Lynn

So You Got Caught.....

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Last week I met a client ( you said you daren't read message boards now .... hmmmm lol )

He explained that he thinks about booking ladies almost every day and even if he can't

quite manage to meet them he is always planning his next punt.

Several years ago despite thinking he was great at covering his tracks his wife found

a link to a review which she saw at a glance it was his! Some details in there which

identified him. He cancelled his account on here and had the review wiped.

Gate/shut/bolt/horses?

Long tale short but he confessed all to her and told her of his many dalliances due to

his "needs" after her sex drive waned.

His wife forgave him apparently but knows nothing of his continued dirty doings.

His habit of booking wgs was so ingrained that even after his crimes were found out he

(after a decent break of course :rolleyes: ) resumed his naughties.

SO

hypothetical of course but do you imagine it possible to still book us when a divorce or

ball slicing has been a strong possibility.... if you are forgiven, your promises of

faithfulness are believed.... would you be able to give up?

Perhaps a poll of how many of you are married or in relationships would have been a good idea

or has that one been done?

I don't do polls! I do do Poles though.

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perhaps we should have a thread for guys to explain how they got caught or nearly caught? Then we can all learn from each other's experience and be more successful punters :P

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perhaps we should have a thread for guys to explain how they got caught or nearly caught? Then we can all learn from each other's experience and be more successful punters :P

In my experience, talking to men they get caught by having their mobile phone messages or emails read. It seems some men fail to think of basic security and underestimate the nosiness (noseyness?) of suspicious women!

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Last week I met a client ( you said you daren't read message boards now .... hmmmm lol )

He explained that he thinks about booking ladies almost every day and even if he can't

quite manage to meet them he is always planning his next punt.

Several years ago despite thinking he was great at covering his tracks his wife found

a link to a review which she saw at a glance it was his! Some details in there which

identified him. He cancelled his account on here and had the review wiped.

Gate/shut/bolt/horses?

Long tale short but he confessed all to her and told her of his many dalliances due to

his "needs" after her sex drive waned.

His wife forgave him apparently but knows nothing of his continued dirty doings.

His habit of booking wgs was so ingrained that even after his crimes were found out he

(after a decent break of course :rolleyes: ) resumed his naughties.

I think it is very sad that anyone should have to live a lie, finagling their way through marriage in such a way. It is also wholly irresponsible putting their partner's health at risk along with all the other consequences of getting found out. There simply is no justification for cheating.

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Adele

You must be referring to my husband! Oh and guys delete addresses of the parlours and escorts you meet on your sat nav systems. Also Google maps is great and I saw my husband's car parked nearby a well known establishment.

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Haha - I read that and for a brief moment thought you were being serious lol

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In my experience, talking to men they get caught by having their mobile phone messages or emails read. It seems some men fail to think of basic security and underestimate the nosiness (noseyness?) of suspicious women!

There, I fixed what you wrote for you :lol:

I had to politely tell a lady of the night off a month ago for texting me with the question "Are you feeling naughty tonight?" completely out of the blue. I was not impressed. Bloody lunatic.

My wife quite openly goes through my phone checking for messages. She also goes through the phone's built in phone book and will ask me about any new numbers that I've added since the last time she checked. I have to clear out the call log in case she's also googling for phone numbers that aren't in the phone book. But she always checked my phone, even when I was faithful and pure :P so I don't think she's on to me yet.

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There, I fixed what you wrote for you :lol:

I had to politely tell a lady of the night off a month ago for texting me with the question "Are you feeling naughty tonight?" completely out of the blue. I was not impressed. Bloody lunatic.

My wife quite openly goes through my phone checking for messages. She also goes through the phone's built in phone book and will ask me about any new numbers that I've added since the last time she checked. I have to clear out the call log in case she's also googling for phone numbers that aren't in the phone book. But she always checked my phone, even when I was faithful and pure :P so I don't think she's on to me yet.

Politely tell her off?

She got off lightly then! What a stupid thing for her to do and so unprofessional and thoughtless. Poor woman must

have been short of work.

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anyway, sorry, I've gone way off topic. So, back to the original question: I can give it up if I want to or if I have to.

If I got caught out then my wife would be devastated and I expect the guilt would put me off. That would probably last a couple of years until she inevitably does something silly (again) that makes me think it's just not worth being faithful, and then I expect I'd be back to my old ways (but older, wiser, and harder to catch out!).

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Politely tell her off?

She got off lightly then! What a stupid thing for her to do and so unprofessional and thoughtless. Poor woman must

have been short of work.

I think it's just that she's come into this industry without knowing any other WGs to show her the ropes, nobody to pass on the unwritten law of never contacting a client etc, etc.

I read an FR later from a guy who had his wallet drained by her and then got a text asking if he wanted to see her again 2 days later. He explained that he wasn't a walking money tree and told her to go away :lol:

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In my experience, talking to men they get caught by having their mobile phone messages or emails read. It seems some men fail to think of basic security and underestimate the nosiness (noseyness?) of suspicious women!

Its amazing how many punters with partners dont even take the basic precaution of buying a dedicated punting phone or sim, on here a few have said its because their partner will find it. A sim is tiny and easy to hide so that just doesnt make sense to me. I would also buy a dedicated laptop for about £180 and a PAYG dongle and mobile broadband and if working would leave it at work somewhere safe, in the lining of the car boot or think of somewhere as it would be my first priority not to get caught out. I would of course pay for all this in cash and choose a phone and broadband supplier where i can top up in the shop by cash, o2 i know dont offer a cash option with their mobile broadband but Three told me they do. Better to outlay this than get caught would be my obvious thinking. :)

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As a single man I have to say I'm astonished at some of the unacceptable behaviour my married brothers have foisted on them. Surely if a lady decides she doesn't want to have sex any more and play a full part in the marriage then she does the honourable thing and leaves. Similarly, surely unwarrented snooping demands the order of the boot?!

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hypothetical of course but do you imagine it possible to still book us when a divorce or

ball slicing has been a strong possibility.... if you are forgiven, your promises of

faithfulness are believed.... would you be able to give up?

WELL

Hypothetical of course ....... But give up? No! :D

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............ My wife quite openly goes through my phone checking for messages. She also goes through the phone's built in phone book and will ask me about any new numbers that I've added since the last time she checked.......
....... and you’re still married to her?!!....

I would be appalled to think that my wife would search through my phone any more than I would search through hers – although I do have a sneaky look at her bank statement from time to time to see how much she’s really got squirreled away there! :D

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Its amazing how many punters with partners dont even take the basic precaution of buying a dedicated punting phone or sim, on here a few have said its because their partner will find it. A sim is tiny and easy to hide so that just doesnt make sense to me. I would also buy a dedicated laptop for about £180 and a PAYG dongle and mobile broadband and if working would leave it at work somewhere safe, in the lining of the car boot or think of somewhere as it would be my first priority not to get caught out. I would of course pay for all this in cash and choose a phone and broadband supplier where i can top up in the shop by cash, o2 i know dont offer a cash option with their mobile broadband but Three told me they do. Better to outlay this than get caught would be my obvious thinking. :)

I find it more amazing that anyone would dream of going to so much trouble, Smiths. If I were that paranoid it would completely ruin any pleasure I got from punting in the first place. :(

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hiding a dongle in the lining of my car? A 2nd laptop? A 2nd phone? I can't see how I would explain those away if they got discovered. The more trouble you go to hide stuff the more suspicious it will be when it's inevitably found. That's why I won't stop my wife when I know she's looking at my phone.

I suppose a 2nd SIM could be hidden easily, but 2 SIMs shared with one phone is going to put you out of contact on your main number for a long time on the day of a punt. Any text messages the WG sent you (e.g. "Could you move our booking from 8pm to 6pm?") could take hours to be received after you pop your 2nd SIM in your phone.

One phone and one SIM is fine as long you make it clear to any WG when and how it is OK to contact you, but you've still got to pray that she's not daft like the lady I described above :D

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My wife quite openly goes through my phone checking for messages. She also goes through the phone's built in phone book and will ask me about any new numbers that I've added since the last time she checked. I have to clear out the call log in case she's also googling for phone numbers that aren't in the phone book. But she always checked my phone, even when I was faithful and pure :P so I don't think she's on to me yet.

Jeepers, I don't know what astounds me most. Your wife's complete disregard for your privacy or the fact that you seem so sanguine about it. Marriage in my mind is a partnership not a complete and utter takeover of your life. I actually take similar care with my phone (clearing out text messages etc) , but the main reason I sleep at night is the fact that my wife shows absolutely no interest in my phone whatsoever. And I in hers come to that matter. If I knew that at any moment she was going to grab it and perform a full audit of it's contents, the stress of whether I had done a good job of sanitising it would kill me.

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There, I fixed what you wrote for you :lol:

I had to politely tell a lady of the night off a month ago for texting me with the question "Are you feeling naughty tonight?" completely out of the blue. I was not impressed. Bloody lunatic.

My wife quite openly goes through my phone checking for messages. She also goes through the phone's built in phone book and will ask me about any new numbers that I've added since the last time she checked. I have to clear out the call log in case she's also googling for phone numbers that aren't in the phone book. But she always checked my phone, even when I was faithful and pure :P so I don't think she's on to me yet.

Cheeky! I wouldn't dream of reading my partner's phone messages or his emails and nor would he mine! Your wife's behaviour is not the norm I'm sure- does she have reason to suspect you're up to no good? have you been caught before?

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hiding a dongle in the lining of my car? A 2nd laptop? A 2nd phone? I can't see how I would explain those away if they got discovered. The more trouble you go to hide stuff the more suspicious it will be when it's inevitably found. That's why I won't stop my wife when I know she's looking at my phone.

I agree with this, which is why I ditched my 2nd phone about 2 weeks after I bought it. It seemed a good idea, but there would be no plausible explanation for it if it was ever found.

I suppose a 2nd SIM could be hidden easily, but 2 SIMs shared with one phone is going to put you out of contact on your main number for a long time on the day of a punt. Any text messages the WG sent you (e.g. "Could you move our booking from 8pm to 6pm?") could take hours to be received after you pop your 2nd SIM in your phone.

A second sim works well for me. It is easily hidden in the battery compartment of my phone, where no one apart from me will ever look. My punting contact list is stored on the 2nd sim, so is not accessible in normal use. Every time I switch sim, the call log gets wiped, so I don't have to worry about that. In fact the only tidying up I need to do is to make sure any text messages are deleted. You are quite right in that only using one sim at a time might mean you get a text from a wg a little later than is ideal, but for me that is a small price to pay to avoid the possibility of a text from Thelma of Thurrock asking if I want to be a naughty boy arriving whilst my phone is in close proximity my wife, who has been known to check my messages for me whilst I am driving, washing up or simply otherwise engaged.

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There, I fixed what you wrote for you :lol:

I had to politely tell a lady of the night off a month ago for texting me with the question "Are you feeling naughty tonight?" completely out of the blue. I was not impressed. Bloody lunatic.

My wife quite openly goes through my phone checking for messages. She also goes through the phone's built in phone book and will ask me about any new numbers that I've added since the last time she checked. I have to clear out the call log in case she's also googling for phone numbers that aren't in the phone book. But she always checked my phone, even when I was faithful and pure :P so I don't think she's on to me yet.

Tom,

Your wife should not be going down your phone, this is your private business and she has no right to do this. Possessive behaviour just drives the person

on the recipient end of it away. why do you let her do this ??? because the more she has access to your personal stuff the more she thinks she will have a right to owning you and your posessions. OMG!!! even if your married, you should still have a certain degree of freedom.

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There, I fixed what you wrote for you :lol:

I had to politely tell a lady of the night off a month ago for texting me with the question "Are you feeling naughty tonight?" completely out of the blue. I was not impressed. Bloody lunatic.

My wife quite openly goes through my phone checking for messages. She also goes through the phone's built in phone book and will ask me about any new numbers that I've added since the last time she checked. I have to clear out the call log in case she's also googling for phone numbers that aren't in the phone book. But she always checked my phone, even when I was faithful and pure :P so I don't think she's on to me yet.

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There, I fixed what you wrote for you :lol:

I had to politely tell a lady of the night off a month ago for texting me with the question "Are you feeling naughty tonight?" completely out of the blue. I was not impressed. Bloody lunatic.

My wife quite openly goes through my phone checking for messages. She also goes through the phone's built in phone book and will ask me about any new numbers that I've added since the last time she checked. I have to clear out the call log in case she's also googling for phone numbers that aren't in the phone book. But she always checked my phone, even when I was faithful and pure :P so I don't think she's on to me yet.

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I suppose a 2nd SIM could be hidden easily, but 2 SIMs shared with one phone is going to put you out of contact on your main number for a long time on the day of a punt. Any text messages the WG sent you (e.g. "Could you move our booking from 8pm to 6pm?") could take hours to be received after you pop your 2nd SIM in your phone.

As I've said before, I tried the 2nd SIM thing for a while, but as well as finding it was always bloody running out of credit just when you needed it I also came within a hair's breadth of forgetting which SIM was in my phone and calling home, which would have shown me calling from an unidentified number - not easy to explain away.

Now I just make sure I delete the relevant call history and any texts, and only have a WG's number on the phone on the day I'm visiting.

It is one of the attractions to me of visiting parlours that there is no phone/text trail to worry about.

To the OP, if I did get caught I would fully expect to be on the receiving end of Divorce proceedings.

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There, I fixed what you wrote for you :lol:

I had to politely tell a lady of the night off a month ago for texting me with the question "Are you feeling naughty tonight?" completely out of the blue. I was not impressed. Bloody lunatic.

My wife quite openly goes through my phone checking for messages. She also goes through the phone's built in phone book and will ask me about any new numbers that I've added since the last time she checked. I have to clear out the call log in case she's also googling for phone numbers that aren't in the phone book. But she always checked my phone, even when I was faithful and pure :P so I don't think she's on to me yet.

Sounds scarey!! i would panic incase id not deleted something! don't you mind your phone being checked? whether your being faithful or not, that is controlling suspicous behaviour.

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I agree with this, which is why I ditched my 2nd phone about 2 weeks after I bought it. It seemed a good idea, but there would be no plausible explanation for it if it was ever found.

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A punting phone doesn't have to be of the newest vintage, it is quite possible to accumulate old but perfectly usable phones from old contracts etc. Instead of being stuck at the back of a drawer attracting no attention, they can stay stuck at the back of a drawer attracting no attention, but with a 2nd SIM fitted when required. That way there is nothing unusual or new to attract attention.

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