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Different scene here in Korea, bars with a few girls, you buy them drinks at 10 dollars a shot. If they like you and you bought enough drinks they may visit your hotel room when the bar closes, early to mid week about 02:30 in the morning no money asked for, you may have had a bar bill of 200 dollars however and no guarantee of when they may visit but it feels like a real GFE.

Tonight I met my regular girl at the hairdressers as i needed a trim and she was also having a hairdo, I paid for both about 85 dollars we then called at her friends dress shop she bought something about 100 dollars and asked me for 50 dollars, we then went for dinner with her friend about 75 dollars. She dropped me back at my hotel and she went to work in her bar at 20:30.

I dropped in about 21:30 and she was very loving touching kissing for about 2 hours, at this point I had been a little tired and she looked tired so I suggested asking the mama san to let her leave early If I paid for loss of earnings but she said not possible, she then suggested she will visit tomorrow that is Friday a very busy night sometimes to 05:00 never before suggested.

I leave on Tuesday so not many evenings remain and Friday Saturday were always a no no before, at this point I paid the bill and left about 140 dollars.

She is very passionate when she visits me enough to say the best sex I have ever had and I did enjoy the evening up to the point of no visit, I will see her again but I think Friday is a dream, I will mention the result on here but not holding my breath, I enjoy sitting with her and she is very good to look at and good company.

OK point is am I being stupid or what and being played she has been about six times to my room over 4 weeks and is either a very good actress or she does actually like me as it is allways very intense some times starting to dress after sex then we kiss and she undresses again.

Reading this I realise that I am enjoying myself so maybe escorting is not just sex but tonight would have been fantastic if it had happened, probably not knowing if it will happen adds to the moment.

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OK I was wrong, she did organise the night to leave a little early 02:30, unfortunately there was a bit of a party in the bar and she drank some real shots not the usual watered down whisky, still had a few passionate kisses.

I left (you never leave together) and ten mitutes later she appeared on wobbly legs.

Took her to my room (again a first, she usually enters after me) she undressed and collapsed face down on the bed comatose, half woke up at 11:00 and went home looking shattered, not even a kiss. She texted "so sorry" at 17:00. I almost forgot bar bill 400 dollars.

All in all a night of highs and lows high when she said all was organised and low at the outcome, do I go again tonight? still undecided money getting low.

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OK I was wrong, she did organise the night to leave a little early 02:30, unfortunately there was a bit of a party in the bar and she drank some real shots not the usual watered down whisky, still had a few passionate kisses.

I left (you never leave together) and ten mitutes later she appeared on wobbly legs.

Took her to my room (again a first, she usually enters after me) she undressed and collapsed face down on the bed comatose, half woke up at 11:00 and went home looking shattered, not even a kiss. She texted "so sorry" at 17:00. I almost forgot bar bill 400 dollars.

All in all a night of highs and lows high when she said all was organised and low at the outcome, do I go again tonight? still undecided money getting low.

barnacle1

Difficult to tell but one thing is clear, you are for sure spending a lot of money. Oriental ladies are rather focused when it comes to foreigners and earning money. It is quite possible that she is having fun too but I think she will have her priorities right from what you describe.

I am certainly not one to splash out money like that for fun with girls. It just does not feel right for me but I understand it can be fun and have done similar things in the past when it was fun. It is possible however to have fun yet not spend so much on bars and so on.

I was recently seeing a girl in South East Asia. I had seen her during a couple of visits and when away she would be sending sms after sms about how she is missing me and when I return. Last trip she insisted that she stays with me for the duration of my stay. Whenever I met her I would pay her although this was never discussed. The last trip thinking that she is staying with me I had planned to pay her at the end of the week. Two days after my arrival she needed to go somewhere for the evening and we were out so I just gave her Euro 50 for pocket money till I see her again as I did not have more cash on me. She must have thought this is all I was gonna pay her so she simply disappeared. All the time before that she gave the impression of a girl friend and looked almost in love. At no point I was under any illusion what this is all about and how much time and money I am willing to spend on it. I can however imagine that such situation could be a heart breaking experience for someone less experienced. She was young, very cute and in bed, well she was very trying.

Asian girls first and foremost look for a sponsor and all else is secondary specially if you are foreign. Yet they are sweet and can be very caring but understandably need finances.

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To the op...so you paid aproximatley 640 dollars for a drunken good night snog before she fell asleep. I have no idea what the exchange rate is but it doesnt sound like you are getting a good deal there...unless the "real life" girlfriend experience is what you are after...what would you have to pay her to experience the "I have a headache...not tonight dear" services...pay her rent for the year??

Sorry, it may sound like I am mocking but I am not. Just a bit gobsmacked.xx

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wow so much. imagine how many times he could have shagged the lovely warm caring mk ladies.

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All understood unfortunately not in the uk, this started when I was on my own in a foreign country where prostitution is illegal for 6 weeks and it started by her taking me sightseeing. I have had six very good times in my hotel room with the lady.

Update tonight Saturday the big night out and all bars full, I went to her bar but she is not there, mama san says she called in sick, also found out the reason for my big bar bill, I had bought the bottle of 12 year old glenfidic which was still behind the bar cost 280 dollars.

will keep you posted.

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Difficult to tell but one thing is clear, you are for sure spending a lot of money. Oriental ladies are rather focused when it comes to foreigners and earning money. It is quite possible that she is having fun too but I think she will have her priorities right from what you describe.

I am certainly not one to splash out money like that for fun with girls. It just does not feel right for me but I understand it can be fun and have done similar things in the past when it was fun. It is possible however to have fun yet not spend so much on bars and so on.

I was recently seeing a girl in South East Asia. I had seen her during a couple of visits and when away she would be sending sms after sms about how she is missing me and when I return. Last trip she insisted that she stays with me for the duration of my stay. Whenever I met her I would pay her although this was never discussed. The last trip thinking that she is staying with me I had planned to pay her at the end of the week. Two days after my arrival she needed to go somewhere for the evening and we were out so I just gave her Euro 50 for pocket money till I see her again as I did not have more cash on me. She must have thought this is all I was gonna pay her so she simply disappeared. All the time before that she gave the impression of a girl friend and looked almost in love. At no point I was under any illusion what this is all about and how much time and money I am willing to spend on it. I can however imagine that such situation could be a heart breaking experience for someone less experienced. She was young, very cute and in bed, well she was very trying.

Asian girls first and foremost look for a sponsor and all else is secondary specially if you are foreign. Yet they are sweet and can be very caring but understandably need finances.

An she is thinking "two days and all I got was 50 Euros! Last time I trust a foreigner!"

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An she is thinking "two days and all I got was 50 Euros! Last time I trust a foreigner!"

When I first met her she asked for $30 for spending the night with me and I gave her 50. I know, big spender.

This time I did not actually wanted her to stay with me full time but she insisted. I did plan however to pay her a reasonable amount at the end of the week.

The point was that you really can't tell with some of these girls. One minute she is in love and the next she is gone. Good I would say :) Not looking for a girlfriend. Spending few hours is fine but no longer than that for occasional meetings.

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When I first met her she asked for $30 for spending the night with me and I gave her 50. I know, big spender.

This time I did not actually wanted her to stay with me full time but she insisted. I did plan however to pay her a reasonable amount at the end of the week.

The point was that you really can't tell with some of these girls. One minute she is in love and the next she is gone. Good I would say :) Not looking for a girlfriend. Spending few hours is fine but no longer than that for occasional meetings.

I would say, if it makes him happy then leave him to it, but...... the very nature of his posting on here should be an indicator that he is getting his plonker pulled by a business woman, and deep down he knows this or he would not be asking wjhat we think. Sure, she is lovely to look at and the rest... of course she is! She would not be doing the job if she were not lovely would she??

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I would say, if it makes him happy then leave him to it, but...... the very nature of his posting on here should be an indicator that he is getting his plonker pulled by a business woman, and deep down he knows this or he would not be asking wjhat we think. Sure, she is lovely to look at and the rest... of course she is! She would not be doing the job if she were not lovely would she??

LOL

Correct.

I have seen many sad stories and some people for whatever reasons do fall in traps and I think a discussion may help them.

Only last week I was reading the story of the UK millionaire who married a Ukrainian through a dating agency and was recently run over by a car and murdered. The wife is in now in UK collecting his assets and a criminal investigation is pending but Ukrainian police doing little.

Shit happens. be very careful when dealing with Oriental and EE girls.

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Correct.

I have seen many sad stories and some people for whatever reasons do fall in traps and I think a discussion may help them.

Only last week I was reading the story of the UK millionaire who married a Ukrainian through a dating agency and was recently run over by a car and murdered. The wife is in now in UK collecting his assets and a criminal investigation is pending but Ukrainian police doing little.

Shit happens. be very careful when dealing with Oriental and EE girls.

Fred, I could tell you a story about a Thai girl I knew from taking my children to Nursery. She married a local guy, who had his own house and a career. This was a lovely looking woman, great fun, great personality. If it were not true, you would not believe the things she did to him for money.

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Fred, I could tell you a story about a Thai girl I knew from taking my children to Nursery. She married a local guy, who had his own house and a career. This was a lovely looking woman, great fun, great personality. If it were not true, you would not believe the things she did to him for money.

It is by nature that they do these things. There is a vast cultural difference and many European men when meeting girls from these countries think they are same as girls anywhere with similar values. They don't. They are not bad, you just need to understand them and act accordingly and know what you are getting into.

The case our friend here is describing is just a bit of harmless fun (costly mind) but it is important to have perspective. I have dated numerous EE ladies, many of them WGs. Had great fun but was clear from word go where they are coming from. Similar experiences with Asians. Only few months ago an Asian lady friend I was dating London for a short while decided to go off as I would not pay her rent deposit and two months rent in advance. I hardly knew the girl. She did all she could for me to fall in love with her and I did as far as she was concerned.

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