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French Kissing And Gfe

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If I ask or pay for GFE, does this make FK a necessity? How can a GFE experience not contain FK? Not asking for WE (wife experience), so surely this must be included in the service of anyone who offers GFE?

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For me, a GFE without FK is a bit of a non-sequitur. Sort of like roast beef without yorkshire pudding.

Of course FK, especially of the deep variety is a discretionary service and if your (not the OP, just a hypothetical you) oral hygiene isn't up to scratch then forget it.

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If I ask or pay for GFE, does this make FK a necessity? How can a GFE experience not contain FK? Not asking for WE (wife experience), so surely this must be included in the service of anyone who offers GFE?

For me, I class GFE to include FK, hopefully DFK.

This is I dont think its a hard fast rule. (Anyone remember the Hygenic GFE thread that some agency advertised)

Not sure of the necessity with the "discretion" clause but if I see a girl that advertises GFE and kissing is never on offer then I feel pretty let down.

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If I ask or pay for GFE, does this make FK a necessity? How can a GFE experience not contain FK? Not asking for WE (wife experience), so surely this must be included in the service of anyone who offers GFE?

FK at a minimum is essential to make it a GFE, if its not actually on offer by a WG advertising GFE they are lying in their advertising assuming you dont have horrific oral hygiene.

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For me, I class GFE to include FK, hopefully DFK.

This is I dont think its a hard fast rule. (Anyone remember the Hygenic GFE thread that some agency advertised)

Not sure of the necessity with the "discretion" clause but if I see a girl that advertises GFE and kissing is never on offer then I feel pretty let down.

That Agency was Indian Palace who offer or did offer then anyway all covered services only. Having a sherman would be more fun than punting with them for me. ;)

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If I ask or pay for GFE, does this make FK a necessity? How can a GFE experience not contain FK? ....

I can't see FK as being a necessity under the circimstances, unless the lady says that it's available. In 'real life' girlfriends exist who do not like any kissing-with-tongues. There are some amazingly sensual escorts who don't, either.

For me a GFE is not about one item on the list but about the whole experience.

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I have one client who doesn't kiss but we are so fond of each other that it really doesn't matter, however kissing is such a lovely and intimate thing to do that not kissing with most people would feel odd. So I guess my answer would be yes, you can have a GFE without kissing if you feel really connected to each other but in the majority of cases spending sexual time with some one which is close and intimate would involve not only kissing but hot, passionate kissing with tongues - so GFE and kissing for me go hand in hand. if I was to book an escort for a GFE I would be very disappointed if she didn't kiss me.

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I love kissing, but I regard French kissing as meaning what is called in punting terms DFK, and I have come across very few WGs who have genuinely provided that.

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I adore kissing, deeply and passionately. If a gentleman doesn't kiss I find the appointment very mechanical and difficult. So for me GFE is all about the kissing, and cuddling, and stroking.....

The "at discretion" bit just covers the gentleman that could knock you over with his breath at 10 paces. Unfortunately that does happen very, very occasionally, however usually accompanied by bad BO and the rest of the charming package.

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I have one client who doesn't kiss but we are so fond of each other that it really doesn't matter, however kissing is such a lovely and intimate thing to do that not kissing with most people would feel odd. So I guess my answer would be yes, you can have a GFE without kissing if you feel really connected to each other but in the majority of cases spending sexual time with some one which is close and intimate would involve not only kissing but hot, passionate kissing with tongues - so GFE and kissing for me go hand in hand. if I was to book an escort for a GFE I would be very disappointed if she didn't kiss me.

Yes, I agree with this. I think you have to pt yourself in the other person's position to realise that A GFE without kissing is not a GFE at all.

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For me GFE is about intimacy. French kissing is not a prerequisite for that, but passionate kissing is and the use of tongues is not necessary to achieve that. ;)

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That Agency was Indian Palace who offer or did offer then anyway all covered services only. Having a sherman would be more fun than punting with them for me. ;)

I visited that place once and you're right, I should have had a wank instead. Not sure the other guys in the office would have been too happy though :D

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French kissing is a must for me, if it is not on offer, I won't be visiting.

Even better, snowballing with the taste and scent of my cum on the ladies lips, tongue and mouth are important to me.

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the real bonus is those girls who like dfk after ro. That really gete me going!

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the real bonus is those girls who like dfk after ro. That really gete me going!

Smile. And being bearded, smelling the pussy on my beard.

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I'm punting for the GFE but DFK is not necessary for me. Really passionate sessions with touching, hugging and closed mouth kissing can be really sensual. Makes for great foreplay.

Personally kind of put off by it myself but i feel it may not be long before i need it!

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If I ask or pay for GFE, does this make FK a necessity? How can a GFE experience not contain FK? Not asking for WE (wife experience), so surely this must be included in the service of anyone who offers GFE?

I can't do GFE without FK... it wouldn't seem right... what else am I supposed to do with my mouth ? (I know this is an invitation for comment)...

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The one thing that definitely makes a punt disappointing for me is unenthusiastic kissing. I love it when the lady is intimate and passionate, just like a "girlfriend". I really don't think you can realistically advertise a GFE without offering FK - or, hopefully, DFK! B)

I'm old enough to remember when WGs just didn't kiss, so it's been a wonderful surprise to re-enter the punting scene and discover that's changed.

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I was undecided when I first read this thread, erring on the side of "GFE needs DFK". After one of my punts tonight, I am firmly in the "GFE needs DFK" camp. It just doesn't feel right without tongues.

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GFE should include FK/DFK really, but at the end of the day it's up to the girl. Any wg i meet who kisses passionately gets my repeat business. the current wg i see kisses so good that i see her twice a week.

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Kissing is one of the most natural things in the world to do when in a warm embrace and the idea of moving forward without that is not easy for me to get my head around. Admittedly some people do kiss in strange ways and if it is not stimulating me in the right way, then I will likely try and move on to the next stage, but the majority of the time it can be a real passion arouser and will continue intimitantly throughout the booking,

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French kissing is a must for me as well, if it is not on offer, I won't be visiting .

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Any wg i meet who kisses passionately gets my repeat business.

Whilst I wouldn't go that far (not every girl who kisses well gets a repeat visit from me, I'd be broke), no kissing or rubbish kissing guarantees that I won't return, no matter how good the rest of the service might be.

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Ah....what will be said next will most likely not be popular.......nonetheless, I find it "a little odd" that there are some men who assume if a girl does not offer FK/DFK she can not offer GFE, so therefore will not visit her, he could be really missing out on a grand experience.

A guy could go to a girl who does kiss, and yet not really enjoy his time with her, then find himself with a girl who does not really kiss, and have a great time because of the general "frission" between the two.

Light soft kisses on your lips/your neck,general tactile actions...sensing what you want, being delightful, warm, funny, cute, erotic, and the rest.....this and more can make up a GFE, not just straight french kissing.

Personally I am OCD where all levels of cleanliness are concerned, I have met a really lovely gentleman....he likes kissing, would be happy if I was up for intense deep french kissing, however, he is equally happy with my sweet slightly parted lips kisses, reason for this?

A girl friend experience is not the act of kissing alone ( yes important, but not the be all and end all) it is everything about being with a warm and sensual genuine female.

Rather random, but I went on a Blind date in April, with an Italian "Stallion", I literally done a runner from the Zumba club we were in in Central london.

He almost swallowed my head......utterly foul, I am not a fan of to much wetness in kissing either...

Everyone has their preference, I just like my kisses soft/light, teasing, not full on ,thrusting and drooly wet :o

I have read "11 minutes" By Coelho, the Girl in this book is called Maria and is a beautiful Brazilian escort.

She speaks of three "golden rules" to follow in order to protect oneself......mentally or other wise, not too sure, I think a combination.

1: Do not do drugs

2: Do not fall in Love with Clients.

3: Do not Kiss clients.

I agree with all three if I am being honest, I actually feel that some guys appear to want to face "smother" a girl as a form of "control" over the proceedings.

I could be wittering, I have had little sleep...listening to LBC ( as you do)...but, yes, this is my stance on the matter/thread.

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Ah....what will be said next will most likely not be popular.......nonetheless, I find it "a little odd" that there are some men who assume if a girl does not offer FK/DFK she can not offer GFE, so therefore will not visit her, he could be really missing out on a grand experience.

A guy could go to a girl who does kiss, and yet not really enjoy his time with her, then find himself with a girl who does not really kiss, and have a great time because of the general "frission" between the two.

Light soft kisses on your lips/your neck,general tactile actions...sensing what you want, being delightful, warm, funny, cute, erotic, and the rest.....this and more can make up a GFE, not just straight french kissing.

Personally I am OCD where all levels of cleanliness are concerned, I have met a really lovely gentleman....he likes kissing, would be happy if I was up for intense deep french kissing, however, he is equally happy with my sweet slightly parted lips kisses, reason for this?

A girl friend experience is not the act of kissing alone ( yes important, but not the be all and end all) it is everything about being with a warm and sensual genuine female.

Rather random, but I went on a Blind date in April, with an Italian "Stallion", I literally done a runner from the Zumba club we were in in Central london.

He almost swallowed my head......utterly foul, I am not a fan of to much wetness in kissing either...

Everyone has their preference, I just like my kisses soft/light, teasing, not full on ,thrusting and drooly wet :o

I have read "11 minutes" By Coelho, the Girl in this book is called Maria and is a beautiful Brazilian escort.

She speaks of three "golden rules" to follow in order to protect oneself......mentally or other wise, not too sure, I think a combination.

1: Do not do drugs

2: Do not fall in Love with Clients.

3: Do not Kiss clients.

I agree with all three if I am being honest, I actually feel that some guys appear to want to face "smother" a girl as a form of "control" over the proceedings.

I could be wittering, I have had little sleep...listening to LBC ( as you do)...but, yes, this is my stance on the matter/thread.

FK preferably for me DFK is THE essential ingredient in a GFE in my view, its more important than penetrative sex or any other aspect of a punt, without it a 121 punt is a disappointment nowadays.

However, in my early punting days in the 80s into the 90s FK or DFK was very rarely on offer as it was for the WGs partner only as they used to say, so now it is on offer i lap it up knowing that in comparison punting without it is not as good for me and one great improvement among many has been the warmth, friendliness and enthusiasm levels of WGs have vastly increased since those days generally, be it by better acting or genuine enjoyment. Always good to hear other posters opinions on things. :)

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