Lovely Misse

Is It Good To Be The First To Be With A New Girl?

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Hi I'm about to start in this industry and just wanted to find out if you have ever been with a girl and its her first ever job and what the experience was like?

Does it put you off or is it a good thing?

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Hi I'm about to start in this industry and just wanted to find out if you have ever been with a girl and its her first ever job and what the experience was like?

Does it put you off or is it a good thing?

Welcome to the board Lovely Misse. :) I have punted with a number of WGs who told me i was their first ever punter both at 121s mainly but at a Party once as well.

I found one of the punts great, a couple good and a couple not very good, and it all comes down to the ladies nervousness which is of course understandable, but the good had great attitudes and took to it like a duck to water. It certainly hasnt put me off and i wish you very good luck. :)

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Not a punter, but just wanted to say good luck and I found that I was inundated when I first started out and having heard this from other girls I think men do like to try out a newbie!

I was lucky my very first client was an absolute doll, lovely guy and great sex and ended up being a regular for over a year. He moved away but when he comes back to visit he always pops in- as a mate (and a great lover) rather than a client.

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Hi I'm about to start in this industry and just wanted to find out if you have ever been with a girl and its her first ever job and what the experience was like?

Does it put you off or is it a good thing?

Well I've never been the first, but I was in the first few in the first week for two of my ladies.

Both were good, but a little inexperienced in one or two areas; subsequent visits have seen them improve these areas.

These minor shortcomings were not necessarily in the services that they provided, one was about the ladies pictures, the other about general etiquette (locking her dogs away and taking ages to answer the door).

I suspect the first time for a WG would be pretty nerve racking; I guess its totally different to a normal date.

Also, I would expect the experiences of the first time would depend on the punter, so choose carefully, maybe from this board?

I like your website very much BTW, its well worded, descrete and were I near London and able to afford £250 for an hour would be there!

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I haven't been any girls first but recently I did see one lady on what was her second day. If she had had any nerves they were already gone by then. She was fun and enthusiastic. Though she was new she was very skilled. I jokingly commmented that she must have had a lot of amateur practice. Sadly that comment brought a frown to her face as I guess she thought I was impugning her virtue. So I reckon the most important thing for a lady starting out is a robust sense of humour. Generally I had a great time with the lady. I plan to see her again in a few weeks. I hope she won't have been changed by her work and will still have the enthusiasm I encountered before.

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I haven't been any girls first but recently I did see one lady on what was her second day. If she had had any nerves they were already gone by then. She was fun and enthusiastic. Though she was new she was very skilled. I jokingly commmented that she must have had a lot of amateur practice. Sadly that comment brought a frown to her face as I guess she thought I was impugning her virtue. So I reckon the most important thing for a lady starting out is a robust sense of humour. Generally I had a great time with the lady. I plan to see her again in a few weeks. I hope she won't have been changed by her work and will still have the enthusiasm I encountered before.

Sense of humour, reliable, realistic.

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I like your website very much BTW, its well worded, descrete and were I near London and able to afford £250 for an hour would be there!

Seconded!

BTW, you don't look your age! Maybe that's because a lot of girls in this business who look as good as you would say they were only 24! :huh:

All the best with popping your 'working' cherry!! Wish it could have been me! :(

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Hi I'm about to start in this industry and just wanted to find out if you have ever been with a girl and its her first ever job and what the experience was like?

Does it put you off or is it a good thing?

I suspect it won't generate much interest/traffic to your site, most chaps on here prefer experienced ladies ^_^

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If I saw somebody advertise that they were new (and I see this a lot, and the profiles rarely change after several months of saying they were new) I would assume it was false advertising and wonder what else in their advert was BS.

I'd also not be interested as I prefer somebody who is at ease with herself and so is more likely to shag my brains out properly.

Though I can see why some would be interested, but not me.

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I've been with a few 1st time girls, and it's 50/50 as to whether it will be a good punt. Bad, they don't have a routine are nervous and think as long as you get to sick it in and cum then they've done the job. Good, they offer an honest GFE as that's all they have experience of.

Overall it's worth it as some new girls don't stick around for long so if you find a good one make the most of it while you can.

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Over the years, quite a few times. To be honest I got a kick out of being a girls first punter and I had a good reputation the establishments would arrange it. I was usually told, as a selling point, but a couple of times I was told afterwards or during by the girl. After a few I could usually tell, nervs usually show through and I (and think most guys) want you to be at least comfortable and preferable enjoy it, it's an male ego thing. :) So will make the extra effort. I you were local for me I would be happy to oblige, however I'm sure you will get some offers by PM.

Bookmark and read : http://www.saafe.info/

I notice from your website you are setting yourself up as an Indy Escort, but you should consider taking a few shifts at a good parlour/establishment to get your bearings.

Regarding your website.

The photos on your website, two points,

1) Photos, edit them to add your working name and copyright.

2) The two photos were you've obscured your eyes distract from an other wise quite good presentation, either redo the blur, or remove them.

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Thank you so much for all your honest replies! And the feedback for peeking at my website!!!

I have been accepted at an agency in London as I thought it would be good to dip my toes in the water with a reputable agency who will look after me.

I have my first client tomorrow, out call. After your feedback I may tell the lucky boy afterwards :D

The only thing im nervous about is the getting through the lobby bit!!! No one will probably bat an eyelid and obviously im dressing down but I still dont want that aweful look of discust by the receptionist as it will break my heart.

I'm looking foward to this as I will not only do someting that I enjoy but hopefully earn a little money too :rolleyes:

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I notice from your website you are setting yourself up as an Indy Escort, but you should consider taking a few shifts at a good parlour/establishment to get your bearings.

Disagree. Why does she need to take a few shifts in parlour for £60 at time? What exactly she can learn there? How to put cheap spread on the bed, empty bucket with condoms, and gossiping with other girls how twattish clients are?

Especially that Misse charging more then 4 times amount of money, if otherwise she would in the parlour for seeing her.

I once did one day in the parlour, just out of curiosity, when I was already established WG. Never ever again! Not for me.

Those girls doing a stirling job there. I am so amased how they managing to do it.

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Disagree. Why does she need to take a few shifts in parlour for £60 at time? What exactly she can learn there? How to put cheap spread on the bed, empty bucket with condoms, and gossiping with other girls how twattish clients are?

Especially that Misse charging more then 4 times amount of money, if otherwise she would in the parlour for seeing her.

I once did one day in the parlour, just out of curiosity, when I was already established WG. Never ever again! Not for me.

Those girls doing a stirling job there. I am so amased how they managing to do it.

She can learn quite a lot in a parlour, its the equivalent of working in a restaurant before setting up on your own. Make your mistakes at some one elses expense, first law of business. I personally wait until a girl has done about a month in a parlour, check if she is often booked, ask the other girls about her, then if the signs are good, might book her. Many are called but few are chosen.

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Disagree. Why does she need to take a few shifts in parlour for £60 at time? What exactly she can learn there? How to put cheap spread on the bed, empty bucket with condoms, and gossiping with other girls how twattish clients are?

Especially that Misse charging more then 4 times amount of money, if otherwise she would in the parlour for seeing her.

I once did one day in the parlour, just out of curiosity, when I was already established WG. Never ever again! Not for me.

Those girls doing a stirling job there. I am so amased how they managing to do it.

I couldn't agree more with Xenia, whilst working in a parlour may suit some, if I had been given this advice when starting I certainly would not have taken it. It is perfectly possible to go straight into being an Indy, (I have, twice), and I take my hat of to the girls who work in parlours, no judgement whatsover, but for many, the thought of working in that environment is an absolute no no, and in my case would probably put me off escorting and a wonderful career for life. Besides, with the advice and support on SAAFE, Lovely Misse can access all the advice she needs re going indy. All the best Misse! :)

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Of three events that were baptisms, two were arranged as such and the third I only found out when i arrived. One of the arranged ones was one of my best encounters ever. One I got every service that I think the girl was ever going to perform as though she was trying them out on me, as when her agency incall profile went up a few days later, some things I got were not on it. Made me smile a bit.. The third I think the girl was in the wrong line of work, enough said.

So 2 good I bad, about the norm for the life, though if it offers any cluse to the op I doubt.

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Of three events that were baptisms, two were arranged as such and the third I only found out when i arrived. One of the arranged ones was one of my best encounters ever. One I got every service that I think the girl was ever going to perform as though she was trying them out on me, as when her agency incall profile went up a few days later, some things I got were not on it. Made me smile a bit.. The third I think the girl was in the wrong line of work, enough said.

So 2 good I bad, about the norm for the life, though if it offers any cluse to the op I doubt.

For myself, working for the agency was the best beginning because I knew NOTHING about this industry at all. I had never used a condom for starters and did not know the pitfalls, which you soon learn from other girls. You need to learn somewhere and the umbrella of the agency is a good place to be - but not for long. If you are any good at this, you will be indie before you know it, armed with knowledge and experience, and you will be rightfully earning all of the money.

IMHO

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Disagree. Why does she need to take a few shifts in parlour for £60 at time? What exactly she can learn there? How to put cheap spread on the bed, empty bucket with condoms, and gossiping with other girls how twattish clients are?

Especially that Misse charging more then 4 times amount of money, if otherwise she would in the parlour for seeing her.

I once did one day in the parlour, just out of curiosity, when I was already established WG. Never ever again! Not for me.

Those girls doing a stirling job there. I am so amased how they managing to do it.

Whilst I agree it's not right for every girl, not all parlours are like that, which is why I included the words consider, a few and reputable.

When criticising constructive suggestions there is a responsibility to offer alternatives, which you've omitted to do.

@Misse

There are other ways to 'learn the ropes', the buddy system, asking question here, reading other sites like http://harlotsparlour.wordpress.com/ and there is forum for UK working girls, the url of which escapes my memory atm. And good luck with your first appointment.

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I have my first client tomorrow, out call. After your feedback I may tell the lucky boy afterwards :D

So how did it go LM ?

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So how did it go LM ?

Come on Misse spill the beans.

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Sorry to take so long to update :0D

I'm so happy!!!!!

I've had a great time so far. Wish I'd started sooner.

All really lovely experiences and my first went very well.

He kindly offered to meet me outside of the hotel and walked me in. To be honest I had so much fun our appointment ran over oops

Not worried about hotel lobbies now though!

Tried a couple of agencies but I think being and Indy is best.

Now I'm pleased to be settled its on to the next bit of marketing lol

Thanks again for all your help

M xxx

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Sorry to take so long to update :0D

I'm so happy!!!!!

I've had a great time so far. Wish I'd started sooner.

All really lovely experiences and my first went very well.

He kindly offered to meet me outside of the hotel and walked me in. To be honest I had so much fun our appointment ran over oops

Not worried about hotel lobbies now though!

Tried a couple of agencies but I think being and Indy is best.

Now I'm pleased to be settled its on to the next bit of marketing lol

Thanks again for all your help

M xxx

Glad to hear this Lovely Misse. :)

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I couldn't be anyone's first job. I'd imagine most girls would be terrified on their first time, thinking how and why they got into the situation they are in. I know there are many women who have been completely comfortable with their lifestyle from the beginning, and who decided to enter the business when they knew they were capable of looking after themselves without being working girls. It still makes me think how many would feel going through with it for the very first time. I wouldn't want to be 'that guy'.

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I was a girls first punter only once and would not like to repeat the experience. She hardly knew how to put the condom on and was painfully shy. If that had happened now I would be asking for a reduction in fees for all the teaching I did.

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Hi I'm about to start in this industry and just wanted to find out if you have ever been with a girl and its her first ever job and what the experience was like?

Does it put you off or is it a good thing?

I've been fortunate to meet 2 girls at my local parlour when I was their first punter. Kinda adds to the occasion I thought. Both were shaking like a dog having a shit when they came in the room and it was like undoing a virgin. Both ended up as fabulous punts.

One of the girls I remember sitting on the bed with her holding her hand while she calmed down. She had split from her partner 6 months previously and hadn't had sex for like 9 months. Once she realised I was kinda normal and not going to harm or humiliate her it was some of the best sex I've ever had.Can't remember how many times she came.

The other girl walked in the room and just stood there for a few moments. She had no idea what to do. She was beautiful and after I'd told her so she just flung her arms round me saying thank you , thank you and the rest of the punt was, shall we say, history !

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