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KenF

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Hi all, I'm a mature virgin whoose 25 years old. I've decided I finally need to take the plunge and will shortly be booking an escort. My problem is, and the reason for my complete lack of confidance with women in general, is that I have many Fordyce spots on my testicles and the shaft of my penis.I went and got circumcised about a year ago to remove as many as possible. I need advice on whether I should tell the escort I'm planning on seeing,if shes happy to see me that is, about my condition and how I should go about it.Do you think it would be a problem? Im already as nervous as hell but I feel its now or never. The damn things are about as prominent as the guys in the link with some abit more so.http://www.google.co.uk/imgres?imgurl=http://www.fordycespots.com/wp-content/gallery/cache/71__320x240_photos-of-fordyce-spots-on-penis.jpg&imgrefurl=http://fordycespots.com.s98524.gridserver.com/%3Flang%3Dfr&usg=__qGDbJg2nliblDYvAmFqUd1lUBEI=&h=240&w=320&sz=13&hl=en&start=8&zoom=1&tbnid=5qTtT1ELTI0XbM:&tbnh=89&tbnw=118&ei=tvTOTbK_O8iT-waRyb2tDA&prev=/search%3Fq%3Dsebaceous%2Bprominence%2Bpictures%26hl%3Den%26sa%3DX%26rlz%3D1T4ADFA_enGB421GB421%26biw%3D1899%26bih%3D825%26tbm%3Disch&itbs=1. I'd be really grateful for any advice people would be willing to give me.

Thanks in advance.

KenF

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Initially I was going to say it won't do any harm to mention them, but I'd never heard of them so Goggled 'Fordyce'.

You are panicking over nothing. I have those, always considered they absolutely normal which wiki confirms they are. I'd never even realised they have a name and never had them mentioned.

Relax and go enjoy yourself.

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Initially I was going to say it won't do any harm to mention them, but I'd never heard of them so Goggled 'Fordyce'.

You are panicking over nothing. I have those, always considered they absolutely normal which wiki confirms they are. I'd never even realised they have a name and never had them mentioned.

Relax and go enjoy yourself.

i have noticed these too. i can really only notice them if i inspect closely. i have never really been worried about them. a WG has never commented on them.

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I didnt know what Fordyce spots were either, but after googling it they are nothing to worry about. I have them as well and never considered it to be an issue, I have never mentioned it to any girls and never recieved a comment on them.

I dont know how severe yours are, but I really dont think you need to make an issue of this. Just go ahead and book your punt.

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Was gonna do a post saying that I've seen many guys with this, and it's one of the things on the list than a normal penis can have, along with pearly penile papules. There was a thread on here about it that I now cannot find.

But there's no need now as hats off to the fellas posting that they have em too and it's quite normal.

I guess delaying having a woman sexually look at your bits has grown the fear that this is a problem. Fear not.

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Thanks alot for the feedback guys, very much appreciated, thats a massive weight off my mind!

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I've got those too, never considered them anything other than normal and no woman has ever commented on them. WG or not.

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You are totally normal, I didn't even 'google' it, I just knew what you were talking about when I read the post. It's not a 'condition' KenF, you are absolutely fine, and just like millions of other guys! Don't worry. I have seen a lot of willies... :P

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KenF, they are really common you know. Glad posting here has taken a weight off your mind and hope you have a fun time with whoever you book :)

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You've been worrying over nothing - go for it man - make up for all that lost time - Good Luck! :)

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I had a few of these appear on the underside of my cock, when I was about 14. I though I had a std and went straight down the GP's. I was told that about 50% of men will get them and a smaller percentage of women too, they are a gland at the base of pubic hairs that produce oil..in some people, they are larger and closer to the surface and therefore more visible...but infact, everyone has them, you just can't see them, on some people.

I only have a few and they resemble goose-bumps, they are only visible if the skin is streched tight and you have to look real close.

Ok, now the reason for my post, which is mostly aimed at KenF. I have punted with about 50 girls..49 of them have never mentioned this and those that offer owo, have given it. One girl did and made an issue of it, thinking I had something she could catch! So KenF, go ahead and punt, but be aware that if you are ever refused, it's only because the girl is ignorant and you MUST not take it to heart...just move on to another wg.

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I was really worried when i got a small white spot on the underside of my shaft and went to the GUM and was scared i had an STI and also anxious because i was embarresed that girls would run a mile if they saw it. The doc said it was just a boil apparently and that it would go away in time and she gave me some aqueous cream to use on it and i still do every day. Honestly, i look down at it and i hate myself, i just wanna wake up and it be gone. Only 1 girl has ever said anything about it and i was honest with her and it was ok.

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Finally got round to picking up the phone, just felt like the hardest thing I've ever done! Booked an escort for Saturday, wish me luck!

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Finally got round to picking up the phone, just felt like the hardest thing I've ever done! Booked an escort for Saturday, wish me luck!

The best of British. :D

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Finally got round to picking up the phone, just felt like the hardest thing I've ever done! Booked an escort for Saturday, wish me luck!

Good luck and have fun. :)

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Come back and tell us how it went (and write up your first FR!)

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:D

Had a really great time with a lovely and understanding lady on Saturday afternoon! It didn't really sink in what I was upto until I turned the engine off and stepped out the car but I was soon put at ease. Needless to say I was thoroughly bloody useless and awkward but I was in safe hands so it turned out great.

Regarding the issue in my original post about my insecutity, like you all said I was worrying over nothing. Felt like a damn fool, but a happy and relieved fool! :D

Just wanted to thank everyone that replied. I honestly woudnt have gone for it if it wasnt for your advice.

Special thanks to Kid A for providing balance and warning me not to take any refusal to heart.

Currently walking round grinning like a moron but gona be laughing at my awkwardness for ages. Much to learn!

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Yea I thought I had a problem with this in my teenage years, till I found out they are completely normal. Nothing to worry about.

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:D

Had a really great time with a lovely and understanding lady on Saturday afternoon! It didn't really sink in what I was upto until I turned the engine off and stepped out the car but I was soon put at ease. Needless to say I was thoroughly bloody useless and awkward but I was in safe hands so it turned out great.

Regarding the issue in my original post about my insecutity, like you all said I was worrying over nothing. Felt like a damn fool, but a happy and relieved fool! :D

Just wanted to thank everyone that replied. I honestly woudnt have gone for it if it wasnt for your advice.

Special thanks to Kid A for providing balance and warning me not to take any refusal to heart.

Currently walking round grinning like a moron but gona be laughing at my awkwardness for ages. Much to learn!

Great to hear it went well. :)

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Had a really great time with a lovely and understanding lady on Saturday afternoon!

Great stuff! Glad it went well for you.

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Glad to hear it went well. We all have to start sometime. It gets better, you know! (Always do your 'homework' thoroughly first.)

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