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Increase In Bareback Puts Me Right Off

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Occassional poster here but just wanted to see what others opinions are if they see a noticeable increase in ladies providing bareback in an area? I tend to punt mostly around the Leicestershire area and I've noticed a lot more ladies offering bareback in the area recently which, to be honest, puts me right off the whole punting scene. Through reviews/feedback mainly on the other site I always read the feedback on ladies I see, or are interested in seeing, and two things have happened recently. Firstly, I was very keen to meet a lady on the area who I hadn't seen as yet. However, on checking through her feedback I saw that she had feedback from someone who had also seen a lot of ladies who offer bareback and his feedback comments indicated that no condom was used at any stage (I wont be as descriptive as he was) so basically seeing her is now not an option purely because of this. Secondly a lady who I used to see regularly also works with her so I now wont be seeing her again either. Now I know the feedback system is far from complete and yes, who knows what else happens, but its all I have to go on when I choose. Gutted about it really but just wondered if anyone else has similar feelings or experiences and do you think ladies who dont offer bareback can be affected in a similar manner if bareback providers increase in an area just through association etc.

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I have a real issue with WG's that offer Bareback...I just think it's sooooo dangerous!!

I can count on less than the fingers of one hand the amount of times I've ever done bareback and they have all been with Men that I'm in love with.

I get a lot of my Clients that have openly said to me that they came to see me because I make it explicitly clear all over my Profile that I will never consider Bareback...So I'm not sure who these Guys are that want Bareback and are willing to go with these WG's that offer it.

After all, we all know that if she is doing Bareback then you're not only having sex with her but with every single Guy that she has done bareback with!!

I haven't noticed a decrease in my Business with Ladies increasingly offering Bareback, in fact quite the opposite.

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I agree Chris, I use the 'Other Site' a lot, and any offer of BB is an automatic 'no' for me. I don't even like it when there's BB in the movies of the girls, even though it may be with a porn actor or a partner.

I've used the reverse auction function quite a bit and now I always ask people not to bid if they offer bareback.

Like BBW Desires, I've not done BB with many girls, 2 to be precise, and they were both girls who, at the time, I thought I'd eventually marry.

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I don't really understand your argument here. If you wish to see the lady and you wear a condom for oral and penetrative sex then you are as protected as you can be. Surely one of the reasons why condoms are used is because neither the lady or the punter is aware of the others sexual history.

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I would never even consider BB

Its Russian Roulette

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Last year I booked a girl from the other site, the first line of her profile stated "ALL SERVICES ARE PROTECTED", this included oral, I'll take owo when it's on offer but it's not a deal breaker if it's not! Anyway, the booking was made and I recieved an email, which read "BB full sex is an extra £50". I was fumeing! If girls want to offer BB, then they should at least state it on their profiles, so us punters can choose! I cancelled the booking because of this!

To answer the OP's question: No, I don't see an increase, just the odd girl who advertises and it seems to be more common with EE girls.

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I've also noticed that theres's a definite correlation between the fake Private Gallery revenue generating profiles over there and the offer of Bareback.

With no evidence but my gut feeling, I think that if you took away all the fakes, the number of BB providers may well be fewer than we may fear.

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I've also noticed that theres's a definite correlation between the fake Private Gallery revenue generating profiles over there and the offer of Bareback.

With no evidence but my gut feeling, I think that if you took away all the fakes, the number of BB providers may well be fewer than we may fear.

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As I noted in another thread, about 8% of service providers on the other site within a 20 mile radius of me are offering BB as a "like" on their profile. I have no idea whether this is an increase, but it feels like it is to me. I'll do another analysis in a few monthes time and let you know the results :D .

Like many others, I share the crushing disappointment when you locate someone on that site who looks and sounds just perfect, only to spot the dreaded "only £xx extra for bareback". There's no quicker way to get me to move on to the next profile.

Still, there is obviously a market for it !!!!!!

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Yes I think you are right about the fake profiles and the offer of BB! I do however wonder if the ladies also check the feedback (where available) of punters and have previously declined a booking if they see evidence of them previously seeing BB providers. As I've said I'm gutted about having to stop seeing my regular because of the association with another lady who has seen a punter with a known bareback penetration history. I must confess that I do like OWO myself so in part who am I to judge, but its a risk I deem to be acceptable, and I know I may even seem over cautious to some, but I have my own rules, and stick to them, and so far in 10 years of occassional punting I haven't had any problems (touch wood)

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Occassional poster here but just wanted to see what others opinions are if they see a noticeable increase in ladies providing bareback in an area? I tend to punt mostly around the Leicestershire area and I've noticed a lot more ladies offering bareback in the area recently which, to be honest, puts me right off the whole punting scene. Through reviews/feedback mainly on the other site I always read the feedback on ladies I see, or are interested in seeing, and two things have happened recently. Firstly, I was very keen to meet a lady on the area who I hadn't seen as yet. However, on checking through her feedback I saw that she had feedback from someone who had also seen a lot of ladies who offer bareback and his feedback comments indicated that no condom was used at any stage (I wont be as descriptive as he was) so basically seeing her is now not an option purely because of this. Secondly a lady who I used to see regularly also works with her so I now wont be seeing her again either. Now I know the feedback system is far from complete and yes, who knows what else happens, but its all I have to go on when I choose. Gutted about it really but just wondered if anyone else has similar feelings or experiences and do you think ladies who dont offer bareback can be affected in a similar manner if bareback providers increase in an area just through association etc.

Well the thing is, as others have pointed out, a lot of profiles are fake; others will be duplicate profiles for the same girl. The actual number of girls openly offering BB in your area will be much lower than appears. However the other site merely allows us to be aware of this; I don't think that things are really any different to how they were 5 years ago. It's just that now if you're looking for BB it's not a lottery, you can see different girls and get it every time. Likewise you, as a punter who is repulsed by the idea, can avoid those girls and that's great. However in my opinion where it starts to get silly is when you start looking through the BB providers' feedback and cross referencing who they've seen, and then avoiding girls who offer only protected sex because they've seen one of those clients. You either think condoms work or you don't - with the number of clients girls see, if you actually knew everything about all their clients you'd probably be avoiding all of them. I'd be surprised if there was any girl out there who'd been working regularly for more than 6 months, who hadn't seen a client who'd had BB sex with another prostitute. Avoid the BB providers by all means, but to take it further is just illogical.

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Thing is even escorts who do not offer bareback/owo to any client under any circumstances may be doing it in their personal life, either with one partner (who could have other partners), or lots of casual ones. I mean, fair enough avoid high-risk escorts, but getting paranoid that they may be offering sneaky bareback to guys that ask is the way to drive yourself crazy :P You'll never know for sure one way or the other - as long as you make sure that you wear a condom and get your regular check ups which you should probably be doing anyway, you'll be fine.

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If the politicians wanted to do something which would make society safer, instead of the usual factually incorrect feminist blurb about trafficked ladies, how about making the offer or facilitating the offer of unprotected vaginal or anal sex in a commercial scenario llegal? It may not stop it entirely, but it would at least put a stop to places such as A/W profiteering from it.

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Thing is even escorts who do not offer bareback/owo to any client under any circumstances may be doing it in their personal life, either with one partner (who could have other partners), or lots of casual ones. I mean, fair enough avoid high-risk escorts, but getting paranoid that they may be offering sneaky bareback to guys that ask is the way to drive yourself crazy :P You'll never know for sure one way or the other - as long as you make sure that you wear a condom and get your regular check ups which you should probably be doing anyway, you'll be fine.

And a few WGs as i have experienced dont advertise they offer BB but ask me to fuck them BB out of the blue, always resulting in my leaving and avoiding them in future.

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Yes I think you are right about the fake profiles and the offer of BB! I do however wonder if the ladies also check the feedback (where available) of punters and have previously declined a booking if they see evidence of them previously seeing BB providers. As I've said I'm gutted about having to stop seeing my regular because of the association with another lady who has seen a punter with a known bareback penetration history. I must confess that I do like OWO myself so in part who am I to judge, but its a risk I deem to be acceptable, and I know I may even seem over cautious to some, but I have my own rules, and stick to them, and so far in 10 years of occassional punting I haven't had any problems (touch wood)

If you speak to staff at a GUM they will discuss the risks of BB compared to OWO if you ask them. BB is playing russian roulette with your health and possibly life, OWOs risks are of course there but are small, always get tested as you cant take anything for granted in my opinion.

I have been punting for many years with OWO and never caught anything and go to the GUM quartely, still having at least half a brain cell i have never considered BB apart from in a committed relationship, those WGs that offer it and those punters who do it are taking a big risk just for a BB fuck, for it to be worth it to them tells me all i need to know about such people, either not too smart or they simply dont care, all dirty skanks in my view to a person.

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i reckon blokes who see wg's and always use a condom for penetration are FAR safer tehn blokes wh odo BB with any tom dick or harry pulled in the pub on a friday night.

oK, avoid the BB providers but if you worry about whether blokes your chosen WG has seen have seen BB gorls you will go mad.

its a matter of managing risk. having BB is too much risk, having protected sex and OWO with someone who says they dont do BB does cary some risk but far far lower than BB with a BB provider.

if you cant cope with that it is the wrong hobby for you.

anyway, you are more likely to get injured in a car smash than get an STD i reckon.

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I think many of us mature guys enjoyed a lot of BB sex in the past before the AIDS virus. Personally I consider myself very lucky to have never had an STI considering the amount of BBS I had up until the early 90's. It does appeaer though that there is an increasing trend in WGs on the other site offering BBS, and its quite widespread throughout the UK.

I really cannot fathom this as the risks to themselves, not to mention others, are simply worth no amount of money.

Another thing that confuses me is the fact that many of these girls are charging less money than the safer WGs ! :rolleyes:

Obviously there is a demand for this type of dangerous liaison, otherwise the girls would not offer it, however one has to question why any punter would want to take such a massive risk in the first place. In an ideal [disease free] world we would love to have BBS all the time as its so much better, however the reality of this world is such that it only takes one BB encounter to ruin your life. In today’s world, I cannot even perceive having penetrative sex without protection, and I am sure most feel the same.

As long as these irresponsible punters continue to seek this service, then unfortunately some WGs will continue to offer it, and the responsible punter will have to accept this risk when punting. It seems that education and information is just not enough for some, or maybe it is it simply a lack of common sense! B)

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I think many of us mature guys enjoyed a lot of BB sex in the past before the AIDS virus. Personally I consider myself very lucky to have never had an STI considering the amount of BBS I had up until the early 90's. It does appeaer though that there is an increasing trend in WGs on the other site offering BBS, and its quite widespread throughout the UK.

I really cannot fathom this as the risks to themselves, not to mention others, are simply worth no amount of money.

Another thing that confuses me is the fact that many of these girls are charging less money than the safer WGs ! :rolleyes:

Obviously there is a demand for this type of dangerous liaison, otherwise the girls would not offer it, however one has to question why any punter would want to take such a massive risk in the first place. In an ideal [disease free] world we would love to have BBS all the time as its so much better, however the reality of this world is such that it only takes one BB encounter to ruin your life. In today’s world, I cannot even perceive having penetrative sex without protection, and I am sure most feel the same.

As long as these irresponsible punters continue to seek this service, then unfortunately some WGs will continue to offer it, and the responsible punter will have to accept this risk when punting. It seems that education and information is just not enough for some, or maybe it is it simply a lack of common sense! B)

A big lack of common sense in my opinion to which i can only assume not caring and/or a lack of brains is the reason.

It would also not surprise me if a few purposely set out to infect others knowing they are infected, its beyond my comprehension but is clearly a popular pursuit hence WGs offering it and some punters wanting it. Nowt as strange as some folk.

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And a few WGs as i have experienced dont advertise they offer BB but ask me to fuck them BB out of the blue, always resulting in my leaving and avoiding them in future.

As someone said earlier,it seems a lot of EE girls offer BB,I saw one last year who didn't advertise she did BB,When I got to her place for the punt, she asked how long I wanted and if I wanted anal( I did) it would be £30 extra and then she said BB anal or pussy would be £50!

I was shocked and told her that I didn't see on her advert that she offered BB!

All she said was - well,it's there if you want it! I LEFT!

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As someone said earlier,it seems a lot of EE girls offer BB,I saw one last year who didn't advertise she did BB,When I got to her place for the punt, she asked how long I wanted and if I wanted anal( I did) it would be £30 extra and then she said BB anal or pussy would be £50!

I was shocked and told her that I didn't see on her advert that she offered BB!

All she said was - well,it's there if you want it! I LEFT!

I have punted with hundreds of EE WGs over the years and my experience is its a small number that offered BB to me. When it has happened virtually the same words are used; "because i like you i want you to fuck me BB", as i am not naive enough to think i am anymore than one punter out of god knows how many to the lady, this tells me some/many punters take up the offer.

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Sorry had lot's of BB sex over the years, paid and fun, group wtc, t

touch wood never had a problem yet.

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Sorry had lot's of BB sex over the years, paid and fun, group wtc, t

touch wood never had a problem yet.

If i'm reading your post right in what you say- you seem very careless Mike. Although that is what is part of the thrill for you is the 'risk' of your life your taking...... is your life that meaningless that your not bothered about catching diseases and aids ?

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This a pointless discussion, as it is clearly destined to remain one-sided.

Like anyone who would consider BB is going to come one here and try to justify the unjustifiable. Imagine the outrage from the 'regulars' they would be subjected to. Unfortunately, in certain situations, many blokes lose all sense and think with their willy...if a girl you find attractive is looking at you whilst your dick is in her mouth and she clibs up and just gets on top of it, it's difficult for some men to say stop. This scenario happens on many a Friday and Saturday night I would assume. And this is where the majority of STI's are transmitted, especially amongst young club-goers.

As someone has said, if an escort offers it, you politely decline and just have faith in the barrier method. Or leave if the lady you found attractive a few seconds ago now makes you feel like vomiting.

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Sorry had lot's of BB sex over the years, paid and fun, group wtc, t

touch wood never had a problem yet.

are you actually trying to brag about this to the forum ? :rolleyes:

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Sorry had lot's of BB sex over the years, paid and fun, group wtc, t

touch wood never had a problem yet.

I am unclear why you have started your post using the word sorry Mike, sorry for what.

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