melissaminxy

Ever Fell For /nearly Fell For An Escort Before ?

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Just curious............

There are some decent escorts out there ( Including me wink wink) and it's only natural i guess . I've had a guy that fell for me , i just didn't feel the same back . I personally think that unless you want a open relationship with each other , ' it'll never work ' . Be interested to hear your views on the subject :P

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Yep, I was the fish on her hook, when we were together she'd string me line after line and I fell for her patter. It was only when I had a bit more experience in punting that I realised it was just that, patter. I felt a bit foolish for falling for it but you live and learn.

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I have yet to meet an escort I would trust to wash my shirts on the correct cycle (were I not around to do them myself), although a couple have come close, so no for me.

edited to remove potential sexism comments.

Edited by dick78

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There is a problem here because eventually you have to face the fact that the girl you love has a life that is quite secret, you love each other but actually she cant leap, because although you might love her enough to understand the work she does you might just let it slip to her family, accidentally maybe? But it will push her to finishing with you. Now where did that knowledge come from.....

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I have yet to meet an escort I would trust to wash my shirts on the correct cycle....

If my experience is anything to go by you won't have to worry.

After 3 years she moved in with me for nearly 4 months. During that time she did absolutely no housework or cooking. I did her washing for her. That included putting a dark blue "Von Dutch" short denim skirt in with my clothes, but luckily not my white shirts. My best pyjamas came out blue. That was 2007 and I'm still annoyed about it now.

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If my experience is anything to go by you won't have to worry.

After 3 years she moved in with me for nearly 4 months. During that time she did absolutely no housework or cooking. I did her washing for her. That included putting a dark blue "Von Dutch" short denim skirt in with my clothes, but luckily not my white shirts. My best pyjamas came out blue. That was 2007 and I'm still annoyed about it now.

You wear pyjamas??.. and have a BEST pair?????

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If my experience is anything to go by you won't have to worry.

After 3 years she moved in with me for nearly 4 months. During that time she did absolutely no housework or cooking. I did her washing for her. That included putting a dark blue "Von Dutch" short denim skirt in with my clothes, but luckily not my white shirts. My best pyjamas came out blue. That was 2007 and I'm still annoyed about it now.

Clearly a man's man - top post B)

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You wear pyjamas??.. and have a BEST pair?????

And you're from Leeds? For God's sake woman, he probably has a second and a third best pair..................

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You wear pyjamas??.. and have a BEST pair?????

Occasionally yes....and my best pair is a pair of her old pyjamas which she gave to me when she replaced them. They were pink with puppies on them. They're now greyish-blue.

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I think it very easy for guys to fall for wg's, Especially the ones who are inexperienced to a lady charms. Its a WG's "job" (doesn't feel like the right word) to make guys want them. Some men as part of their fantasy will believe it, but some will take it to far.

Also some WG's are truely girlfriend/wife material as they right in every way not just in bedroom ;) ! The better WG's I am sure are not short of marriage/ be my GF proposals!

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Oi! And I'll have nowt bad said about jim jams!!

:D

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Yes, I did early on in my punting career. Never pursued it, as I knew even then that it was only ever going to be one-sided.

Didn't stop a lot of sleepless nights and sighing though... ;)

Parties really cured me of the 'does the WG really like me'. When you see a girl finish with you and she's onto the next guy, not necessarily giving him the same patter, but treating him just as well as she did you, you know you aren't the special one you can fool yourself that you are when you've had a 121.

Edited by Tibbs

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Oi! And I'll have nowt bad said about jim jams!!

:D

LOL

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Because I recognise how unrealistioc it is I've never allowed myself to start down that road. There is one lady who's become a good friend, however, and if both our circumstances were different....

And I think the last time I even owned pyjamas was about 35 years ago. :D

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I once fell off an escort. Does that count?

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I think every escort wishes they could end up in ' Pretty Woman' . But this is reality lol

If i met someone , i wouldn't be doing this obviously :P

I think i could cope with them having an experience with an escort but i'd always wonder why and when they'll be doing it next !! lol

I met a fantastic guy from ** , last year . But he turned out GAY !! Yes , i know lol Jokes on me hehe

Not all escorts will string you along , i certainly wouldn't . They have to know where they stand , so you both don't end up getting hurt .

I've met some guys , who just love to be in love with you because it's their fantasy <_<

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What if the wg asks the guy out?

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I'm early in my punting career and was very recently falling into this very trap. Her GFE was fantastic - we swapped PMs via Twitter as well. When se realised a was REALLY falling for it she slapped me down, publicly, in another forum where we are both members.

I was devastated at the time but she did do the right thing. I'm now enjoying a variety of WGs and while I do love the GFE I know it's only acting on her part to earn her pay.

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A few girls I've thought if the circumstances were different....

Got the impression with a few of them it was mutual but never remotely considered attempting to take things to another level.

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So most that have replied have fell for an escort at some point or another .

If i went to see a male escort , i don't think it would click in my head to like them anymore than sex .. but thats just me . x

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A few girls I've thought if the circumstances were different....

Got the impression with a few of them it was mutual but never remotely considered attempting to take things to another level.

Ditto

Also the 'click' factor can be so high and the sex so good and the conversation so easy and the 'vibe' so 'right' that why wouldnt you fall for them ?? ...........then you realise that you paid them :blink: :blink:

I imagine the 'nightmare relationship' potential to be extremely high if you ever did decide to try and take it to that level, or even got that opportunity, with a wg.........no matter how well you seem to get on during the sessions or how 'perfect' she seems when you get to spend [paid] time with her

The real person, off duty, could be vastly different to the fantasy that you get to see and enjoy, especially once you start dealing with the mundane tasks of day to day 'normality'.

Some girls are just very very good indeed at what they do (and that is in no way a criticism !!)

Edited by BillGoldberg

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You wear pyjamas??.. and have a BEST pair?????

Yes. that made me sit up too.

As for the original question, the answer is "no". I find I take a liking to most of them very readily indeed, and some of them I gladly see again, and I have nothing but affectionate feelings for them. But none of them has mattered to me as much as my dog.

Edited by Mr. Bloom

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I've certainly had thoughts about going out with one of my regulars, until I realised she already had a sort of boyfriend. I have definitely fallen for my other regular, because being with her feels more like being with a girlfriend than my last girlfriend made me feel! I would go out with her in a shot, except she's already said she likes her independence and seems to think having a boyfriend means having to do what he says. I still intend to float the idea of a loose relationship of sorts when I next see her as I'd be quite happy just having someone to hang out with sometimes.

Then again, I fall for girls pretty easily, so it's hardly surprising. Especially when they're sucking my knob... I think there are at least three girls that have made me think, mid-coitus, "I should DEFINITELY ask her to marry me just now..."

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Then again, I fall for girls pretty easily, so it's hardly surprising. Especially when they're sucking my knob... I think there are at least three girls that have made me think, mid-coitus, "I should DEFINITELY ask her to marry me just now..."

Yep, I know just what you mean :rolleyes:

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I think there are at least three girls that have made me think, mid-coitus, "I should DEFINITELY ask her to marry me just now..."

I did exactly that, we were talking about it earlier in regards to one of her clients trying to get a visa, it was funny as she wasn't even british. So as a joke I dropped in during some frantic no hands BJ... maybe it was my tone or when i said it, but it did not go down to well and had to explain, hardon-be-gone!

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