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When reading the "Are you fussy?" thread I noticed a lot of guys saying they wouldn't give a girl larger than a size 10 or 12 a second glance.

As a lover of larger ladies it's hard for me to read comments like this, I totally understand everyone has a preference, and I've heard all the reasons guys don't want bigger girls. But I would like to know why guys do as it seems that while guys who will see larger ladies are also happy to see smaller girls, but the reverse is seldom true.

My very first sexual experience was with "the fat girl" in high school, I was a geeky, gangely ugly duckling with no self esteem to speak of, and our relationship brought no end of amusement to "the beautiful people". But when she took off her clothes she went from being shy and self conscious to a sexual demon! I still love that when I visit a new girl, sometimes they are worried I'm just there to satisfy a curiosity and I can see their face light up when they realize I find their body beautiful. Some are wonderfully confident from the word go and that is also insanely sexy for me.

So come one BBW fans, lets here some good stuff about the plus size girls out there!

We may even make a few converts!

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Big girls try harder. There's truth in that in so much as they know they can't compete on looks so make up with technique and personality. I'm not into BBW but if I am with a larger woman generally it's an enjoyable punt.

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lol there's just so much more of them to love ! honestly I don't know you can really analyse why some guys fancy larger ladies, as opposed to stick insects, or blondes, or whatever. I'm not sure why I do myself but from memory I do know in my case it goes all the way back to puberty and possibly beyond. So there may be some primal, evolutionary reason why men want to mate with more cuddly well-insulated ladies.

Also there is certainly a cultural aspect- it's only fairly recently in western civilization that we have been brainwashed into associating beauty in women solely with a slim physique. Don't forget my namesake in the 17th century and his lovely paintings !

Plenty of debating points methinks :)

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Big girls try harder. There's truth in that in so much as they know they can't compete on looks so make up with technique and personality. I'm not into BBW but if I am with a larger woman generally it's an enjoyable punt.

Are you serious?

I'm biting my tongue fingers very hard here in order not to stray from my ladylike manner.

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lol there's just so much more of them to love ! honestly I don't know you can really analyse why some guys fancy larger ladies, as opposed to stick insects, or blondes, or whatever. I'm not sure why I do myself but from memory I do know in my case it goes all the way back to puberty and possibly beyond. So there may be some primal, evolutionary reason why men want to mate with more cuddly well-insulated ladies.

Also there is certainly a cultural aspect- it's only fairly recently in western civilization that we have been brainwashed into associating beauty in women solely with a slim physique. Don't forget my namesake in the 17th century and his lovely paintings !

Plenty of debating points methinks :)

For me it goes back to a traumatic childhood experience of accidently seeing a very large female relative naked, i was deeply shocked. 6-16 is my size range and i have many times seen much bigger WGs at Parties and not fancied any of them so i know what i like, thats just the way it is with no disrespect to anyone. :)

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Big girls try harder. There's truth in that in so much as they know they can't compete on looks so make up with technique and personality.

Depends what you mean by "looks" doesn't it? It is noticeable that many larger women have very nice skin, particularly in their face, and so to my mind are often very pretty.

I also had a formative adolescent experience with a big girl, and looking back I do feel it is peer pressure that tells you it is somehow "wrong" to find such girls attractive. A couple of drinks initially got me past my inhibitions, and I haven't looked back :)

As quite a skinny guy myself it is possibly partly the attraction of opposites that works; also, I wonder if there is an association between a healthy appetite for food with an appetite for sex.

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I do feel it is peer pressure that tells you it is somehow "wrong" to find such girls attractive.

Someone once said to me "sleeping with a fat chick is like riding a moped, you might enjoy it at the time but you don't want your friends to find out"

That was back when I was a teen, I thought it was bollocks then and after many experiences with lovely larger ladies my opinion hasn't changed.

I wouldn't say BBWs can't compete with slimmer girls for looks, apart from the odd one or two I can hand on heart say I think the bigger girls I've met have nicer hair, skin, nails and personal hygiene than the slimmer girls I've been with (probably 70% of my experience are with girls size 16+ so I may have just been unlucky with the more slender ladies I picked)

Maybe it's as you say Matt, they are trying to compensate for their weight, and I've never had a bad punt with a BBW.

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I find ladies of all sizes appealing to my eye. Like other guys I guess I'm more drawn to nice skin and nice hair than overall shape. However, I've had one experience with a rather large lady (I have no idea what her dress size was but it was above a 16) where, due to the puffyness of her lady bits and all that extra skin, I struggled performing RO which really puts me off now. Is it a general problem or a one off?

Maybe my toungue is too small :huh:

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I find ladies of all sizes appealing to my eye. Like other guys I guess I'm more drawn to nice skin and nice hair than overall shape. However, I've had one experience with a rather large lady (I have no idea what her dress size was but it was above a 16) where, due to the puffyness of her lady bits and all that extra skin, I struggled performing RO which really puts me off now. Is it a general problem or a one off?

Maybe my toungue is too small :huh:

I have found that, one on occasion the young ladies' outer lips were too large to part with my tongue and using my hand was awkward.

I think she knew though, because she reached down to spread herself with one hand while her other on the back of my head encouraging me.

She was one of the sweetest tasting I've ever had and defiantly the wettest!

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Big girls try harder. There's truth in that in so much as they know they can't compete on looks so make up with technique and personality. I'm not into BBW but if I am with a larger woman generally it's an enjoyable punt.

At the risk of getting flamed, I'm afraid I have to agree with this, sorry Indian Delight.

Think back to school: it wasn't the very good looking girls who made out behind the bike shed, but the spotty, glasses wearing, plumper girls who felt that this was the only way to compete and this seems to have moved into their adult world.

I also think that it gave them a 'better', certainly nicer, personality and more inventive in bed.

I would much rather punt a BBW older lady than a skinny, young and inexperienced girl who looks the part but can't deliver.

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I have found that, one on occasion the young ladies' outer lips were too large to part with my tongue and using my hand was awkward.

I think she knew though, because she reached down to spread herself with one hand while her other on the back of my head encouraging me.

She was one of the sweetest tasting I've ever had and defiantly the wettest!

I have found this too, but I like the lady to spread her pussy lips for me and most BBWs will happily do this.

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At the risk of getting flamed, I'm afraid I have to agree with this, sorry Indian Delight.

No need to apologise.

I'm just appalled by the assumption that bbw's cant compete in the looks dept. Absolute and utter rubbish.

Having worked with a bbw [passionate penny of Horsham] on a number of occasions, I can tell you she really does not need to compete with anyone. Her phone never stops ringing [no lie]

There is no truth in bbw's being nicer than the slimmer girls either. Each lady has her own personality. Both bbw's AND the slimmer ladies can be equally bitchy, lazy, hard working, attractive, or unattractive. Seen enough posts on here to know what I'm talking about!

A larger lady can have a beautiful face. A slimmer lady may not be so facially attractive. Of course, what may be beautiful to one, may be 'meh' to another.

To assume a slimmer lady is bound to be beautiful and therefore does not have to try... well what a rosy world some live in... or perhaps some gents are not always fussy about the face?!

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My girlfriend is a BBW and she has a really stunning face - so much so that my mates have remarked how gorgeous she is. Fell for her on all levels, looks, personality, everything.

It also amuses me when i hear guys who have skinny, model-type girlfriends who complain that they never get their cocks sucked or even get sex at all. My GF loves anal, facials, getting caned and is an enthusiastic lover.

She might me a big girl but she's just wonderful.

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No need to apologise.

I'm just appalled by the assumption that bbw's cant compete in the looks dept. Absolute and utter rubbish.

Having worked with a bbw [passionate penny of Horsham] on a number of occasions, I can tell you she really does not need to compete with anyone. Her phone never stops ringing [no lie]

There is no truth in bbw's being nicer than the slimmer girls either. Each lady has her own personality. Both bbw's AND the slimmer ladies can be equally bitchy, lazy, hard working, attractive, or unattractive. Seen enough posts on here to know what I'm talking about!

A larger lady can have a beautiful face. A slimmer lady may not be so facially attractive. Of course, what may be beautiful to one, may be 'meh' to another.

To assume a slimmer lady is bound to be beautiful and therefore does not have to try... well what a rosy world some live in... or perhaps some gents are not always fussy about the face?!

My jaw dropped at exactly the same statement and I agree with you totally. Beauty has nothing to do with size, it's an ill considered statement and definitely a personal opinion and not one everyone can agree with. Maybe some men feel that larger women would be beautiful 'if they lost weight' and yet they are acknowedging the beauty exists already.

I had never considered myself a BBW until I started Escorting. This is the only world in which a size 14 or 16 is considered to be one. In the swinging world it's 18+, which is how most profiles are layed out, including the one that can not be mentioned. I don't really care what label I'm given, but my face is the same be incased in a size 10 body or size 20.

I don't think I try harder when I'm larger than when I'm smaller either. I do what I enjoy doing and I would never lay back and think of England or what is the point in doing it? How boring would that be? Maybe Vin da loo has a point with the appetite for life thing, I don't know, but then I would hate to generalise, there are too many other people to do that.

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My girlfriend is a BBW and she has a really stunning face - so much so that my mates have remarked how gorgeous she is. Fell for her on all levels, looks, personality, everything.

It also amuses me when i hear guys who have skinny, model-type girlfriends who complain that they never get their cocks sucked or even get sex at all. My GF loves anal, facials, getting caned and is an enthusiastic lover.

She might me a big girl but she's just wonderful.

FFS what on earth are you doing here on punternet??? :)

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Here's another vote for the fatties - the bigger the cushion the sweeter the pushin.

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My girlfriend is a BBW and she has a really stunning face - so much so that my mates have remarked how gorgeous she is. Fell for her on all levels, looks, personality, everything.

It also amuses me when i hear guys who have skinny, model-type girlfriends who complain that they never get their cocks sucked or even get sex at all. My GF loves anal, facials, getting caned and is an enthusiastic lover.

She might me a big girl but she's just wonderful.

FFS what on earth are you doing here on punternet??? :)

One can never get enough! ;)

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Here's another vote for the fatties - the bigger the cushion the sweeter the pushin.

Just out of curiosity do you call them that when you talk to them?

I can't imagine many of the ladies I meet putting up with that

Although I imagine there must be a humiliation s and M scene when it comes to larger ladies, maybe coupled with a food fetish but I've never seen that advertised.

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Here's another vote for the fatties - the bigger the cushion the sweeter the pushin.

well I doubt you will say that when they have the top position, jumping on you :lol:.

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But surely that is because her inferiority complex as a BBW means she is oh, ever so desperate to please!

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Pru

It also amuses me when i hear guys who have skinny, model-type girlfriends who complain that they never get their cocks sucked or even get sex at all. My GF loves anal, facials, getting caned and is an enthusiastic lover.

She might me a big girl but she's just wonderful.

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Since when does a woman's weight get reflected on her pussy lips??? When you guys talk about BBW's are you talking about the morbidly obese types that one sees on TV? I must fetch a mirror and have a good look down there and see how much cellulite my pussy lips are heaving around!

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Pru

I have found this too, but I like the lady to spread her pussy lips for me and most BBWs will happily do this.

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Concur with the earlier point about them trying harder to make up for being overweight. Oldpunk inadvertently supported this theory by mentioning how blokes with model-like girlfriends complain about the lack of blowjobs, but his 'bigger' girlfriend enthusiastically does anal, facials, etc.

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Big girls try harder. There's truth in that in so much as they know they can't compete on looks so make up with technique and personality. I'm not into BBW but if I am with a larger woman generally it's an enjoyable punt.

Don't agree with the wording but do agree with the sentiment. BBW's cannot compete with the fake/airbrushed images pushed about of what a women should look like, if growing up men are bombarded with images of skinny girls in sexy things, associations form and are hard (but not impossible) to change.

Whilst most men (we are shallow, fickle things) don't gravitate to BBW's physically, I have meet some stunning larger ladies in my life, and usually their character and personality is just like magnetism. Many a (non sexual) good time.

And despite never shagging a BBW, since embracing this punting life, it seems rude not to try it at some point. Such a long to do list!

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Don't agree with the wording but do agree with the sentiment. BBW's cannot compete with the fake/airbrushed images pushed about of what a women should look like, if growing up men are bombarded with images of skinny girls in sexy things, associations form and are hard (but not impossible) to change.

Whilst most men (we are shallow, fickle things) don't gravitate to BBW's physically, I have meet some stunning larger ladies in my life, and usually their character and personality is just like magnetism. Many a (non sexual) good time.

And despite never shagging a BBW, since embracing this punting life, it seems rude not to try it at some point. Such a long to do list!

And women aren't? You'd frequently see model-types with ugly blokes if women weren't also shallow. You usually only see a woman with a bloke who looks like he's been chewing landmines if he's got a bit of cash and can keep their base desires for material goods and wealth satisfied.

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It's been quite a while since I've been as offended as reading some of these posts, thanks for telling me why I am the way I am, it's obviously because I'm fat/ugly.

Many of you really made me glad I'm retiring.

Oh and by the way, aren't there good thin hookers? And certainly bad fat ones.

Btw, having lived with Barbies (two hooker ones included), they may try and get away with as little as in the bedroom but have you ever seen one get ready? Must tan, hair extensions, eyelash extensions, fillers, bla bla bla! The thought of going out without a full face of make up? Forget it.

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