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Why Do Clients 'ignore' The I Do's And I Don'ts ?

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How come men don't read adverts properly ? Read the advert for christ sake . I state clearly that i only see white british folk but what does this translate to ? I get every nationality under the god damn sun calling me up ! I used to explain myself and now i don't , i just hang up on them . I do not mislead anyone in my adverts , it is clearly written what i do and what i don't do ... yet i get everything but . I put it at the top of my profile and yet i still get them calling me . They know , they just want to try their look. I've had quite a few guys call and when asked they say yes white british , even tho their accent is african , polish etc .... my oh my . lol sorry for the rant but its highley annoying putting up with the clients u don't want : ( . x

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If anyone wants me, I'll be in my shelter...

Edited by Highland Amanda

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YEP!!! I clearly state I don't do bareback, anal, hardsports or watersports, and CONSTANTLY get requests from guys who want to watch me pooing, want bareback anal, want to be pissed on...ARGH.

While I'm here, why the sudden upturn in guys wanting scat, or to be farted on? WTF's that all about???

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Maybe they want to annoy you because they think you're racist? I suspect I might be tempted..

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Maybe they want to annoy you because they think you're racist? I suspect I might be tempted..

Everyone has preferences . Some white men prefer only white , some Chinese men prefer asian only , some black men prefer white . But if a women say's what they prefer , they are deemed as being racist ?? I have only ever been with white men and this is what i prefer . If some one thinks i'm being racist , then i laugh !! If a guy says he wants white girl , size 6 .. am i going to bid on that reverse booking ? NO and am i going to be offended ? NO . Preference dear , preference .

If they get offended by what is written ( Freedom of speech)then that is up to them , they can't change my feelings .

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people never read the small print

come on girls. do you read the T&C's for your car insurance?

thought not....

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YEP!!! I clearly state I don't do bareback, anal, hardsports or watersports, and CONSTANTLY get requests from guys who want to watch me pooing, want bareback anal, want to be pissed on...ARGH.

While I'm here, why the sudden upturn in guys wanting scat, or to be farted on? WTF's that all about???

:blink:

men get turned on by winding up women . wanting what they can't have an all that .

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people never read the small print

come on girls. do you read the T&C's for your car insurance?

thought not....

ah cp , you didn't even read my post properly either .... its at the top of my profile , so not classed as small print is it ... thought not .

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Its the pitfalls of this job. You'll constantly get idiots who don't bother reading your profile. Ignore them. If someone has taken the time to read it, then they're worth giving them the option to see you. It's that simple.

Either ignore them or send them a link to your profile and tell them to read the bit that answers their question - that's what I do. Sometimes it a genuine mistake and they're so excited they just rush into it. If you direct them back and they try again correctly, give them a chance.

The race card always opens up a can of worms. X

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ah cp , you didn't even read my post properly either .... its at the top of my profile , so not classed as small print is it ... thought not .

no mel.

people buying insurance will look at the price. buy. read nowt else.

blokes looking for a wg will look at the tits, check the price. make the call - read nowt else.

doesnt matter how big the writing is.

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men get turned on by winding up women . wanting what they can't have an all that .

Yeah I know, but why the sudden increase in guys wanting to be farted or pooed on? :unsure:

(sorry, bit OT there)

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Its the pitfalls of this job. You'll constantly get idiots who don't bother reading your profile. Ignore them. If someone has taken the time to read it, then they're worth giving them the option to see you. It's that simple.

Either ignore them or send them a link to your profile and tell them to read the bit that answers their question - that's what I do. Sometimes it a genuine mistake and they're so excited they just rush into it. If you direct them back and they try again correctly, give them a chance.

The race card always opens up a can of worms. X

When i first answer , i ask are you white ? they say no and i say sorry its on my profile that i see white british only , sorry about that and then they persist lol we all no men don't like being told what they can't have so when i say ' white ' they start going on about racism ... which is a crock of shit and only used by those who aren't comfortable in their own skin .. im mixed race proud of it and have my preferences ... im allowed to . we have to be pc now in this industry lol ah !! lol But yet i know most of them don't read it and best to ignore but on average , its them calling me more arghh lol i wish i was attracted to them , i really do .. id be rich by now lol x

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no mel.

people buying insurance will look at the price. buy. read nowt else.

blokes looking for a wg will look at the tits, check the price. make the call - read nowt else.

doesnt matter how big the writing is.

So if the WG complains to you for not reading something that is so obvious are you going to blame her ... no ... u blame yourself for not reading it ... we don't write those profiles for nothing and forget face, tits etc and decent punter will read all essential info , so not to embarrass themselves . And it's them that come first in my books . Lazyness isn't attractive . I'm not asking them to read word for word just the obvious things a client needs to know , availabilty , services etc . Jeezz .

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Yeah I know, but why the sudden increase in guys wanting to be farted or pooed on? :unsure:

(sorry, bit OT there)

lol men like to be degraded by women behind closed doors . I could never offer those services but then takes all sorts to make the world go round . x

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So if the WG complains to you for not reading something that is so obvious are you going to blame her ... no ... u blame yourself for not reading it ... we don't write those profiles for nothing and forget face, tits etc and decent punter will read all essential info , so not to embarrass themselves . And it's them that come first in my books . Lazyness isn't attractive . I'm not asking them to read word for word just the obvious things a client needs to know , availabilty , services etc . Jeezz .

WHOAAAA! dont blame me.

its well documented human nature.

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People only ever read what they want to read or hear what they want to hear.

I've lost count of the times people have tried to have a go at me at work because..... 'YOU NEVER SAID THE POWER WAS GOING OFF ON TUESDAY!!!!!' ... Errrr yes I did, check the email I sent you 5 days ago that you clearly never read......

Only today I over heard a conversation in the office between two people who were stood next to each other.

Girl 1) (who is organising an office move)...Do you want a cupboard setting aside?

Girl 2) Yes please, black coffee..

Girl 1) (blank look).. errr what?

Girl 2) Black coffee?

*much hilarity followed*

I heard her and I was sat half an office floor away.....she's either deaf or simply hearing what she wants to hear, I wonder which...

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When i first answer , i ask are you white ? they say no and i say sorry its on my profile that i see white british only , sorry about that and then they persist lol we all no men don't like being told what they can't have so when i say ' white ' they start going on about racism ... which is a crock of shit and only used by those who aren't comfortable in their own skin .. im mixed race proud of it and have my preferences ... im allowed to . we have to be pc now in this industry lol ah !! lol But yet i know most of them don't read it and best to ignore but on average , its them calling me more arghh lol i wish i was attracted to them , i really do .. id be rich by now lol x

Yes i agree with you, it's completely upto you who you see, escorting is a very intimate business, just ignore the people calling you a racist.

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i wouldn't go as far to say its ' human nature' cp ... oh cp come on ... its people who are 'naturally' a pain in the arse lol end of my friend . :rolleyes: like having a chip shop and people ringing up for an indian .... your gonna get fooked off .. me stating white only , is important to note ... i don't want to offend them at all , so its not just about me being pissed off but also about not wanting to make them feel awkward like that .

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Yes i agree with you, it's completely upto you who you see, escorting is a very intimate business, just ignore the people calling you a racist.

thank you :P , too many people forget that ... i'm not selling toilet rolls for a living lol

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YEP!!! I clearly state I don't do bareback, anal, hardsports or watersports, and CONSTANTLY get requests from guys who want to watch me pooing, want bareback anal, want to be pissed on...ARGH.

Having given this a lot of thought over the years I've come to the conclusion that it's a male pride thing - you may not do those things with all the other ordinary punters, but I'm special so you'll do it for me. Same as wanting to shag the maid in a parlour, you want the one you can't have.

Edited by Vin DaLoo

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How come men don't read adverts properly ?

Oh the punters do, they read them very, very carefully and then phone and ask all the questions that annoy you!

Why?

It's their revenge on all the girls who promise that they do this or than and then fail to deliver :rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:

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I certainly treat the "dos and don'ts" list with skepticism. And no... its nothing to do with being unable to read or male pride... its the simple fact that a shed load of the lists are grossly inaccurate.... and all services are discretionary anyway.

It doesn't really matter to me... I enjoy a fair range of activities... and just ask at start of session what's allowable, and what's not.

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I have given up getting stressy about questions about something very clearly on my profile such as location and prices asked on the phone. It's part of the job and I'd rather a guy be sure of what he's getting than turn up and be disappointed.

Now, the race thing- When I started I was amazed how many men asked me if I minded that they were asian or black, but it is apparently very common that girls (I'm talking indie girls, am sure girls in parlours etc have less say) won't see certain races or age groups.

I'm really torn between thinking well it's their perogative and being outraged that this is racism through and through. Refusing to see someone based on the colour of their skin/nationality is racist and zenophobic. You are making a decision based on the colour of someones skin. You are refusing to give a service you provide to someone because they are black! Actually that's illegal. If you worked in a shop/restaurant/spa/hotel/estate agent and so on and refused to serve someone AND tell them it's because of their race you'd be sacked and/or sued!

But yes back again to thinking that of course a woman should only do what she feels comfortable with but I find it sad that someone has such ingrained prejudices and stereotypes. FFS, not all white British men are lovely! It's sad that someone could be missing out on potentially great clients because of this and quite frankly I think it's unprofessional. A true whore can make any (well behaved clean) man welcome.

OP- not a personal attack- just a general bugbear of mine about this issue in the escorting world.

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my preference for white men , aint changing any time soon ... so i can say mine is accurate .

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I have given up getting stressy about questions about something very clearly on my profile such as location and prices asked on the phone. It's part of the job and I'd rather a guy be sure of what he's getting than turn up and be disappointed.

Now, the race thing- When I started I was amazed how many men asked me if I minded that they were asian or black, but it is apparently very common that girls (I'm talking indie girls, am sure girls in parlours etc have less say) won't see certain races or age groups.

I'm really torn between thinking well it's their perogative and being outraged that this is racism through and through. Refusing to see someone based on the colour of their skin/nationality is racist and zenophobic. You are making a decision based on the colour of someones skin. You are refusing to give a service you provide to someone because they are black! Actually that's illegal. If you worked in a shop/restaurant/spa/hotel/estate agent and so on and refused to serve someone AND tell them it's because of their race you'd be sacked and/or sued!

But yes back again to thinking that of course a woman should only do what she feels comfortable with but I find it sad that someone has such ingrained prejudices and stereotypes. FFS, not all white British men are lovely! It's sad that someone could be missing out on potentially great clients because of this and quite frankly I think it's unprofessional. A true whore can make any (well behaved clean) man welcome.

OP- not a personal attack- just a general bugbear of mine about this issue in the escorting world.

Not a personal attack , read over the thing and then say that . hell no , i have a preference , we all do and that's what makes us HUMAN and INDIVIDUAL . I have friends from all over the world , due to my main job and my family is varied in race ... so please do not go down that road and try and insult my intelligence because if anything i look down on people who scream RACISM because they act on what they are comfortable with and not using hate words or violence. I am mixed race and i am fully aware , from my experience , what racism is !

How the hell can you even compare a hotel work etc to a friggin escort ... my lord what planet do u live on ? Escorting is very personal , which is why it isn't mainstream .

'' a true whore can make any man welcome '' well u called yourself that matey lol and ye i'd agree .

No one will ever succeed in making me feel bad for having a preference .

unprofessional ? what is ur iq level seriously ??

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