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Why Bother With Sensual Massage When U Can Punt?

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Can somebody explain this to me please, because I must be missing something?

Each to their own if course, but I'm trying to figure out why anybody would want a rub n tug when for similar money you can get full service plus a massage?

I can understand it if you find a great spa with sauna facilities and maybe qualified shiatsu practitioners that give you a HE (lots of great places like that in new York), but otherwise i don't see the point?

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Can somebody explain this to me please, because I must be missing something?

Each to their own if course, but I'm trying to figure out why anybody would want a rub n tug when for similar money you can get full service plus a massage?

I can understand it if you find a great spa with sauna facilities and maybe qualified shiatsu practitioners that give you a HE (lots of great places like that in new York), but otherwise i don't see the point?

Because it's not just a rub & tug (at least the ones I have), it's a proper massage off a qualified (or skilled) lady who gradually builds up to an explosive finish. I've had way better orgasms from Hand Jobs than I've ever had from Blow Jobs or sex.

If I punt (or go to a party) and I'm in a bad mood, the bad mood soon returns when I leave. If I'm in a foul mood and go for a good massage and HE, I'm on cloud 9 when I leave.

And to be honest, yes you are missing something. Book in with Saffyra, Savanya, Alena, Ella or any of the other well regarded ladies and you'll understand what it's all about.

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You answered your own question on your second sentence: "Each to his own"

And as Tibbs rightly points out, yes, you are missing something.

Can somebody explain this to me please, because I must be missing something?

Each to their own if course, but I'm trying to figure out why anybody would want a rub n tug when for similar money you can get full service plus a massage?

I can understand it if you find a great spa with sauna facilities and maybe qualified shiatsu practitioners that give you a HE (lots of great places like that in new York), but otherwise i don't see the point?

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Can somebody explain this to me please, because I must be missing something?

Each to their own if course, but I'm trying to figure out why anybody would want a rub n tug when for similar money you can get full service plus a massage?

I can understand it if you find a great spa with sauna facilities and maybe qualified shiatsu practitioners that give you a HE (lots of great places like that in new York), but otherwise i don't see the point?

I once did a similar thread as this. Massage with or without extras is zero interest to me but clearly very popular with many punters. I require certain services in punting nowadays and its the sex that motivates me not a massage and in fact i dislike massages apart from by a partner. What others do is of course their business, different strokes and all that.

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You answered your own question on your second sentence: "Each to his own"

And as Tibbs rightly points out, yes, you are missing something.

And your making a definitive statement in your second that isnt the case with me, i hated it when i tried it within punting so i am not missing anything in my experience.

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I'm definitly into massage at the start of a punt, as prelude to foreplay. I like to recieve and even more so, give! Running my hands over every inch of a girls body is something that I love to do. I'd never claim to be an expert, but I have studied a few videos on erotic massage and taken a few ideas from it. I like slow starts and you can let things flow gradually from giving a massage into foreplay...it works for me and I've never had any complaints from a girl, in fact most girls say they love a massage.

As for just a sensual massage, is there an element of guys who are in a relationship doing this, as they have it in their minds that they are not really cheating on their partners, but still get to play with an escort? That's what I always thought this service was really about?

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And your making a definitive statement in your second that isnt the case with me, i hated it when i tried it within punting so i am not missing anything in my experience.

Have you tried one of the highly regarded masseuses? Non trained wg massage is not very nice, but an experience with an expert is a different matter. If you have tried an expert and still do not like it then that is just part of the "different strokes" principle.

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Lots of advantages to a massage really.

First, if you shop around, it IS cheaper. I pay £40-70 for massage- few punts for an hour are as cheap as that!

Plus, it's basically a different thing.

To address the question " Why (only) get a massage and HR when you can get full service?"

Well, several reasons. One is that not everyone WANTS full sex all the time. sometimes, a nice relaxing massages is good for you. Also, and without prejudice, a massage and HR is virtually risk-free. Full service carries small risks, which might put some folk off.

Massage and HR (or even just naturist massage) is a very enjoyable thing. Full service, in my experience, can often be a bit hit or miss.

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Having had a couple of massages in my past by newly qualified masseuses [by chance meetings], I can understand where the promoters of massage here are coming from. Although these massages started off as purely that they both ended up with unplanned [or I should say uncontrollable] sex, and the sex was explosive [and free too - well I would never dream of paying then anyway!]

I tried something different a few months back with a girl [from the other site] who specialises in massage and in particular genital massage [ no oral on me or penetration on her] It cost £100 for the hour [and I know at least 1 regular on here has visited her since and gave a glowing report too] I found the whole experience mind blowing despite the fact very little actual ‘massage’ was involved, but the HE was much more intensive because of the personal attention given to me by the lady. Its not totally in line with the post, however it did make me realise that penetrative sex is not the be all and end all of a punt, and that a good lady who has skilled hands and attitude is capable of creating an extremely powerful male orgasm. I am sure the members who have visited this special lady in MK know exactly who I am on about!! B)

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Have you tried one of the highly regarded masseuses? Non trained wg massage is not very nice, but an experience with an expert is a different matter. If you have tried an expert and still do not like it then that is just part of the "different strokes" principle.

Its definitely just part of the different strokes principle for me.

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I actually had a similar outlook to the OP's and for most of my 10 year punting career steered clear of any sort of massage based service.

But then only two months ago I saw that a massage place had opened up very close to me, Eva's in West Acton, and as it was only £75 I thought I'd give it a try. Well I was blown away, as someone who enjoys a tie and tease scenario then a sensual massage is perfect, just like a tie and tease it is the offer and denial of sexual pleasure that builds the arousal. Like a wind up toy a skilled masseuse can keep toying with you, wrapping her hands over every inch of your body until your cock is ready to burst, but she will not let you burst she will keep you on the brink, dragging every last bit of sexual pleasure for you that she can get.

I even experienced an orgasm without the masseuse touching the shaft of the penis, she only manipulated the Lingham muscles, that is the base of penis around and below the testicles, a magical sexual experience that i recommend everyone try.

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Its definitely just part of the different strokes principle for me.

sounds like you are not a big fan then Smiths !:)

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I think FBSM is supposed to be passive. Its all about you. Its very enjoyable when you want to stay passive, but pretty frustrating if you are getting horny and want to cuddle or kiss, give and receive at the same time.

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A really good massage can be phenomenal and almost maddeningly sensual as I very recently experienced with a wonderful Asian service provider. However the possibility/guarantee of mind blowing sex/owo afterwards is an absolute must for me. All that will she/won't she crap just drives me up the wall

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A really good massage can be phenomenal and almost maddeningly sensual as I very recently experienced with a wonderful Asian service provider. However the possibility/guarantee of mind blowing sex/owo afterwards is an absolute must for me. All that will she/won't she crap just drives me up the wall

I agree completely. However I am open minded so if somebody wants to give me a recommendation for sensual massage in West London or m4 corridor I'll try it and report back here.

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Can somebody explain this to me please, because I must be missing something?

Each to their own if course, but I'm trying to figure out why anybody would want a rub n tug when for similar money you can get full service plus a massage?

I can understand it if you find a great spa with sauna facilities and maybe qualified shiatsu practitioners that give you a HE (lots of great places like that in new York), but otherwise i don't see the point?

I like to relax. chill out. Take it easy.

Nothing beats a good massage for that.

Sometimes I may get lucky, and the lady begins to massage my ass, my ass crack. I lift up my midbody, then the masseuse massages my ass, balls, cock, belly with lots of oil. The sensation is amazing. Sometimes the ladies masturbate me when I am on my front, sometimes they wait until I turn over.

Sometimes both.

Other ladies french kiss during the massage, others may go further.....

It all depends, but each massage is very different, and each results in guaranteed relaxation. The pleasure is intensified to the Nth degree.

I don't do shiatsu :lol:

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if you want a stress relieving massage then go to a "legit popper masseuse" - when you want fuck, see a whore.

Seems to me people are justifying their urge to release a shot of baby batter by kidding themselves they are there for a remedial massage! :confused:

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if you want a stress relieving massage then go to a "legit popper masseuse" - when you want fuck, see a whore.

Seems to me people are justifying their urge to release a shot of baby batter by kidding themselves they are there for a remedial massage! :confused:

Personally I want both, and that's what you get from a good sensual masseuse. I'm not kidding myself at all; sometimes I want a kiss and cuddle and great sex, so I go to an FS GFE provider, and sometimes I want to lie back, and let someone take away all my stress.

The only problem I have is when I want a really good Swedish massage, as well as a kiss, cuddle and sex. If I could find a provider in London who did that it would be perfect!

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I fully appreciate the difference but can't fully understand why a massage plus hr is more expensive than owo or cim ? Also going by local thread in north east you aren't even assured hr ?

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The only problem I have is when I want a really good Swedish massage, as well as a kiss, cuddle and sex. If I could find a provider in London who did that it would be perfect!

Same problem here. Not after full sex though. Any recommendation will be welcome.

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I fully appreciate the difference but can't fully understand why a massage plus hr is more expensive than owo or cim ? Also going by local thread in north east you aren't even assured hr ?

It really shouldn't be more expensive.

If it is, then look elsewhere.

Here is what I've typically paid for massage.

Me nude, her dressed, HR - £65 for 40 minutes. First one, I was ripped off.

Her topless, me nude, 30 minutes HR in a lovely place- £30 - special offer.

Same place, me nude, her nude, lovely body to body massage, touching, and HR - £50 30 minutes, £80 an hour.

Others, between £40 and £60 an hour depending on circumstances.

For about £40 upwards you can get a good massage in lovely surroundings. For owo in compabarble quality surroundings, I'd say £60 upwards as a minimum.

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if you want a stress relieving massage then go to a "legit popper masseuse" - when you want fuck, see a whore.

Seems to me people are justifying their urge to release a shot of baby batter by kidding themselves they are there for a remedial massage! :confused:

Can I just point out that many WG offering massage will have proper qualifications. I myself have been looking into an NVQ in body massage. Just because a woman offers OWO aswell, dosen't meen her skill at massage is any less.

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Each to their own if course, but I'm trying to figure out why anybody would want a rub n tug when for similar money you can get full service plus a massage?

D'you remember a guy called Bill Clinton? He didn't go for a massage wi' happy end, he had chubby Monica (in the blue dress) give him a BJ in his office. Apparently (in his opinion, and technically, in English law he was right, not that it would have helped) OWO isn't "adultery". That could, perhaps be a legit reason for going for massage + HJ?

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If I punt (or go to a party) and I'm in a bad mood, the bad mood soon returns when I leave. If I'm in a foul mood and go for a good massage and HE, I'm on cloud 9 when I leave.

agree completely with Tibbs, somehow sensual massage even without HE completely transforms my mood, the result being I've never left a good massage wanting another one straight away or a punt. Whereas punting can leave me wanting more.

Also I think it's more decadent to have a massage in that you have a completely passive role, and the massage happens to you, whereas obviously in a punt you do more than lie down.

By contast the adult service I can't fathom is lapdancing, can be more expensive than punting or massage and leaves me frustrated every time. In fact several times I've left and gone straight to the other site to see if any providers are still working at that time.

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If I punt (or go to a party) and I'm in a bad mood, the bad mood soon returns when I leave. If I'm in a foul mood and go for a good massage and HE, I'm on cloud 9 when I leave.

agree completely with Tibbs, somehow sensual massage even without HE completely transforms my mood, the result being I've never left a good massage wanting another one straight away or a punt. Whereas punting can leave me wanting more.

Also I think it's more decadent to have a massage in that you have a completely passive role, and the massage happens to you, whereas obviously in a punt you do more than lie down.

By contast the adult service I can't fathom is lapdancing, can be more expensive than punting or massage and leaves me frustrated every time. In fact several times I've left and gone straight to the other site to see if any providers are still working at that time.

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