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Just wanted to share my experience of my first punt yesterday, wondered if anyone else was as disappointed with their first or was I expecting too much?

I went with a local lady for a 30min incall who I'd seen advertised on the 'other site', her feedback was excellent. She advertised herself as being in her mid-thirties but think she may have been stretching the facts a little, and that she gave an erotic GFE. I arrived, was led upstairs and asked to undress and lie on the bed. I was a bit nervous and she seemed to sense this, so I thought no point in bullshitting and I let her know that it was my first time. One of the reasons I went with an 'older' escort and not someone in their early 20's was I thought having had more experience they would be more sympathetic and helpful.

She asked what I would like and I said I'd like oral, she sat next to me and started masturbated me, she carried on with this for a while and I must admit she was good at it so I let her carry on until I came. She then cleaned me up but did mention how horrible she found cum, which I thought a little odd as on her site she said she loves people cumming on her face/tits/mouth etc. Then she started talking at me about everything from her dead pets to decorating, plus yawning and saying how tired she was continually, so any atmosphere there might have been evaporated. After a while I was ready to carry on and get the blowjob I had come for, I eventually managed to interrupt and asked if we were OK to continue whereupon she said we'd run out of time. So i had to get dressed and leave.

So there we have it, £50 for a handjob. I know it's partly my fault and I should have been more demanding but I went in there with the attitude that I'd go with the flow and see what happens as I didn't know the ropes, just didn't expect that little to happen.

Is this normal for most punts or have I just had a bad one?

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Hey Tumblingdice,

I am in the same sort of position. However, as with another age thread on here, I'm not sure why people associate age with people being "sympathetic and helpful" or any other such character traits.

Before deciding to see a lady I will look to tell them my situation. If I feel the reply isn't right (or if I don't get one), well I have to accept it isn't right and move on.

I do want my first time to be a positive thing. Better honest upfront.

This will no doubt be less important as you gain more experience, but for first time or nervous guys I feel it is best to avoid a negative experience like you feel you had.

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You pay for what you get hun . I don't do hand jobs for 50 quid ( Sounds Cheap). I like to spend quality time with a client.

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Just wanted to share my experience of my first punt yesterday, wondered if anyone else was as disappointed with their first or was I expecting too much?

I went with a local lady for a 30min incall who I'd seen advertised on the 'other site', her feedback was excellent. She advertised herself as being in her mid-thirties but think she may have been stretching the facts a little, and that she gave an erotic GFE. I arrived, was led upstairs and asked to undress and lie on the bed. I was a bit nervous and she seemed to sense this, so I thought no point in bullshitting and I let her know that it was my first time. One of the reasons I went with an 'older' escort and not someone in their early 20's was I thought having had more experience they would be more sympathetic and helpful.

She asked what I would like and I said I'd like oral, she sat next to me and started masturbated me, she carried on with this for a while and I must admit she was good at it so I let her carry on until I came. She then cleaned me up but did mention how horrible she found cum, which I thought a little odd as on her site she said she loves people cumming on her face/tits/mouth etc. Then she started talking at me about everything from her dead pets to decorating, plus yawning and saying how tired she was continually, so any atmosphere there might have been evaporated. After a while I was ready to carry on and get the blowjob I had come for, I eventually managed to interrupt and asked if we were OK to continue whereupon she said we'd run out of time. So i had to get dressed and leave.

So there we have it, £50 for a handjob. I know it's partly my fault and I should have been more demanding but I went in there with the attitude that I'd go with the flow and see what happens as I didn't know the ropes, just didn't expect that little to happen.

Is this normal for most punts or have I just had a bad one?

Lordy, £50 (!!!!) for a handjob, (which you thought was really good), and a long chat until you were ready to go again. That sounds like good value. For £50 I would have thought you would not have got much more than a quicky through the door. See the £30 punt thread.

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Lordy, £50 (!!!!) for a handjob, (which you thought was really good), and a long chat until you were ready to go again. That sounds like good value. For £50 I would have thought you would not have got much more than a quicky through the door. See the £30 punt thread.

Soooooooooooooooooooooooo true lol This guy was expecting too much by the sounds of it . Pay full price for your first escort experience . I don't think you should bargain hunt in this game x

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You just had a bad experience in short. But don't let that put you off and look at the field reports on this site and don't hesitate to ask questions :)

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Personally, I would come away from your punt feeling a bit cheated too, which is why I rarely go for 30 minute punts. They're good if all you're concerned about is the sex and you only want to come once. But it seems you were looking for a GFE, so you were probably wanting to have a punt where you got to enjoy the company of the woman a bit more and perhaps have a bit more intimacy than a glorified wank.

Give it another go. Try a longer punt (1 hour minimum) and tell the lady in question that you're new to this. Initiate contact by email and do so something like a week in advance so there is plenty of opportunity to discuss what you actually want, so you can figure out if she's the right girl for you. Make sure it's early evening at the latest so she can't use tiredness as an excuse. My first punt was spectacular, because I went for a 2 hour punt and I told the woman beforehand that I was a newbie (in fact I think I even told her I was a virgin - mention that if it's true, because some girls aren't comfortable taking your virginity, whereas others will make it extra special for you).In fact, I basically asked her to teach me how to have good sex, which she did.

Go for a girl who claims to be in her 20s - remember that if a girl says she is in her mid-thirties, she is almost certainly over 40. A lot of girls in their early thirties claim to be 29, because they know a lot of guys using the search function will put 29 as the maximum age, meaning perfectly decent girls just over 30 will be excluded from the results, and to be fair, there's not really much difference between a 29 year old and a 33 year old. But to be perfectly honest, age has nothing to do with how good they are - a young WG can be just as experienced as an older one, because their current age tells you nothing about how long they've actually been doing it, or how quickly they pick up good skills.

The main thing to bear in mind is that punting can be far better than what you've experienced so far. Perhaps you should have told her to switch to oral rather than handjobbing you to completion, but on the other hand, you asked for oral, not a handjob. Of course, perhaps she just didn't expect you to cum when you did, although again, you'd already told her it was your first time, so if it's the case that you came a bit quickly, she should have anticipated this since it was your first time. As I say, have another go, and this time make sure your research is meticulous.

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Just wanted to share my experience of my first punt yesterday, wondered if anyone else was as disappointed with their first or was I expecting too much?

I went with a local lady for a 30min incall who I'd seen advertised on the 'other site', her feedback was excellent. She advertised herself as being in her mid-thirties but think she may have been stretching the facts a little, and that she gave an erotic GFE. I arrived, was led upstairs and asked to undress and lie on the bed. I was a bit nervous and she seemed to sense this, so I thought no point in bullshitting and I let her know that it was my first time. One of the reasons I went with an 'older' escort and not someone in their early 20's was I thought having had more experience they would be more sympathetic and helpful.

She asked what I would like and I said I'd like oral, she sat next to me and started masturbated me, she carried on with this for a while and I must admit she was good at it so I let her carry on until I came. She then cleaned me up but did mention how horrible she found cum, which I thought a little odd as on her site she said she loves people cumming on her face/tits/mouth etc. Then she started talking at me about everything from her dead pets to decorating, plus yawning and saying how tired she was continually, so any atmosphere there might have been evaporated. After a while I was ready to carry on and get the blowjob I had come for, I eventually managed to interrupt and asked if we were OK to continue whereupon she said we'd run out of time. So i had to get dressed and leave.

So there we have it, £50 for a handjob. I know it's partly my fault and I should have been more demanding but I went in there with the attitude that I'd go with the flow and see what happens as I didn't know the ropes, just didn't expect that little to happen.

Is this normal for most punts or have I just had a bad one?

You got the wrong lady my friend,I had quite a few experiances like this when i first starting punting,once you meet the right lady you'll know exactly what I mean....and a little more experiace you'll be able to tell the good ones from the bad ones before booking.I hope this does'nt put you off punting for good.

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Only started recently and my first time was a disappointment as well. It was also my most expensive punt so far.

It has been nothing but great punts since then.

Put it down to experience and move on, have to say £50 for 30 mins does sound cheap! Where are you?

Look for WG's with lots of recent good feedback, or just post in the info forum for help finding.

Also £30 punt sound pretty damn awful!

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Only started recently and my first time was a disappointment as well. It was also my most expensive punt so far.

It has been nothing but great punts since then.

Put it down to experience and move on, have to say £50 for 30 mins does sound cheap! Where are you?

Look for WG's with lots of recent good feedback, or just post in the info forum for help finding.

Also £30 punt sound pretty damn awful!

For half an hour i charge 80 an nothing less . The woman shoudn't charge you that in the first place . Hope you have more luck next time x

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Only started recently and my first time was a disappointment as well. It was also my most expensive punt so far.

It has been nothing but great punts since then.

Put it down to experience and move on, have to say £50 for 30 mins does sound cheap! Where are you?

Look for WG's with lots of recent good feedback, or just post in the info forum for help finding.

Also £30 punt sound pretty damn awful!

thanks for the comments guys, I guess my expectations were a it high. I know it was a cheap punt but that wasn't the prime motivator, I'd based my choice more on what was promised on the lady's webpage and her feedback. I'm out in the sticks and there isn't the choice of girls you get in the city but quite a few of the ones who operate around here are priced around the £50/£60 mark for 30 mins. Also I'd gone for 30 mins because quite a few people on here recommended that for a first time.

I think my disappointment lies more with the apparent disinterest of the WG, she was friendly enough but it was all a bit too business-like for my liking, I expected a bit more interaction, I guess you can't click with everybody though. She did seem pretty vague and distracted on the phone as well when I called that day to confirm and couldn't remember my booking despite several emails between us that week. She was nice enough though and her previous feedback was excellent so I'm guessing I was unlucky and met her on a bad day.

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Just wanted to share my experience of my first punt yesterday, wondered if anyone else was as disappointed with their first or was I expecting too much?

Personally, I would come away from your punt feeling a bit cheated too, which is why I rarely go for 30 minute punts. They're good if all you're concerned about is the sex and you only want to come once. But it seems you were looking for a GFE, so you were probably wanting to have a punt where you got to enjoy the company of the woman a bit more and perhaps have a bit more intimacy than a glorified wank.Give it another go. Try a longer punt (1 hour minimum) and tell the lady in question that you're new to this. Initiate contact by email and do so something like a week in advance so there is plenty of opportunity to discuss what you actually want, so you can figure out if she's the right girl for you. Make sure it's early evening at the latest so she can't use tiredness as an excuse. My first punt was spectacular, because I went for a 2 hour punt and I told the woman beforehand that I was a newbie (in fact I think I even told her I was a virgin - mention that if it's true, because some girls aren't comfortable taking your virginity, whereas others will make it extra special for you).In fact, I basically asked her to teach me how to have good sex, which she did.Go for a girl who claims to be in her 20s - remember that if a girl says she is in her mid-thirties, she is almost certainly over 40. A lot of girls in their early thirties claim to be 29, because they know a lot of guys using the search function will put 29 as the maximum age, meaning perfectly decent girls just over 30 will be excluded from the results, and to be fair, there's not really much difference between a 29 year old and a 33 year old. But to be perfectly honest, age has nothing to do with how good they are - a young WG can be just as experienced as an older one, because their current age tells you nothing about how long they've actually been doing it, or how quickly they pick up good skills.The main thing to bear in mind is that punting can be far better than what you've experienced so far. Perhaps you should have told her to switch to oral rather than handjobbing you to completion, but on the other hand, you asked for oral, not a handjob. Of course, perhaps she just didn't expect you to cum when you did, although again, you'd already told her it was your first time, so if it's the case that you came a bit quickly, she should have anticipated this since it was your first time. As I say, have another go, and this time make sure your research is meticulous.

Excellent post Kieslowski! Follow this tumblingdice and you should joining the ranks for fun, no strings hook-ups in no time.

Good luck!

Oh i'm been having nothing but fun since my first time, experience is great once you learn from it. Thanks hun :)

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Just wanted to share my experience of my first punt yesterday, wondered if anyone else was as disappointed with their first or was I expecting too much?

I went with a local lady for a 30min incall who I'd seen advertised on the 'other site', her feedback was excellent. She advertised herself as being in her mid-thirties but think she may have been stretching the facts a little, and that she gave an erotic GFE. I arrived, was led upstairs and asked to undress and lie on the bed. I was a bit nervous and she seemed to sense this, so I thought no point in bullshitting and I let her know that it was my first time. One of the reasons I went with an 'older' escort and not someone in their early 20's was I thought having had more experience they would be more sympathetic and helpful.

She asked what I would like and I said I'd like oral, she sat next to me and started masturbated me, she carried on with this for a while and I must admit she was good at it so I let her carry on until I came. She then cleaned me up but did mention how horrible she found cum, which I thought a little odd as on her site she said she loves people cumming on her face/tits/mouth etc. Then she started talking at me about everything from her dead pets to decorating, plus yawning and saying how tired she was continually, so any atmosphere there might have been evaporated. After a while I was ready to carry on and get the blowjob I had come for, I eventually managed to interrupt and asked if we were OK to continue whereupon she said we'd run out of time. So i had to get dressed and leave.

So there we have it, £50 for a handjob. I know it's partly my fault and I should have been more demanding but I went in there with the attitude that I'd go with the flow and see what happens as I didn't know the ropes, just didn't expect that little to happen.

Is this normal for most punts or have I just had a bad one?

Her age has nothing to do with her being a good WG or not, its her attitude that determines that. What she charged was her decision, you agreed it with her so should of got what was agreed.

As a punter you have to be clear and concise as to what you require and if necessary assert yourself politely not be totally passive. This WG sounds totally disinterested and not the standard i require and her service offered poor, its not the norm and was a bad one. If you carry on go for a WG rated on here is my advice. :)

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Only started recently and my first time was a disappointment as well. It was also my most expensive punt so far.

It has been nothing but great punts since then.

Put it down to experience and move on, have to say £50 for 30 mins does sound cheap! Where are you?

Look for WG's with lots of recent good feedback, or just post in the info forum for help finding.

Also £30 punt sound pretty damn awful!

The WG or Establishment sets their prices not the punter so if they set it at £50 for 30 minutes the punter should receive a good service. If a WG is good she will offer a good service at whatever price she charges. A Soho-Walk Up WG charges from £22 for a pump, dump and leave and many punters have rated that service on here as good for them. As price is not linked to quality in punting you wont necessarily receive better service by paying more, that all depends on the individual WGs attitude which money cant change, i know as i have tried as have many other punters i know. I agree with your feedback advice and posting a thread on the information board. :)

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For half an hour i charge 80 an nothing less . The woman shoudn't charge you that in the first place . Hope you have more luck next time x

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You pay for what you get hun . I don't do hand jobs for 50 quid ( Sounds Cheap). I like to spend quality time with a client.

Thats a punting myth backed up by my 28 years punting experience and from punters i personally know and from being a member of punting forums. Paying more does not guarantee better in punting, the reason is simple a WG is a unique individual and the quality of her service depends on her individual attitude which is not dictated by price.

I have had some great punts at £80 an hour in recent years, average at £350 an hour and bad at £120 an hour, all were dependent on the WGs attitude. Researching on here a punter will hopefully be able to find a lady in his price range who offers a great service.

All WGs or the Establishments they get work from set their rates on what they think they can get and what they feel they are worth, if they charge £50 for 30 minutes rather than £80 for 30 minutes like you do which is your business and they want return custom they will offer good service. HOD in South Kensington which is very highly rated on this forum and by FRs charges £60 for 30 minutes and offers mainly great service.

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30 mins shouldn't mean shit service. it means service for 30 mins.. She sounds absolutely shit tbh, do yourself a favour mate, try again. Be more forward, it's your punt, your money, you should be entitles to a good time. Not some yawner yapping about whatever ruining the atmosphere. Go for 30 mins with Alex of Hod Sk and i bet you'll change your tone.

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Some very good advice from Smiths. I will add here however that not all ladies lie about their age. I certainly don't, I advertise mid 30s and that is exactly what I am. I also start any length of booking with a little chat, kiss and cuddle before we start. Perhaps it might be a good idea to discuss this with the girl prior to the booking. To me plonking you on the bed, then asking you what you want is not GFE, it is not my style at all. Then again some guys think kissing etc is a waste of time and do want to jump straight in!

Price I don't think is necessarily relevant, unless you are talking extreme ends of the spectrum which I would say could be a complete gamble(that's either end!).

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Having read your comments and thought about this I do think some of it lies at my door, I guess I didn't assert myself enough and probably expected her to be a bit of a mind reader, but to be honest I found the whole experience totally surreal and wasn't sure how to react. I mean in a normal everyday situation you don't really say things to people like "can you be quiet for a minute love and suck my dick" (not that that's what I would say to a WG anyway)

The good thing to come out of this is that I know I can go through with doing this and most of the worry and nervousness about doing it again should be gone.

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The WG or Establishment sets their prices not the punter so if they set it at £50 for 30 minutes the punter should receive a good service. If a WG is good she will offer a good service at whatever price she charges. A Soho-Walk Up WG charges from £22 for a pump, dump and leave and many punters have rated that service on here as good for them. As price is not linked to quality in punting you wont necessarily receive better service by paying more, that all depends on the individual WGs attitude which money cant change, i know as i have tried as have many other punters i know. I agree with your feedback advice and posting a thread on the information board. :)

price does not decide the quality of the service I spend a lot of money on this and I know.

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Just wanted to share my experience of my first punt yesterday, wondered if anyone else was as disappointed with their first or was I expecting too much?

I went with a local lady for a 30min incall who I'd seen advertised on the 'other site', her feedback was excellent. She advertised herself as being in her mid-thirties but think she may have been stretching the facts a little, and that she gave an erotic GFE. I arrived, was led upstairs and asked to undress and lie on the bed. I was a bit nervous and she seemed to sense this, so I thought no point in bullshitting and I let her know that it was my first time. One of the reasons I went with an 'older' escort and not someone in their early 20's was I thought having had more experience they would be more sympathetic and helpful.

She asked what I would like and I said I'd like oral, she sat next to me and started masturbated me, she carried on with this for a while and I must admit she was good at it so I let her carry on until I came. She then cleaned me up but did mention how horrible she found cum, which I thought a little odd as on her site she said she loves people cumming on her face/tits/mouth etc. Then she started talking at me about everything from her dead pets to decorating, plus yawning and saying how tired she was continually, so any atmosphere there might have been evaporated. After a while I was ready to carry on and get the blowjob I had come for, I eventually managed to interrupt and asked if we were OK to continue whereupon she said we'd run out of time. So i had to get dressed and leave.

So there we have it, £50 for a handjob. I know it's partly my fault and I should have been more demanding but I went in there with the attitude that I'd go with the flow and see what happens as I didn't know the ropes, just didn't expect that little to happen.

Is this normal for most punts or have I just had a bad one?

I really start to find these kind of posts very sad. 50 pounds for 30 mins. equals to 100 pounds an hour.

Sounds like you were taken for a ride here . You should name and shame the lady in question so others in your neck of the woods don't fall in her trap.

In london there are 100 pounds an hour punts that would put that lady to shame. Seems like she has no interest in her customers.

Do more research, she is an exeption rather than the rule in SP. Put yourself in touch by PM with any ladies on this board who are close to your area.

The only way is up after this pisstaker.. good luck :)

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Depending on location don't think you should consider 50 quid for 30 mins to be a cheap punt. Sounds like standard in many parts of the country (London maybe 70-80 as standard).

And don't equate quality with cost - it doesn't necessarily correlate. Some of the best experiences and most beautiful women I've punted with have been in Soho for less than 30 quid (indeed for 15-16 quid back in the 90s!)

Have another go - but use the FRs to select a girl rather than feedback on **. It might be that punting is not for you but at least have a good one before making that decision.

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"can you be quiet for a minute love and suck my dick" (not that that's what I would say to a WG anyway)

I was like you at the start, too nervous to ask for anything. However, I really lucked out and first few ladies I saw paid attention to what I'd asked to do over email and made sure it was all done in the course of the booking. I was quite detailed, specifying that the first pop should be from OWO and CIM, and the second through sex, and the positions I'd like to do - it was a bit detailed, but it meant I got what I wanted.

Now I'm much better at asking for what I want, and am quite confident in asking a WG to 'suck my cock' or whatever

And the 'you get what you pay for' is utter horse shit. The best Full Service 121 punts I've done have been for £90ph and £100ph, and a decidedly mediocre one was £130. I've not paid any more than that. Since there isn't really a way of quantitatively assessing the correlation between price and recommendations (without trawling through the FRs individually and writing everything down) we have to go with anecdotal data, and the overwhelming evidence there is that price is pretty much irrelevant to the quality of a punt.

The best time I've had have been at parties - £140 2 hours with as much sex as you can handle with 7 lovely ladies. At £70ph it's an utter bargain, paid-sex wise.

And please name & shame.

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I don't think "you get what you pay for" applies as much to escorting as it does to many other things. Pricing seems to usually be about how much work an escort wants to get - a lady charging £300 an hour probably doesn't want to see six clients a day, and an escort offering £50 half hours is probably the type who likes to stay busy - that doesn't mean either of them are necessarily good or bad at what they do, it's just working preferences. Nothing wrong with an escort charging £50 for a handjob, if that's what she says in her advertising, but if this lady offered oral and/or full service in her £50 meets then that's what should have been available. Obviously escorts get tired sometimes, or bored, but part of what we're paid for is to put that to one side (which REALLY isn't hard to do for a half hour).

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Depending on location don't think you should consider 50 quid for 30 mins to be a cheap punt. Sounds like standard in many parts of the country (London maybe 70-80 as standard).

And don't equate quality with cost - it doesn't necessarily correlate. Some of the best experiences and most beautiful women I've punted with have been in Soho for less than 30 quid (indeed for 15-16 quid back in the 90s!)

Have another go - but use the FRs to select a girl rather than feedback on **. It might be that punting is not for you but at least have a good one before making that decision.

Good post and i hope the OP takes heed of your advice as well as mine and others on cost and not equating it with quality. I only do hour minimum 121s but in London £60-80 is the norm for a 30 minute punt.

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