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Guys, have you ever encountered a girl that has never had an orgasm in her life, or can not reach orgasm ? just interested...................xx

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Guys, have you ever encountered a girl that has never had an orgasm in her life, or can not reach orgasm ? just interested...................xx

Yes, one WG I know very well admits she has never come, by any technique, with a client, boyfriend or by herself. Understand this not to be that unusual.

She has my sympathy!

Daffon

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I had a GF who could only come if she was by herself.

She could do exactly what she usually did by herself but with anyone there with her it wouldn't happen. Anything anyone else tried didn't work either.

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I had a GF who could only come if she was by herself.

She could do exactly what she usually did by herself but with anyone there with her it wouldn't happen. Anything anyone else tried didn't work either.

I sadly know a girl who could not come even if she did it by herself.

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My twice removed ex, faked her way through about 6 years worth of duff O momments, never mentioned that I knew about it until she packed her bags.

This was despite trying just about every trick in the book, always resulted in the same performance every time.

It was either that or she was staggeringly consistant!

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Only one who admitted it,but only after I had successfully broken her duck. Even then you never know, although I recall her reaction at the time suggested she was being truthful with me. She was quite inexperienced anyhow and had not had many opportunities sexually.

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Guys, have you ever encountered a girl that has never had an orgasm in her life, or can not reach orgasm ? just interested...................xx

never..,most of the girls have mulitple with me.

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never..,most of the girls have mulitple with me.

Is that before or after they've told you 'it's the BIGGEST I've ever seen!!!!' and 'I'm not sure that will fit, but we'll give it a go!' :lol:

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I could never imagine- never having/ experiencing an orgasm and also, I could never imagine growing up/getting older and just totally forgetting about sex! each to their own. I think womans sex drive/orgasms vary- as so in men.

Thanks for the replies guys :-)) xx

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Is that before or after they've told you 'it's the BIGGEST I've ever seen!!!!' and 'I'm not sure that will fit, but we'll give it a go!' :lol:

LMAO :D

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I had a regular escort who I used to visit and she adored having her pussy licked

right up to the point where she go so, so sensitive that that it became as if she

was being tickled and could take it any more ... her laughs were uncontrollable(!!!!????).

Judging by the red glow at the top of her chest and neck I assumed that she was as contented

as me .... I wasn't allowed back between her thighs for a good 10 minutes afterwards ... no

problem for me as she gave a fabulous BJ ... wonder if THAT was HER orgasm? I hope so, 'cos

I got so much pleasure getting her into that state on aregular basis. Sadly she finally gave

up entertaining .....

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A 21 year old friend of mine only had her first O a few months ago after we all clubbed together for her bday and got her a really nice rabbit. She was well grateful bless her! I felt so proud knowing I'd help her experience such a lifechanging event :D

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I think that women, like men, differ. Some orgasm easily when the right buttons are pressed and the mood is right, others find it extremely difficult and the harder they try, perhaps because they want to please their partner, the more difficult it gets. A lot of sex is in the head and the way that girls & boys are raised can carry through to their sex lives.

I have known girls who orgasm easy and gush, whilst others require a lot of foreplay and almost never come during penetration. I have known several who only start orgasming when I am about to spurt - shortly before I want to roll over & sleep! I don't think that it was them being difficult, but something inherent perhaps having pleased their man they could start to relax and enjoy? It is amazing how you develop 2 spurts in those circumstances.

Perhaps those who find it hard to orgasm enjoy music or other things more acutely than we do. People are wonderful and is it not great that we differ?

Peter

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I could never imagine- never having/ experiencing an orgasm and also, I could never imagine growing up/getting older and just totally forgetting about sex! each to their own. I think womans sex drive/orgasms vary- as so in men.

Thanks for the replies guys :-)) xx

Just my opinion but I think anyone who places so much importance on sex and the need to orgasm so much is seriously lacking an element of creative attainment in their life and missing the healthy rewards that come from enjoying its fruits.

In a way I feel sorry for the owners of such excessive sex-drives as their true personal growth is often stunted by what amounts to nothing more than a hormonal imbalance clouding the road to real self-worth.

Don't get me wrong, I'm no saint but I do believe that too much of anything can turn out to be self-defeating.

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Just my opinion but I think anyone who places so much importance on sex and the need to orgasm so much is seriously lacking an element of creative attainment in their life and missing the healthy rewards that come from enjoying its fruits.

In a way I feel sorry for the owners of such excessive sex-drives as their true personal growth is often stunted by what amounts to nothing more than a hormonal imbalance clouding the road to real self-worth.

Don't get me wrong, I'm no saint but I do believe that too much of anything can turn out to be self-defeating.

If I were you SE, I'd consider buying a new bed. The one you currently get out of every morning seems to have too many wrong sides :) !

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Just my opinion but I think anyone who places so much importance on sex and the need to orgasm so much is seriously lacking an element of creative attainment in their life and missing the healthy rewards that come from enjoying its fruits.

In a way I feel sorry for the owners of such excessive sex-drives as their true personal growth is often stunted by what amounts to nothing more than a hormonal imbalance clouding the road to real self-worth.

Don't get me wrong, I'm no saint but I do believe that too much of anything can turn out to be self-defeating.

H Spokseyebrow, Firstly, when I see your posts I do not expect anything amazingly, exciting in terms of words that will suprise me, you can not fail to make a post that is not peppered with pessimism and a cynical attitude.... which I find amusing lol.

Second, The actual topic is about woman that have NEVER had an orgasm in their entire life. What you refer to in your post- excessive sex drives and hormone imbalance is a total different subject altogether and must be plucked from the air, has no relevance in topic. We are on different wave lengths here.

((Read the first post properly Spoky, if you feel necessary to contribute make sure its a decent post keeping in line with topic of conversation.

Do you know yourself of any woman that have never experienced orgasm in their life ? I'm sure you must know more than a few of these woman ))

xxxx

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H Spokseyebrow, Firstly, when I see your posts I do not expect anything amazingly, exciting in terms of words that will suprise me, you can not fail to make a post that is not peppered with pessimism and a cynical attitude.... which I find amusing lol.

Second, The actual topic is about woman that have NEVER had an orgasm in their entire life. What you refer to in your post- excessive sex drives and hormone imbalance is a total different subject altogether and must be plucked from the air, has no relevance in topic. We are on different wave lengths here.

((Read the first post properly Spoky, if you feel necessary to contribute make sure its a decent post keeping in line with topic of conversation.

Do you know yourself of any woman that have never experienced orgasm in their life ? I'm sure you must know more than a few of these woman ))

xxxx

Can't be a healthy thing not ever reaching orgasm. The only example I can think of resulted in the birth of Christianity and look at the mayhem that produced.

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H Spokseyebrow, Firstly, when I see your posts I do not expect anything amazingly, exciting in terms of words that will suprise me, you can not fail to make a post that is not peppered with pessimism and a cynical attitude.... which I find amusing lol.

Second, The actual topic is about woman that have NEVER had an orgasm in their entire life. What you refer to in your post- excessive sex drives and hormone imbalance is a total different subject altogether and must be plucked from the air, has no relevance in topic. We are on different wave lengths here.

((Read the first post properly Spoky, if you feel necessary to contribute make sure its a decent post keeping in line with topic of conversation.

Do you know yourself of any woman that have never experienced orgasm in their life ? I'm sure you must know more than a few of these woman ))

xxxx

Well you’ve certainly side-stepped your own point ns4u. I was replying to your post in which you said you could never imagine not experiencing an orgasm or growing old and just forgetting about sex. The fact is, nobody just forgets about sex; sex is a motivation primarily driven by hormones. How it is expressed and satisfied can vary considerably between individuals as you must know and is also related to social factors, hence the diverse gamut of sexual preferences some refer to as perversions.

Whether you ‘forget about sex’ as you put it won’t be your choice but rather a result of the changes that take place in your body over time or like with some women after they give birth. Believe it or not but in 10 years or so you will not be the same person as you are today, particularly from your current age. Hard to imagine I know, but a biological fact nonetheless. I known women who had very high sex-drives when they were younger but show very little interest. I’m sure that if I put to them back then, that they would feel the way they do today, they would have laughed.

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Well you’ve certainly side-stepped your own point ns4u. I was replying to your post in which you said you could never imagine not experiencing an orgasm or growing old and just forgetting about sex. The fact is, nobody just forgets about sex; sex is a motivation primarily driven by hormones. How it is expressed and satisfied can vary considerably between individuals as you must know and is also related to social factors, hence the diverse gamut of sexual preferences some refer to as perversions.

Whether you ‘forget about sex’ as you put it won’t be your choice but rather a result of the changes that take place in your body over time or like with some women after they give birth. Believe it or not but in 10 years or so you will not be the same person as you are today, particularly from your current age. Hard to imagine I know, but a biological fact nonetheless. I known women who had very high sex-drives when they were younger but show very little interest. I’m sure that if I put to them back then, that they would feel the way they do today, they would have laughed.

Yes, I happen to agree with some of your post here. I do not think it is all down to hormones though, I would say a multitude of things contribute to an individuals appetite in sex- i,e genes, hereditary factors, mental state/any medical problems/issues- mental/physical, etc, etc,..

In contrary to what you say- some woman never find themselfs 'sexually' until they peak at a certain age or mature/get older, also with woman that have children, some woman never want sex again, some it does not affect in the slightest, some gain more of a appetite for sex, again it entirely depends on an individual.

It was particular woman that have never experienced an orgasm in their life that I was referring to,

It could be that they have never got to the point of being relaxed with their own bodies/being comfortable- feeling of embaressment, or

feeling that it may be wrong in some sense, maybe can not let themselfs go/and or loose control.

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Yes, I happen to agree with some of your post here. I do not think it is all down to hormones though, I would say a multitude of things contribute to an individuals appetite in sex- i,e genes, hereditary factors, mental state/any medical problems/issues- mental/physical, etc, etc,..

In contrary to what you say- some woman never find themselfs 'sexually' until they peak at a certain age or mature/get older, also with woman that have children, some woman never want sex again, some it does not affect in the slightest, some gain more of a appetite for sex, again it entirely depends on an individual.

It was particular woman that have never experienced an orgasm in their life that I was referring to,

It could be that they have never got to the point of being relaxed with their own bodies/being comfortable- feeling of embaressment, or

feeling that it may be wrong in some sense, maybe can not let themselfs go/and or loose control.

Yes I agree, those are valid points you make. I have been out with women at both ends of the spectrum; one used to orgasm very easily and another had never had one, not with me or anyone and she was quite okay with it. I suppose you don't miss what you never had eh? But to have had it and then lose it is something else.

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I'm sure like any normal woman, some wg's wont be able to orgasm, but as a punter unless you are a regular of hers how would you know? Then again she may well be a dam fine actress lol, :o

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Well you’ve certainly side-stepped your own point ns4u. I was replying to your post in which you said you could never imagine not experiencing an orgasm or growing old and just forgetting about sex. The fact is, nobody just forgets about sex; sex is a motivation primarily driven by hormones. How it is expressed and satisfied can vary considerably between individuals as you must know and is also related to social factors, hence the diverse gamut of sexual preferences some refer to as perversions.

I could not imagine Natasha growing old and forgetting about sex, just not the type, I can't see her joining the WI, baking cakes and organising raffles, I could see her corrupting younger men In her old age though hehe. :D

The reason many married punters visit wg's Is because her Indoors don't give out anymore, I say a tip to any guy who this affects, give your Mrs a box of Asprin, she may well say 'but I don't have a headache' to which you should reply, ok luv get ur knickers off!! boom boom

I'm here all week. :)

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Can't be a healthy thing not ever reaching orgasm. The only example I can think of resulted in the birth of Christianity and look at the mayhem that produced.

I don't think its strictly necessary for a woman to orgasm to become pregnant!

'If its not a personal question, are you a virgin?'.

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It used to be thought that a woman had to orgasm to become pregnant, up until the 18th century or so. Then the Victorians came along (bless 'em) and decided that women should derive no pleasure from sex at all.

A woman's orgasm is a fantastically complicated thing. It's another way that women's bodies helps the 'right' person's sperm to reach her egg. An orgasm at the right (or wrong) time can massively increase (or reduce) the chance of that particular man making her pregnant.

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I don't think its strictly necessary for a woman to orgasm to become pregnant!

'If its not a personal question, are you a virgin?'.

Yes OK, but allow me a little bit of poetic licence to get to a bad joke! And if the virgin question was aimed at me (not sure why it was in inverted commas?) - I wish I was. I could start the whole journey again!

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