Helen Jones

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Don't worry Its nothing racially exciting or unfair.

It seems a disproportionately large percentage of my inquiries by phone are from people who do not have English as their first language, whereas my Email enquiries are by and large from Englishmen

I don't see guys who don't speak English as their first Language the reasoning being to ensure there are no misunderstandings or misinterpretations -as well as to avoid certain cultural attitudes (Americans included, who in my experience seem to have an attitude similar to the Arabic outlook regarding the humble whore). That includes white black, brown yellow red, or even those muti-coloured painted and feathered little fellows from the Amazon basin so lets not debate racism or be climbing any high horses just yet!

Anyway. Why do you think foreign chaps would be more likely to see an escort than the good old fashioned English Dandylion or is it just me? I sometimes wonder if its a blonde hair thing with these guys but do dark haired girls get more than their share of foreign enquirers?

Are the Latino, continentals/sub continentals and Asians more testosterone sensitive? More virile? or just not so restrained by the 'no sex please were British' attitude?

Why would calls to escorts have a disproportionate number of none English enquirers ?

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The reason would be because in other countries prostitution is more open and accepted (Even if illegal) and because of "no sex please we're British" So foreigners no problem asking for what they want, Britsh want the same but hide behind email.

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...Why do you think foreign chaps would be more likely to see an escort than the good old fashioned English Dandylion or is it just me?...

I’ve no idea Helen. I very rarely get approached by men who don’t live in Britain, but maybe that’s because they know they can’t satisfy my security procedures. But what I’ve never understood is why I so rarely see men from ethnic minorities; in 10 years I’ve met one black man (shame really as I like dark skin), about 5 Asians, 1 Chinese man, and a couple of mixed race. I can understand perhaps because here in the Welsh Marches the population is predominantly Caucasian, but I was in Southampton for years and that’s far more multicultural. Do you see many non-white clients?

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The reason would be because in other countries prostitution is more open and accepted (Even if illegal) and because of "no sex please we're British" So foreigners no problem asking for what they want, Britsh want the same but hide behind email.

Totally agree.

Having spent some considerable time living and working in other European countries and elsewhere the attitudes are incredibly different.

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I agree that certain foreigners grow up in a culture where visiting prostitutes is reasonably common. I.e. italy, france, spain. Moreover foreigners living here, might have difficulty accessing the host culture, and finding a partner. Finally visiting a sex worker is what many blokes do when they are away from home.

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Don't worry Its nothing racially exciting or unfair.

It seems a disproportionately large percentage of my inquiries by phone are from people who do not have English as their first language, whereas my Email enquiries are by and large from Englishmen

I don't see guys who don't speak English as their first Language the reasoning being to ensure there are no misunderstandings or misinterpretations -as well as to avoid certain cultural attitudes (Americans included, who in my experience seem to have an attitude similar to the Arabic outlook regarding the humble whore). That includes white black, brown yellow red, or even those muti-coloured painted and feathered little fellows from the Amazon basin so lets not debate racism or be climbing any high horses just yet!

Anyway. Why do you think foreign chaps would be more likely to see an escort than the good old fashioned English Dandylion or is it just me? I sometimes wonder if its a blonde hair thing with these guys but do dark haired girls get more than their share of foreign enquirers?

Are the Latino, continentals/sub continentals and Asians more testosterone sensitive? More virile? or just not so restrained by the 'no sex please were British' attitude?

Why would calls to escorts have a disproportionate number of none English enquirers ?

I am not quite sure what point you are trying to raise over here. I get the impression that you have never been abroad and understand quite what goes on in other cultures and races ie black, yellow, green, silver, bronze etc... We may as well ask the question why many of us go to Thailand, Philipine, China, Brazil etc to seek ladies such as yourself but in different colour. Maybe they shouldn't accept people who don't speak Thai, Chinese etc. I don't think 'suckie suckie one dollar' will go a long way nowadays considering the inflation. I also don't know which era you come from but 'no sex please we are British' is just so yesterday.

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I am not quite sure what point you are trying to raise over here.

Neither am I ! I just wondered why I get calls from a large number of UK based foreign born men.

I get the impression that you have never been abroad and understand quite what goes on in other cultures and races ie black, yellow, green, silver, bronze etc...

Oh I don't know, I do step off the island occasionally.

I also don't know which era you come from but 'no sex please we are British' is just so yesterday.

But its still part of the British social Psyche is it not. I think that's undeniable.

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Do you see many non-white clients?

I exclude clients because of the cultural and language difference, not because of colour.

.....................as well as to avoid certain cultural attitudes (Americans included, who in my experience seem to have an attitude similar to the Arabic outlook regarding the humble whore). That includes white black, brown yellow red,...........................................

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When you arrive in a new country you have to give up a lot of your old social network and make new friends. That can't be easy. Maybe it's a little harder to get a girlfriend when you're fresh off the boat in a new country.

Maybe they fancy girls with British accents. Don't you lurve a man wiz zee four-ren aczent too? laugh.gif

And if you're a man that likes ladies with big curvy bits you're bang out of luck in most other European countries, but not here!

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I exclude clients because of the cultural and language difference, not because of colour.

That wasn’t what I meant. Although I’ve never said on my website or any adverts that I only see Caucasian men I find it odd that I rarely get approached by ethnic minorities (UK based that is), and I wondered if a similar escort such as yourself also found that.

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That wasn’t what I meant. Although I’ve never said on my website or any adverts that I only see Caucasian men I find it odd that I rarely get approached by ethnic minorities (UK based that is), and I wondered if a similar escort such as yourself also found that.

I don't know about the ethnic minorities but I will visit you any time any day. I can put on a fake accent if that tickles your fancy :)

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That wasn’t what I meant. Although I’ve never said on my website or any adverts that I only see Caucasian men I find it odd that I rarely get approached by ethnic minorities (UK based that is), and I wondered if a similar escort such as yourself also found that.

Sorry Lara.

I get very few enquiries from English born non white men, or should I say, I get very very few bookings from English born non white men, (as I'm not sure of a callers ethnicity by English voice ) As I say I do get a large number of calls from foreign speakers on UK numbers or from foreign phone numbers (which I ignore ) Now I think about it maybe its a case of foreign websites and directories using our details , that the UK callers also use because of the language issue.

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Don't worry Its nothing racially exciting or unfair.

I don't see guys who don't speak English as their first Language the reasoning being to ensure there are no misunderstandings or misinterpretations -as well as to avoid certain cultural attitudes (Americans included, who in my experience seem to have an attitude similar to the Arabic outlook regarding the humble whore). That includes white black, brown yellow red, or even those muti-coloured painted and feathered little fellows from the Amazon basin so lets not debate racism or be climbing any high horses just yet!

I'm to understand you don't wish to accommodate an American, should he wish to make an appointment with you. Technically an American can be from North America, Central America or South America, but my best understanding of your definition of an American is a Yank. You won't yank a Yank ?

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You won't yank a Yank ?

No. I know its scandalous but I prefer it that way. It helps keep my working life easier.

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Apart from with South African africaans whose voices set my teeth on edge i punt with anyone who i rate.

I meet many Americans at Parties and find most to be quiet and respectful, most are very very worried about hygiene and will do OW rather than OWO, upon speaking to many they are clueless as to the infection risks, thinking OWO is as risky as BB.

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Sorry Lara.

I get very few enquiries from English born non white men, or should I say, I get very very few bookings from English born non white men…

No problem Helen :)

I’m even more curious why I don’t get bookings from non white men seeing as it isn’t just me :blink:

I don't know about the ethnic minorities but I will visit you any time any day. I can put on a fake accent if that tickles your fancy :)

Excellent. Can you do a West Country accent? :P

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Don't worry Its nothing racially exciting or unfair.

It seems a disproportionately large percentage of my inquiries by phone are from people who do not have English as their first language, whereas my Email enquiries are by and large from Englishmen

I don't see guys who don't speak English as their first Language the reasoning being to ensure there are no misunderstandings or misinterpretations -as well as to avoid certain cultural attitudes (Americans included, who in my experience seem to have an attitude similar to the Arabic outlook regarding the humble whore). That includes white black, brown yellow red, or even those muti-coloured painted and feathered little fellows from the Amazon basin so lets not debate racism or be climbing any high horses just yet!

Anyway. Why do you think foreign chaps would be more likely to see an escort than the good old fashioned English Dandylion or is it just me? I sometimes wonder if its a blonde hair thing with these guys but do dark haired girls get more than their share of foreign enquirers?

Are the Latino, continentals/sub continentals and Asians more testosterone sensitive? More virile? or just not so restrained by the 'no sex please were British' attitude?

Why would calls to escorts have a disproportionate number of none English enquirers ?

Hi Helen,

I don't think you can pigeon box cultures lol (not that you are) all cultures have their own way- the typical English chap is meant to be 'reserved'

but I think that is nonsense and all depends on the individual.

Seeing a variation of men- I would say that the only lack of race I have seen is Japenese, for whatever reason this may be :-)

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Talking is all well and good but I have to say you're missing out ): Some of the best sex I have ever had has been with people native to Spain/Latin America. Apparently being brought up in strict Catholic families means that as girls from their countries generally refuse sex until marriage the boys have to work out other ways to pleasure them, using ways that make sure their technical virginity stays intact.... know wha ahm sayin?

As a (faux) dark haired girl I've always had my fair share of foreign guys, both in and out of work :) In fact I'd go as far as to say that a third of people I see are foreign! I've seen no differences in shyness when it comes to the down and dirty between nationalities, although I have to say that Latinos do have that certain "vroom" factor lol.

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Talking is all well and good but I have to say you're missing out ): Some of the best sex I have ever had has been with people native to Spain/Latin America. Apparently being brought up in strict Catholic families means that as girls from their countries generally refuse sex until marriage the boys have to work out other ways to pleasure them, using ways that make sure their technical virginity stays intact.... know wha ahm sayin?

As a (faux) dark haired girl I've always had my fair share of foreign guys, both in and out of work :) In fact I'd go as far as to say that a third of people I see are foreign! I've seen no differences in shyness when it comes to the down and dirty between nationalities, although I have to say that Latinos do have that certain "vroom" factor lol.

Yes, I agree Miss Kitty. Can not beat Latin men- most of my best encounters are with latin men- although in pleasure time :-) loads of fun and love their

hot blood xxx

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Hi Helen,

I don't think you can pigeon box cultures lol (not that you are)

Oh I am ! Shamelessly so.

I do it so as to avoid the problems associated with differing cultural attitudes. I know I am throwing many a baby out with the bathwater but so be it!

I find life and less stressful when I can communicate clearly with my date, and expect a certain level of mutual respect and understanding I think can be lacking in some societies attitudes to women in general and prostitution in particular.

I get by on the British male and his quirky ways - ;)and to be honest I wouldn't want it any other way ! Hes a star generally.

I feel more secure, more in control and happier when I know I can communicate 100% He is also familiar with the same social restraints and etiquette as I am, meaning less room for mistakes and misunderstandings.

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He is also familiar with the same social restraints and etiquette as I am, meaning less room for mistakes and misunderstandings.

Sometimes mistakes and misunderstandings spice up life a bit. I was a mistake and that worked out pretty well for everyone :D

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Sometimes mistakes and misunderstandings spice up life a bit. I was a mistake and that worked out pretty well for everyone :D

True - then again they can result in all sorts of nasty business.

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…I find life and less stressful when I can communicate clearly with my date…

Absolutely. If I have any trouble communicating with a potential client I scrap the idea of accepting a booking from them. This isn’t always to do with a language barrier either; I recently had a very difficult conversation with an elderly gent who, although he said he wasn’t hard of hearing (and was clearly British), he kept mishearing pretty much everything I said, even if I spoke up, repeated, rephrased or spoke more slowly. I asked if we could communicate via email instead to reduce the risk of misunderstanding important instructions and he said he didn’t do email. Unfortunately we couldn’t do talking on the phone so that was that.

Other communication issues have been when someone just doesn’t take on board something I’ve said. An example was a young man who would keep emailing me and if I didn’t respond within about 30 minutes he’s send a follow up email asking if I got the previous one. He’d do similar with texts. He also made a habit of just emailing to say hello because he was “bored” at work. So I said to him that I wasn’t always at my PC or phone and to wait up to 12 hours for an emailed reply and up to a couple of hours for a voice mail return. OK he said, then continued this behaviour. Clearly there was a block between me and his brain and in my opinion that makes him a potential liability as well as an irritation. So no further bookings for him!

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Don't worry Its nothing racially exciting or unfair.

It seems a disproportionately large percentage of my inquiries by phone are from people who do not have English as their first language, whereas my Email enquiries are by and large from Englishmen

I don't see guys who don't speak English as their first Language the reasoning being to ensure there are no misunderstandings or misinterpretations -as well as to avoid certain cultural attitudes (Americans included, who in my experience seem to have an attitude similar to the Arabic outlook regarding the humble whore). That includes white black, brown yellow red, or even those muti-coloured painted and feathered little fellows from the Amazon basin so lets not debate racism or be climbing any high horses just yet!

Anyway. Why do you think foreign chaps would be more likely to see an escort than the good old fashioned English Dandylion or is it just me? I sometimes wonder if its a blonde hair thing with these guys but do dark haired girls get more than their share of foreign enquirers?

Are the Latino, continentals/sub continentals and Asians more testosterone sensitive? More virile? or just not so restrained by the 'no sex please were British' attitude?

Why would calls to escorts have a disproportionate number of none English enquirers ?

Would you see a black, chinese, asian client if English was their first language, and were British born?

Or do you only see white english men?

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Would you see a black, chinese, asian client if English was their first language, and were British born?

Or do you only see white english men?

Good question.

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