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I was just thinking about this one.

I have heard of other WG's sending random Texts to their previous Clients saying something along the lines of "Come back and see me and get a discount" or "I'm available today, why not come back"...

I would never ever contact ANY of my Clients unless they had a) Contacted me first or B) I had for some reason to cancel a Booking with them (very rare)...

I consider it hugely unprofessional for a WG to contact a Client just randomly...I think it's soooooo dangerous...What if their Phone is lying around on the Kitchen Table and the Wife picks it up!!

I know a lot of my Clients say that they come back to me because of my level of discretion.

For WG's...What do you think about sending out random texts?

For Clients...Have you ever received random Texts from WG's and if so would that put you off going to see them again?

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I was just thinking about this one.

I have heard of other WG's sending random Texts to their previous Clients saying something along the lines of "Come back and see me and get a discount" or "I'm available today, why not come back"...

I would never ever contact ANY of my Clients unless they had a) Contacted me first or B) I had for some reason to cancel a Booking with them (very rare)...

I consider it hugely unprofessional for a WG to contact a Client just randomly...I think it's soooooo dangerous...What if their Phone is lying around on the Kitchen Table and the Wife picks it up!!

I know a lot of my Clients say that they come back to me because of my level of discretion.

For WG's...What do you think about sending out random texts?

For Clients...Have you ever received random Texts from WG's and if so would that put you off going to see them again?

I have received a couple of these in the 2+ years I have punted, so they do happen, but aren't all that common. Most girls have enough common sense to realise these are a bad idea. I have always replied asking them never to contact me in an unsolicited manner again. I have never revisited either.

Thank god for punting sims though !

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It has only happened to me once, and I wasn't particularly chuffed. I don't really welcome cold calls from holiday firms or glazing companies whose services I've used in the past either. :rolleyes:

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happened to me twice, and that's two ladies I'll never see again - totally unprofessional

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I was just thinking about this one.

I have heard of other WG's sending random Texts to their previous Clients saying something along the lines of "Come back and see me and get a discount" or "I'm available today, why not come back"...

I would never ever contact ANY of my Clients unless they had a) Contacted me first or B) I had for some reason to cancel a Booking with them (very rare)...

I consider it hugely unprofessional for a WG to contact a Client just randomly...I think it's soooooo dangerous...What if their Phone is lying around on the Kitchen Table and the Wife picks it up!!

I know a lot of my Clients say that they come back to me because of my level of discretion.

For WG's...What do you think about sending out random texts?

For Clients...Have you ever received random Texts from WG's and if so would that put you off going to see them again?

I have received them and its virtually a guarantee the WG/Establishment wont get my future business. The worst was a now defunct party provider who i rang once to enquire and they texted me about half a dozen times offering allsorts. I rang them and gave them a verbal rocket and they did stop.

I NEVER want to be contacted by a WG/Establishment unless i have previously agreed this with them, no excuses, its very unprofessional. :)

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Unless a client has specifically requested a text or call then this is just WRONG WRONG WRONG.

I have less than a handful (3 to be exact) clients who have asked me to let them know if a new girl comes along who may be their sort, if an old girl comes back or if a girl who cannot work regular days pops up on the rota in case they do not notice...thats it and I wouldnt dream of contacting anyone else

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A few of the clients I have seen have asked me to text them when am in their area again but I tell them the best thing to do is just check my site for my availability on my site as I dont want to text even if they say its ok and risk someone else seeing the message, some clients have told me to just say im in the area in the text but even then I get worried what if someone sees the message and thinks the guy might be seeing someone.

Best thing to be on safe side and the client either checks my site for availability or calls me to see when am in his area next.

One guy told me that alot of the EE girls are texting their clients and saying "I had good time, when will you see me again" :o WTF!

Are these girls plain stupid no discretion at all. This business is about being discreet not getting caught, and when girls do stupid things like this they are just losing clientelle rather than getting return customers.

Nisha xx

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I tried to call a WG once but there was no reply and kicked into voicemail - I didn't leave a message and cut off the call before the beep.

About 2 hours later, in a restaurant with the wife I get a call from an unknown number - turns out it was the WG who apologised for missing my call earlier but asked if I wanted to make a booking!

Cue the obvious 'who's that?' question from the wife - I just said it was a wrong number but it's the closest I've been to being busted - I never booked with her after her unprofessional indiscretion of calling a random number on a phone after no message had been left!

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The only time it happened was when the agency texted me about a hour after the punt wanting to know if I had enjoyed it. Which I think was okay. The day after might have been a bugger as I am famous in my real life for never getting texts

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Told this story on here before sunny sunday morning. A time when a mans defenses are down and his relaxed. I got a text from a lady i had seen a month beforehand,the main problem? My GF was in the bedroom when the phone went off and asked if i wanted her to bring it to me. I said yes as i was expecting a text from my brother.

I then heard "what this?" as she read out a "hello darling here are my summer prices hope to see you again" style message. I can honestly say that time went into slow motion for me at that point i had to think on my feet quickly i took the phone off her puzzled. Are you seeing escorts she asked jokingly. "No way" i said. i stood for a moment thinking then started smiling "i think i know who this was". She went back to running her bath while i sat down a bit shaken. i had to have a firm end to this i couldn't have any lingering suspicions so i thought to myself if i sent a text as someone else maybe i could make it into a joke.

Now me and my friends have a very dark sense of humour so i came up with the idea that one of them had gotten my phone put a name and number in and then texted me when i'd least expected it. By this time i had laid the groundwork by saying that one of my other friends had pulled this off by sending gay escort messages through to another mate.

So i jumped on the internet and started to try to find a free text service after searching i found a free one and set about making an account and a message up

Did a "Haha did i get you mate" type message and sent it off by now my GF was back in the living room as we started watching a repeat of X Factor phone goes off i pick it up and read it out and laugh and text back.

She buys it very,very lucky escape. I know keep a firm eye on my phone or keep it on silent.

If business is slow ladies please email if you must. A text is wayyy too dangerous and just means that i would no longer see you as discretion is obviously low on your priorities.

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I'm a regular client of an escort reasonably local and we get on fantastically...she ocassionally texts me to see when I may visit next but it's only because she knows I'm very, very single and I'm ok with it...if I meet someone, obviously that arrangement would change.

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I am so glad that there isa thread on this.

I have a lady , who i have not seen in a while who will text or call me at random if she does not hear from me in about a month. I got a text from her a few days ago.

I actually find it nice and complimenting. However, i do think its a little inconsiderate, I could have a wife or younger brother or sister messing around with my phone.

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After an upgrade, use your old handset as your punting phone. Install a PAYG SIM, pin code it and only turn it on when needed. I can't believe so many people risk using their main phone when punting.

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I tried to call a WG once but there was no reply and kicked into voicemail - I didn't leave a message and cut off the call before the beep.

About 2 hours later, in a restaurant with the wife I get a call from an unknown number - turns out it was the WG who apologised for missing my call earlier but asked if I wanted to make a booking!

Cue the obvious 'who's that?' question from the wife - I just said it was a wrong number but it's the closest I've been to being busted - I never booked with her after her unprofessional indiscretion of calling a random number on a phone after no message had been left!

A good reason for leaving a message if ever there was one, although I do go along with the general view that WGs shouldn't ring or text unless asked to.

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I get booty calls/texts all the time from girls who I am loyal to. Some will kind of tease me "No customer today :( Very Lonely and Bored" or "I want you in my flat now" ...

I think its fine. Customers don't want the service to be professional. They want it to be as natural as possible and texting each other is a good way to lead up to the next session. It also plays on your mind and makes you more excited if a girl sends out a booty text request.

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Told this story on here before sunny sunday morning. A time when a mans defenses are down and his relaxed. I got a text from a lady i had seen a month beforehand,the main problem? My GF was in the bedroom when the phone went off and asked if i wanted her to bring it to me. I said yes as i was expecting a text from my brother.

I then heard "what this?" as she read out a "hello darling here are my summer prices hope to see you again" style message. I can honestly say that time went into slow motion for me at that point i had to think on my feet quickly i took the phone off her puzzled. Are you seeing escorts she asked jokingly. "No way" i said. i stood for a moment thinking then started smiling "i think i know who this was". She went back to running her bath while i sat down a bit shaken. i had to have a firm end to this i couldn't have any lingering suspicions so i thought to myself if i sent a text as someone else maybe i could make it into a joke.

Now me and my friends have a very dark sense of humour so i came up with the idea that one of them had gotten my phone put a name and number in and then texted me when i'd least expected it. By this time i had laid the groundwork by saying that one of my other friends had pulled this off by sending gay escort messages through to another mate.

So i jumped on the internet and started to try to find a free text service after searching i found a free one and set about making an account and a message up

Did a "Haha did i get you mate" type message and sent it off by now my GF was back in the living room as we started watching a repeat of X Factor phone goes off i pick it up and read it out and laugh and text back.

She buys it very,very lucky escape. I know keep a firm eye on my phone or keep it on silent.

If business is slow ladies please email if you must. A text is wayyy too dangerous and just means that i would no longer see you as discretion is obviously low on your priorities.

I hope she doesn't read this board!

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I get booty calls/texts all the time from girls who I am loyal to. Some will kind of tease me "No customer today :( Very Lonely and Bored" or "I want you in my flat now" ...

I think its fine. Customers don't want the service to be professional. They want it to be as natural as possible and texting each other is a good way to lead up to the next session. It also plays on your mind and makes you more excited if a girl sends out a booty text request.

When you say customers dont want it to be professional your not speaking for me, professional is exactly how i want it.

I have no interest in texting back and forwards before a punt, i ring to enquire, book and confirm, turn up, punt and leave, end of. As i said before if i out of the blue not agreed beforehand receive texts or indeed calls its highly unlikely i would punt with the WG again as she has proved she cant be discrete which is a basic in punting.

Edited by smiths

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I went to see a lady only once in Feltham who advertised on Adultwank. When she opened the door she wasn't the lady in the photos ( there's a surprise )I turned and walked. She immediately texted me before I had got down the stairs. "What's the matter darlin"- she said. I said "You are not the lady in the photos you are very thin and you don't look well"- then I hung up. 5 minutes later " Come back, come back- my friend will see you she isn't thin and she looks really fit" I just kept walking.

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I get booty calls/texts all the time from girls who I am loyal to. Some will kind of tease me "No customer today :( Very Lonely and Bored" or "I want you in my flat now" ...

I think its fine. Customers don't want the service to be professional. They want it to be as natural as possible and texting each other is a good way to lead up to the next session. It also plays on your mind and makes you more excited if a girl sends out a booty text request.

That might be ok for your situation, but many other guys have partners and need to keep their punting a total secret. Having random texts jeopardises this, that's why we ladies actually DO have to be professional (and discreet) in the way we work.

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I hope she doesn't read this board!

Not a chance. :)

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I had a girl I've seen a few times text me recently asking if I'd fallen into the North Sea or something, which I actually rather liked, because it was more of a friendly "not heard from you for a while" message than a "hey, drumming up some business" message. She's texted me out of the blue before, but never anything that gives the game away - I'm the one that does that!

If it's from a regular, and if they word it correctly, then I think it's fine, and actually quite nice to feel like you're being missed.

If it's from someone who you've only seen once who is clearly just going through their contacts trying to drum up business, then it's pretty crass and is unlikely to work - if she was worthy of a repeat performance, I wouldn't need reminding.

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I was just thinking about this one.

I have heard of other WG's sending random Texts to their previous Clients saying something along the lines of "Come back and see me and get a discount" or "I'm available today, why not come back"...

I would never ever contact ANY of my Clients unless they had a) Contacted me first or B) I had for some reason to cancel a Booking with them (very rare)...

I consider it hugely unprofessional for a WG to contact a Client just randomly...I think it's soooooo dangerous...What if their Phone is lying around on the Kitchen Table and the Wife picks it up!!

I know a lot of my Clients say that they come back to me because of my level of discretion.

For WG's...What do you think about sending out random texts?

For Clients...Have you ever received random Texts from WG's and if so would that put you off going to see them again?

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I consider it hugely unprofessional for a WG to contact a Client just randomly...I think it's soooooo dangerous...What if their Phone is lying around on the Kitchen Table and the Wife picks it up!!

My thoughts exactly.

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Hello people, this is the sex industry. Shit happens.

We're all wonderful people on Punternet and none of us would EVER do anything indiscreet or inconsiderate, but there those out there who will.

Gents. Get a second phone for punting, and turn it off when not in use. Ladies phoning/texting at awkward times? Not any more.

Ladies. Get a second phone for working, and turn it off when not in use. Punters phoning/texting at awkward times? Not any more.

Problem solved.

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I would never text a guy unsolicited texts to try drumming up business, if I miss a call and see it within 5 mins I send a text saying sorry can't talk right now where you looking for a booking, it's out of order for girls to randomly texts guys if you ask me.

Mandy x

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