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I've met a couple of Thai girls in London, and got sort of burned with one of them (she was down to fuck on the first day i met her... which blew my mind. But when she discovered I had little interest in hanging out with her, she sort went away and was really sad about it).

I have read up a bit too. I am still really interested in the country the culture and the girls. I've never been there.

I know most of you guys here have quite a lot of money to play with, but being younger than most here I have a bit less money to spend. Anyone have experience of getting a thai "girlfriend".

According to this

http://www.thmnews.com/living-with-a-thai-girlfriend-rules-and-salary-2.html

a going rate is 5,000 to 25,000 baht / month. Now to me the concept of paying for a girlfriend sounds utterly crazy. But if I go on holiday there and don't pull, it's nice to know there is a backup option.

I'm not looking to live out a porn fantasy. Basically I want company from a delightful girl who shines light whenever you meet her. Sounds really risky for falling in love, but I have enough experience with the issue of love that I'm not totally green. And anyway - if you're not constantly learning then what is life for.

Anyone got experience with the kind of thing I am looking for?

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Anyone got experience with the kind of thing I am looking for?

Thailand and the Thais are interesting! They are just about the only nation that was never colonised by a European power, so there isn't the same post-colonial hang-up. They eat with spoon and fork, not chop-sticks. Their rice is the best in the world. Their strange writing is unique. A girlfriend of mine met two Thai girls at a College of Domestic Economy (or somesuch) in Eastbourne (which surely means that father was seriously well heeled). They said, in unison, "We are learning to cook in order to please men!".

Most Thai businesses are actually run by women, although they are fronted by men. The women take making men happy very seriously.

Fifty years ago when I was in the Far East, it was generally understood that a reasonably pretty Thai virgin could be had, freehold, for about 5k baht, when a baht was 4d. Of course, at that price, you'd have to teach her English, and otherwise prepare her to share your life and bed.

Thai girls take loyalty seriously. Settle with one, and any other woman you play with is risking her life.

Good luck!

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What Is It you want, you want to live In Thailand and find a gf?

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sounds like he wants to go to Thailand and rent a girlfriend.

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I've met a couple of Thai girls in London, and got sort of burned with one of them (she was down to fuck on the first day i met her... which blew my mind. But when she discovered I had little interest in hanging out with her, she sort went away and was really sad about it).

I have read up a bit too. I am still really interested in the country the culture and the girls. I've never been there.

I know most of you guys here have quite a lot of money to play with, but being younger than most here I have a bit less money to spend. Anyone have experience of getting a thai "girlfriend".

According to this

http://www.thmnews.com/living-with-a-thai-girlfriend-rules-and-salary-2.html

a going rate is 5,000 to 25,000 baht / month. Now to me the concept of paying for a girlfriend sounds utterly crazy. But if I go on holiday there and don't pull, it's nice to know there is a backup option.

I'm not looking to live out a porn fantasy. Basically I want company from a delightful girl who shines light whenever you meet her. Sounds really risky for falling in love, but I have enough experience with the issue of love that I'm not totally green. And anyway - if you're not constantly learning then what is life for.

Anyone got experience with the kind of thing I am looking for?

The link that you have provided really is just an advert to get you to buy an e-book. Save your money. An 'idiot's guide to finding a Thai woman for sex' would be a better buy. Sorry, but finding a Thai girlfriend hardly requires a guidebook. :P Edited by Tiggy 7

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I'm still unsure what the OP Is asking for. Move to Thailand and find a gf?

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I'm still unsure what the OP Is asking for. Move to Thailand and find a gf?

He wants to go to Thailand for a length of time (unspecified) and keep a Thai mistress during that time.

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I think the concept to a non-working Thai lady of having a romantic encounter with a foreigner on holiday would be ludicrous, if not offensive.

If you want a temporary Thai girlfriend whilst on holiday then you will just have to pay for it, like everyone else.

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Thailand and the Thais are interesting! They are just about the only nation that was never colonised by a European power, so there isn't the same post-colonial hang-up. They eat with spoon and fork, not chop-sticks. Their rice is the best in the world. Their strange writing is unique. A girlfriend of mine met two Thai girls at a College of Domestic Economy (or somesuch) in Eastbourne (which surely means that father was seriously well heeled). They said, in unison, "We are learning to cook in order to please men!".

Most Thai businesses are actually run by women, although they are fronted by men. The women take making men happy very seriously.

Fifty years ago when I was in the Far East, it was generally understood that a reasonably pretty Thai virgin could be had, freehold, for about 5k baht, when a baht was 4d. Of course, at that price, you'd have to teach her English, and otherwise prepare her to share your life and bed.

Thai girls take loyalty seriously. Settle with one, and any other woman you play with is risking her life.

Good luck!

Thanks, very interesting, helpful post. :)

What Is It you want, you want to live In Thailand and find a gf?

Yes and just wondering what to be aware of. <_<

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Yes and just wondering what to be aware of. <_<

Well this question seems off topic to me, your asking about finding a gf In LOS.

1. Have you ever been to Thailand?

2. How long would you plan on staying there?

3. What will you do there? You know It's difficult to legally work there? Unless you become an English teacher.

You could get a student visa, and enroll In a Intensive Thai course.

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Your Thai 'girlflend' whom you will be supporting with your hard earned cash will have other 'boyflends' who will be doing the same and she will be telling all of them 'love you long time'. They are great to rent as long as you realise that when you're not renting, someone else will be. If you expect loyalty then you will be disappointed.

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Your Thai 'girlflend' whom you will be supporting with your hard earned cash will have other 'boyflends' who will be doing the same and she will be telling all of them 'love you long time'. They are great to rent as long as you realise that when you're not renting, someone else will be. If you expect loyalty then you will be disappointed.

If you mean sponsoring a bargirl then yes that would be a bad Idea, best to rent by the day.

But If the OP wants to live In Thailand then he could no doubt find a gf, most thai girls aren't bargirls.

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If you mean sponsoring a bargirl then yes that would be a bad Idea, best to rent by the day.

But If the OP wants to live In Thailand then he could no doubt find a gf, most thai girls aren't bargirls.

Well said! :)

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Having recently moved to SE Asia, I have seen a bit but can't say I'm that experienced.

My experience is that there is a wide variety of choice and a wide variety of cost comes with it.

The one thing I've noticed when I go with young or inexperienced westerners is that they are not used the attention and "love" that is showered upon them by these pretty hot girls. They laugh at your jokes, help serve/feed you and are very pleasant people to be around. The abiding thing several of my inexperienced friends have said is that they have fallen in love and want something to develop. They also say that the girl has shown a willingness to leave her life. They are very good at this - it's their job. You are there for a good time, they have a good time and earn cash - you could look at it simply as that.

From reading your post you appear interested in a long time gf - someone who stays with you adoringly until you leave. Then she doesn't pester you once you've gone through immigration and then when you come (with the cash) back she reappears just as adoring as when you left.

Short time girls can become long time girls.

Just bear in mind one thing - having talked to a fair number of girls, they say that us guys from the West prefer to go bb - so even if this isn't true please be careful.

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Yep this is an interesting subject for which there are no reliable statistics or easy answers :unsure:

There is no reason y a long term relationship with a girl from SEA shud not work out, but anecdotal evidence suggests that most don't :(

I don't believe it really matters whether the girl is a WG or not. The important thing is that both partners are prepared to make the effort to understand and appreci8 each other's cultural differences and try and master the language of the country they have chosen to live in. It also helps if both partners r compatible in the 1st place and not deluding themselves with false notions of true love and wealth <_<

Give it a go-go but tread carefully B)

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Yep this is an interesting subject for which there are no reliable statistics or easy answers :unsure:

There is no reason y a long term relationship with a girl from SEA shud not work out, but anecdotal evidence suggests that most don't :(

I don't believe it really matters whether the girl is a WG or not. The important thing is that both partners are prepared to make the effort to understand and appreci8 each other's cultural differences and try and master the language of the country they have chosen to live in. It also helps if both partners r compatible in the 1st place and not deluding themselves with false notions of true love and wealth <_<

Give it a go-go but tread carefully B)

That Is true, you can meet a gf there, but It's a big leap for the OP to jump on a plane and start a new life In Bkk, If or not he has any experience to begin with.

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