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Do You Keep Your Punting A Secret.... The Poll

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  1. 1. Have you told your friends and family that you are a sex worker or visit sex workers?

    • I am a sex worker and some friends or family know
      12
    • I am a sex worker, but only other sex workers & clients know
      3
    • I am a punter and some friends or family know
      62
    • I am a punter and nobody knows outside of PunterNet
      244

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Following on from MullRob "Wg Is Your Career A Complete Secret To Everyone " I was just wondering if WGs and WBs, (incl. TVs & TSs), are more likely to feel comfortable telling people about it than punters are. There are a few girls on here that are proud of what they do and I know a few that were quite happy to tell all their close friends. And why not? But I can't imagine ever telling anyone not in the industry that I regularly pay for sex .

Is the difference because paying for it is worse than being paid? Or am I just chicken while other guys are happy to be honest?

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BTW, if all your friends are sex workers then telling them is cheating for the purposes of this poll!

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Seven of my friends know about my hobby. Four of them visit working girls as well. Another one is married and has confided in me that he's having a relationship. The other two sometimes I go with them to lap dancing clubs but they aren't interested in visiting WGs.

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I'd be too embarrassed to tell friends so i've only told my mum, wife and daughters

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I'd be too embarrassed to tell friends so i've only told my mum, wife and daughters

Never tell them! You'll never be able to use lack of money as an excuse not to take them shopping ever again!

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I expect the police know everyone here, and there real names/addresses/dna etc. It's quite hard to keep anything a secret these days of the internet, wiki leaks etc

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I've only ever told 2 friends that i punted a couple of times and if i told them the full extent of my punting habit they would probably give me a good kick up the arse.

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i would think half the town know i punt and most would love to do it to, more so the married guys haha, some still think the escort girls as street walkers until i show them there sexy pics, jealous as fuck they are then, just wished i lived in a bigger town so i could see lots more travel for some girls is to far,

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Never tell family,

Only told some friends,and always sharing experience for good punted.

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I let all my WG's know that i see Escorts :o

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I regularly see a girl who has told some of her friends (all girls), they are of course intrigued to know what goes on. My WG says that some have asked/inquired to get involved but she has always dissuaded them. One of her friends writes her blog for her on her website, so know a lot of what she gets up to.

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I went to Prague quite a few years ago and punted there when on holiday with some mates. So they know I have punted, but I've never said I've done it in this country, and still do.

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While being young, free and single I have no reason to keep it a secret, neither do I see any reason, especially given the predominantly negative attitudes to punting that exist outside (and indeed some inside) of the industry, to share it with anyone who doesn't have a specific need to know, and that is a very short list

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Most of the males within the family knows. Most of my friends too. For some reason we all seem to find it rather normal.

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Most of my mates know, and so do some of their girlfriends. I see no big deal about keeping it from them as most genuinely seem to be intrigued - and some of the girls seem to have more than a passing interest. One was even considering starting up a blow-job service as she thought the money was so good ! Mind you I would not personally be one of her customers if she did !:mellow::)

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I have told a couple of my mates. One is gay, and is amazed that anyone would pay 70£ for a shag. In the gay world sex is free more or less, morning day and night. Entrance to the gay sauna in Leith walk is a tenner. As i always say, when this hobby becomes acceptable for the majority, prices will drop big time.

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I have told a couple of my mates. One is gay, and is amazed that anyone would pay 70£ for a shag. In the gay world sex is free more or less, morning day and night. Entrance to the gay sauna in Leith walk is a tenner. As i always say, when this hobby becomes acceptable for the majority, prices will drop big time.

If only! When a majority of women want to be as promiscuous as men, gay or straight, then maybe! biggrin.gif

Why give it up easily when you can make a lot of money as a professional or use your feminine wiles to nab a desirable boyfriend or husband as an amateur? I can't remember who wrote this but I like the quote: "many women would gladly sell their bodies in return for safety or security". IIRC that person was making the point that sex work is not just about having sex with strangers for cash, it also applies to footballers wives and women married to accountants and doctors.

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Why give it up easily when you can make a lot of money as a professional or use your feminine wiles to nab a desirable boyfriend or husband as an amateur? I can't remember who wrote this but I like the quote: "many women would gladly sell their bodies in return for safety or security". IIRC that person was making the point that sex work is not just about having sex with strangers for cash, it also applies to footballers wives and women married to accountants and doctors.

I'm sure this is a fact.

In non-western cultures, it is more or less a fact that women want/need something in return for the company/sex/laundryservice they offer.

Darwinism, I suppose.

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but to stay on topic: Dont tell a soul.

You do not know what the future holds, and this sort of knowledge can be dangerous.

Someone might be tempted to write memoirs.

I suspect a very select nr of WLs, some canny hotel-personnel in Leeds and NE, and 1 other person can possibly know who I am.

No family, no workmates.

Mulder was right.

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Tell no one other than your self then no one can tell others . .

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Tell no one other than your self then no one can tell others . .

My wife knows but would pretend she doesn't.

She assumes that my 20 something daughter would be shocked (but she isn't!) :)

Daffon

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I haven't told anyone - and I don't intend to!

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This is shamefull hobby...i do it becasue I am sad and addicted "wasteing" £100's a month (some time £1,000's) on something which afterwards I have nothing to show considering such a huge outlay, i don't like to admit to myself what I do nevermind "brag" to my pals.

why was this not included in the poll options. Not that I would click on it...unless it was a SECRET poll

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I am sad and addicted "wasteing" £100's a month (some time £1,000's) on something which afterwards I have nothing to show considering such a huge outlay

There are lot's of things in this life that you can spend money on and enjoy with nothing to show for it. I pay for the experience and pleasure. What do you get from going on a roller coaster for example?

I don't tell anyone because I will only be met by media lead ignorance. I was "one of those" before I started punting, so no matter what I say I wont change their opinion.

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This is shamefull hobby...i do it becasue I am sad and addicted "wasteing" £100's a month (some time £1,000's) on something which afterwards I have nothing to show considering such a huge outlay, i don't like to admit to myself what I do nevermind "brag" to my pals.

Nothing sad about it. I see it as an investment in my sanity, a self prescription of antidepressants.

Yes I also keep it a secret. Have I booked you? Then you know.

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