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Are You The Type Punter You Thought You'd Be

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Before starting to punt I thought i'd be out trying to tap as many hot 21 year old blondes as my pay scale could handle.

Shortly after taking the plunge I realised the reality was totally the opposite.

Nowadays I'm happier finding one or two regular girls that are great to be with in and out of bed.

Have any of you guys found the reality of punting different to the fantasy?

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Yeah, that sounds familiar. I'm the same. I'm pretty certain now that I get a big kick out of the attention and flirting you get from a hard working escort (or drunk female friend :D ) more than sex. How good the girl looks doesn't seem to matter that much.

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Before starting to punt I thought i'd be out trying to tap as many hot 21 year old blondes as my pay scale could handle.

Shortly after taking the plunge I realised the reality was totally the opposite.

Nowadays I'm happier finding one or two regular girls that are great to be with in and out of bed.

Have any of you guys found the reality of punting different to the fantasy?

I have sexual experiences beyond my wildest dreams in my 28 yesrs of punting, certainly many i probably wouldnt of even known existed or thought about if i hadnt punted, so overall its be well worth it giving me a lot of great memories, with a small number of bad as well.

On the other hand i am down the GUM quartely having my japs eye penetrated by a nurse who usually isnt that gentle, and who i never fancy so its not all good. :)

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I'm still trying to "tap as many hot 21 year old blondes" as possible :lol:

I never really thought about what i'd be like as a punter. I'm just always gracious and polite, even when it goes wrong with a crap provider. Just move on and keep enjoying the fun ;)

But i guess as my main love is beautiful women, that's always been my priority and still is, to have the girls that i look at and think "WOW"!

So i guess in a way the answer is yes :lol:

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I think it's far more sensible to lust after the out of your league stunners than get fixated on the run of the mill cuties. There is nothing like an ugly and boring WG with a fantastic body. Pretty WG's freak me out.

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I have always had a thing for 30+ year women but when punting have tried the younger girls. Always enjoyed myself but still prefer the 30 plus bracket. I am always polite virtuous too so I guess I am happy with the kind of punter I am.

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I think it's far more sensible to lust after the out of your league stunners than get fixated on the run of the mill cuties. There is nothing like an ugly and boring WG with a fantastic body. Pretty WG's freak me out.

For me as i fancy them physically i really cant abide ice cold stunners, all looks without the delivery, give me a plainer to me WG who i still fancy who is friendly and enthusiastic any day. If the WG is a stunner and friendly and enthusiastic then thats even better.

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For me as i fancy them physically i really cant abide ice cold stunners, all looks without the delivery, give me a plainer to me WG who i still fancy who is friendly and enthusiastic any day. If the WG is a stunner and friendly and enthusiastic then thats even better.

I agree with this 100% smiths. Fortunately, there are plenty of good looking, friendly, enthusiastic girls out there. Shame about the ice cold stunners though. We all get one every now and again.

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Before starting to punt I thought i'd be out trying to tap as many hot 21 year old blondes as my pay scale could handle.

Shortly after taking the plunge I realised the reality was totally the opposite.

Nowadays I'm happier finding one or two regular girls that are great to be with in and out of bed.

Have any of you guys found the reality of punting different to the fantasy?

Much like you, I thought I'd only be punting with girls in their 20s, but actually fairly infrequently.

As it turns out, the ladies i return to time and again are nearly all in their 30s and 40s and I find myself punting about twice a month on average. Far higher than I expected, although I do fit in a punt with the occasional 20s WG as well, just to show I don't suffer from reverse ageism :D .

The main difference between my preconceptions of punting and the reality is that I am amazed how many WGs there are who genuinely seem to enjoy their job and are happy to treat their clients almost like friends and definitely as equals rather than somthing the cat has dragged in.

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I didn't expect to build up a post count, I'm more of a lurker than a contributor. Even on non-punting boards I'm the quiet one at the back. If I'd anticipated this level of participation I might have chosen a less stupid name.

Apart from that same as Northwinds, only geography prevents me from punting more.

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I imagined I would try a new girl every week, and go for non uk girls. In fact i tend to stick to the same few girls, usually scottish. But if I had some real money, I would combine regular and random, but I would still stick to parlours, like the club atmosphere, not unlike visiting the library.

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Have any of you guys found the reality of punting different to the fantasy?

Yes.

I started 20 years ago with street ladies (in a Fiat X1/9!).

I rarely use parlours, mostly indies and I think I am the punter that I thought I'd be: courteous, respectful, clean, looking for more than just sex. I seem to have gathered a few friends and ladies who, in return, respect this.

On the physical front, I am slowly gaining weight, my willy no longer works twice in a half hour, but I am happy with my reply or 'Yes' to yuor question.

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The main difference between my preconceptions of punting and the reality is that I am amazed how many WGs there are who genuinely seem to enjoy their job and are happy to treat their clients almost like friends and definitely as equals rather than somthing the cat has dragged in.

It's funny you should say that, because I am amazed by how many punters I see who seem to harbour that suspicion about their fellow punters! I've lost count of the amount of times a (new) client has said to me: 'I bet you get some right dodgy characters in here' or words to that effect. And my response is always the same: 'Well, you're not dodgy, are you?' And they don't seem to appreciate that they are only in my company because they were polite, civil and respectful when we spoke on the phone, and that I only agree to see men who pass several 'checks' (for want of a better word), and that their fellow punters are actually very similar to themselves, i.e. nice blokes :)

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Much, much worse and naughtier than I ever imagined ! :lol: :lol: :P :P

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It's funny you should say that, because I am amazed by how many punters I see who seem to harbour that suspicion about their fellow punters! I've lost count of the amount of times a (new) client has said to me: 'I bet you get some right dodgy characters in here' or words to that effect. And my response is always the same: 'Well, you're not dodgy, are you?' And they don't seem to appreciate that they are only in my company because they were polite, civil and respectful when we spoke on the phone, and that I only agree to see men who pass several 'checks' (for want of a better word), and that their fellow punters are actually very similar to themselves, i.e. nice blokes :)

I guess that the media reinforces a stereotype of the punter being a dirty mac wearing loner and the WG being hard hearted and abusused/controlled. I have been told many times by ladies that the majority of their clients are lovely. Certainly the guys I have met at the odd party I have been to have all seemed like regular joes to me.

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It's funny you should say that, because I am amazed by how many punters I see who seem to harbour that suspicion about their fellow punters! I've lost count of the amount of times a (new) client has said to me: 'I bet you get some right dodgy characters in here' or words to that effect. And my response is always the same: 'Well, you're not dodgy, are you?' And they don't seem to appreciate that they are only in my company because they were polite, civil and respectful when we spoke on the phone, and that I only agree to see men who pass several 'checks' (for want of a better word), and that their fellow punters are actually very similar to themselves, i.e. nice blokes :)

I like this.

I have sometimes commented that I hope 'my' ladies have clients who are similar to me, guess I'd best stop doing so.

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In my younger (pre-punting) days my fantasy women were classy MILFs in their early 30s. Perhaps because they were largely out of reach. As my punting experience widened I increasing sought variety in age, hair-colour, race, etc. In time what I really came to appreciate was the post-coital euphoria of cuddling up after the rutting.

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Yes.

I started 20 years ago with street ladies (in a Fiat X1/9!).

I rarely use parlours, mostly indies and I think I am the punter that I thought I'd be: courteous, respectful, clean, looking for more than just sex. I seem to have gathered a few friends and ladies who, in return, respect this.

On the physical front, I am slowly gaining weight, my willy no longer works twice in a half hour, but I am happy with my reply or 'Yes' to yuor question.

Yes but do you still have the X1/9? (1.3 or 1.5?) I so nearly had one but ended up with an Alfa Sprint instead.

Sorry that's OT I know but anyone with such taste must be a decent punter!

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I guess that the media reinforces a stereotype of the punter being a dirty mac wearing loner and the WG being hard hearted and abusused/controlled.

This is certainly true. It's a huge shame because, whilst undoubtedly there are girls who are controlled and coerced into doing this work, there also exists an entirely different paid sex scene (the one most of the contributors to this board are involved with) which consists of independent ladies who are happy to do this job for a variety of reasons and non-mac wearing 'normal' gents who seek our services. It's as though consenting adults who are happy to have sexual relations with each other are somehow depraved.

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Yes!

Poorer but Happier :rolleyes:

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The reason that people assume punters are all a bit weird is that wgs in their kiss and tell memoirs alway exaggerate the nos of oddballs they come across. I assumed when I started punting that everyone else in the parlour was a fruitcake, but the truth is the majority of blokes are pretty vanilla, and anxious to be liked.

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It's funny you should say that, because I am amazed by how many punters I see who seem to harbour that suspicion about their fellow punters! I've lost count of the amount of times a (new) client has said to me: 'I bet you get some right dodgy characters in here' or words to that effect. And my response is always the same: 'Well, you're not dodgy, are you?' And they don't seem to appreciate that they are only in my company because they were polite, civil and respectful when we spoke on the phone, and that I only agree to see men who pass several 'checks' (for want of a better word), and that their fellow punters are actually very similar to themselves, i.e. nice blokes :)

I think some punters say this sort of thing because they assume they are not part of the stereotyped image of the dodgy punter in a mac? I think some of them have a mindset that they are not really punters themselves. I wonder if they assume (wrongly) that we are used to the more unpleasant side of the industry because they also assume we are also a part of that? I wonder if some of them think we are not good enough to be treated in a decent manner because we are prostitutes? It's the same kind of guy who says to me that I am too good to be doing this !

When guys say this sort of thing it tells you more about them than they realise !

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I like to think im the kind of punter that treats people the way i want to be treated, which generally means to me anyway friendly, genial, being clean, chatty and most importantly making an effort. On the impressions of punting fantasy and reality as you have said they are totally different. I have always had a penchant for Asian women anyway and in the real world had a few GF's that were from that part of the world. I always thought of punting as shopping - hang on let me finish - you go to the shop and theres a multitude of tastes and flavours available and you want to try all of them but eventually you tend to stick to the same things week in week out rarely trying the new spicy items for fear of an upset stomach, or more likely the fear of the unknown and punting in my mind should be just like that trying the new and exotic, spicy and hot embrace the unknown i say. Sure you can go with the same one if you find that one WG that ticks the boxes but i do like a little variety. Having said that i will contradict myself now and say 99% of the time i go for Asian WG's be it Korean, Japanese or Chinese. Having experienced the EE cold beauty and thats fine if thats your cup of tea i personally like a little more interaction and chat along with all the sex i can get too and so im willing to go for pretty rather than stunning to get the better service. There is only 1 WG i have been back to more than once and thats because she's outstanding. Now i thought when i started i would only be looking for young 18-25 year old asian women with that peachy little arse thing going on and a big pair of tits - thats my ideal, but the reality is that this isnt what you always find. The lady i see regularly for me anyway - 4 times in a year is a 49 year old Asian mum of 3 and a knockout, looks in her 30's and is firm where you need to be firm(asianstunner40's do a search she really is as good looking as her pictures). I'm now 37 but have been lucky in that i still have a full head of hair and the old tummy hasnt gone west just yet is hidden a little by the fact that im 6"2 but never in a million years did i think i would punt with someone nearly my mums age, hahaha sounds horrible when i put it like that - it didnt enter my head but im happy to punt with a 20 year old or 50 year old as long as it ticks what im after.

On a side note and im not sure if im in the minority here but i tend to go to punts in my suit as i generally go to my punts between 11am and 3pm. I dont know what kind of impression this gives to the WG'S but my regular loves it. As i keep my activities on the quiet i tend to do it during the day so as not to alert anyone to my little habit. Being the manager where i work also allows me to go on these punts with the previso that im going to a "meeting" this adds a little excitment to the whole thing in my eyes. Anyways im Looking to try the new ladies at 007 next week either Monica or Alicia so if anyone has had the pleasure would love to know your thoughts on these ladies as they dont have much in the way of feedback yet. I will leave A FR and let Mei know what they are like and update you lovely people. cheers and and happy Punting people.

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The reason that people assume punters are all a bit weird is that wgs in their kiss and tell memoirs alway exaggerate the nos of oddballs they come across. I assumed when I started punting that everyone else in the parlour was a fruitcake, but the truth is the majority of blokes are pretty vanilla, and anxious to be liked.

I agree; I get the impression from girls I have seen that most clients are perfectly decent chaps with the odd bad egg thrown in.

As to the original question, I suppose I am much as I expected, although I am now much more relaxed about it than originally which has made it much more enjoyable as time has gone on.

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It's the same kind of guy who says to me that I am too good to be doing this !

Oh god, yeah, I've had that. As though we are somehow putting ourselves down by seeing them! Not very complimentary towards either me or them.

I feel like saying; 'What, too good to be earning £140 per hour?! You can pay me twice as much if you like!' B)

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