 other therapists downstairs, doing nails, waxes etc and the fact they probably had no idea what went on upstairs.

Sadly, I never got to return because it was quite a way from home so I have no idea whether this was a one off or not. All I know is we did hit it off and she seemed to take a shine to me.

Either way, it was happy days!

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You have me totally confused there LS !!

Sorry if I sounded a bit incoherent. What I was trying to say is that the focus is different when you are doing something for therapeutic reasons. If somebody has a neck or lower back absolutely full of knots and lumps and tension, Im thinking very differently about what I am doing with my hands than if I am stroking and thinking about sensual things.

And I think the chances of a crossover are slim. Not just as mentioned above, because therapeutic massage therapists, physios etc earn good money. But because its a different mindset, approach, and intention,

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This has happened to me on a number of occasions. Both times were legitimate masseuses from yellow pages. I saw one lady about three or four times, thought nothing on offer, then didn't see her for about two months. I went back (purely for a good massage), and the first thing she said was 'I thought I'd lost you'. I ended up spending four hours with this lady, a 1 hour massage, a bath massage and in her bed with great owo and sex. She was simply amazing. I saw her many, many times.

Another lady ended uop giving me HR every time I saw her, when the first two visits showed no signs of any extras. Even after an indian head massage she was crouch down and, take my pants off and wank me off in the seat.

Both ladies were mid 40s, slim and attractive. Happy days!

About five years ago, I used to visit a (so-called and ostensible) legitimate masseuse. At first, she would wear a uniform, and just perform muscle relaxing massages, with some aromatherapy. As a (again supposed) legitimate massuese, she advertised in a sports massage booklet I picked up in the local gym.

However, I think she probably caught me excited (if one gets my meaning) one time. Legitimate massueses are trained to ignore it, as it happens from time to time, but after about 5 sessions or so, she told me to wear a towel and come into another room for additional treatments. I presumed it was just relaxation techniques she wanted to demonstrate, but she led me into a bedroom, took off my towel, took out a condom from a drawer and got on top. She said afterwards that she only did it for select clients, but I was wondering is it common for seemingly legitimate massuesses to offer "normal" massage services initially, but move on to extras afterwards?

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I went to the doctors once with a sore throat and had my prostrate examined without request. Does that count ?

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I have been getting regular massage for over two decades now (both "legit" and sensual) and have had a few times where I've got more than I bargained for :D

Anyway, my all time best experiences was whilst I worked in Prague a few years back. Our offices were a few minutes walk from Wenceslas Square and I regularly went to a private gym/spa in the Pasaz by the Hotel Jalta. The masseuse was a lovely twenty something blond girl called Monika and a 2 hour session cost circa £15 :D Funnily enough I used to go pretty much every week, sometimes more frequently, and was able to be a good tipper without breaking the bank :P

During my first session I jumped on the table wearing my underpants (being a gym I didn't want to offend) and she scolded me for this on the basis that your glutes are your biggest muscle and need treatment too, so I was made to take them off. I didn't read anything into her not leaving the room whilst I did so as the Czechs are quite germanic in their attitude to nudity. I should also mention that the room was often extremely hot and she massaged in a tiny pair of toweling shorts and vest, very sexy indeed.

Over the course of a few weeks I developed a flirty relationship with Monika and although the first few sessions were entirely legit - despite the obvious tent when I turned over - it did start to become more and more sensual with more attention paid to the bum and inner thigh and the odd cc swipe. On, I think, the fourth session I chanced my arm and left the towel on the chair and lay face down undraped but she didn't bat an eyelid and when it came time to turn over, with an obvious erection, she didn't comment so I thought I was out of luck. However, after finishing the massage proper she proceeded, still without comment, to administer one of the most exquisite happy endings I'd ever had. From there on each session went a little further, touching through clothes, topless, naked (the first time I got my hands inside her toweling shorts was indeed a wonderful moment :D ), OWO and DFK until after 3 months and probably a dozen sessions I asked her if she would do outcall massage. She readily agreed to this (I later found out that she was only getting paid about £3/hour for the massage so this was a good deal for her as she would effectively get a days wages for one session) and mobile numbers were exchanged.

I agreed a Czk 1,000 (£20) rate for a 2 hour naturist massage and this was our arrangement twice a week for the next 6 months or so. The first session culminated in her slipping on a condom and mounting me and never looked back from there. I had a fabulous time with her over the rest of my stay in the country. A few weeks into these sessions she wanted to stop charging me as the massage had pretty much fallen by the wayside (and I would sometimes have to go see her at the gym to get a proper one :lol: ) but I insisted. After a while I found out that the reason that things had developed was because she was a single mum who had been treated badly by a succession of boyfriends, she hadn't had a boyfriend in a year and was lonely and horny. I struck it lucky because I had treated her nicely and with respect - and, of course, because there was chemistry.

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Whilst you are reading these stories, play this in the background for effect.

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Whilst you are reading these stories, play this in the background for effect.

:) Good advice - I just played the "Theme From Our Tune" while I read DirtyDen's touching story. I had tears in my eyes. :D

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I've found this to be a very interesting thread. I've been for a few massages, but all the sensual ones were clearly going to be sensual from the start.

All the non-sexual ones stayed non-sexual!

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I would guess that these are rare even if the masseuse fancies her client. For every punter getting normal massages, there's a lot more non punters, and they might not be as happy about it when being propositioned.

Approaching a client might both end the masseuse's job and give her a bad reputation.

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Can certainly relate to this. I envisage this made your stay one of the best times fo your life.

Being respectful is what most masseuse ladies respond very well too. Moreso because when things do, as it were, kick off, it is not purely sex, there is a degree of trust, mutual respect and it makes the sex far more pleasurable. For me, these are far better experiences than seeing escorts, in call or outcall.

They are far cheaper, and there is little chance of feeling like cr*p after having a bad punt.....with a 150 quid an hour, no kissing, no touching, cold, emotionally distant lady who often wants things over and done with..

'Next please'......

I have been getting regular massage for over two decades now (both "legit" and sensual) and have had a few times where I've got more than I bargained for :D

Anyway, my all time best experiences was whilst I worked in Prague a few years back. Our offices were a few minutes walk from Wenceslas Square and I regularly went to a private gym/spa in the Pasaz by the Hotel Jalta. The masseuse was a lovely twenty something blond girl called Monika and a 2 hour session cost circa £15 :D Funnily enough I used to go pretty much every week, sometimes more frequently, and was able to be a good tipper without breaking the bank :P

During my first session I jumped on the table wearing my underpants (being a gym I didn't want to offend) and she scolded me for this on the basis that your glutes are your biggest muscle and need treatment too, so I was made to take them off. I didn't read anything into her not leaving the room whilst I did so as the Czechs are quite germanic in their attitude to nudity. I should also mention that the room was often extremely hot and she massaged in a tiny pair of toweling shorts and vest, very sexy indeed.

Over the course of a few weeks I developed a flirty relationship with Monika and although the first few sessions were entirely legit - despite the obvious tent when I turned over - it did start to become more and more sensual with more attention paid to the bum and inner thigh and the odd cc swipe. On, I think, the fourth session I chanced my arm and left the towel on the chair and lay face down undraped but she didn't bat an eyelid and when it came time to turn over, with an obvious erection, she didn't comment so I thought I was out of luck. However, after finishing the massage proper she proceeded, still without comment, to administer one of the most exquisite happy endings I'd ever had. From there on each session went a little further, touching through clothes, topless, naked (the first time I got my hands inside her toweling shorts was indeed a wonderful moment :D ), OWO and DFK until after 3 months and probably a dozen sessions I asked her if she would do outcall massage. She readily agreed to this (I later found out that she was only getting paid about £3/hour for the massage so this was a good deal for her as she would effectively get a days wages for one session) and mobile numbers were exchanged.

I agreed a Czk 1,000 (£20) rate for a 2 hour naturist massage and this was our arrangement twice a week for the next 6 months or so. The first session culminated in her slipping on a condom and mounting me and never looked back from there. I had a fabulous time with her over the rest of my stay in the country. A few weeks into these sessions she wanted to stop charging me as the massage had pretty much fallen by the wayside (and I would sometimes have to go see her at the gym to get a proper one :lol: ) but I insisted. After a while I found out that the reason that things had developed was because she was a single mum who had been treated badly by a succession of boyfriends, she hadn't had a boyfriend in a year and was lonely and horny. I struck it lucky because I had treated her nicely and with respect - and, of course, because there was chemistry.

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:) Good advice - I just played the "Theme From Our Tune" while I read DirtyDen's touching story. I had tears in my eyes. :D

If Simon Bates could read that out it would be lovely. What would the tune afterwards be? 'Roxanne' by The Police would be too much of a cliche'.

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I would guess that these are rare even if the masseuse fancies her client. For every punter getting normal massages, there's a lot more non punters, and they might not be as happy about it when being propositioned.

Approaching a client might both end the masseuse's job and give her a bad reputation.

Agreed, that's why it takes a few appointments usually. I once asked a lady to give me HR, she seemed shocked, and told me no to ask, so I smiled, and asked again, saying 'I would not tell anyone, I promise'. She then proceeded to give me a lovely HR (quite expertly, I thought at the time).

I have certainly seen a few masseuses that showed no signs whatsoever after three apointments and I never go back.....mostly, unless the massage is excellent.

To know a masseuse has spent the last 45 or so minutes massaging your every muscle, then giving HR, and asking for another hour of massage (knowing HR will come again) is a great way to waste 2hrs. And alot cheaper than having sex with escorts.

Or even 3 hrs :)

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Well this is something that I find interesting. I have had various massages in different places and have to say if you treat the massuse with respect and dignity then there are often avenues towards a more sensual style of massage. And its not unheard of in some pretty clinical and above board places.

Working in Essex I used to go to a sports centre near romford and they had a massuse employed giving proper sports massages. She was european and the first few times was legit. the forth time she massaged my inner thighs and this aroused me significantly. ended up turning over with a bit of a boner but she carried on with - at the end she just smiled and asked if Id like to continue on with the massage. I didnt at the time as well didnt really know where ti was going. But a couple of times after that she did say that she would provide me with some localised relief. Somne oil applied and then an expertly applied handjob and not a quick rush to the goal but a prologed tease and some finger play on my ass at the same time.

Wroked on a contract near to baltimore and i think the yanks are more intune with happy endings and these are more common - but it still doesnt take away the excitement you get when you are being masaged by some twenties stunner who then asks if you want to be taken care of, nice and well you can get used to it enough that suddenly punting isnt as urgent as what a good massage is.

Ive been in a few legit places around here and ive had some luck there too - pretty nice when it happens and as I said it can be stunning ladies that carry out the treatment. non pushy and just a regular joe talking about life and things in general. after a few tretments the girl picks up some courage and sees a way to make an extra few quid - who am I to argue?

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If Simon Bates could read that out it would be lovely. What would the tune afterwards be? 'Roxanne' by The Police would be too much of a cliche'.

It has to be Conway Twitty with the punter's lament:

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What a bunch of cynical buggers :rolleyes:

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Good experiences. These days I am finding this less and less, as I am looking less and less. There are so many oriental type places that give this as part of the service, and the standard of massage is mostly superb.

Well this is something that I find interesting. I have had various massages in different places and have to say if you treat the massuse with respect and dignity then there are often avenues towards a more sensual style of massage. And its not unheard of in some pretty clinical and above board places.

Working in Essex I used to go to a sports centre near romford and they had a massuse employed giving proper sports massages. She was european and the first few times was legit. the forth time she massaged my inner thighs and this aroused me significantly. ended up turning over with a bit of a boner but she carried on with - at the end she just smiled and asked if Id like to continue on with the massage. I didnt at the time as well didnt really know where ti was going. But a couple of times after that she did say that she would provide me with some localised relief. Somne oil applied and then an expertly applied handjob and not a quick rush to the goal but a prologed tease and some finger play on my ass at the same time.

Wroked on a contract near to baltimore and i think the yanks are more intune with happy endings and these are more common - but it still doesnt take away the excitement you get when you are being masaged by some twenties stunner who then asks if you want to be taken care of, nice and well you can get used to it enough that suddenly punting isnt as urgent as what a good massage is.

Ive been in a few legit places around here and ive had some luck there too - pretty nice when it happens and as I said it can be stunning ladies that carry out the treatment. non pushy and just a regular joe talking about life and things in general. after a few tretments the girl picks up some courage and sees a way to make an extra few quid - who am I to argue?

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