Guest Cedric

Tips For Hardness

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I used to dabble in taking viagra etc, but i am circa 30 and have no health issues, so stopped, i have noted that it has effected my erections somewhat...in terms of how long i can maintain it for is more erratic than before

any thoughts on generally increasing firmness duration...

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Have you tried splints?

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I used to dabble in taking viagra etc, but i am circa 30 and have no health issues, so stopped, i have noted that it has effected my erections somewhat...in terms of how long i can maintain it for is more erratic than before

any thoughts on generally increasing firmness duration...

I know some gentlemen who swear by cock rings, and they don't have to be tacky, I have seen a lovely one which was made from a string of pearls.

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Pumps? Never tried one myself but would be interested in comments - could actually be fun if you know a girl well and get her to do the pumping.

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Have you tried splints?

does this really work?

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Get the girls to tie a stocking or ribbon round the base of your cock and loop it round the top of your scrotum, you need it quite tight, turn you into a rod of iron.

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any thoughts on generally increasing firmness duration...

Why worry?

I like to start a session with 10-15 minutes of kissing and cuddling...having an erection or not at this stage is of little consequence to me, as it doesn't affect my enjoyment of this activity! However, I do find that little to no stimulation of the penis at this stage, does lead to a slow but very hard erection build up, that does last a long time! Kissing can act like Viagra for me!

I would say the same thing for giving massage and oral...if the fella goes limp, so what?

When recieving oral, I have never had a problem. The only time I have gome semi-hard is during full sex and this is after a series of edging and backing off. I now find it best to take things slow and build up to an orgasm, without continual backing off, and that 15 mins of penetration is about my limit. I'm also a once and done guy, trying to cum twice in hour will not happen, so I need to bear this in mind. One thing I'm not interested in, is popping pills, if I have time left I'm happy to just go back to a kiss n cuddle , at the end of a booking, no bannana this time though! :D

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............and that 15 mins of penetration is about my limit.

Really ?

The famed Alan B'Astard, would have come about 20 times in your 15 minutes.

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Really ?

The famed Alan B'Astard, would have come about 20 times in your 15 minutes.

Well, he's a lucky B'Astard ain't he! :D

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I know some gentlemen who swear by cock rings, and they don't have to be tacky, I have seen a lovely one which was made from a string of pearls.

I have a punter mate who always uses cock rings that vibrate and it works for him, never tried them myself as like never trying Viagra or similar i prefer to let nature take its course. Like Kid A i can get it up during DFK and with other stimulation, if you cant i would advise seeing a doctor in the first instance.

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The best thing you could possibly do is to stop even thinking about it. The more you worry about something like this the worse it gets. If that fails then cock rings do work and plenty use them.

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Like Kid A ,I like to start a session with lot of kissing and cuddling... OWO and titwank also work for me. However, putting the rubber on is a problem for me, so I don't like full sex.

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