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Bumping Into A Wg/punter

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In the last three days I have seen two of my clients out and about. The first I spotted looking at me cautiously as if to be thinking 'is that her' or 'where do I know her from'. I pretended not to notice him. The second said hello and we had a quick chat (that went predictably along the lines of 'I didn't recognise you with your clothes on'!)

I think there is unwritten protocol that if an escort/punter sees the other, particularly if either are with someone else you pretend not to know them.

I know a WG who bumped into a punter at her kids school parents evening- he was a teacher and looked very uncomfortable!

Any stories/thoughts?

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In the last three days I have seen two of my clients out and about. The first I spotted looking at me cautiously as if to be thinking 'is that her' or 'where do I know her from'. I pretended not to notice him. The second said hello and we had a quick chat (that went predictably along the lines of 'I didn't recognise you with your clothes on'!)

I think there is unwritten protocol that if an escort/punter sees the other, particularly if either are with someone else you pretend not to know them.

I know a WG who bumped into a punter at her kids school parents evening- he was a teacher and looked very uncomfortable!

Any stories/thoughts?

I think it is a bit of a grey area because we all have our own take on what we would do if we saw 'him' or 'her' while we were out and about. For the working girl, there is the code of discretion, so I would never acknowledge anyone first, and I would hope that if someone saw me they would be careful to see if I were alone or in company before smiling or saying 'hello'.

I think you 'just have to be there' at the time to know what to do. I have seen guys in the supermarket with their wives shopping, and their children too. I feel most uncomfortable about looking at my client's family because they are his private life, and I have left the shop when this has happened.

Other times I have passed people in the street and we have just said 'hello' and passed on, but there has been the odd time when I have stopped and chatted if we are both alone.

Some of my clients are good friends so it seems rude to ignore them, but if they are in company then that is how it has to be.

One berk saw me at the airport with my children. His wife and daughter were getting on the same plane as us. I didn't see him because my son had left his baggage in the cafe and it was about to be detonated...lol I was in a fluster and never saw anything apart from the little dots over my eyes..........

He 'phoned the agency I worked for and told the boss he had seen me and demended to know why I had ignored him !! WTF...

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I think it is a bit of a grey area because we all have our own take on what we would do if we saw 'him' or 'her' while we were out and about. For the working girl, there is the code of discretion, so I would never acknowledge anyone first, and I would hope that if someone saw me they would be careful to see if I were alone or in company before smiling or saying 'hello'.

I think you 'just have to be there' at the time to know what to do. I have seen guys in the supermarket with their wives shopping, and their children too. I feel most uncomfortable about looking at my client's family because they are his private life, and I have left the shop when this has happened.

Other times I have passed people in the street and we have just said 'hello' and passed on, but there has been the odd time when I have stopped and chatted if we are both alone.

Some of my clients are good friends so it seems rude to ignore them, but if they are in company then that is how it has to be.

One berk saw me at the airport with my children. His wife and daughter were getting on the same plane as us. I didn't see him because my son had left his baggage in the cafe and it was about to be detonated...lol I was in a fluster and never saw anything apart from the little dots over my eyes..........

He 'phoned the agency I worked for and told the boss he had seen me and demended to know why I had ignored him !! WTF...

Yes, I think you summed it up nicely there Sarah! It does depend on the situation.

I bet the last thing you were thinking of was being polite to punters when your child was in danger of being arrested as a terror suspect! Poor you!

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Its been mainly party WGs i have seen in shops around the venue before a party some of whom have said hello, others not and i never go up to them as they might be with someone for all i know.

The Pornstar Tiffany Love aka Lady Tiffany was a WG i saw first in a shop dressed like a librarian i thought , no make-up and she had an awfully posh voice so it was with some amazement i saw her transition into a full-on party girl as the party started, her hair looked the same but i might not have recognized her otherwise such was the change. :)

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I remember a very difficult 20 minutes in a shoe shop one Saturday afternoon. Basically my wife was sitting next to me trying on shoes and sitting opposite me the whole time was an escort I had spent a few hours with the previous Thursday night. Apart from a quick smile we ignored each other totally until my wife was paying for her shoes. At which point escort came to pay for her shoes and stood behind me and pinched my arse!

God I was relieved to get out of there!

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It's happened to me, over the yellow sticker cabinet in Marks and Sparks.

It made me realise that I should stop punting in my home town.

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A few months ago I started a thread about an accidental meeting with an ex-WG. As a result of that meeting and after making sure we were both willing, we met up and have become good (non paying) friends. Both punters and Wgs are ordinary people firstmost--some you will not want to see again, and you have to behave as the circumstances require--meeting privately is quite different from bumping into a wife or boyfriend at Tesco's.

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It's happened to me with three different clients, always inside supermarkets. The first time, we acknowledged each other with little smiles, and carried on about our business. The second time, he either didn't recognise me or was a bloody good actor, or maybe just shit himself because he was with his wife. Needless to say I didn't acknowledge him, nor would I ever compromise anybody that way.

The third time, he was alone and came right up to me, called me loudly by my working name, and began chatting away to me, even asking me when I was next available. I was not at all happy because I was with my children, both of whom were stood right next to me staring up at him. I thought that was incredibly thoughtless of him (and needless to say I refused to see him again).

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The third time, he was alone and came right up to me, called me loudly by my working name, and began chatting away to me, even asking me when I was next available. I was not at all happy because I was with my children, both of whom were stood right next to me staring up at him. I thought that was incredibly thoughtless of him (and needless to say I refused to see him again).

That is your worst nightmare. What did you do at the time?

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The third time, he was alone and came right up to me, called me loudly by my working name, and began chatting away to me, even asking me when I was next available. I was not at all happy because I was with my children, both of whom were stood right next to me staring up at him. I thought that was incredibly thoughtless of him (and needless to say I refused to see him again).

:angry::o

What a complete tosser! There are days where I think I've heard it all before and nothing will ever surprise me again and then I read posts like this.

I hope you came up with a convincing explanation for your kids.

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Met two WGs I knew away from the bedroom. One came into my shop to buy something - she had been working 40 miles away from me (a nice safe distance IMO) but had moved much closer. Although we hadn't seen each other in quite a while, we recognised each other instantly. Gave me her new number and some more enjoyable punts ensued. On another occasion I was queuing with my other half at the cinema and just in front of me was another WG I'd seen. I'm fairly certain she recognised me but like a true professional she turned her gaze elsewhere and that was that.

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I'll put a different spin on it. I appeared on a tv quiz programme, and about two weeks after it was broadcast I was at a party and one of the girls was just about to put my cock in her mouth, when she suddenly remembered my tv appearance. :D She said, I knew I knew that bloke, was he the bloke from the Post Office,nope, or a taxi driver,nope, or the bloke in my local, nope, oh hang on I've had sex with him. :D

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I have lost count of the clients I have seen out and about.

I may smile and acknowledge I have seen them, and they me.

Other than that I would not stop to chat and hope they don't either.

Last week I saw one in the most unlikely place.

I was visiting a relative and in the little supermarket at the

end of the road.... I had popped in there for my lager and fags ( not lol )!

He came in just as I was leaving... we just swapped cheeky grins :D

Like many others have mentioned... the supermarket is the most likely place.

:rolleyes:

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The third time, he was alone and came right up to me, called me loudly by my working name, and began chatting away to me, even asking me when I was next available. I was not at all happy because I was with my children, both of whom were stood right next to me staring up at him. I thought that was incredibly thoughtless of him (and needless to say I refused to see him again).

I know some of us blokes are not renowned for our tact and sesitivity, yet this must be a guy who was hell bent on 'Tosser of the Week' award. Most of us would never speak to or create an embarrassing situation with a WG who was with her family.

Like Phil Aito, I have to be careful as I occasionally appear on TV - ususally as an ugly mug in the crowds on Top Gear.

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That is your worst nightmare. What did you do at the time?

It was a nightmare, I was so angry that he did that. I actually had to gesture towards my children (one either side of me, holding onto the trolley) and say it wasn't a good time to talk. The eldest asked me as we walked away who he was, and I just said he was a man I used to work with. She said: 'Why did he call you XXX?' and I said he must have got mixed up with another woman I used to work with, and kind of rolled my eyes about it, and she joined in and rolled her eyes too, bless her. But my cheeks were red with embarrassment and anger and, as I say, I didn't take any more bookings from him after that.

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It was a nightmare, I was so angry that he did that. I actually had to gesture towards my children (one either side of me, holding onto the trolley) and say it wasn't a good time to talk. The eldest asked me as we walked away who he was, and I just said he was a man I used to work with. She said: 'Why did he call you XXX?' and I said he must have got mixed up with another woman I used to work with, and kind of rolled my eyes about it, and she joined in and rolled her eyes too, bless her. But my cheeks were red with embarrassment and anger and, as I say, I didn't take any more bookings from him after that.

Words fail me. Utterly horrified. So sorry this happened to you x

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The third time, he was alone and came right up to me, called me loudly by my working name, and began chatting away to me, even asking me when I was next available. I was not at all happy because I was with my children, both of whom were stood right next to me staring up at him. I thought that was incredibly thoughtless of him (and needless to say I refused to see him again).

I have to admit i laughed at that. Almost in disbelief i guess.

Its remarkable how incredibly dumb he must of been.

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A lady I was regular with for about three years (10 years ago) was recently at my daughters wedding!

We both (me and the (ex-)wg) knew this was going to happen as I emailed her to warn her - I had realised but she had no idea - she has a brand new life now and we didn't make any contact, which was a disappointment to me as I was very fond of her and would loved to have had a chat

bizarre though

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I have to admit i laughed at that. Almost in disbelief i guess.

Its remarkable how incredibly dumb he must of been.

But thre's more to it than that.. the guy must have had such a low opionion of working girls that he thought he could just walk up and do such a crass mean thing? There is another breed of men out there, who do not respect working girls at all but still 'use' them.

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Some guys don't think, some of it I can guess is the excitement of seeing their favourite WG in 'real' life. I've bumped into clients and my automatic reaction is just to carry on, sometimes it comes naturally because I'm in my own little world. There are also those moments where you can't help but do a double take at someone you are sure you know, but can't place. Then you realise and hope you've not spooked him. I have also been told off for ignoring, but that's far safer than saying "Hello" at an inappropriate time.

I just hope I'm not spotted when I'm in one of my scruffy modes, or pulling a funny face!

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A parallel situation: meeting your lover when you're with the Mrs.

It happened to me once: Mrs Bloom and I were coming out of the cinema just as she and her husband were coming in. We managed a fleeting hand caress.

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Today I bumped into one of my favourite ladies on her way home from the gym... it was very odd seeing her dressed!

She smiled at me, and since we were both alone stopped for a chat and I asked if I could see her tomorrow.

It was all casually done or so I think!

I guess since we're around the same age it looks more natural for her to be chatting to me than an older guy would.

Also I didn't mention anything about money or services so in the unlikely event of anyone earwigging all they got was a girl who wasn't sure what she's up to tomorrow who is going to text the stunning gent who requested the pleasure of spending time with her B)

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In the last three days I have seen two of my clients out and about. The first I spotted looking at me cautiously as if to be thinking 'is that her' or 'where do I know her from'. I pretended not to notice him. The second said hello and we had a quick chat (that went predictably along the lines of 'I didn't recognise you with your clothes on'!)

I think there is unwritten protocol that if an escort/punter sees the other, particularly if either are with someone else you pretend not to know them.

I know a WG who bumped into a punter at her kids school parents evening- he was a teacher and looked very uncomfortable!

Any stories/thoughts?

HI ELG,

Unfortunately over the years I have punted too near to home. Consequently I have seen a lady who has a flat very near where I live a couple of times in the street, but fortunately not close enough to speak. Also she has seen me outside my house when passing on a bus.

More worying a couple of years ago when travelling on the tube I saw a lady I had met a few times on a tube train when I was with my good lady wife. I knew she would go all the way to the end of the line and she staggered off the train with her bags of West End shopping and headed for the same bus as we were going to catch. I tried to walk slowly but we ended up at the bus stop together. Fortunately she caught the first bus which would pass her flat and the wife and I waited for the next one, so our eyes did not meet.

The experience was a bit nerve racking, but it prompted me to see her the next week to see what new fuck me shoes and undies she had bought and to tell her I had seen her. She had not seen me but assured me if it happened again she would be discreete.

I should really only see ladies who are several miles from home but it is so temptin to see someone on the way home from work.

On Monday evening I bumped into party girl I know at a station. We were both a fair way from our homes and we had a very pleasant chat about her new hair colour and her new style of working clothes which got me aroused. I must make an effort to get to a party she is at before she goes back to being a goth!

As regards your encounters ELG, discretion is the better part of valour. If in doubt say nowt.

Regards,

davidgood

PS I must try finding your site/listing when I get back from holiday. Can you give any cryptic clues?

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About five years ago I met this beautiful looking girl during the course of work. We met and telephoned for business meetings on several occasions and when the deal was concluded I thought to ask her out. The strength of the rebuff was surprising. We all get knock-backs, usually along the lines of I'm already seeing some one...I'm flattered, but... and that's what I expected. However she appeared quite offended although I'd only suggested a coffee. Being such a looker I'd fully expected her to bat off any inquisitive suitors with a bit more panache. Anyway I thought no more about it until one day while browsing the escort sites I came across her. She was charging a helluva rate and although undoubtedly a looker, too rich for my blood. I remember thinking that it was an amazing coincidence, especially as we were both working in central London. Perhaps her double life had made her wary of any approach.

And no, I never consulted her professionally. I'd have felt too embarrassed and I didn't want to upset her either.

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PS I must try finding your site/listing when I get back from holiday. Can you give any cryptic clues?

All you men asking me who I really am and asking for clues! (I've had a few messages so not just you David)

I just need to sort out some 'stuff' and I may well add my lovely new website to my profile, come clean and all of you boys dazzled by my wit and charm can come and see me! ;)

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