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Holding Hand(s) During Sex With A Wg

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Just wondering how both sides feel about it.

Obviously there's the infamous 'gfe' but for mine there is still a few 'unwritten' rules where the line's not crossed very often.

For me there's something incredibly intimate when holding hands with a girl during sex, especially when the fingers are intertwined. I've only done this once or twice with a wg however because my perception is that it is so intimate it is close to the 'line'. Usually they are gripping the sheets, my arms, the wall or whatever.

Can you hold hands and still retain the necessary detatchment required? Is anyone else even remotely bothered at all by this :P ?

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Just wondering how both sides feel about it.

Obviously there's the infamous 'gfe' but for mine there is still a few 'unwritten' rules where the line's not crossed very often.

For me there's something incredibly intimate when holding hands with a girl during sex, especially when the fingers are intertwined. I've only done this once or twice with a wg however because my perception is that it is so intimate it is close to the 'line'. Usually they are gripping the sheets, my arms, the wall or whatever.

Can you hold hands and still retain the necessary detatchment required? Is anyone else even remotely bothered at all by this :P ?

I don't think it's too intimate at all, it's lovely and adds to the moment. In my experience often it's the girl who initiates it, and I'm more than happy to comply.

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Just wondering how both sides feel about it.

Obviously there's the infamous 'gfe' but for mine there is still a few 'unwritten' rules where the line's not crossed very often.

For me there's something incredibly intimate when holding hands with a girl during sex, especially when the fingers are intertwined. I've only done this once or twice with a wg however because my perception is that it is so intimate it is close to the 'line'. Usually they are gripping the sheets, my arms, the wall or whatever.

Can you hold hands and still retain the necessary detatchment required? Is anyone else even remotely bothered at all by this :P ?

I dont really think about holding hands with WGs but i dont see it as being incredibly intimate. Mind you for years of my early punting any form of kissing wasnt on offer as the WGs of the time said that was too intimate and only for their partners, fortunately few WGs seemingly think like this nowadays.

If i was interested in holding hands i would certainly be able to do so and retain detached, i never forget i am paying for sex, thats the deal, a usually good deal in my experience. :)

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I don't think it's too intimate at all, it's lovely and adds to the moment. In my experience often it's the girl who initiates it, and I'm more than happy to comply.

I can't recall a wg ever initiating it with me, perhaps a clue that it is intimate from the females pov? I've not got warts either :P

They have sometimes used their hands on my head during ro, whick is wicked!

It might just be me and my perception which is why I'm throwing it out there.

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I dont really think about holding hands with WGs but i dont see it as being incredibly intimate. Mind you for years of my early punting any form of kissing wasnt on offer as the WGs of the time said that was too intimate and only for their partners, fortunately few WGs seemingly think like this nowadays.

If i was interested in holding hands i would certainly be able to do so and retain detached, i never forget i am paying for sex, thats the deal, a usually good deal in my experience. :)

I'm similar smiths I've no problem detatching the whole thing, I'll never get s genuine crush on a wg, god forbid :rolleyes:

Holding hands is something often associated with love and not purely sex so I think that's why I've been overly cautious.

Another thing I've not done but tempted to do is allow my whole body weight on the wg. 1, that seems very initmate to me too, and 2, I'm not light :lol:

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Holding hands is something often associated with love and not purely sex

It's intimacy and not love.

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It's nice, but its not as intimate as kissing. I don't read anything into it.

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I do it all the time, I've never really thought much of it! It's especially useful with my being on top, it stops me falling forward sometimes. But it's also a nice feeling when the guy has beautifully soft hands. I like hands :-)

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Just wondering how both sides feel about it.

Obviously there's the infamous 'gfe' but for mine there is still a few 'unwritten' rules where the line's not crossed very often.

For me there's something incredibly intimate when holding hands with a girl during sex, especially when the fingers are intertwined. I've only done this once or twice with a wg however because my perception is that it is so intimate it is close to the 'line'. Usually they are gripping the sheets, my arms, the wall or whatever.

Can you hold hands and still retain the necessary detatchment required? Is anyone else even remotely bothered at all by this :P ?

I hadnt even thought about this until your interesting post on the subject

Thinking about it I realise that I only do this with a wg when I'm completely 'letting go', and that only really happens when I'm totally comfortable with her, that elusive 'click factor' is ever present, the sex is very good and the girl in question is an uninhibited 'all services' type who doesnt 'hold back', especially when it comes to DFK

I guess you could describe that kind of girl as the perfect blend of GFE and PSE and I've only met 2 escorts in my 10+ years of punting who've fit that description

Regarding 'necessary detachment' that is usually a non-issue for me as with wgs its good, uninhibited sex I'm after and not deep, emotional attachment or connection. Physical intimacy, not emotional intimacy, even though holding hands and kissing are strongly associated with the latter, is what I'm after and I dont find it difficult to separate one from the other.

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Nothing compliments some serious reverse oral better than holding both the girl's hands out at the side, very intimate.

don't know why or how you would hold hands whilst having sex though.

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The time with me when it happens the most is when I'm going down on a girl. There is something about when a WG has one hand in your hair and is holding your hand with the other that makes it more intimate.

It feels different when that happens to when a girl is riding you and just holding your hand for balance.

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I have no problem with hand-holding. It's nice and does increase intimacy. What's not to like ?

Nothing compliments some serious reverse oral better than holding both the girl's hands out at the side, very intimate.

I have to agree with this. Hand-holding during RO is great.

don't know why or how you would hold hands whilst having sex though.

I find it pretty common with cowgirl. Not so in other postions though.

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Its happened with me a few times, tends to be whilst I'm giving her RO and where we've probably "clicked" or she's a regular. It takes intimacy to another level and heightens my enjoyment. I don't ever kid myself that she'd hold hands with me outside the bedroom.

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Holding hands is nice!

To elaborate on the OPs question, what would be too intimate?

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What WG's really love, this is based on feedback over the years and is all fact.

1. Terms of endearment; such as 'Love', 'Babe', 'Petal' and if you are feeling particularly romantic 'Duchess'.

2. Stroking of the face or hair whilst staring into their eyes 'longingly' (not to be confused with 'desperate' or 'insanely')

3. The Cup Cake of Love - rarely used but a real ice-breaker. Fart into your cupped hand and place it under the WG nose. This is like dowsing yourself in sexual pheromones.

4. If you feel there maybe a special something between you and your favourite WG then try this sure fire path to sexual nirvana. Your mobile number written in your feces on a piece of toilet paper stuck up your bum crack. If that don't melt her heart then she isn't human.

5. Crying at the end of each appointment, if you can sob to the point of hyper ventilation (see 3-6 year kids for an expert demonstration) whilst crying out her name then you are playing your ace. Women like nothing better than a man who is happy showing his emotional side.

So forget holding hands for intimacy and use the 5 point plan above.

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What WG's really love, this is based on feedback over the years and is all fact.

1. Terms of endearment; such as 'Love', 'Babe', 'Petal' and if you are feeling particularly romantic 'Duchess'.

2. Stroking of the face or hair whilst staring into their eyes 'longingly' (not to be confused with 'desperate' or 'insanely')

3. The Cup Cake of Love - rarely used but a real ice-breaker. Fart into your cupped hand and place it under the WG nose. This is like dowsing yourself in sexual pheromones.

4. If you feel there maybe a special something between you and your favourite WG then try this sure fire path to sexual nirvana. Your mobile number written in your feces on a piece of toilet paper stuck up your bum crack. If that don't melt her heart then she isn't human.

5. Crying at the end of each appointment, if you can sob to the point of hyper ventilation (see 3-6 year kids for an expert demonstration) whilst crying out her name then you are playing your ace. Women like nothing better than a man who is happy showing his emotional side.

So forget holding hands for intimacy and use the 5 point plan above.

Oi! Stop posting my secret tricks! You try keeping that toilet paper clenched in your crack while waiting for her to come in, say hello, take the money, put it away, come back and then see me bent over with my Andrex rose blossoming from my rear!.

Okay, back on topic, I admit I do like holding hands during sex. To me it does feel more intimate. And that sudden feeling of it clenching harder when shes coming. It just feels more natural than grabbing hold of her shoulders. Not sure how to explain it.

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No, it's not too intimate imo, just the type of gfe i enjoy B)

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So forget holding hands for intimacy and use the 5 point plan above.

there speaks a man who lives above the shop

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Oi! Stop posting my secret tricks! You try keeping that toilet paper clenched in your crack while waiting for her to come in, say hello, take the money, put it away, come back and then see me bent over with my Andrex rose blossoming from my rear!.

Okay, back on topic, I admit I do like holding hands during sex. To me it does feel more intimate. And that sudden feeling of it clenching harder when shes coming. It just feels more natural than grabbing hold of her shoulders. Not sure how to explain it.

I don't think he was referring to holding your own hand.

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There are few things within my job which make me feel uncomfortable but I am afraid one of them

is intertwining fingers.... in a romantic slushy way....

NO THANKS

I hate it.

Holding a hand or hands is ok-ish.... but don't do the sloppy "staring into my eyes" bit as you interlace

your fingers with mine.... yuk.... horrible.

It makes me feel too ordinary and girlfriendlike.... I enjoy my job much more doing it the er.....

other way.

Whatever the girlfriend experience is... I offer it lol... but it does not include the locking fingers thingy.

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Just wondering how both sides feel about it.

Obviously there's the infamous 'gfe' but for mine there is still a few 'unwritten' rules where the line's not crossed very often.

For me there's something incredibly intimate when holding hands with a girl during sex, especially when the fingers are intertwined. I've only done this once or twice with a wg however because my perception is that it is so intimate it is close to the 'line'. Usually they are gripping the sheets, my arms, the wall or whatever.

Can you hold hands and still retain the necessary detatchment required? Is anyone else even remotely bothered at all by this :P ?

I love the intimacy of interwining our fingers during sex - that's why I never book a WG with webbed fingers. :(

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I've always done it and no WG I've been with shied away from it.

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Can you hold hands and still retain the necessary detatchment required?

I suppose you could if you wore marigolds.

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A favourite wg used to hold my hands whilst enjoying ro, and they told me every bit as much as any murmurings she made or flickering muscles in her tummy did, as to how much she was enjoying my efforts and when she wanted me to stop. :P

It was fortunate matters developed that way, because I have memories of her during one of our early meetings when she unexpectedly twisted violently as her moment arrived and in doing so did my neck no good at all! Happy memory all the same and I agree that the holding of hands adds to the intimacy, with the additional benefit that it can also act as a useful signal. :D

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A favourite wg used to hold my hands whilst enjoying ro, and they told me every bit as much as any murmurings she made or flickering muscles in her tummy did, as to how much she was enjoying my efforts and when she wanted me to stop. :P

It was fortunate matters developed that way, because I have memories of her during one of our early meetings when she unexpectedly twisted violently as her moment arrived and in doing so did my neck no good at all! Happy memory all the same and I agree that the holding of hands adds to the intimacy, with the additional benefit that it can also act as a useful signal. :D

If you are not getting the same feedback as 'Beenaboutabit' may I suggest - Hold the WG’s arm so it’s straight with the underside facing upwards. Feel around their wrist, using your index (first) and middle finger of one hand until you find the pulse. Alternatively, press the same two fingers against one side of their neck, just underneath their jaw.

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