Sarah Summers

I'm Not A Punter

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I have seen guys who tell me they are not punters because they see only me. One guy told me quite emphatically that he was a client and not a punter. I think the argument here was that if you punt you are taking a chance and therefore if you see one lady regularly you are not doing that and are in effect her client.

I wonder if this is a form of denial or simply snobbery, and when guys deny what they are actually doing are they putting the girl down without realising what they have just said?

I say if you punt you are a punter. If he is not a punter, then what does that make me? :)

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Lol well for me he is in denial Sarah it must just make him feel better about what he is doing.

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Same kind of semantics as "I'm not a prostitute, I'm an escort"

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I have seen guys who tell me they are not punters because they see only me. One guy told me quite emphatically that he was a client and not a punter. I think the argument here was that if you punt you are taking a chance and therefore if you see one lady regularly you are not doing that and are in effect her client.

I wonder if this is a form of denial or simply snobbery, and when guys deny what they are actually doing are they putting the girl down without realising what they have just said?

I say if you punt you are a punter. If he is not a punter, then what does that make me? :)

He is clearly a punter as are all that pay in exchange for sexual contact. This denial is of course more stark in massage with a HE where to perhaps assuage guilt some insist its not a punt even though the WG involved has had his cock in her hand wanking him to orgasm.

Its a shame some feel embarrassed or guilty paying for sex in my opinion, it can really spoil a great pastime, fortunately being a selfish bastard helps i have found. :)

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Same kind of semantics as "I'm not a prostitute, I'm an escort"

Bang on. It's simple snobbery.

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I can't see any denial or snobbery in this. At least not necessarily.

Surely the distinction this guy is making is between punters, who like most of us would try out an unknown SP, and exclusive clients, who will see only one favourite lady because she is so good there would be no point experimenting elsewhere. That's a compliment to Sarah, not a put-down, I would say.

So in his vocabulary, every punter is a client, but clients who stick to one girl are no longer punting in the sense of taking a chance.

Of course logically it follows that the very first time he met Sarah he was indeed a punter. If he said he wasn't one at that stage, it would be blind denial.

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I can't see any denial or snobbery in this. At least not necessarily.

Surely the distinction this guy is making is between punters, who like most of us would try out an unknown SP, and exclusive clients, who will see only one favourite lady because she is so good there would be no point experimenting elsewhere. That's a compliment to Sarah, not a put-down, I would say.

So in his vocabulary, every punter is a client, but clients who stick to one girl are no longer punting in the sense of taking a chance.

Of course logically it follows that the very first time he met Sarah he was indeed a punter. If he said he wasn't one at that stage, it would be blind denial.

If he is continuing to pay her for sex he is a punter whether she is the only WG he punts with or not. You dont change from being a punter to a client just because you are only seeing one WG at any one time in my view. So for me its the fact he is paying that makes him a punter irrespective of with who or how he punts. :)

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Same kind of semantics as "I'm not a prostitute, I'm an escort"

Exactly what I was gonna write but Vin DaLoo beat me to it

Just sounds like yet another guy, in a long line of guys, with guilty conflicted emotions about paying for sex trying to find some way, (only in their own mind), of elevating themselves above the herd of 'guys who pay for sex' by substituting a fancy word for what they do.

Punt happily, free from guilt, or dont punt

Of course, Sarah, you cant tell him this otherwise you'd most likely lose his custom - the truth is too painful for some.

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So in his vocabulary, every punter is a client, but clients who stick to one girl are no longer punting in the sense of taking a chance.

There are multiple definitions of punter and you are confusing the one we are discussing with someone who gambles.

I like the simple definition in the online dictionary

"Punter (noun) - a prostitute's client"

Unless Sarah wants to start a debate about whether she is a prostitute or not, that makes it pretty clear for me.

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There are multiple definitions of punter and you are confusing the one we are discussing with someone who gambles.

I like the simple definition in the online dictionary

"Punter (noun) - a prostitute's client"

Unless Sarah wants to start a debate about whether she is a prostitute or not, that makes it pretty clear for me.

I am a prostitute

You are a Punter

He is a client........ LOL

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Exactly what I was gonna write but Vin DaLoo beat me to it

Just sounds like yet another guy, in a long line of guys, with guilty conflicted emotions about paying for sex trying to find some way, (only in their own mind), of elevating themselves above the herd of 'guys who pay for sex' by substituting a fancy word for what they do.

Punt happily, free from guilt, or dont punt

Of course, Sarah, you cant tell him this otherwise you'd most likely lose his custom - the truth is too painful for some.

Nah.... he lost mine :)

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I think you are all being cynical.

I call myself a client if I see a girl a few times and don't see myself as a punter with her.

Is it snobbery, denial or putting the girl down?

No.

It merely helps with the fantasy that's all.

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Sounds like the guy does not want to associate with the dirty rain mac brigade the media portrays punters as.

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I am a prostitute

Very glad to hear it Sarah. Mind you, it's not too late to change you know. A simple edit on your website (changing fees to donations) and you could upgrade yourself to being a courtesan :D .

Me, I'm stuck wearing this dirty mac for life !!!

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I am a prostitute

You are a Punter

He is a client........ LOL

Hmmmmmmmm

I am Rubenesque; you are fat; she is clinically obese

I am mature; you are old; she gets the over 80 pension addition

I have a designer website; you are on A****W++k; she has a postcard in the Post Office window

I am reassuringly expensive; you are overpriced; she is a rip-off merchant

I am a high-class escort; you are a parlour girl; she has convictions for soliciting

I have Designer Lingerie; you wear Marks and Sparks; she shops at Primark

I do marvellous oral without; you do a sexy blow-job; her false teeth don't fit

I have tasteful piercings; you have some obvious tattoos; she has mild and bitter under her nipples

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Hmmmmmmmm

I am Rubenesque; you are fat; she is clinically obese

I am mature; you are old; she gets the over 80 pension addition

I have a designer website; you are on A****W++k; she has a postcard in the Post Office window

I am reassuringly expensive; you are overpriced; she is a rip-off merchant

I am a high-class escort; you are a parlour girl; she has convictions for soliciting

I have Designer Lingerie; you wear Marks and Sparks; she shops at Primark

I do marvellous oral without; you do a sexy blow-job; her false teeth don't fit

I have tasteful piercings; you have some obvious tattoos; she has mild and bitter under her nipples

Love it!

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I have seen guys who tell me they are not punters

Punter is slang not a dictionary word, so without knowing what he regards as a punter it's hard to say if it the same sort of rationalisation, before I joined here I would have define 'punter' as a gambler on the horses. I think if you said "That guy is a punter, most people would assume you meant gambler"

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I think you are all being cynical.

I call myself a client if I see a girl a few times and don't see myself as a punter with her.

Is it snobbery, denial or putting the girl down?

No.

It merely helps with the fantasy that's all.

There's nothing wrong in calling yourself a client, just as there's nothing wrong with a WG calling herself an escort.

It's when the client starts saying "i am not a punter" or the WG states " i am not a prostitute" that it comes across as artificially distancing yourself from what we actually do, almost as if ashamed of the fact.

I love the fact that Dollymopp calls all her clients "her boys". It doesn't mean they aren't paying for sex though (and Dollymopp has never claimed this).

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There's nothing wrong in calling yourself a client, just as there's nothing wrong with a WG calling herself an escort.

It's when the client starts saying "i am not a punter" or the WG states " i am not a prostitute" that it comes across as artificially distancing yourself from what we actually do, almost as if ashamed of the fact.

I love the fact that Dollymopp calls all her clients "her boys". It doesn't mean they aren't paying for sex though (and Dollymopp has never claimed this).

I remember a few years ago I attended a message board social in a local hotel. I had to leave because I had an appointment in the middle of it, but when I returned there were some long faces. One lady turned up on the arm of her punter, and joined in a discussion where she told the rest of the company she was not a prostitute - she was an escort. One of the ladies asked her what was the difference, and she replied, "Prostitutes are those out there on the street. I am high class and better than them". She was talking to well known ladies who had been in the biz for a while and had field reports and Internet profiles. It caused a big argument between them, and as I returned to the social, she apparently was "just leaving". Good job I was not there then!

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Punter is slang not a dictionary word, so without knowing what he regards as a punter it's hard to say if it the same sort of rationalisation, before I joined here I would have define 'punter' as a gambler on the horses. I think if you said "That guy is a punter, most people would assume you meant gambler"

Oh - he regarded punters, as men who pay for sex.

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Lets say he prefers to be called a client instead of a punter because (this is far fetched) he is pulling a medical claim scam. This client is submitting remittance forms for his visits to you. Stating on the claim forms that you are a sex therapist.

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I remember a few years ago I attended a message board social in a local hotel. I had to leave because I had an appointment in the middle of it, but when I returned there were some long faces. One lady turned up on the arm of her punter, and joined in a discussion where she told the rest of the company she was not a prostitute - she was an escort. One of the ladies asked her what was the difference, and she replied, "Prostitutes are those out there on the street. I am high class and better than them". She was talking to well known ladies who had been in the biz for a while and had field reports and Internet profiles. It caused a big argument between them, and as I returned to the social, she apparently was "just leaving". Good job I was not there then!

Heh, you must have been able to cut the atmosphere with a knife when you returned.

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Hmmmmmmmm

I am Rubenesque; you are fat; she is clinically obese

I am mature; you are old; she gets the over 80 pension addition

I have a designer website; you are on A****W++k; she has a postcard in the Post Office window

I am reassuringly expensive; you are overpriced; she is a rip-off merchant

I am a high-class escort; you are a parlour girl; she has convictions for soliciting

I have Designer Lingerie; you wear Marks and Sparks; she shops at Primark

I do marvellous oral without; you do a sexy blow-job; her false teeth don't fit

I have tasteful piercings; you have some obvious tattoos; she has mild and bitter under her nipples

In the same vein, but only about clients/punters. :-)

I am a a client, you are a punter, he is a kerb crawler

I am wine and dine my courtesans. You bring a bottle of cheap vino for £4.99. He just has two £20 notes.

I am looking for the Unforgettable Experience, You looking for decent suck and fuck, He wants to empty his sack ASAP.

I book High Class escorts, You book cheap whores from аdultwоrк. He will engage with anybody as long as it under £40.

I am suave, smart and fit. You are overweight and dressed like a Nottingham market trader. He is dim and stinks of beer and curry.

I am either single or widowed, You are married or divorced. He is still living with his parents on council estate.

I never write reviews, as encounter very private for me. You like to broadcast every time you got laid. He can't type or use internet.

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In the same vein, but only about clients/punters. :-)

I am a a client, you are a punter, he is a kerb crawler

I am wine and dine my courtesans. You bring a bottle of cheap vino for £4.99. He just has two £20 notes.

I am looking for the Unforgettable Experience, You looking for decent suck and fuck, He wants to empty his sack ASAP.

I book High Class escorts, You book cheap whores from аdultwоrк. He will engage with anybody as long as it under £40.

I am suave, smart and fit. You are overweight and dressed like a Nottingham market trader. He is dim and stinks of beer and curry.

I am either single or widowed, You are married or divorced. He is still living with his parents on council estate.

I never write reviews, as encounter very private for me. You like to broadcast every time you got laid. He can't type or use internet.

Very good Xenia ! ;)

My, you must have a lot of time to think ! - nice peice :)

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Actually there is a different distinction here in some people's minds.

You might be a punter if you go to see a different "Prostitute" on every occasion that you pay for sex.

If you see the same "Prostitute" regularly, to the exclusion of other or not, you become her client. A cient is a person with whom one does regular business of any kind.

I am a punter. I see working girls. I don't like to use the word prostitution because of the undertones of abasement implied in the lexicon, whereas most women today do it for a career.

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