Sarah Summers

Being Discreet

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This is my first new topic on here since I rejoined so please receive me with a pinch of salt folks :) That means Be Nice!

Some things never change about this industry do they? I'm talking about being discreet and protecting identities - mine especially !

When you read about all these folks taking out injunctions because they slept with some loose tongued (and even more loose moralled hooker) all it serves is to make our industry even more seedier than it appears to be to Joe Public:)

I'm discreet. I try to be as discreet as I can without disappearing up my own gonga. I don't want YOU to get into trouble, so I would not respond to voicemail messages by calling back - ever - in case you are with someone.

I have seen people who we all know, as lots of other ladies will have done, but the thought of going to the papers has never entered into my head. I have far more to lose anyway. My life is VERY important... to me and mine.

I challenge anyone to be more discreet than this...........

I drive into town. I use my zapper to get into the underground car park, ( it's a power thing :) and then I take the lift to my flat.

(Yes I am Bruce Wayne in the flesh)

Nobody, but nobody knows I am there. When I leave and drive home, nobody will have the faintest idea where I have been, and I love that level of anonymity. It's a luxury and it leaves me with a secret smile when I think about what I have been up to as I chat to my next door neighbour who regards me as 'just a mum'.

So tell me, how discreet are you, and could you improve on your punting discretion?

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I practise discretion through anonimity.

I live alone in a commuter village on a starter home estate. I don't have a friend who lives less than a 20 minute drive away. I just about know the names of my two immediate neighbours but have never spoken to anyone else.

My family all live at least an hour away and aren't the sort to just 'drop in'

I'm not particularly memorable to look at. I date right now but they know I see other people. When I'm exclusive with someone I don't punt and delete all record of my activity when I get a girlfriend.

I tend to punt either in my home or when I'm away on business. All in all pretty discrete!

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*Waves white flag*

This is my first new topic on here since I rejoined so please receive me with a pinch of salt folks :) That means Be Nice!

Some things never change about this industry do they? I'm talking about being discreet and protecting identities - mine especially !

When you read about all these folks taking out injunctions because they slept with some loose tongued (and even more loose moralled hooker) all it serves is to make our industry even more seedier than it appears to be to Joe Public:)

I'm discreet. I try to be as discreet as I can without disappearing up my own gonga. I don't want YOU to get into trouble, so I would not respond to voicemail messages by calling back - ever - in case you are with someone.

I have seen people who we all know, as lots of other ladies will have done, but the thought of going to the papers has never entered into my head. I have far more to lose anyway. My life is VERY important... to me and mine.

I challenge anyone to be more discreet than this...........

I drive into town. I use my zapper to get into the underground car park, ( it's a power thing :) and then I take the lift to my flat.

(Yes I am Bruce Wayne in the flesh)

Nobody, but nobody knows I am there. When I leave and drive home, nobody will have the faintest idea where I have been, and I love that level of anonymity. It's a luxury and it leaves me with a secret smile when I think about what I have been up to as I chat to my next door neighbour who regards me as 'just a mum'.

So tell me, how discreet are you, and could you improve on your punting discretion?

Being discreet and caring about my personal security are important to me. Those i care about know i pay for sex but this is because i told them, it doesnt mean i dont wish to be careful when dealing with strangers to me.

In 28 years i have never and would never have an Outcall to my home or be prepared to show my ID, that would compromise my security to a degree thats not acceptable to me.

I have used a dedicated punting phone turned off apart from when making bookings, park my car away from the WGs/Establishments address, have as little personal ID with me as possible, phone, car keys plus the ladies fee as a minimum. I dont hang about outside her place counting the time down and would never just knock before the agreed time.

I only phone newbies to me but will text with regulars but have no interest in emailing. I look for simplicity, research, phone, chat, book, confirm, turn up, punt and go usually same day.

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I'm sure all of us here appreciate your thoroughly professional attitude Sarah, as discretion is important to us whether WGs or clients. Obviously there are one or two who let the side down, but in general I don't think it's respectable professional ladies like you that guys have to worry about, but the amateurs who set out to snare someone well-known with the intention of subsequently prostituing themselves by selling the details to the highest bidder. You sometimes have to wonder just what value they place on their self-respect.

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I'm sure all of us here appreciate your thoroughly professional attitude Sarah, as discretion is important to us whether WGs or clients. Obviously there are one or two who let the side down, but in general I don't think it's respectable professional ladies like you that guys have to worry about, but the amateurs who set out to snare someone well-known with the intention of subsequently prostituing themselves by selling the details to the highest bidder. You sometimes have to wonder just what value they place on their self-respect.

I suspect money clouds their judgement :)

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Discretion is in the eye of the beholder!

I'll explain what I mean.

I'm a single guy and often ask wgs for outcall bookings to my home. I noticed that they would park up at the start of my road and walk up looking for my number, numbering is a bit odd as it goes around in a clockwise manner and can be a bit confusing! I found that this could look a little suspect to any "curtain twitchers" who may see her! So at the time of booking, I specify that I'd sooner that the girl parks on my driveway or on the road directly outside my house, I also give details about exactly where my house is located in the street. For me, this then looks like a have a female friend visiting and nothing "dodgy" is going on. I would add, that I know a number of the other residents on a social level and would prefer them not to know I see wgs - this not because I feel any shame, merely that other people can/do have a prejudice against punters :)

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Me? I'm soooo discreet that I'm not commenting. :)

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Discretion is in the eye of the beholder!

I'll explain what I mean.

I'm a single guy and often ask wgs for outcall bookings to my home. I noticed that they would park up at the start of my road and walk up looking for my number, numbering is a bit odd as it goes around in a clockwise manner and can be a bit confusing! I found that this could look a little suspect to any "curtain twitchers" who may see her! So at the time of booking, I specify that I'd sooner that the girl parks on my driveway or on the road directly outside my house, I also give details about exactly where my house is located in the street. For me, this then looks like a have a female friend visiting and nothing "dodgy" is going on. I would add, that I know a number of the other residents on a social level and would prefer them not to know I see wgs - this not because I feel any shame, merely that other people can/do have a prejudice against punters :)

surely they should suss your joint out on street view -i do before going somewhere so i can walk confidently

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surely they should suss your joint out on street view -i do before going somewhere so i can walk confidently

I tend to go for dizzy blondes! Sussing things out is not their strong point!

Wgs would seem to think that not parking outside a clients house is more dicreet, in most cases it probably is...but I prefer it if they do, for the reasons I gave in my previous post!

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I avoid newbies figuring if they quit after a few punts they will remember each punter whereas a long time WG is unlikely to remember each of the punters that only visited once (hence also avoid regulars unless I get a real feeling of trust).

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*Waves white flag*

This is my first new topic on here since I rejoined so please receive me with a pinch of salt folks :) That means Be Nice!

Some things never change about this industry do they? I'm talking about being discreet and protecting identities - mine especially !

When you read about all these folks taking out injunctions because they slept with some loose tongued (and even more loose moralled hooker) all it serves is to make our industry even more seedier than it appears to be to Joe Public:)

I'm discreet. I try to be as discreet as I can without disappearing up my own gonga. I don't want YOU to get into trouble, so I would not respond to voicemail messages by calling back - ever - in case you are with someone.

I have seen people who we all know, as lots of other ladies will have done, but the thought of going to the papers has never entered into my head. I have far more to lose anyway. My life is VERY important... to me and mine.

I challenge anyone to be more discreet than this...........

I drive into town. I use my zapper to get into the underground car park, ( it's a power thing :) and then I take the lift to my flat.

(Yes I am Bruce Wayne in the flesh)

Nobody, but nobody knows I am there. When I leave and drive home, nobody will have the faintest idea where I have been, and I love that level of anonymity. It's a luxury and it leaves me with a secret smile when I think about what I have been up to as I chat to my next door neighbour who regards me as 'just a mum'.

So tell me, how discreet are you, and could you improve on your punting discretion?

Sarah, your post (and a look at your website) has put you at the top of my list, even if i do live at the other end of the country. Hope I haven't got you into trouble for touting!

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I try not to carry any id and too much extra cash on me on a punt. If the location is central, I'll also wear a cap.

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Discretion is in the eye of the beholder!

I'll explain what I mean.

I'm a single guy and often ask wgs for outcall bookings to my home. I noticed that they would park up at the start of my road and walk up looking for my number, numbering is a bit odd as it goes around in a clockwise manner and can be a bit confusing! I found that this could look a little suspect to any "curtain twitchers" who may see her! So at the time of booking, I specify that I'd sooner that the girl parks on my driveway or on the road directly outside my house, I also give details about exactly where my house is located in the street. For me, this then looks like a have a female friend visiting and nothing "dodgy" is going on. I would add, that I know a number of the other residents on a social level and would prefer them not to know I see wgs - this not because I feel any shame, merely that other people can/do have a prejudice against punters :)

I believe it appears far more 'natural' to park near to the property I am visiting (unless someone specifies otherwise). Also, early on in my independant days, I invested in a smart briefcase; should anyone be wary of nosey, curtain twitching neighbours - I would easily be explained away as an estate agent or some such professional visiting for a legitimate reason....it also comes in handy for transporting my kit instead of cramming everything into a handbag ;-)

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I believe it appears far more 'natural' to park near to the property I am visiting (unless someone specifies otherwise). Also, early on in my independant days, I invested in a smart briefcase; should anyone be wary of nosey, curtain twitching neighbours - I would easily be explained away as an estate agent or some such professional visiting for a legitimate reason....it also comes in handy for transporting my kit instead of cramming everything into a handbag ;-)

Experiences to my home:

1. Lady knocks on wrong door (!)

2. Driver walks through apartment building, past my door, round a few times and back again, knocks on my door. He leaves, lady waiting outside in short skirt then comes in.

3. Ugliest woman I have ever seen knocks on my door and says she is the escort. (I paid her to leave there and then). Her mates were wating outside in car, loud music playing.

4. Driver comes in building with skantily clad lady, takes money outside my door, lady walks in.

5. Driver stays outside my house in his car for entire session. Lady comes out, gives him money, he counts it (complete with car lights on inside car) gives woman a few notes.

All escorts need to do is dress down (my favourite simply wears either a knee length skirt or jeans), tell driver to move away until session is over.

I never ever see indiscrete ladies twice.

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Experiences to my home:

1. Lady knocks on wrong door (!)

2. Driver walks through apartment building, past my door, round a few times and back again, knocks on my door. He leaves, lady waiting outside in short skirt then comes in.

3. Ugliest woman I have ever seen knocks on my door and says she is the escort. (I paid her to leave there and then). Her mates were wating outside in car, loud music playing.

4. Driver comes in building with skantily clad lady, takes money outside my door, lady walks in.

5. Driver stays outside my house in his car for entire session. Lady comes out, gives him money, he counts it (complete with car lights on inside car) gives woman a few notes.

All escorts need to do is dress down (my favourite simply wears either a knee length skirt or jeans), tell driver to move away until session is over.

I never ever see indiscrete ladies twice.

However rare these incidents may be its exactly why I'd never do an outcall to my home, too high risk.

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Street View is often several years out of date with its photographs - I wouldn't rely on it for recognition features. Houses get repainted, shop fronts change ...

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Experiences to my home:

1. Lady knocks on wrong door (!)

2. Driver walks through apartment building, past my door, round a few times and back again, knocks on my door. He leaves, lady waiting outside in short skirt then comes in.

3. Ugliest woman I have ever seen knocks on my door and says she is the escort. (I paid her to leave there and then). Her mates were wating outside in car, loud music playing.

4. Driver comes in building with skantily clad lady, takes money outside my door, lady walks in.

5. Driver stays outside my house in his car for entire session. Lady comes out, gives him money, he counts it (complete with car lights on inside car) gives woman a few notes.

All escorts need to do is dress down (my favourite simply wears either a knee length skirt or jeans), tell driver to move away until session is over.

I never ever see indiscrete ladies twice.

Ways I try and counter the problems you listed…and also to answer other peoples concerns with outcalls.

1.I tell the lady to park next to my car, give colour and make, this is in addition to my full address, so she has two reference points to look out for, on her arrival. I never allow her to knock on my door, I always open it on her arrival, I think this is courteous as well, she then knows she’s at the right address and isn’t the victim of a prankster! It also prevents her going to my neighbours, by mistake!

2. I only book girls who drive themselves. Not as difficult to work out as it seems, I do it from the price. In my area; £120hr she drives herself, £160/hr she has a driver. Anything in between and it gets tricky, some judgement is required, on how high a calibre lady she is and this has to be factored in. I haven’t been wrong for over two years ie I’ve managed to only book girls who drive themselves!

3. I’d only consider an outcall with a girl who has plenty of very positive references.

4/5 N/A

As for dress, I normally ask for a sexy secretary look , firstly I love this look and secondly as has already been mentioned by Karin, it would keep anyone guessing as to why she is visiting me.

One final point, I’m not prepared to allow other people to dictate how I live my life, I try and make things look as discreet/innocent as possible, but ultimately, if people think I’m seeing escorts and have a problem with it, they can go fuck themselves…..whist I get fucked by a gorgeous women.

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I don't hang around the front of the wg's flat or nearby; if I happen to arrive early I'll go for a walk or wait a good few streets away (maybe even visit the shops and go browsing or whatever). Also I've never taken gifts with me, feel it's a bit too conspicuous. I can't imagine turning up to an appointment with a big box of chocolates or something is a terribly good idea. I also try to limit the amount of cash I hold on me.

That said, one time I arrived bang on time for an appointment... had looked up the address on Streetview before leaving my house, so knew exactly where to go, no hanging around or anything. Upon getting there unfortunately, there were electricians on the ground landing of the flat; one of them started talking to me...

and then I also noticed a guy on his phone chatting away outside a different flat door...

AND THEN! the wg I was meant to see appeared, coming out to fetch me; until she saw the phone guy + the electricians, and rushed back into her flat... :blink:

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I used to have a client who would arrive an hour early and park outside my house or very close by. I'd see him practically once a week on a weekend afternoon. Unfortunately I only discovered this when my (very) nosy neighbour asked me about him, luckily I thought fast and told him he was my depressed and slightly mad uncle who had just lost his wife, hence the strange behaviour and regular 'lunch' meetings. Strangely enough, after that I had no interest in seeing him again....

In general, if I am visiting a client at their home or hotel and I have any worries at all about seeming confident in the direction in which I am going, I call my client so that they can 'guide me in' rather than wandering around aimlessly looking suspicious.

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I just think it sad a lady or gent (but mostly ladies) see dating a footballer/celeb whatever and then selling intimate details of that to the newspapers as their way of life.

We all know there are several ladies and maybe some guys who date people to exploit the publicity and money or just for fame.

I know Imogen Thomas is trying to come over all nice now, but she seeked fame through Big Brother and then through dating footballers etc. Now we are to expect she really loved this guy, but has to tell her story because she was wronged? If so, I assume she will give all money made to charity?

Katie Price, Chantelle Houghton are just a few more names who come to mind. What kind of a society have we created where some women (and men) think this is how to define themselves?

Ultimately I'd say anyone who does such a kiss and tell is destined to an unhappy life, regardless of financial wealth.

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Discretion is a big thing for me. That is why I refuse to put face pics on the net. I also wouldn't do incalls from my home I much prefer to use a hotel. I dont think you can be too careful these days.

Shelly

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Discreetness is imperative to me... Health and Safety is the number one priority for most people that are punters or working girls and a close second has to be the level of discreetness.

I do a colossal amount of research when it comes to a new lady I want to see, once the lady has given me details about her location I then devise a plan on where to park, where to walk to her place of work and if need's be to pretend I am texting someone as I am walking to her place.

In Northampton, their are massage parlours that are so public that you have to be some kind of masochist or be into public humiliation to go through with a punt as these places are either on the busiest roads in our town where everyone knows its a massage parlour, so when you enter or leave at least several people would point and stare at you.... the other place shares a building with an actual business and this place always has people at the front hanging around their, it is clearly sign posted with the obvious picture of a lady on the front... even Stevie Wonder could see it's a massage parlour driving past at speed.

Places around MK are perfect to be discreet due to the shear amount of shops and businesses, ample amount of parking also... you can easily look like your on business or going to do a bit of shopping, even at these discreet places I always check the way is clear by parking nearby where I can see the entrance and when the way is clear I go for glory.

As a rule of thumb I only do incall's to her location after I am sure her place is discreet, If I lived in a more discreet, quite area I would do an out-call or two... I am hoping to move soon to a more discreet location to where I can possibly do this... however I would still prefer to punt outside my home town because this adds to the excitement and build up of the punt and MK is only 30 min drive down the M1 from me anyway.

In my experience outcall's are more riskier for punters depending on how public your house is, if it is located on a terraced street or the location is obviously compromised by mothers with prams hanging about or something similar... then this would be a hard no to outcalls, however if you are located in a very quite street, detached home and in a nice area... privacy seems much more attainable so booking a lady for an outcall here and there would suffice.

I love the level of anonymity that working girls go to in order to protect themselves, family and punters, these are the kind of ladies I would prefer to see as they value their privacy as much as I do and so we can have our very naughty fun together and leave with knowing that no one apart from us two shared a moment of thrilling adventure and excitement for the day or week, breaking up the day to day routine to have fun... I am sure Sarah Summers feel like that and we punters do also.

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Discretion is a big thing for me. That is why I refuse to put face pics on the net. I also wouldn't do incalls from my home I much prefer to use a hotel. I dont think you can be too careful these days.

Shelly

Totally agree, you really cant be too careful and Outcalls to my home i would see as reckless and a risk not worth taking. Of course what others do is up to them. :)

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On a slightly related topic... if I were a famous footballer, the last person I'd want to start an affair with would be a known, fame-hungry, celebrity-chasing, media-whore who has a TV crew following her around 24 hours a day..

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*Waves white flag*

This is my first new topic on here since I rejoined so please receive me with a pinch of salt folks :) That means Be Nice!

Some things never change about this industry do they? I'm talking about being discreet and protecting identities - mine especially !

When you read about all these folks taking out injunctions because they slept with some loose tongued (and even more loose moralled hooker) all it serves is to make our industry even more seedier than it appears to be to Joe Public:)

I'm discreet. I try to be as discreet as I can without disappearing up my own gonga. I don't want YOU to get into trouble, so I would not respond to voicemail messages by calling back - ever - in case you are with someone.

I have seen people who we all know, as lots of other ladies will have done, but the thought of going to the papers has never entered into my head. I have far more to lose anyway. My life is VERY important... to me and mine.

I challenge anyone to be more discreet than this...........

I drive into town. I use my zapper to get into the underground car park, ( it's a power thing :) and then I take the lift to my flat.

(Yes I am Bruce Wayne in the flesh)

Nobody, but nobody knows I am there. When I leave and drive home, nobody will have the faintest idea where I have been, and I love that level of anonymity. It's a luxury and it leaves me with a secret smile when I think about what I have been up to as I chat to my next door neighbour who regards me as 'just a mum'.

So tell me, how discreet are you, and could you improve on your punting discretion?

Firstly, wearing my boring pedant hat, may I congratulate you on being one of the elite few (punter or WG) who knows the difference between discreet and discrete. I wouldn't be surprised if you knew that armature movies are films about electric motors!

Congratulation on your well organised secret life.

I have been wondering how Imogen Thomas' reputation had been trashed by Ryan Giggs' injunction. I can only think that she misguidedly assumes that a 'good girl' sleeps with a rich married man for free and then threatens to sell her story whereas someone who offers sexual services for money and respects the privacy of the arrangement is a 'bad girl'. WRONG! I think a large proportion of the population might agree that the latter is a lady, albeit of the night, whereas the former is probably a slut (and I know that the pejorative use of that word is a feminist issue right now!)

Daffon

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