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Just found on the "ah dull work" site (text slighly edited):

Sweet young mum - In need of cash- I am a young mum, in need of cash, times are tight and needs must.

I have seen her pictures and rates are reasonable and I don't want to question her motives; everybody has a reason to do what they are doing but I think this bit of information was something I didn't really need to know. I'm not the kind of guy turned on by a young woman's vulnerability and I find myself in front of a dilemma. Would she hate me one day for giving her money for sex? Wouldn't she better off on child credits or incapacity benefits? WTF? Any advice?

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Just found on the "ah dull work" site (text slighly edited):

I have seen her pictures and rates are reasonable and I don't want to question her motives; everybody has a reason to do what they are doing but I think this bit of information was something I didn't really need to know. I'm not the kind of guy turned on by a young woman's vulnerability and I find myself in front of a dilemma. Would she hate me one day for giving her money for sex? Wouldn't she better off on child credits or incapacity benefits? WTF? Any advice?

Assuming she is a single mother and not in work.... then even if she is receiving all her entitled benefits she may still

be struggling to pay for treats and extras for her child/children.

It is my belief that many young single mothers seek to boost their income by turning to this work and of course it is tax

free cash ( naughty naughty.... I pay mine why shouldn't they pay theirs :rolleyes: )

The wheat from the chaff will soon be sorted though as contrary to their notion that the work involves little more

than thinking of England... they will be required to adapt to the vast array of differing clients and all that entails.

Those who genuinely take to the job and find it exciting/pleasurable etc will do well.

Those who receive a sharp wake up call regarding the reality of the job and find it is far removed from the fantasy

will disappear fast!

It is a bit of a shame that a lady has to be so upfront about it and as you say it does not make for a great appointment

if the client is aware she is only seeing him because her bills are overdue.

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I know what profile you are talking about. Be careful as I am sure she has a few other profiles on the purple site too.

Will do some research and get back here.

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No doubt some guys will find it a turn on, like a real life version of the "boss and employee who is desperate to keep her job" role play.

Not my cup of tea though.

I would rather see a girl with a bit of sparkle in her eyes and a smile for her clients. If she is just doing it for the kids and doesn't enjoy her work, it would feel too much like taking advantage to me.

On the other hand though, if everyone thinks that, the poor kiddies starve... :unsure:

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No doubt some guys will find it a turn on, like a real life version of the "boss and employee who is desperate to keep her job" role play.

Not my cup of tea though.

I would rather see a girl with a bit of sparkle in her eyes and a smile for her clients. If she is just doing it for the kids and doesn't enjoy her work, it would feel too much like taking advantage to me.

On the other hand though, if everyone thinks that, the poor kiddies starve... :unsure:

Hmmmm that would put me off. I do the job part time (around my full time job and my child) and I do it for the fun of it and the excitement - yes I could live with the extra money but it's always nice to enjoy your work and be able to treat yourself or family now and then.

I think I would rather see someone who was doing it for fun, etc would be more appealing then 'don't really want to be having sex with you but I have bills that need paying so I HAVE to' just a little wrong I think - but as I always say each to there own!

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Just found on the "ah dull work" site (text slighly edited):

I have seen her pictures and rates are reasonable and I don't want to question her motives; everybody has a reason to do what they are doing but I think this bit of information was something I didn't really need to know. I'm not the kind of guy turned on by a young woman's vulnerability and I find myself in front of a dilemma. Would she hate me one day for giving her money for sex? Wouldn't she better off on child credits or incapacity benefits? WTF? Any advice?

As i treat everything on profiles with a pinch of salt this wouldnt necessarily put me off, i dont see the need for the WG to mention it though but can only assume its designed to garner some sympathy.

I would ring the WG and make a decision on whether to make a booking depending on that. It must surely be the case that some WGs do the job out of desperation, its up to the individual to decide if being a WG is for them and their motivations are their business in my opinion. :)

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Wouldn't she better off on child credits or incapacity benefits?

She probably already gets tax credits, but that doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't need extra cash. If she's earning a small wage, tax credits will subsidise her income but they definitely won't make her rich.

As for incapacity benefits, do you have evidence that she's incapacitated?! It appears from what you say that she's a mother, not ill.

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It does turn me on a bit, but the rational part of me argues that her service wont be great.

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I imagine its a sales pitch, designed to appeal to a variety of punters, knights in shining armour, corrupt catalogue man getting paid off with a quicky on the sofa, while Jeremy is blaring away on the telly. The majority of parlour girls are single mothers on benefits. Graduate girlies are rare indeed.

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In all honesty I did start because I was broke and struggling to pay bills. I am also very sexual so I thought I'd do alright. It turned out that I loved it so much that I quit my day job! I can't imagine doing else right now; it's the only 'job' that I have ever enjoyed! How many people have orgasms at work!?!

However I don't think that meeting some one who is only doing it for the money would be much fun, I've met with a few ladies (as part of a ffm) who clearly were and I found it a real turn off.

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In all honesty I did start because I was broke and struggling to pay bills. I am also very sexual so I thought I'd do alright. It turned out that I loved it so much that I quit my day job! I can't imagine doing else right now; it's the only 'job' that I have ever enjoyed! How many people have orgasms at work!?!

However I don't think that meeting some one who is only doing it for the money would be much fun, I've met with a few ladies (as part of a ffm) who clearly were and I found it a real turn off.

If I remember correctly, you state in your profile that you have a day time job?

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I have just found a newly created profile on "A dull work" that seems to instigate girls with financial troubles:

New models specialise in locating new female models for work in adult media and escorts to senior executives to help unwind.

Our expanding client base means we have immediate opportunities with excellent earning potential & flexible hours of work. 100% confidentiality is essential. If you are in debt or just fancy trying something different then please contact us. Please provide up to date photo's and some brief details to support your application.

No previous experience necessary but you must be aged between 18 & 30.

Seriously, there must be a way to report this somewhere. (and no, I'm not a moralist)

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I have just found a newly created profile on "A dull work" that seems to instigate girls with financial troubles:

Seriously, there must be a way to report this somewhere. (and no, I'm not a moralist)

If bothered you can report it to the admin on there, whether they will do anything is another matter.

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If bothered you can report it to the admin on there, whether they will do anything is another matter.

No comment to make on the actual service provider as I don't know her nor have I seen the actual profile. I would imagine it's is a sales pitch based on the obvious misconception that men may find a cash strapped young mum sexually appealing. I am sure no ones does.

That said I have to confess to using ' Young mum misses a Jeremy Kyle Show to wank men off for cash' on twitter and the girl in question in her words 'spanked it big time' that day. So whilst there is men out there who get hooked by this type of tag line then SPD's will use them.

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I've seen Topics started by 'punters' looking for an arrangement with say a single-mum who may be looking for some extra cash on top of their benefits. Just as there have been ones seeking students who wish to fund their studies. Women come into this line for a variety of reasons, also some of the stories may not be true but if there is the demand, then yes some ladies will use it.

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I imagine its a sales pitch, designed to appeal to a variety of punters, knights in shining armour, corrupt catalogue man getting paid off with a quicky on the sofa, while Jeremy is blaring away on the telly. The majority of parlour girls are single mothers on benefits. Graduate girlies are rare indeed.

God that really gets my goat...stereotypical assumption. What makes you think there are more parlour girls on single mother benefits that indy or agency girls. Snobbery comes in all forms as you just demonstrated!!!!!

I wish I could tell you how many girls I have who are currently doing uni courses or college courses either with or without children...I cannot of course am I am not going to blare their business on here...but the percentage is higher than you clearly think.

Personally though I have to agree with your first comment regardless of how blindly assuming your second one is. This girl may have more than one profile and each one is possibly aimed from a different sales angle...seems like a girl who is possibly earning a lot of money and probably does not even have any children.

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God that really gets my goat...stereotypical assumption. What makes you think there are more parlour girls on single mother benefits that indy or agency girls. Snobbery comes in all forms as you just demonstrated!!!!!

I wish I could tell you how many girls I have who are currently doing uni courses or college courses either with or without children...I cannot of course am I am not going to blare their business on here...but the percentage is higher than you clearly think.

Personally though I have to agree with your first comment regardless of how blindly assuming your second one is. This girl may have more than one profile and each one is possibly aimed from a different sales angle...seems like a girl who is possibly earning a lot of money and probably does not even have any children.

I didnt mention either agency girls or independants, so how was I making a comparison? Saying that parlour girls are usually single mothers on benefits is hardly controversial.

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I didnt mention either agency girls or independants, so how was I making a comparison? Saying that parlour girls are usually single mothers on benefits is hardly controversial.

it is if you single them out...and the fact that you didnt mention indys or agency girls is the immediate comparison by omission!

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Apart from the landed gentry, we all work because we're desperate for cash.

If all you really want to know is who enjoys the job and who'd rather bite you dick off than suck it then avoid newbies. Newbies may quit in disgust after a week or two if they can't hack it. Instead, check out the field reports of established ladies. Happy girls give a good service and get great reviews.

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God that really gets my goat...stereotypical assumption. What makes you think there are more parlour girls on single mother benefits that indy or agency girls. Snobbery comes in all forms as you just demonstrated!!!!!

I wish I could tell you how many girls I have who are currently doing uni courses or college courses either with or without children...I cannot of course am I am not going to blare their business on here...but the percentage is higher than you clearly think.

Personally though I have to agree with your first comment regardless of how blindly assuming your second one is. This girl may have more than one profile and each one is possibly aimed from a different sales angle...seems like a girl who is possibly earning a lot of money and probably does not even have any children.

I agree Chloe :rolleyes:

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Apart from the landed gentry, we all work because we're desperate for cash.

If all you really want to know is who enjoys the job and who'd rather bite you dick off than suck it then avoid newbies. Newbies may quit in disgust after a week or two if they can't hack it. Instead, check out the field reports of established ladies. Happy girls give a good service and get great reviews.

They are all new at some point though.

Someone has to take the risk for all the other punters (It's a hard job but someone has to do it B) )

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They are all new at some point though.

Someone has to take the risk for all the other punters (It's a hard job but someone has to do it B) )

True, i was going to post similar, its also been the case in my experience that some newbies are absolute unknown gems, others not, so it comes down to the risk your prepared to take, play as safe as you can in punting by only punting with well reviewed or rated WGs or punt on ocassion in search of an unknown gem which is what i do. :)

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True, i was going to post similar, its also been the case in my experience that some newbies are absolute unknown gems, others not, so it comes down to the risk your prepared to take, play as safe as you can in punting by only punting with well reviewed or rated WGs or punt on ocassion in search of an unknown gem which is what i do. :)

I agree. There are loads of guys that like WG virgins and also like writing FRs, let them take the risk. But the OP has certain requirements for his punts so for him (and I feel the same as him) it's not worth the risk.

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In Edinburgh you can find single grandmothers on benefits. And I am happy to book them as well.

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Seriously, there must be a way to report this somewhere. (and no, I'm not a moralist)

What do you find to be wring with this? I don't understand your objection.

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