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The Decision To Start Working

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I have often wondered how a lady decides to take up being a WG. Is it a spur of the moment thing, or a decision that is reached over several weeks, or maybe months.

What was the tipping point or spur to make you take the plunge?

And at what age did you decide to follow this honourable line of work?

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got to be easy money i would have thought

what else can command an hourly rate of £100 upward 2 jobs a day 5 days a week and your on £1000 less tax etc thats what £750 a week clear .

good luck to the girls :)

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I'd want a bloody sight more than £100 an hour to fuck 10 various versions of me each week!

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Can I just say firstly, it is NOT always easy money!! We DO work for our money sometimes...Yes there ARE the Guys that are gorgeous and sexy as hell and we enjoy having sex with...but then you get the Guys who are stinky, demanding, rude, obnoxious..

Anyway...I digress...

I have been a Swinger since I was 26 (I'm 33 now)...and for Years I lived at home with Mum so couldn't obviously offer In-Calls so decided not to do it (although I DID do the odd Out-Call)...

But when I moved to a Flat by myself I looked at "the other site" and decided that I should give it a go...I was Working on the Chatlines and I figured that I could earn in two hours what it would take me all day to earn on the Chatlines...

Then I decided what I would and wouldn't do...what my limits were...What my Prices would be...I got some Photo's done...and that's kinda how I got into it...

So I would say that it was a gradual thing....but definitely not something that I regret as I'm now Studying for my Dream Career and it's all thanks to this line of Work...

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No blinding flash, I was gagging to know what it would be like. I read everything I could find, the awful and the not so awful.

I found my 'way in' via 'penpals' in The Sunday Sport circa 1990. No real sex ads then, but the penpals section was fruitful! I also got their details whilst they got my p.o.box no. Worked out brilliant. I got 80 letters, I chose 3 boys. I was on my way...

Whilst I have always had 'other work' going on, I make this one of my main priorities, I have made huge efforts to be a genuine honest gal here, spent loads of time and money doing that, because I want to be here.

My first foray in London was as a parlour girl,(4yrs, fab place!) but when I discovered that I could have a site of my own, I was beside myself with excitement! I knew that with my experience there, I was ready to go independent. And here I am, nearly 6yrs online.

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I had an affair and realised I had found something I was good at! So had a full career change, first started working in 2003 for escortwebguide then became Katherine of secrets as well, became totally indie around 2007.

Mandy x

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I've dabbled on and off for years with 'real jobs' they never really served to make me happy but little jaunts in to the adult business always made me smile. I was younger than I should have been when I first discovered and enjoyed it, then after a long relationship in my teens I re entered the adult industry as a very innocent looking adult actress (with braces!!), I was feeling pretty exhibitionist at the time and I loved it, I did some TV stuff then worked for a producer as a production assistant for a while; helping out with ideas and make up and doing various random cameo roles!

Then came the sauna, I enjoyed working there and managing it for a while. Another long term relationship came along and I threw myself into professional jobs but when we split and I was broke I saw no reason not to come back to the only industry that I have ever really felt at home in, I tried an agency first but found sitting around for hours, ready and waiting the ultimate turn off. Luckily I found the other site and I didn't look back!

I spent some time combining the job I hated with escorting, gaining various qualifications along the way to get ahead, until I thought 'fuck it!' I am giving up work to concentrate on what I love!!

And well, here I am :D

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I played around with the idea on and off for a couple of years before I took the plunge.

I was never backward in coming forward when it came to getting boyfriends, and I have always had an active sex life. Put simply, it wasn't that much of a stretch for me to start charging for it.

I kept my 'normal' job on for a couple of months and worked evenings and weekends out of hotels to begin with, but it wasn't long before I was earning in a matter of hours what it takes a week to earn in civvy street. So I gave up the day job and haven't looked back.

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got to be easy money i would have thought

what else can command an hourly rate of £100 upward 2 jobs a day 5 days a week and your on £1000 less tax etc thats what £750 a week clear .

good luck to the girls :)

Sure, what with all the admin that being self-employed entails...(no one asks this of other non sex industry self-employed people though) Can't really delegate much if you're self employed...

I spend hours and hours looking at analytic graphs, checking stats, where/who lands on what pages, time on pages, where in the world, writing emails, making calls/answering calls, faffing with photos, editing, marketing, advertising, thinking up wordsmithing to ad with, many many many other things. Meetings are about a third of what I do...

The more active my brain, the more I can avoid/suss nutters, so I'm very active, when I'm not actively doing the do...if you get the jist. Do not underestimate what goes on behind the scenes. Not easy.. you have to be really switched on to avoid the unsavouries and be on top of your admin. Most admin jobs don't have to also suss out what we do... B)

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in your exhaustive list of non- intimate deeds to keep the ship sailing you never mentioned the time it takes to get your outfits ready. on the website you have the most amazing warddrobe. i think you are worth a visit just to watch you change persona...there is a certain thrill to watching a lady dress/undress

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Well.......

I have thought about it for well over a year, I am usually impulsive, though did dedicate al ot of time to this possible choice.

I had plans to enter into this World in 2009, but I met my now ex boyfriend, and he took my attention away from this.

We dated until Feb this year.........

I have not looked back since, better this way, no serious boyfriend to take all my thinking time ( I tend to think a LOT about boyfriends, mu Pisces moon maybe..um, maube not).

nearly 26, well in December, feel 19 -22 in my mind, though soul much older.

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Can I just say firstly, it is NOT always easy money!! We DO work for our money sometimes...Yes there ARE the Guys that are gorgeous and sexy as hell and we enjoy having sex with...but then you get the Guys who are stinky, demanding, rude, obnoxious..

Anyway...I digress...

I have been a Swinger since I was 26 (I'm 33 now)...and for Years I lived at home with Mum so couldn't obviously offer In-Calls so decided not to do it (although I DID do the odd Out-Call)...

But when I moved to a Flat by myself I looked at "the other site" and decided that I should give it a go...I was Working on the Chatlines and I figured that I could earn in two hours what it would take me all day to earn on the Chatlines...

Then I decided what I would and wouldn't do...what my limits were...What my Prices would be...I got some Photo's done...and that's kinda how I got into it...

So I would say that it was a gradual thing....but definitely not something that I regret as I'm now Studying for my Dream Career and it's all thanks to this line of Work...

Hi i agree with you, its not easy money, sometimes is mostly is not, ive been told by a few guys who run the highclass london agencys where the girls are 400+ hr and they said that alot of the girls go crazy in the end or turn to drugs, im not saying all of them but apparently alot of them, plus theres alot of preparation before a job and it does seem to take up alot of time, as well as making sure you have a healthy diet, exercising most days to stay in shape, grooming your hair, putting makeup on, picking your outfits for the day, this part takes me ages as i like to mix and match and i choose depending on my mood and body shape that day, getting enough sleep, cleaning house, cooking dinner ect.

Then when you meet the customer your not sure how hes going to behave towards you, or if your going to have anything in common besides sex, i enjoy to have a nice talk or little discussions, this helps me to get to know the customer and trust them a little, some customers arent intrested in chatting although im GFE so thats a bit strange. On top of that we are judged from the moment the customer steps through the door, make sure you smile, be welcoming, help customer to get comfy, relax, feel comfortable around customer ect it is very hard and im not the best actress, sometimes a customer may be acting strange, agitated you dont no if they are on drugs sometimes you can get some right weirdos and you dont want to be rude because they dont realise there behaving weird or suspious. Anyways i love my job ive met some very sweet, and nice people, genuine and down to earth but theres always the one who ruins it and makes it difficult to trust the rest.

Oh last bit also emotionally it does/ escorting effect the escort with or without her knowing, i have the ability to push things to the back of my mind and kind of forget untill i need to remember reason i havent cracked yet, but i have 3 friends who were and are escorts they do it on and off and there in denial about what they do, they will escort for a period of time and then they will switch and say that, escorts are dirty sluts, cheap and its discusting but yet they do it themselves and seem to think there not like that and they wouldnt lower there so called morals even though they already have so to put it. Or someone very close to me so wont state who, would rather work in a brothel and have half her money taken, and she will be happy counting her pennys and knowing that shes had to sleep with 8 guys to make a small income, rather than work independenly or with a friend, and keep all her money, she seems to think working independently will corrupt her yet, the way the women are treated in most of the brothels is very low, there picked out right under eachothers noses like how they used to pick out slaves it can be very damaging to ones self.

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Hi i agree with you, its not easy money, sometimes is mostly is not, ive been told by a few guys who run the highclass london agencys where the girls are 400+ hr and they said that alot of the girls go crazy in the end or turn to drugs, im not saying all of them but apparently alot of them, plus theres alot of preparation before a job and it does seem to take up alot of time, as well as making sure you have a healthy diet, exercising most days to stay in shape, grooming your hair, putting makeup on, picking your outfits for the day, this part takes me ages as i like to mix and match and i choose depending on my mood and body shape that day, getting enough sleep, cleaning house, cooking dinner ect.

Then when you meet the customer your not sure how hes going to behave towards you, or if your going to have anything in common besides sex, i enjoy to have a nice talk or little discussions, this helps me to get to know the customer and trust them a little, some customers arent intrested in chatting although im GFE so thats a bit strange. On top of that we are judged from the moment the customer steps through the door, make sure you smile, be welcoming, help customer to get comfy, relax, feel comfortable around customer ect it is very hard and im not the best actress, sometimes a customer may be acting strange, agitated you dont no if they are on drugs sometimes you can get some right weirdos and you dont want to be rude because they dont realise there behaving weird or suspious. Anyways i love my job ive met some very sweet, and nice people, genuine and down to earth but theres always the one who ruins it and makes it difficult to trust the rest.

Oh last bit also emotionally it does/ escorting effect the escort with or without her knowing, i have the ability to push things to the back of my mind and kind of forget untill i need to remember reason i havent cracked yet, but i have 3 friends who were and are escorts they do it on and off and there in denial about what they do, they will escort for a period of time and then they will switch and say that, escorts are dirty sluts, cheap and its discusting but yet they do it themselves and seem to think there not like that and they wouldnt lower there so called morals even though they already have so to put it. Or someone very close to me so wont state who, would rather work in a brothel and have half her money taken, and she will be happy counting her pennys and knowing that shes had to sleep with 8 guys to make a small income, rather than work independenly or with a friend, and keep all her money, she seems to think working independently will corrupt her yet, the way the women are treated in most of the brothels is very low, there picked out right under eachothers noses like how they used to pick out slaves it can be very damaging to ones self.

The way to deal with the emotional burnout is to take plenty of breaks. When you stop enjoying the work, take some time out if you can afford to do so and then come back refreshed :)

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The way to deal with the emotional burnout is to take plenty of breaks. When you stop enjoying the work, take some time out if you can afford to do so and then come back refreshed :)

Thats a great comment and yes i have taken many breaks in the past when things get on top of me, one recently for a few months. I like to work at a steady pace like a turtle lol a few days a week and then i rest, i think it works better than working every day which can make me feel rushed and stressed. Plus the weather has been beautiful lately garden time :)

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I'd want a bloody sight more than £100 an hour to fuck 10 various versions of me each week!

Lol that made me laugh, but despite what some men think this job isnt as easy as you think.

Shelly

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I have often wondered how a lady decides to take up being a WG. Is it a spur of the moment thing, or a decision that is reached over several weeks, or maybe months.

What was the tipping point or spur to make you take the plunge?

And at what age did you decide to follow this honourable line of work?

I had met another working girl while out one night and when I heard all her stories and all the fun she was having I thought I would give it a go. The money was good and fun to be had but you can do too much and like some others have said you can burn out. I was in my 30's when I started so knew exactly what I was getting into and enjoyed it. Eventually I did burn out and took 3 years off and trained in another line of work and now I'm back and fully refreshed. I have the best of both worlds.

Shelly

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Sure, what with all the admin that being self-employed entails...(no one asks this of other non sex industry self-employed people though) Can't really delegate much if you're self employed...

I spend hours and hours looking at analytic graphs, checking stats, where/who lands on what pages, time on pages, where in the world, writing emails, making calls/answering calls, faffing with photos, editing, marketing, advertising, thinking up wordsmithing to ad with, many many many other things. Meetings are about a third of what I do...

The more active my brain, the more I can avoid/suss nutters, so I'm very active, when I'm not actively doing the do...if you get the jist. Do not underestimate what goes on behind the scenes. Not easy.. you have to be really switched on to avoid the unsavouries and be on top of your admin. Most admin jobs don't have to also suss out what we do... B)

yes but your in the minority being that organised ...

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Mandatory reading for anyone who wants to start in this line of work.

Amd interesting reading for customers as well.

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Can I just say firstly, it is NOT always easy money!! We DO work for our money sometimes...Yes there ARE the Guys that are gorgeous and sexy as hell and we enjoy having sex with...but then you get the Guys who are stinky, demanding, rude, obnoxious..

Anyway...I digress...

I have been a Swinger since I was 26 (I'm 33 now)...and for Years I lived at home with Mum so couldn't obviously offer In-Calls so decided not to do it (although I DID do the odd Out-Call)...

But when I moved to a Flat by myself I looked at "the other site" and decided that I should give it a go...I was Working on the Chatlines and I figured that I could earn in two hours what it would take me all day to earn on the Chatlines...

Then I decided what I would and wouldn't do...what my limits were...What my Prices would be...I got some Photo's done...and that's kinda how I got into it...

So I would say that it was a gradual thing....but definitely not something that I regret as I'm now Studying for my Dream Career and it's all thanks to this line of Work...

I cannot understand why men treat WG in a rude manner at the end of the day they are doing their job and the very least they expect is for the punter to threat them with a bit of respect. I was brought up to believe you treat people the same way you would want yourself to be treated, i for one would not like that, i know a WG can't offend back but it must be tough for them to bite their lips, i would'nt be able to do so.

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