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Following on from Sarah's interesting thread for the boys about how openminded we are with regards to misrepresentation on looks, services, time allowed etc here is one for the girls.

If a bloke arrives at your place having agreed a fee of say £250 for 2 hours and then says sorry I only have £200 can I still stay for two hours, do you

1. Think bird in the hand ...

2. Think that's ok as I had added 10 years to my real age. taken off two dress sizes and subtracted two cup sizes to by boobs

3. Think nevermind I know you were told I do CIM but actually I am allegic to sperm if you think any of yours is coming within a mile of me you are mistaken

4. Think nevermind I was only going to let you stay for 90 minutes anyway

5. Tell him to f off

Would be interested to hear

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Following on from Sarah's interesting thread for the boys about how openminded we are with regards to misrepresentation on looks, services, time allowed etc here is one for the girls.

If a bloke arrives at your place having agreed a fee of say £250 for 2 hours and then says sorry I only have £200 can I still stay for two hours, do you

1. Think bird in the hand ...

2. Think that's ok as I had added 10 years to my real age. taken off two dress sizes and subtracted two cup sizes to by boobs

3. Think nevermind I know you were told I do CIM but actually I am allegic to sperm if you think any of yours is coming within a mile of me you are mistaken

4. Think nevermind I was only going to let you stay for 90 minutes anyway

5. Tell him to f off

Would be interested to hear

Oh, naughty naughty!

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I tend to do reverse bookings on the 'Other Site' and regularly get bids from ladies at rates below their published rates. I even get lower bids from ladies who have big 'my rates are non-negotiable' messages on their profiles.

From the meetings I've had there doesn't seem to be a reduction in the quality of the booking if a lady bids less than her stated price.

Personally I have much more success on reverse auctions as I know the lady has read what I wrote & responded in kind.

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If a 'gentleman'(and I use that term very loosely in this particular instance) arrived with less than the agreed fee and asked to stay for the previously agreed time, I'm afraid I would expect him to either leave or reduce the length of his booking.

If the fee has been agreed then it is the absolute height of rudeness to try to change the terms on arrival.

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I tend to do reverse bookings on the 'Other Site' and regularly get bids from ladies at rates below their published rates. I even get lower bids from ladies who have big 'my rates are non-negotiable' messages on their profiles.

From the meetings I've had there doesn't seem to be a reduction in the quality of the booking if a lady bids less than her stated price.

Personally I have much more success on reverse auctions as I know the lady has read what I wrote & responded in kind.

What is a reverse booking exactly?

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Following on from Sarah's interesting thread for the boys about how openminded we are with regards to misrepresentation on looks, services, time allowed etc here is one for the girls.

If a bloke arrives at your place having agreed a fee of say £250 for 2 hours and then says sorry I only have £200 can I still stay for two hours, do you

1. Think bird in the hand ...

2. Think that's ok as I had added 10 years to my real age. taken off two dress sizes and subtracted two cup sizes to by boobs

3. Think nevermind I know you were told I do CIM but actually I am allegic to sperm if you think any of yours is coming within a mile of me you are mistaken

4. Think nevermind I was only going to let you stay for 90 minutes anyway

5. Tell him to f off

Would be interested to hear

If someone turns up and they are pissed off as they feel you have mislead them then they should say so and walk out. If someone agrees to pay £250 then they should pay £250 otherwise they are bartering with you which is not acceptable in my view. The girl may well have turned down 3 other bookings at the correct rate so I would imagine would be annoyed.

I personally would take option 5 as most girls have the ability to make up the booking later in the day. I would rather spend the next 2 hours answering my phone to genuine, polite clients that are prepared to pay the rate advertised than carry on an appointment with someone who is rude enough to think my time can be bargained over. It would not make for a pleasant appointment anyhow as I would just be waiting for the right minute to bite his dick or stick my finger up his arse whilst all the time being distracted by what a rude, tight fisted pratt he was. Just as if he thought I was misleading him I would hope he would tell me to (option 5)

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If a 'gentleman'(and I use that term very loosely in this particular instance) arrived with less than the agreed fee and asked to stay for the previously agreed time, I'm afraid I would expect him to either leave or reduce the length of his booking.

If the fee has been agreed then it is the absolute height of rudeness to try to change the terms on arrival.

Even if over a reduced timescale though Claire, wouldn't proceeding leave a bad taste in your mouth? (No pun intended.)

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This has not happened to me yet but I have already thought about how I would react if it did. I feel like I would agree a shorter booking time but it would depend on how the client was in lots of ways. It is extremely rude and puts a WG in a very difficult and embarrassing situation. I think one of the reasons(apart from the obvious of him running off without paying)that it is important to get the money out of the way first is because it means that you can relax and enjoy someone's company without thinking about the in and outs of the financial transaction. If a client couldn't afford the £250, I would expect him to discuss this prior to the booking not during. You wouldn't order a set menu for £25 from a restaurant then turn up with £20 would you? :unsure:

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I tend to do reverse bookings on the 'Other Site' and regularly get bids from ladies at rates below their published rates. I even get lower bids from ladies who have big 'my rates are non-negotiable' messages on their profiles.

From the meetings I've had there doesn't seem to be a reduction in the quality of the booking if a lady bids less than her stated price.

Personally I have much more success on reverse auctions as I know the lady has read what I wrote & responded in kind.

I find it a great system and well worth the two pounds invested to set up a booking.

I never think of it as "negotiating" rates as the bidder is free to go above, equal or below what I offer to pay so you could view that it is lady who is negotiating.

I don't use it to look for a bargain, although it is appreciated :rolleyes: , it is more to see who might be attracted to visit my area and then I may get to see someone who I would not have otherwise considered booking.

I've been amazed at some of the offers that have been made.

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What is a reverse booking exactly?

A system offered on another site.

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I tend to do reverse bookings on the 'Other Site' and regularly get bids from ladies at rates below their published rates. I even get lower bids from ladies who have big 'my rates are non-negotiable' messages on their profiles.

From the meetings I've had there doesn't seem to be a reduction in the quality of the booking if a lady bids less than her stated price.

Personally I have much more success on reverse auctions as I know the lady has read what I wrote & responded in kind.

These ladies responding to your reverse booking decided they don't mind reducing their rates. The positive experience was likely to be because you hadn't undervalued them by asking them to to reduce their rate. Big difference.

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A plumber I know agreed a price to service a boiler. On completion of the service, the client offered him less than the agreed amount. He took the money, went back to the boiler, removed the pump, made it safe and said he'd replace the pump when the guy came up with the balance...

It didn't take long.

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What is a reverse booking exactly?

It's a system on the 'Other Site' where you pay 2 pounds and then you can put up details of a booking you're interested in. You enter:

  • Location
  • Date & Time of the booking
  • Whether you want incall or outcall
  • How much you're willing to pay
  • How long the booking is
  • a textual description of exactly what you're after

Ladies can then read it, see if they're interested in and then bid accordingly. They can bid any amount, and write with the booking any extra fees, or special deals they may be doing.

I find that they're more successful where there are a large amount of British WGs. I find that Manchester especially has a fantastic response rate.

It's also good because the ladies who are outside your usual search sphere may show up. I specify certain services and a distance limit in my regular searches, but am often surprised that ladies will say that they're willing to do things not on their 'likes' or travel long distances for a longer booking.

Most ladies I wind up booking through reverse bookings are not ones that I would have found through a regular search on the site.

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Following on from Sarah's interesting thread for the boys about how openminded we are with regards to misrepresentation on looks, services, time allowed etc here is one for the girls.

If a bloke arrives at your place having agreed a fee of say £250 for 2 hours and then says sorry I only have £200 can I still stay for two hours, do you

1. Think bird in the hand ...

2. Think that's ok as I had added 10 years to my real age. taken off two dress sizes and subtracted two cup sizes to by boobs

3. Think nevermind I know you were told I do CIM but actually I am allegic to sperm if you think any of yours is coming within a mile of me you are mistaken

4. Think nevermind I was only going to let you stay for 90 minutes anyway

5. Tell him to f off

Would be interested to hear

OK, So say I don't look anything like my pics, and everything else you mention... why would he want to stay at all - £200 or not?

If someone said this to me and I had seen them before, I would ask for my hourly rate and cut his appointment down to one hour only. If this was a new customer, knowing darn well he would want to return :D .. I would ask him to leave and his card would then be marked as a time waster. His loss.

Nobody has done this to me yet. I can't imagine anyone would be so stupid or ignorant??

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A plumber I know agreed a price to service a boiler. On completion of the service, the client offered him less than the agreed amount. He took the money, went back to the boiler, removed the pump, made it safe and said he'd replace the pump when the guy came up with the balance...

It didn't take long.

Way to go !

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These ladies responding to your reverse booking decided they don't mind reducing their rates. The positive experience was likely to be because you hadn't undervalued them by asking them to to reduce their rate. Big difference.

And I guess this is the difficulty. I'm a typical Brit in that I'm very reticent at negotiating. I wouldn't dream of offering a WG a lower rate than her published fees directly, and yet I'm happy to accept a bid from a lady at below her rate. The RA process shows that ladies are willing to lower their fees (sometimes by a very significant amount) for the right booking. If they do it in that environment, why is it such a faux pas to do it directly?

Though it has to be said it's only of academic interest, since I would never barter directly! I certainly wouldn't do it once I'd agreed a price.

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Everything is negotiable.

Everything.

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Everything is negotiable.

Everything.

True-ish.

But some practices (e.g. trying to renege on an agreed price AFTER a service has been properly performed) nearly always fail the "fairness test" that I try to apply in my dealings with other people.

And in general... in punting... I tend to think attempting to negotiate an advertised rate tends to get things off to a poor start. I can't think of any circumstances where I'd try to negotiate a discount on a first time punt. (Reverse auctions are... patently... a different matter.)

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Even if over a reduced timescale though Claire, wouldn't proceeding leave a bad taste in your mouth? (No pun intended.)

Certainly any warm feelings I'd had up to that point would cool down somewhat!

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True-ish.

But some practices (e.g. trying to renege on an agreed price AFTER a service has been properly performed) nearly always fail the "fairness test" that I try to apply in my dealings with other people.

And in general... in punting... I tend to think attempting to negotiate an advertised rate tends to get things off to a poor start. I can't think of any circumstances where I'd try to negotiate a discount on a first time punt. (Reverse auctions are... patently... a different matter.)

Indeed. What i want when punting is a WG with a good or better attitude, haggling about money could affect her attitude and piss her off so she might agree to less money but doesnt put herself wholeheartedly into the punt. WGs that do go for it wholeheartedly offer a better service in my experience so it would be a false economy to piss her off over money. For me her attitude being good or better is more important than trying to save a few quid.

I choose WGs whose rates i already know i am prepared to pay so i have no need to haggle usually. :)

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OK, So say I don't look anything like my pics, and everything else you mention... why would he want to stay at all - £200 or not?

If someone said this to me and I had seen them before, I would ask for my hourly rate and cut his appointment down to one hour only. If this was a new customer, knowing darn well he would want to return :D .. I would ask him to leave and his card would then be marked as a time waster. His loss.

Nobody has done this to me yet. I can't imagine anyone would be so stupid or ignorant??

Some punters are thinking with their dicks and will stay anyway, i know as i was one myself in the past. :)

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And I guess this is the difficulty. I'm a typical Brit in that I'm very reticent at negotiating. I wouldn't dream of offering a WG a lower rate than her published fees directly, and yet I'm happy to accept a bid from a lady at below her rate. The RA process shows that ladies are willing to lower their fees (sometimes by a very significant amount) for the right booking. If they do it in that environment, why is it such a faux pas to do it directly?

Though it has to be said it's only of academic interest, since I would never barter directly! I certainly wouldn't do it once I'd agreed a price.

I'm with you on that. I'd be useless in one of those Turkish or Moroccan markets where you're supposed to haggle for everything!

Everything is negotiable.

Everything.

What, even cumming in the mouth of an escort who has specifically told you that she doesn't do CIM? :P:rolleyes:

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What, even cumming in the mouth of an escort who has specifically told you that she doesn't do CIM? :P:rolleyes:

That could very much depend on how hard she can bite! :o

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I do think the reactions are interesting and I thank Mrs Diva, Claire and Sarah for joining the debate. I want to make one thing very clear I am a walker so would never try and negotiate, I just leave. What annoys me most is the wasted time. I know we have reviews BUT I am also preplexed by a lot of reviewers as they often continue the myth of age etc. I have seen ladies who are then reviewed by guys who say a lovely girl in her early 30's and the lady has told me she has kids in their late 20's and she is clearly in her last 40's. What's that about?

As MrsDiva says

I personally would take option 5 as most girls have the ability to make up the booking later in the day. Just as if he thought I was misleading him I would hope he would tell me to (option 5)

I totally agree and am delighted that you feel this is a two way arrangement snd wrongs on both sides are as bad as each other. But to be honest several of your Cup size definitions look smaller than that to me! C seems to be your minimum size.

As Claire says

If the fee has been agreed then it is the absolute height of rudeness to try to change the terms on arrival.

I totally agree and hope that you also agree that any misrepresentaion is also the height of rudeness as often the first we know about the change of terms is when the door opens! If I was intoi BBW women in Bristol in their mid to late 30's I would be rather annoyed if I made a booking and you were in your mid 40's and yes we can tell!

As Sarah says

OK, So say I don't look anything like my pics, and everything else you mention... why would he want to stay at all - £200 or not?

I was not expecting the list to be taken as a "whole" just a series of mis representations that I think all experienced punters have been through. You are very careful on your website to give no age, figures, services etc and from your images you look like you fluctuate around a size 12/14 sometimes a little thinner, sometimes a little heavier.

So assuming Mrs Diva has a line of undersized bras, Claire really is 37 and Sarah gets her dates on the basis of those wonderful nipples (if they are hers) I think we all agree misprepresentaion is a no no and bartering a price is a no no.

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So assuming Mrs Diva has a line of undersized bras, Claire really is 37 and Sarah gets her dates on the basis of those wonderful nipples (if they are hers) I think we all agree misprepresentaion is a no no and bartering a price is a no no.

I cannot comment on the other two ladies but am perfectly willing to provide proof of my age to any gentleman rude enough to ask.

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