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Does You Wife/partner Know That You Used To Punt

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Title says it all, but I guess, once a punter, always a punter?

So if they do know that you used to punt, do they know that you probably still do and if so, do they mind?

As long as there is no public humiliation or they are not looking for a reason to divorce you, would they really care if they found out?

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Title says it all, but I guess, once a punter, always a punter?

I'm not sure I agree with your first premise - when I'm in a relationship I don't think about punting at all. It's only when I'm single that I get the urge.

But I certainly wouldn't tell my other half that I had.

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My wife asked one time if Id ever seen an escort when we were just dating. I said no, even though it was something I'd done before I met her. That's exactly the type of personal information you don't give a woman when you are in a relationship no matter how much they say "It does not matter I'm only interested". It'll only come back and bite you on the arse later.

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She doesn't know and has never asked.

If she asked, I wouldn't admit it!

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She never asked the question but if she did i wouldn't consider a drunked trip to a brothel before we met any of her biz.

Funny thing is i rarely punted before i was married. It was too easy to get free hole back in the day. :D

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There are certain things you should NEVER admit to doing and having sex with prostitutes is definitely one of them!

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The only time my wife has asked if I've used a WG is when I returned from my Stag weekend - and I truthfully said no at that point.

I keep my punting private, even on my Stag I wouldn't do it with all my mates knowing about it!

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Some interesting replies, can I change this around a bit, to ask 'if you have previously punted, is it likely that you would continue to punt once in a relationship, given the opportunity?

Once a punter, always a punter?

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In answer to the first question, anyone I get into a relationship with either will already know, or is never going to know.

The second, I'm single at present, when and if that changes, I stop punting, simple as, I'm a one-woman guy and were I in a relationship and at the point where I felt the need to cheat on my lady then it'd be "we need to talk" time and if that didn't resolve things I'd walk away then start looking elsewhere.

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First wife does not know anything - 2nd wife ex Thai wg (pregnant) knows about First wife and punting - 3rd wife Turkish knows about other 2 wives and punting and wants to get a wg to come and join us :D

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