Mr DivineMK

Enough Is Enough Surely ?

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I appreciate we as service providers sometimes have to cater for requests we may not personally find a turn, perhaps even a little strange but having been told about this following episode even I am appalled and disgusted.

We have a girl, her name is of no consequence who is very slim, not anorexic but slim and very aware of it. She is trying to gain weight and is even seeing her GP who is helping her with a exercise programme and dietary advice.

She has managed to put some weight on over the past few weeks much to her joy and is now revelling in her new curves (she is still a size 6). However she voiced concerns about one particular client who she sees regularly who much to my horror brings in a set of scales and weighs her as he does not want her putting on weight !!

Am I over reacting or is this just too much ?

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I appreciate we as service providers sometimes have to cater for requests we may not personally find a turn, perhaps even a little strange but having been told about this following episode even I am appalled and disgusted.

We have a girl, her name is of no consequence who is very slim, not anorexic but slim and very aware of it. She is trying to gain weight and is even seeing her GP who is helping her with a exercise programme and dietary advice.

She has managed to put some weight on over the past few weeks much to her joy and is now revelling in her new curves (she is still a size 6). However she voiced concerns about one particular client who she sees regularly who much to my horror brings in a set of scales and weighs her as he does not want her putting on weight !!

Am I over reacting or is this just too much ?

He sounds like a weirdo to me and its getting into her personal business in my opinion. I wouldnt let him in with these scales and if he persists refuse his future business. :)

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Are they bathroom or kitchen scales? :)

Sounds abit over the top. So what if shes put weight on and hes miffed? Demand she eat celery for a week before he books her again?!

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Am I over reacting or is this just too much ?

No, you're not overreacting. It's none of his business, especially as she's taking dietary advice from her GP and happy with her weight gain.

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Am I over reacting or is this just too much ?

I don’t think you are over reacting! get security to give him a good kicking :D

^^^it's suppose to be a joke ok

Edited by reeve11

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Thank you all for your support. I don't think we need his business.

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No you are not over reacting.

If the girl want's to put on weight and is following GP'S advice then that is her decision and it is totally wrong for this client to bring in scales to weigh her.

Agree, if he complains about the refusal of scales being brought in then you can do without his sort.

Tell him where to shove his scales.

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I appreciate we as service providers sometimes have to cater for requests we may not personally find a turn, perhaps even a little strange but having been told about this following episode even I am appalled and disgusted.

We have a girl, her name is of no consequence who is very slim, not anorexic but slim and very aware of it. She is trying to gain weight and is even seeing her GP who is helping her with a exercise programme and dietary advice.

She has managed to put some weight on over the past few weeks much to her joy and is now revelling in her new curves (she is still a size 6). However she voiced concerns about one particular client who she sees regularly who much to my horror brings in a set of scales and weighs her as he does not want her putting on weight !!

Am I over reacting or is this just too much ?

I think his behaviour is controlling - he needs to go.

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Ditto all the above.

She's not his personal property. Potential abusive mindset developing there imho.

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He's a wierdo. Neither you nor the girl need him. Tell him to keep the scales at home and never mention the girl's weight again or he can take a long walk off a short plank.

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unbelievable, and just plain weird. Agree with the above about being controlling etc. She/You should stop seeing the person concerned 'incase' it gets more out of hand.

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It is an unusual but nonetheless perfectly innocuous request IMO. I'd like to hear from all the alarmists why it is a step too far.

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It is an unusual but nonetheless perfectly innocuous request IMO. I'd like to hear from all the alarmists why it is a step too far.

I think the behaviour of this client is unacceptable Mr DivineMK.

SpoksEyebrows, the lady concerned clearly feels there is an issue with her weight. I feel the client is making unacceptable demands upon her.

However, I am aware of anorexia and other eating disorders. I do believe of all mental illness they have the greatest morality rate, around 20% of people who are diagnosed with this illness will die. It is a devasting disease. Eating disorders are generally not black and white and devlop via disorderly eating and behaviour paterns, it is very much an illness of self-esteem.

I think it is vital the lady Mr Divine mentions has tackled this issue before it has become a major issue. I may even go further and say I'm not sure she is suitable to be working right now.

In such a vulnerable position then no negative influence of this type is needed.

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It is an unusual but nonetheless perfectly innocuous request IMO. I'd like to hear from all the alarmists why it is a step too far.

I can't believe you feel that it is not a step too far but then coming from you its understandable.

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You are not overreacting, he is way out of line and b****y rude!

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It is an unusual but nonetheless perfectly innocuous request IMO. I'd like to hear from all the alarmists why it is a step too far.

I see what you did there - wording your opinion in such a way that anyone who replies disagreeing with you is by your definition an alarmist. Good job.

Back under your bridge, troll.

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Yes, the client should be asked not to bring the scales on his next visit. Should he find fault with her weight gain, he should look else where for a girl more to his liking. Then ,again citing concern for the girl's well being, have him step on the scales...then demand he lose a couple of stones before seeing her again.

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I may even go further and say I'm not sure she is suitable to be working right now.

In such a vulnerable position then no negative influence of this type is needed.

that could make it worse.

so how is going to put food on the table with no job?

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I don't know why it's being insisted the girl is anorexic when she isn't. People with anorexia have a distorted image of themselves, and are very controlling over what and how much they eat convinced that they need to lose weight, some people don't eat enough just as some eat too much and when grieving both ends of this can get worse.

Being happy in putting on weight is not an anorexic tendency!

The client is being ridiculous, I don't care what your weight and how you feel about it, no girl would feel good with that.

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you're not over reacting, that is way too much. It's none of his fucking business how much she weighs or wants to weigh. Stop this guy seeing her imo

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He sounds like a total knobhead. If I was her I would've given him an "accidental" nip or two to the groinal region. Who does he think he is making requests like that? Bless her ):

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Don't think you are over reacting MrMK. Don't know how young she looks facially, but as he wants her to stay slight and not develop curves, and if she subscribes to the ever increasing propensity for shaving completely, then the connotations are rather obvious.

Used to know a young looking (actually in her late 20s) slight escort who'd had her breast's enhanced a few years earlier precisely because she was attracting what she considered the "wrong" type of client when she first started working.

And before I get shot down in flames I know I've made sweeping generalisations :rolleyes: but it's difficult not to.

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If this is the case then she is working for all the wrong reasons and should get her personal life sorted out before entering into the murky world of prostitution.

As regards the client, for all we know he may innocently think he has found someone who fits his personal criteria for a WG and is simply trying to keep her how he likes her. We are told that she has a naturally diminutive build so what harm is he causing? There are many women who would love to have her proportions.

The client has been accused of being controlling. Divine say they are offering help, but to what extent could this also be construed as controlling behaviour, albeit from a more subtle angle? Controversial I know but I also know there are no guardian angels in this world and there’s no such thing as a free lunch.

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As regards the client, for all we know he may innocently think he has found someone who fits his personal criteria for a WG and is simply trying to keep her how he likes her. We are told that she has a naturally diminutive build so what harm is he causing? There are many women who would love to have her proportions.

Are you having a laugh? There Is one thing finding a wg that fits your criteria, and another thing bringing a set of scales to the appointments, and scolding her for puting on weight, and you know It.

None of his bloody business what she weighs, I'm surprised she hasn't booted him In the goolies! :mellow:

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There is all the difference between asking for a service and trying to influence someone's physical being, which is causing harm in my book. I'd tell him where to go.

I fail to see how her actions could be construed as demonstrating that she is working for the wrong reasons.

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