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I've had quite a few very young punters in lately (youngest 19, I did see ID!) and I just dont think I can handle it! All have been polite, well nannered, done absolutely nothing wrong, it really is my problen! I just feel so wrong and unconfortable at best, at worst I go all 'mumsy'. :blink: :blink: :( Poor fellahs! so I'n going to have to put a lower age limit in. Probably 23, what do you think?

and for the girls - anyone else suffer mumsyitis? cringe - even now! :eek::unsure:

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Well since I started punting this year as a fairly young bloke (27 but I look around 21) I've only had comments regarding my age from the more mature WG's I've visited (aged 30+). One of them even had a son that was only a few years younger than me so its understandable she would feel slightly weird. As for the younger WG's I've met, they either didn't care enough to mention it or were glad at the extra energy I was able to put into visits :D

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I have a lower age requirment of 30. The thought of getting intimate with someone under 25 fills me with horror.

When I first started out [in my early 30's], my lower age limit was 21

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The rule of thumb I heard for relationships was half your age plus 7 (is 30-> 22 40-> 27 etc), overly scientific but weirdly seems an ok guide. Meant for partners but may work for clients too. Dare say there are a number of clients and working girls who wouldnt want it applied other way round though to stop clients feeling dadsy.

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I currently have a lower age limit of 25 and like you it has nothing to do with maturity, it's just me.

I'd feel uncomfortable with someone younger than that and I find we have little in common and just don't click.

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I've had quite a few very young punters in lately (youngest 19, I did see ID!) and I just dont think I can handle it! All have been polite, well nannered, done absolutely nothing wrong, it really is my problen! I just feel so wrong and unconfortable at best, at worst I go all 'mumsy'. :blink: :blink: :( Poor fellahs! so I'n going to have to put a lower age limit in. Probably 23, what do you think?

and for the girls - anyone else suffer mumsyitis? cringe - even now! :eek::unsure:

You should do what makes you feel comfortable in my opinion. Being 46 i dont have any problems but i do feel for the younger punters on this as they just want to punt with who they fancy as i do.

As to myself i punt with any age range i fancy from 18 to whatever, 70 even if she were to look 50. ;)

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I don't like the thought of those rule of thumb measurements being taken too far ..... if I'm not mistaken that would have a wg aged about 106 looking at me and requesting age verification! :D

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I don't like the thought of those rule of thumb measurements being taken too far ..... if I'm not mistaken that would have a wg aged about 106 looking at me and requesting age verification! :D

Haha so an age range of 37-106 isn't broad enough for you :-p?

Think you're right though, better for relationships otherwise at other end of the scale an 18 year old escort is limited to 18-22 year old punters, 21 yr old to 18-28 yr olds etc

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Haha so an age range of 37-106 isn't broad enough for you :-p?

Think you're right though, better for relationships otherwise at other end of the scale an 18 year old escort is limited to 18-22 year old punters, 21 yr old to 18-28 yr olds etc

I must admit that I always mention my age whenever I book with a new girl and from the outset try to avoid the younger wg's. I'm far from being a knackered old wrinkly, although I do carry the legacies of a sporting past, but I feel it's only fair to give them a chance to say, 'on your bike, Methuselah.' :D

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This is truly cringeworthy. I am squirming in my seat as I remember the fateful day when I called a younger punter 'son'.

I don't have age limits, but I do ferret them out before the booking and won't see guys who I consider to be too young whatever their age may be !

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I've always wondered about age limits.

Ok, maybe in the broadest terms they may give an indication of certain traits, however that doesn't hold true.

Not all young people are rude or older people polite. I'm 'older', but not experienced at all.

I'm "young" for my age, so what I guess I'm saying is what is an age limit really worth and what exactly is an escort trying to avoid if they have an age limit? Surely every person is different, so you cannot judge by age alone?

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I've always wondered about age limits.

Ok, maybe in the broadest terms they may give an indication of certain traits, however that doesn't hold true.

Not all young people are rude or older people polite. I'm 'older', but not experienced at all.

I'm "young" for my age, so what I guess I'm saying is what is an age limit really worth and what exactly is an escort trying to avoid if they have an age limit? Surely every person is different, so you cannot judge by age alone?

No, there is more to it than that. I decide who I will se by the content of their emails, or their attitude on the 'phone. This applies to every punter, not just the younger ones.

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No, I think your approach seems sensible Sarah.

But those escorts who say "no under 25's" clearly don't have that criteria and so are unlikely to be contacted. I just wonder what they are trying to avoid? I guess this is the same issue as the race one and I suspect there is no real logical answer to it.

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My (limited) research suggests that while there is a age restriction of 18 for being an escort, there is no such limit for clients (only the regular age of consent) and it would in fact be legal for someone aged just 16 to pay for sex.

Is that a correct interpretation of the law?

How would the ladies here feel about being approached by such a young client (even younger than some of those mentioned already...)?

(Of course there is the slightly fallacy that someone so young would not actually be allowed view the website of most escorts.)

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I started at 18, i'm 22 now so i'm probably a young client. I'd say in general, we appreciate our time with lovely cougars :P keep up the good work and lower your age to 22 ;)

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No, I think your approach seems sensible Sarah.

But those escorts who say "no under 25's" clearly don't have that criteria and so are unlikely to be contacted. I just wonder what they are trying to avoid? I guess this is the same issue as the race one and I suspect there is no real logical answer to it.

When you are an older girl, you are aware of the fact that your body is perhaps not quite what the younger man was expecting. Or perhaps you may have nothing in common? I find I feel a little embarrassed at times, especially with younger punters, and this is not why I do the job. I am not professional in that - I do this for my enjoyment as much as the clients', but at the end of the day I have to live with myself and feel happy or I could not carry on. From time to time I 'clear out my cupboards' and stop seeing the clients whom I no longer feel comfortable around, be that physically, or because they have become clingy or some other reason.

This is why I won't wear a bloody shower cap ! Fuck that!

I have younger clients who tell me they would not have been able to see me if I used the age limit thing, and I am glad I didn't because they are great, but in odd instances I get asked daft questions by younger guys which set my sixth sense off and I won't see them. If my gut feeling was right, I get the odd rude message back and then I knew I made the correct decision. It's a strange one because we are human and like I keep saying I have to feel happy or the point is all lost.

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NNTT wonders what they are trying to avoid?....an overly energetic 21 year old with stamina...rather than some one like me(45 and happy to be companioned).

More likely the whole age play thing...roleplay and the differance between the " Mrs Robinson" senario and the darker aunty/ mom thing.Age limits seem sensible way to avoid situations that WG's of a certain age may not want to get into

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It isn't the first time I have read about "sixth sense".

I must say I don't get this. If I choose to ignore someone who made a foolish comment, well I'd maybe never speak to anyone. I think if someone is rude to you then you can be upset, whether you say that or not is another matter.

I must say I couldn't judge someone on the basis of an e-mail. Maybe this is the difference between the sexes?

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When you are an older girl, you are aware of the fact that your body is perhaps not quite what the younger man was expecting. Or perhaps you may have nothing in common? I find I feel a little embarrassed at times, especially with younger punters, and this is not why I do the job. I am not professional in that - I do this for my enjoyment as much as the clients', but at the end of the day I have to live with myself and feel happy or I could not carry on. From time to time I 'clear out my cupboards' and stop seeing the clients whom I no longer feel comfortable around, be that physically, or because they have become clingy or some other reason.

This is why I won't wear a bloody shower cap ! Fuck that!

I have younger clients who tell me they would not have been able to see me if I used the age limit thing, and I am glad I didn't because they are great, but in odd instances I get asked daft questions by younger guys which set my sixth sense off and I won't see them. If my gut feeling was right, I get the odd rude message back and then I knew I made the correct decision. It's a strange one because we are human and like I keep saying I have to feel happy or the point is all lost.

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punters are also at times insecure about how thier body may be percieved.we have no websites for WG's to preview us and so every punt is a step into the dark. BTW..sarah your photoes look great and if you ever head south...Unless a lady has been photo shopped to an extreme degree she can have confidece that the companionship date has been booked based on the punters desire.I personally never go to the young girls cos i feel at my age seeing a lady not much older than my daughter is too seedy.

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punters are also at times insecure about how thier body may be percieved.we have no websites for WG's to preview us and so every punt is a step into the dark. BTW..sarah your photoes look great and if you ever head south...Unless a lady has been photo shopped to an extreme degree she can have confidece that the companionship date has been booked based on the punters desire.I personally never go to the young girls cos i feel at my age seeing a lady not much older than my daughter is too seedy.

Understand :)

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I've always wondered about age limits.

Ok, maybe in the broadest terms they may give an indication of certain traits, however that doesn't hold true.

Not all young people are rude or older people polite. I'm 'older', but not experienced at all.

I'm "young" for my age, so what I guess I'm saying is what is an age limit really worth and what exactly is an escort trying to avoid if they have an age limit? Surely every person is different, so you cannot judge by age alone?

I make it very clear on my site that I would not be suitable for someone who is looking for a 'wham bam' sexperience.

I offer companionship in the form of social dates i.e Dinner, Theatre, Holiday companion etc. The sex is a huge bonus of course. Especially for a highly sexed singleton like myself.

So, what am I trying to avoid? Hmm lets see...

1. I have no desire to sleep with someone who is young enough to be my son.

2. As explained above, I do not offer 'just sex'. I have never had any under 25's enquire about social dates. [Would look daft wouldn't it @ teenager out with a soon to be 42 year old?]

Those are my 2 reasons.

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NNTT wonders what they are trying to avoid?....an overly energetic 21 year old with stamina...rather than some one like me(45 and happy to be companioned).

More likely the whole age play thing...roleplay and the differance between the " Mrs Robinson" senario and the darker aunty/ mom thing.Age limits seem sensible way to avoid situations that WG's of a certain age may not want to get into

Oh god. I had one of those calls last week. Eurgh!

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I can understand why some w/g's have an 'age limit'.

However, I have to ask, hypothetically a working girl is now 38 and she doesn't see clients under 24, what happens when said working girl gets older (eg 45)? Does the age limit similarly also increase (to 31)? I mean if a girl does not want to sleep with someone due to being similar to a son's age (or it just being too creppy ect...), when the w/g also grows older do the same boundaries equally apply?

Personally I am new to punting, I haven't had my first punt, and I am finding it quite difficult to sort of guess which girls would see me (I am 19, 20 in a couple of months). I guess what I mean is that I'm uncertain on how to approach a w/g on such an issue, on one hand I am edging towards a more mature girl, however, that issue of age limits and so on is making it quite difficult!

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NNTT wonders what they are trying to avoid?....an overly energetic 21 year old with stamina...rather than some one like me(45 and happy to be companioned).

More likely the whole age play thing...roleplay and the differance between the " Mrs Robinson" senario and the darker aunty/ mom thing.Age limits seem sensible way to avoid situations that WG's of a certain age may not want to get into

I am more than happy to be Mrs Robinson, especially if there is some energetic role play involved. Or next door neighbour, mum's best friend etc...

I must admit though that lately there have been an awful lot of mother/son role play requests, which I decline. Are they trying to wind us up or do guys really want this? Weirdos.

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