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Too Nice To Write A Negative Review?

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I had a pretty poor punt recently with a Asian WG from an agency. The girl was unattractive, had a bit of a speach impediment, constantly used babywipes during BJ and made incredibly weird noises during sex. I would not see her again even if she paid me 50 quid.

However, I find her persona lovely, she was so sweet and bubbly and chatty and in such a good mood generally. I just cant bring myself to write a negative FR, I dont want to upset her or get her in trouble and I somehow feel more loyalty with her than with fellow punters.

Does anyone else feel this way?

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I had a pretty poor punt recently with a Asian WG from an agency. The girl was unattractive, had a bit of a speach impediment, constantly used babywipes during BJ and made incredibly weird noises during sex. I would not see her again even if she paid me 50 quid.

However, I find her persona lovely, she was so sweet and bubbly and chatty and in such a good mood generally. I just cant bring myself to write a negative FR, I dont want to upset her or get her in trouble and I somehow feel more loyalty with her than with fellow punters.

Does anyone else feel this way?

If i receive bad service i tell other punters to warn them by various means. I dont concern myself with upsetting her or getting the WG in trouble as thats her responsibility for not offering me good or better service, any consequences that might follow are down to her in my opinion, i obviously mean any non violent consequences.

In your scenario here i wouldnt be bothered about her having a speech impediment and only if her photos were not of her or like her would i do a negative post, her personality sounds fine so that would go a long way with me as long as she offered the services i required and were agreed beforehand. :)

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However, I find her persona lovely, she was so sweet and bubbly and chatty and in such a good mood generally. I just cant bring myself to write a negative FR, I dont want to upset her or get her in trouble and I somehow feel more loyalty with her than with fellow punters.

Does anyone else feel this way?

Yes (looks round furtively to check if JRC is listening) absolutely! Hell, they are every bit as human as us, aren't they?

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I had a pretty poor punt recently with a Asian WG from an agency. The girl was unattractive, had a bit of a speach impediment, constantly used babywipes during BJ and made incredibly weird noises during sex. I would not see her again even if she paid me 50 quid.

However, I find her persona lovely, she was so sweet and bubbly and chatty and in such a good mood generally. I just cant bring myself to write a negative FR, I dont want to upset her or get her in trouble and I somehow feel more loyalty with her than with fellow punters.

Does anyone else feel this way?

Was she related to John Merrick ?

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Was she related to John Merrick ?

or ed millipede

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If you dont want to write one then dont.

Ive never written a bad FR. But thats not saying Ive never had a bad punt.

The reason Id feel obliged to do a FR is if I feel that Id been conned (Not the girl in the photos, Advertised services would never have been on offer, I feared for my safety or health).

Thankfully, touch wood, this has never happened to me.

Theres been some girls Ive been tempted to do a bad FR for but sometimes they've had good FRs, so maybe she just didnt like me. Or There were other factors that made the punt a dissapointment. Most of the time Ive just messaged the management and left it at that.

She might not be right with me but someone else would so giving her a negative wouldnt seem right.

But, in any case, I'll never see them again. Makes no difference to me. If someone asks, I'll tell them but posting a negative FR isnt something Ive felt Ive had to do.

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I have written one negative FR when I was subject to a bait and switch.

This girl tried her best to please me and looked genuinely worried when she noticed her treatement wasnt really my cup of tea.

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I have written one negative FR when I was subject to a bait and switch.

This girl tried her best to please me and looked genuinely worried when she noticed her treatement wasnt really my cup of tea.

This sounds more like a case of sexual incompatibility whereas I tend to reserve my negative FRs for dishonesty and really poor attitude. If you feel uncomfortable writing a negative FR about it, then don't feel you have to.

After all, attractiveness is subjective, a speech impediment is hardly the WGs fault, the baby wipes thing is common and the odd noises may simply be down to her watching too much japanese porn :D .

If you do decide to write the FR, for goodness sake make it objective and factual, not a personal attack.

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I'm with the OP on this. I can't bring myself to give a poor write-up. I know I should; I've heard all the arguments and god knows I've had plenty of miserable punts. Unfortunately I just can't bring myself to do it. Stupid perhaps but some inner voice keeps whispering grass.

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I've only ever wrtitten one FR and that was recently because the meet was so bad, and so contradictory to other FRs about the girl.

Still waiting for a punt where I walk away and think hell yeah, that was awesome, lets do it again, but that punt was shockingly bad hence my write up

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Ok, I know it's a little different but I've had quite a few booking requests on the other site of late without a single word of correspondence and I have been tempted to leave them feedback along the lines of "ordered me like a take away pizza with no prior communication" but I think that would be a bit harsh, and I wouldn't do it, they are probably just a bit shy but that's just how it makes me feel.... :unsure:

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The girl was unattractive, had a bit of a speach impediment, constantly used babywipes during BJ and made incredibly weird noises during sex.

Commonly known as bagpipe sex or sexth in your case.

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I had a pretty poor punt recently with a Asian WG from an agency. The girl was unattractive, had a bit of a speach impediment, constantly used babywipes during BJ and made incredibly weird noises during sex. I would not see her again even if she paid me 50 quid.

However, I find her persona lovely, she was so sweet and bubbly and chatty and in such a good mood generally. I just cant bring myself to write a negative FR, I dont want to upset her or get her in trouble and I somehow feel more loyalty with her than with fellow punters.

Does anyone else feel this way?

If everyone thought the same way as you do, then the whole reason for Punternet goes right out of the window. If you are going to write FR's , just do them fairly including the good and the bad points. It's all about sharing information

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If the girl is nice and makes an effort, I dont mind if it doesnt work out. What infuriates me, is I couldnt care less approach. For these girls there is no mercy, why should they embezzle other peoples money. They are just rogue tradesmen.

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I find her persona lovely, she was so sweet and bubbly and chatty and in such a good mood generally.

This girl tried her best to please me and looked genuinely worried when she noticed her treatement wasnt really my cup of tea.

If the girl is nice and makes an effort, I dont mind if it doesnt work out. What infuriates me, is I couldnt care less approach. For these girls there is no mercy, why should they embezzle other peoples money. They are just rogue tradesmen.

I'm with pooter on this. Based on MMMs quoted comments, I certainly wouldn't have the heart to inflict a negative FR on her even though the punt was a disaster. Might be worth trying to feed back your comments about the weird noises and excess baby wipes to the lady by some other channel, so that she gets the chance to improve before someone less charitable comes along.

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I'm with pooter on this. Based on MMMs quoted comments, I certainly wouldn't have the heart to inflict a negative FR on her even though the punt was a disaster. Might be worth trying to feed back your comments about the weird noises and excess baby wipes to the lady by some other channel, so that she gets the chance to improve before someone less charitable comes along.

Sure, but that's why we have the "Would you return?" and "Recommended" options on a field report. I've had plenty of punts I wouldn't return to, but have no problem recommending. Providing those field reports let others know more about the service and maybe decide that Yes, that is exactly whay they want.

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Sure, but that's why we have the "Would you return?" and "Recommended" options on a field report. I've had plenty of punts I wouldn't return to, but have no problem recommending. Providing those field reports let others know more about the service and maybe decide that Yes, that is exactly whay they want.

I think that judging from the OPs description of his encounter, he'd be slated if he rated the girl as "recommended", her inherent niceness notwithstanding.

I've often wondered whether a neutral box would be beneficial on the "recommended" option to differentiate the "punts from hell" from the simply "meh". Probably overkill, but perhaps worth considering.

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If you dont want to write one then dont.

Ive never written a bad FR. But thats not saying Ive never had a bad punt.

The reason Id feel obliged to do a FR is if I feel that Id been conned (Not the girl in the photos, Advertised services would never have been on offer, I feared for my safety or health).

Thankfully, touch wood, this has never happened to me.

Theres been some girls Ive been tempted to do a bad FR for but sometimes they've had good FRs, so maybe she just didnt like me. Or There were other factors that made the punt a dissapointment. Most of the time Ive just messaged the management and left it at that.

She might not be right with me but someone else would so giving her a negative wouldnt seem right.

But, in any case, I'll never see them again. Makes no difference to me. If someone asks, I'll tell them but posting a negative FR isnt something Ive felt Ive had to do.

Seconding this. I only ever write FRs to help the business, as all girls are running their own business; or indeed to help the establishment, for the same reason. Given how many factors can go towards making a negative experience, it could never be fair IMO to write a damaging report.

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Seconding this. I only ever write FRs to help the business, as all girls are running their own business; or indeed to help the establishment, for the same reason. Given how many factors can go towards making a negative experience, it could never be fair IMO to write a damaging report.

I completely disagree that it can never be fair to write a damaging FR. If your conned or ripped-off blatantly this is a very clear reason to write a negative. What wasnt fair is the fact you were conned or ripped-off in my opinion.

Of course its up to the punter whether he does a FR or not.

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I had a pretty poor punt recently with a Asian WG from an agency. The girl was unattractive, had a bit of a speach impediment, constantly used babywipes during BJ and made incredibly weird noises during sex. I would not see her again even if she paid me 50 quid.

However, I find her persona lovely, she was so sweet and bubbly and chatty and in such a good mood generally. I just cant bring myself to write a negative FR, I dont want to upset her or get her in trouble and I somehow feel more loyalty with her than with fellow punters.

Does anyone else feel this way?

'Unnatractive' is purely a personal thing, we all have our own ideas of attractive. The babywipes during oral thing is something I've never heard of before. As for wierd noises, maybe that is her genuine sexual excitemnet noise? As for the speech impediment, should she mention it on her website?. I had a WG girlfriend for a few years, I found her lisp very attractive and during the relationship she said a lot of punters seemed to like it.

Her person was 'lovely, .sweet and bubbly and chatty and in ....a good mood generally'. I think you would be very unfair to give her a negative report

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Hmmm. If it just feels like maybe she was having an off day or you feel that you perhaps contributed to the poorness of the punt, then I think a negative FR is probably unfair. If it was all down to poor attitude or she just seems rubbish at her job, then I don't see a problem with giving a negative FR. If there was dishonesty involved (bait & switch, blatant lies about services, etc), then a negative FR is a must, as other punters need to be warned.

Going by your initial post, it seems like her attitude still had a positive effect on you, and I suppose it depends if that was enough to stop you feeling a bit cheated at the end. I've had punts where I didn't actually come, but still had a great time because of the girl's personality. It would be a bit harsh to give a negative FR because of a speech impediment, especially as some people might find it cute. I'm wavering on the ugliness matter - did you have any idea what she looked like beforehand? If so, then you can't really blame her. If it was a bait & switch, then get that negative FR written pronto.

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