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Taking A Wg Out...

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Have any of you ever taken a WG out after a punt, be it for dinner, lunch, a drink or anything like that?

I'm curious as I recently had a punt with a really nice parlour girl who was extremely friendly and affectionate. After we did the deed and showered etc. we were having a nice chat, the usual stuff about what I'm doing with the rest of my day etc. I mentioned that I was going to get something for lunch and she said I should take her and buy her lunch. I just kind of laughed it off as her being nice and the conversation died. I've had a few punts now, but I'm not greatly experienced and have never had that kind offer before so it left me wondering: is that something people do? I'm not talking organising a dinner date where you pay for her time, just a spontaneous thing?

I'd definitely have loved to have taken her for lunch and wouldn't have minded paying (for her meal) so have I missed an opportunity for a nice moment with a lovely lady or am I just reading way too much into her affections, my mind still cloudy from an amazing punt?

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Done it several times, overday and overnight, and you can't shag all day/night (well I can't) so lunch or dinner is a good chance to spend some good, yet still intimate quality time together. If she's worth it, get your flexible friend out (no, credit card!) as well for a shopping spree! For me, the best recipe is to go out at half time, maybe after a nice bath together, then back for the second half and maybe extra time!

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Have any of you ever taken a WG out after a punt, be it for dinner, lunch, a drink or anything like that?

I'm curious as I recently had a punt with a really nice parlour girl who was extremely friendly and affectionate. After we did the deed and showered etc. we were having a nice chat, the usual stuff about what I'm doing with the rest of my day etc. I mentioned that I was going to get something for lunch and she said I should take her and buy her lunch. I just kind of laughed it off as her being nice and the conversation died. I've had a few punts now, but I'm not greatly experienced and have never had that kind offer before so it left me wondering: is that something people do? I'm not talking organising a dinner date where you pay for her time, just a spontaneous thing?

I'd definitely have loved to have taken her for lunch and wouldn't have minded paying (for her meal) so have I missed an opportunity for a nice moment with a lovely lady or am I just reading way too much into her affections, my mind still cloudy from an amazing punt?

Something you should know about WGs is that they can be very fickle and capricious. On top of that, they have big egos and all this occasionally manifests in a kind of game whereby they see which punters they could bag. I would not take these signals too serious if I were you. Just think about all the other guys who have been to see her before you and all those who will see her after you have left, many of them will have been through the exact same scenario. There's also the possibility that it may be a ploy to build up regulars, these are competitive times. Some WGs also have shrewd business minds and exploiting consumer psychology is one of the common tactics. What punter would not feel flattered by the offer of a dinner date with the girl he has just paid to have sex with. After all, it takes you that bit closer to what is for the most part beyond your reach.

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Something you should know about WGs is that they can be very fickle and capricious. On top of that, they have big egos and all this occasionally manifests in a kind of game whereby they see which punters they could bag. I would not take these signals too serious if I were you. Just think about all the other guys who have been to see her before you and all those who will see her after you have left, many of them will have been through the exact same scenario. There's also the possibility that it may be a ploy to build up regulars, these are competitive times. Some WGs also have shrewd business minds and exploiting consumer psychology is one of the common tactics. What punter would not feel flattered by the offer of a dinner date with the girl he has just paid to have sex with. After all, it takes you that bit closer to what you are really looking for.

Methinks a bit paranoid, however when I saw the thread title I did think of the Mafia version of taking out, a bit extreme really.

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Methinks a bit paranoid, however when I saw the thread title I did think of the Mafia version of taking out, a bit extreme really.

Like the op, you are obviously a tad inexperienced if you don't mind my saying so.

Furthermore, most parlours discourage their girls from this kind of mixing business with pleasure.

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Nothing wrong with it as long as you don't start thinking like some delusional punters that the lady is in love with you or fancies you. I have had a working girl ask me to stay back after a punt for dinner which she cooked and we chatted away for hours, no sex, just friendly banter, ended up going for drinks at a local bar, said goodbye and NO i did not go back thinking she had fallen for me or we had a special connection. Also been out clubbing with two ladies I booked and did not have to pay any extra, one actually bought most of the drinks. In both cases after the punts they asked what I was up to, said nothing and asked if I wanted to go clubbing. Just danced and had a laugh, again I did not expect free sex or start deluding myself that I was in love. These things happen, the ladies are after all human like everyone of us.

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One if my regs when I used to work in Bournemouth used to bring us both lunch to every one of our meetings - chopped ham/mayo sandwiches, Walkers crisps and cans of lemonade. Picnic in the room after our 'intimate time'. Sweet.

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Yeah, don't get me wrong, I'm not thinking it would've ever been the beginnings of a magical relationship where I whisk her away from the parlour and we live happily ever after, I'm just curious to see if this is common practice with some girls, whether it be going to a meal with a punter to secure a definite regular or just to get a free lunch and something to do on their lunch break. Either way, I would've been happy to have gone along but I automatically assumed it was just a flippant comment as a way of complimenting me and making me feel good, in which case it worked but yeah...it just made me wonder if the girls ever do nip out for a casual bite to eat with their punters, off the clock.

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Something you should know about WGs is that they can be very fickle and capricious. On top of that, they have big egos and all this occasionally manifests in a kind of game whereby they see which punters they could bag. I would not take these signals too serious if I were you. Just think about all the other guys who have been to see her before you and all those who will see her after you have left, many of them will have been through the exact same scenario. There's also the possibility that it may be a ploy to build up regulars, these are competitive times. Some WGs also have shrewd business minds and exploiting consumer psychology is one of the common tactics. What punter would not feel flattered by the offer of a dinner date with the girl he has just paid to have sex with. After all, it takes you that bit closer to what is for the most part beyond your reach.

Methinks spot on ;)

You can, of course, play only with wg's mind games...it can be fun, as long as your heads screwed on! In my mind it's what having a reg is about, she gives you a few freebies and you keep going back....along the way you might play a few little games, involving pretending to be friends..... :o

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One if my regs when I used to work in Bournemouth used to bring us both lunch to every one of our meetings - chopped ham/mayo sandwiches, Walkers crisps and cans of lemonade. Picnic in the room after our 'intimate time'. Sweet.

Not sure what to make of that he obviously wasn't trying to impress you I guess

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Like the op, you are obviously a tad inexperienced if you don't mind my saying so.

Furthermore, most parlours discourage their girls from this kind of mixing business with pleasure.

Yep, totally inexperienced I'm sure, only was involved with a WG for 12 months before we lived together for 18 months, a mutually no money relationship after the first 6 months when I stopped paying. I knew it was getting different when she saw me at home and she made us some lunch when I saw her, (most punters didn't see her at home and the lunch was uncharged for time). Never done parlours, nearest I've been to that is the Amsterdam window girls. Yep totally inexperienced, been on PN since 2001 and the old board, you joined December 2010?

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Yep, totally inexperienced I'm sure, only was involved with a WG for 12 months before we lived together for 18 months, a mutually no money relationship after the first 6 months when I stopped paying. I knew it was getting different when she saw me at home and she made us some lunch when I saw her, (most punters didn't see her at home and the lunch was uncharged for time). Never done parlours, nearest I've been to that is the Amsterdam window girls. Yep totally inexperienced, been on PN since 2001 and the old board, you joined December 2010?

Not saying this was the case in your relationship but I know several girls who have told me that they are activly seeking a sugar daddy! One girl who I see regularly has even found one....it's her "boyfriends" four bed detatched house that she works from, lol!

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I'd definitely have loved to have taken her for lunch and wouldn't have minded paying (for her meal) so have I missed an opportunity for a nice moment?

It sounds like you have to me. Why on earth would she have suggested it if she hadn't meant it? Even if she hadn't meant it, you would have lost nothing had your response been "sure, grab your coat. Lets go" and she then backed off.

Whilst not at all common, I have taken a few ladies out for a meal post punt (not on the clock, but usually I pay for the meal), usually after they have made it plain that they would welcome the suggestion. It's not usually after the first punt mind, but memorably an EE girl I saw a couple of weeks ago for the first time did ask me out at the end of the booking !!!!

My advice is next time it happens is to ignore the naysayers and enjoy yourself. Don't kid yourself that it's a great romance though. And if you are a secret millionaire, watch out for the occasional golddigger. Oh, and don't make a nuisance of yourself by asking out every WG you are with lol. Follow their cues and hopefully you'll prevent any awkward situations.

Remember WGs are human beings too and not some alien species :D .

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Have any of you ever taken a WG out after a punt, be it for dinner, lunch, a drink or anything like that?

yes, a couple of times either for a meal or a drink, with ladies I've seen several times and have a certain amount of mutual trust ...it made for a real feel of having a date and enhanced the whole experience big time ...... but I think this would be very rare on a first time or casual punt

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Not saying this was the case in your relationship but I know several girls who have told me that they are activly seeking a sugar daddy! One girl who I see regularly has even found one....it's her "boyfriends" four bed detatched house that she works from, lol!

"LOL" indeed. So he is only a sugar daddy, because he let her use her house for entertaining clients? I asume you meant to put an apostrophe in the word "boyfriends" (is it suppose to be boyfriend's? But that is beside the point anyways)

"Sugar daddy" in my opinion its the guy who bought the property for at least quarter of million, gave her at least £5.000 monthly spending money, paying for her children to attend private/public school, or university fees, also pays fr her gym membership, weekly visits to the spa treatments, at least 9 weeks a year for holidays in so called "exotic location", (on her own of course!), and numerous other things to long to mention. In exchange she need to provide him with something "sexual", or resembling such, occasional self made cake/bread/busquits (or at worse:4 course candlelight dinner) and her own grown spuds put in her worn out stocking.

Anything slightly less: he is not even a "meal ticket", never mind "sugar daddy". ;-)

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Met a young girl in North Carolina few years ago...We kinda clicked in an odd way. She gave her number, said she will come and pick me up as I didn't have a car. We decided to head to Myrtle beach the next weekend..Tried calling her a dozen times only to reach her voicemail... :angry:

Another girl in her early 20s, she apparently enjoyed the session. Asked if I want to hang out later that night with her, but being a scaredy cat then, refused right away...I now feel oppurtunities dont knock twice..

Another girl in her early 30s, sexy as hell with a perfect mix of American/Russian/French flavours. Met her several times and my best ever so far and I was her best ever then. Not even a single time did I have the nerve to ask her out for a coffee although I was 100% sure she would accept the offer..

Ahh...good old America...

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It sounds like you have to me. Why on earth would she have suggested it if she hadn't meant it? Even if she hadn't meant it, you would have lost nothing had your response been "sure, grab your coat. Lets go" and she then backed off.

My advice is next time it happens is to ignore the naysayers and enjoy yourself. Don't kid yourself that it's a great romance though. And if you are a secret millionaire, watch out for the occasional golddigger. Oh, and don't make a nuisance of yourself by asking out every WG you are with lol. Follow their cues and hopefully you'll prevent any awkward situations.

Remember WGs are human beings too and not some alien species :D .

No worries there, they can dig all they want but they won't found any gold! I appreciate the advice and I'm now quite disappointed that I didn't take the chance because I guess as you say, there was nothing to lose. I'm aiming to see the same girl again over the next week (don't worry, I'm not in love, just extremely horny!) so we'll see what happens this time.

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Met a young girl in North Carolina few years ago...We kinda clicked in an odd way. She gave her number, said she will come and pick me up as I didn't have a car. We decided to head to Myrtle beach the next weekend..Tried calling her a dozen times only to reach her voicemail... :angry:

Another girl in her early 20s, she apparently enjoyed the session. Asked if I want to hang out later that night with her, but being a scaredy cat then, refused right away...I now feel oppurtunities dont knock twice..

Another girl in her early 30s, sexy as hell with a perfect mix of American/Russian/French flavours. Met her several times and my best ever so far and I was her best ever then. Not even a single time did I have the nerve to ask her out for a coffee although I was 100% sure she would accept the offer..

Ahh...good old America...

So: its never happened for various reasons.

I know some girls when they clicked it with a client, they might mention a social date in the hit of the moment, or to make it appear that she genuinely liked guy. (Great for his ego, and all that) . However when its come to it, they either would not answer the phone, ignore emails, or comeback with various excuses.

There are few clients told me, that they tried to arrange a social date with WG, which they seen previously, and it was indicated she would happy to do it. Once they offered date, it was either ignored, or she responds, that she could not attend it on this particular offered date. Once the client offered "bona fide" paid booking on the exactly same date, she will be of course "available". ;-)

Personally: I can't see why WG would want to go out for dinner/lunch with a client, apart of "attract" him more with her "personality" for subsequent bookings. There is absolutely nothing for her, apart of wasting her valuable time, stuck with the guy for a few hours, which she mistakenly thought she might sponge some something useful for her, but at the end all he wanted is to get a freebie shag or affection.

Then she will get upset with herself after this date, and would think: I rather would have slob in my home in front of TV instead, read the books which she does not have time to read, graft the branch of pear to the plum tree, or sort out her matching nix, suspenders and bras. (which parts of them tend to vanish, like a socks, lol), or doing millions other stuff, which not done, because of the lack of time. (not just for WG, for any woman).

My very close friend said to me: that she had 11 dates which she had not benifited from in any form. She still regrets 10 of them.

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Then she will get upset with herself after this date, and would think: I rather would have slob in my home in front of TV instead,

A very underrated pastime is slobbing if there is something good on the box and you have some nibbles.

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"LOL" indeed. So he is only a sugar daddy, because he let her use her house for entertaining clients? I asume you meant to put an apostrophe in the word "boyfriends" (is it suppose to be boyfriend's? But that is beside the point anyways)

"Sugar daddy" in my opinion its the guy who bought the property for at least quarter of million, gave her at least £5.000 monthly spending money, paying for her children to attend private/public school, or university fees, also pays fr her gym membership, weekly visits to the spa treatments, at least 9 weeks a year for holidays in so called "exotic location", (on her own of course!), and numerous other things to long to mention. In exchange she need to provide him with something "sexual", or resembling such, occasional self made cake/bread/busquits (or at worse:4 course candlelight dinner) and her own grown spuds put in her worn out stocking.

Anything slightly less: he is not even a "meal ticket", never mind "sugar daddy". ;-)

Xenia,

Sure you're not getting the term "sugar daddy" confused with "husband"?

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I've taken a few girls out over the years for dinner or drinks and had a good time. Nothing serious, just friends. I guess that escorting, in a strange way, can sometimes be a lonely profession.

On the other hand one girl I got on very well with asked me out to a restaurant, and when I said yes she said, okay so that's £??? for my time. After that I changed my mind.

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Excluding during paid bookings I've been out to drinks / dinner after a booking several times.Also lifts back to the station or hotel in their cars and even once been offered to visit them at their hotel after their shift for a few hours FOC.

I think its a nice touch to occaisionally do this for regular clients and certainly makes me more inclined to visit them again but never expect it or read anything into it other than just a friendly gesture.

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Have any of you ever taken a WG out after a punt, be it for dinner, lunch, a drink or anything like that?

I'm curious as I recently had a punt with a really nice parlour girl who was extremely friendly and affectionate. After we did the deed and showered etc. we were having a nice chat, the usual stuff about what I'm doing with the rest of my day etc. I mentioned that I was going to get something for lunch and she said I should take her and buy her lunch. I just kind of laughed it off as her being nice and the conversation died. I've had a few punts now, but I'm not greatly experienced and have never had that kind offer before so it left me wondering: is that something people do? I'm not talking organising a dinner date where you pay for her time, just a spontaneous thing?

I'd definitely have loved to have taken her for lunch and wouldn't have minded paying (for her meal) so have I missed an opportunity for a nice moment with a lovely lady or am I just reading way too much into her affections, my mind still cloudy from an amazing punt?

I have many times gone for a drink or food with a WG after a booking, after she has mentioned it and i have said yes. I expected nothing out of this apart from a chat.

I do not ask the WG out anymore than i would my dentist or tax adviser, they are doing a job just like those people.

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I do not ask the WG out anymore than i would my dentist or tax adviser, they are doing a job just like those people.

I used to have a really hot financial adviser some years ago. I often regret not asking her out. Trouble is, she knew how little I earned, so I am sure the answer would have been no :P:lol::D .

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I've done it once, finished a punt and mentioned I was going to get some food and she asked if she could come along too. It was no problem, she's good company and there was no hidden agenda on either side. We didn't look like an odd couple in the restaurant.

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