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to enhance or not ?

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I am devastated, my regular lady is considering having a boob job, to attract more buisness. I have told her she does'nt need enhancing, and has lovely breasts. But I fear her mind is made up.

I welcome reaction from the ladys, Is she right (from a buisness point of veiw)?

and from the guys, how do you feel about 'false' boobs ?

Is there any lady out there who has done similar ?

How did it work out for you ?

Thanks

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I'm not a fan of implants , but it really does depend on the quality and size if the enhancement. I have met one girl where they did feel natural and suited her frame , others where they have obviously been poorly advised by the clinic.

I wouldn't normally book girls with enhancements, but sometimes it's not easy to tell from the photos.

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I am devastated, my regular lady is considering having a boob job, to attract more buisness. I have told her she does'nt need enhancing, and has lovely breasts. But I fear her mind is made up.

I welcome reaction from the ladys, Is she right (from a buisness point of veiw)?

and from the guys, how do you feel about 'false' boobs ?

Is there any lady out there who has done similar ?

How did it work out for you ?

Thanks

Dreadful! :D

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Dreadful! :D

Yeah, not a big fan. I think sometimes small breasts can agree very well with a lady's figure, it's not always like the bigger the better.

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Has to be her decision, and hers alone.

my pedantic opinion: Dont !

But I know a few girls, on and off the game, who had a great boost of confidence form a better figure.

If she does do it: Please, Please get a high quality consultant. Cutting a basketball in half and glueing the parts on doesnt look good, and doesnt last well.

Go for Natural looking (and feeling), and not too heavy.

Make sure the total picture remains balanced.

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I am in two mids. I love small boobs and would always opt for a girl that is that shape, but also feel that ther is something quite perverse ( :D ) about a small bodied one that has some plastic help. :)

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I am devastated, my regular lady is considering having a boob job, to attract more buisness. I have told her she does'nt need enhancing, and has lovely breasts. But I fear her mind is made up.

I welcome reaction from the ladys, Is she right (from a buisness point of veiw)?

and from the guys, how do you feel about 'false' boobs ?

Is there any lady out there who has done similar ?

How did it work out for you ?

Thanks

I specifically avoid any WGs who have been enhanced, and any WG who appears from her photographs to have possibly been enhanced.

I would put the following arguments to her:-

1. Not all men like big breasts. By enhancing, she will lose as many admirers as she gains. [i personally do not like abnormally large breasts. There are many others like me.]

2. The Editors who run the more successful girlie mags, such as Mayfair, Club International, etc, do not depict exclusively girls with large breasts. They show a range of different girls, with all sizes from AA to DD represented. This is because the Editors are professionals in their field, who have made it their business to find out what their readers like. If they get it wrong, they will go out of business. The answer, they have found, is that various males like various and different sizes. Which supports my assertions in item 1 above.

3. It is said that a female, when looking for a sexual partner, normally prefers a male who looks fit, happy and healthy. (I mean "fit" in a low-key sort of way). I believe that most males are also looking for the same thing in a prospective female partner. Breasts that are out of proportion with the rest of a girl's body are not a good indicator of health and fitness, and (to me, at any rate) make the girl unattractive.

4. To most men, a good smile is the most important item in a woman's armoury. Far more effective than a large pair of knockers. Why? Because a smile is an indicator of a woman who is fit, happy and healthy, in the sense used above.

5. Enhanced breasts do not feel "warm" and "cuddly". They often have the feel of whale blubber, or (even worse) of India rubber. Sexually, they are a "turn-off". They do not feel pleasant pressed against my chest during love-making.

6. There is life after the sauna or escort agency. When she eventually leaves the industry, does she really want to present her husband/lover with a pair of India-rubber protruberances? Or would he prefer the soft warmth of a pair of naturals pressing lightly into his chest? I know which I would prefer.

Do please try to persuade her not to do it.

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I specifically avoid any WGs who have been enhanced, and any WG who appears from her photographs to have possibly been enhanced.

I would put the following arguments to her:-

1. Not all men like big breasts. By enhancing, she will lose as many admirers as she gains. [i personally do not like abnormally large breasts. There are many others like me.]

2. The Editors who run the more successful girlie mags, such as Mayfair, Club International, etc, do not depict exclusively girls with large breasts. They show a range of different girls, with all sizes from AA to DD represented. This is because the Editors are professionals in their field, who have made it their business to find out what their readers like. If they get it wrong, they will go out of business. The answer, they have found, is that various males like various and different sizes. Which supports my assertions in item 1 above.

3. It is said that a female, when looking for a sexual partner, normally prefers a male who looks fit, happy and healthy. (I mean "fit" in a low-key sort of way). I believe that most males are also looking for the same thing in a prospective female partner. Breasts that are out of proportion with the rest of a girl's body are not a good indicator of health and fitness, and (to me, at any rate) make the girl unattractive.

4. To most men, a good smile is the most important item in a woman's armoury. Far more effective than a large pair of knockers. Why? Because a smile is an indicator of a woman who is fit, happy and healthy, in the sense used above.

5. Enhanced breasts do not feel "warm" and "cuddly". They often have the feel of whale blubber, or (even worse) of India rubber. Sexually, they are a "turn-off". They do not feel pleasant pressed against my chest during love-making.

6. There is life after the sauna or escort agency. When she eventually leaves the industry, does she really want to present her husband/lover with a pair of India-rubber protruberances? Or would he prefer the soft warmth of a pair of naturals pressing lightly into his chest? I know which I would prefer.

Do please try to persuade her not to do it.

Top post,agree 100% with all your points.

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While I agree with the comments posted above in principle, one should also understand that women run more on confidence, and a well -filled brassiere seems to help some of them, even though this might seem rather odd to some of us men. However we live in an age where fake plastic filled celebities can get lots of attention in life, and some people envy them by association.

Personally I have seen lots of girls with enhanced boobs and it doesn't bother me, its never a factor in selecting a girl or not; I have seen a few before and after, and all that changed for me was the confidence level of the woman - it went up a lot in ALL cases, and this is my assessment of the demeanour of the woman, not just her saying I feel great.

If asked my opinion by the lady I usually say, to be honest, when you have got your lips round my cock I couldn't care less how big your tits are; and second, when I'm doing you doggy style I can't even see them!!

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to me natural is best but i can understand that some women do enchance to boost their confidence

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I am devastated, my regular lady is considering having a boob job, to attract more buisness. I have told her she does'nt need enhancing, and has lovely breasts. But I fear her mind is made up.

I welcome reaction from the ladys, Is she right (from a buisness point of veiw)?

and from the guys, how do you feel about 'false' boobs ?

Is there any lady out there who has done similar ?

How did it work out for you ?

Thanks

Westerners have a crazy attitude...do not breastfeed in public but give your babies milk from an other animal that is for their offspring??? or sunbathe topless no matter how fat and ugly you are but put the feeding boobies away, lol. Breasts are fat, that is all, to feed our offspring..big deal...

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I have a 32b chest and love it. I am very petite all over and I like my small breasts. I have however in the past considered a breast enhancement. Not for work, but for myself. I went through a stage of wanting bigger boobs but it only lasted a few months. I'm so glad now that I didn't have the op when I was younger. I'd suggest to the lady that she waits a while before making a final decision. Big boobs do not equal big money, its the whole package that counts.

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I used to want my doing about 5 years ago, then I met the lovely hubby who made me realise that the real me was perfect for him and he boosted my confidence in myself amazingly.

The guys we meet seem to love the natural me as well, so thats the way I will be staying.

The look of enhanced ones look just that, enhanced, fake.

Maybe good for the porn star personas that some like to portray.

Hey ho, each to their own!

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I'm not into massive breasts. In fact I find petite perky ones the most sexy.

But a couple of ladies I see regularly have had boob jobs and whilst I think they look fine, I think I like them (the ladies) at least as much for what's between their ears as between their legs or attached to their chests.

I accept that if it pleases the ladies to do this then it is no bad thing generally.

Uncle Pokey

Edited by Uncle Pokey
correction in interests of clarity

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Some women lose breast shape post-childbirth, and for them an enhancement boosts their confidence. Nothing wrong with that. I don't like anything that does not look natural, but I don't suppose wasp stings look that natural. She should get it done under the muscle, and teardrop shapes look best unless the consultant really recommends otherwise.

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I specifically avoid any WGs who have been enhanced, and any WG who appears from her photographs to have possibly been enhanced.

I would put the following arguments to her:-

1. Not all men like big breasts. By enhancing, she will lose as many admirers as she gains. [i personally do not like abnormally large breasts. There are many others like me.]

2. The Editors who run the more successful girlie mags, such as Mayfair, Club International, etc, do not depict exclusively girls with large breasts. They show a range of different girls, with all sizes from AA to DD represented. This is because the Editors are professionals in their field, who have made it their business to find out what their readers like. If they get it wrong, they will go out of business. The answer, they have found, is that various males like various and different sizes. Which supports my assertions in item 1 above.

3. It is said that a female, when looking for a sexual partner, normally prefers a male who looks fit, happy and healthy. (I mean "fit" in a low-key sort of way). I believe that most males are also looking for the same thing in a prospective female partner. Breasts that are out of proportion with the rest of a girl's body are not a good indicator of health and fitness, and (to me, at any rate) make the girl unattractive.

4. To most men, a good smile is the most important item in a woman's armoury. Far more effective than a large pair of knockers. Why? Because a smile is an indicator of a woman who is fit, happy and healthy, in the sense used above.

5. Enhanced breasts do not feel "warm" and "cuddly". They often have the feel of whale blubber, or (even worse) of India rubber. Sexually, they are a "turn-off". They do not feel pleasant pressed against my chest during love-making.

6. There is life after the sauna or escort agency. When she eventually leaves the industry, does she really want to present her husband/lover with a pair of India-rubber protruberances? Or would he prefer the soft warmth of a pair of naturals pressing lightly into his chest? I know which I would prefer.

Do please try to persuade her not to do it.

It is not all about what men want you know , what a load of rubbish you write , I had my boobs cos I wanted boobs , I love them , I couldn't give a FF what anyone else thinks about them

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no never ever

1 of my fav wgs was thinking about but thank god she has not done it :)

she has great tits just right for her size 6 bod :D

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Well, I'll be different and say I really love big boobs! :D Most of the ladies I've visited have had enhanced busts, from a D cup to a gorgeous 34G :D And no, none of them looked like "stuck on footballs" :D, these days they are much more sophisticated. The ladies I've seen have had beautifully proportioned busts that feel amazing and soft too :D That said, natural is great too.

There, that's my very humble opinion and each to their own...

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At the end of the day , as Eve 69 ponts out .....its up to the lady in question.its her choice and her body.

However, as a serious "Appreciator" of the female form ......and boobs in particular.

Firstly ..I'd rather ladies didn't..... .small and perky are just lovely ......but if the decisions is made .....................

a) They should still look and feel natural. So please select a really good surgeon who knows what he/she is doing. and unless the surgeon is brilliant don't consider the "in through the nipple" route ... more often than not a dead cert givaway, and pretty easy to bugger up too. !

:D they have to be in keeping with the overall body shape and size ... for me the "gigantic boob" scenario on the wrong frame is not a turn on in any way. Sophie winner of BB10 ( and what a non event that was !!) Boobs are way too big and just look daft !! (IMO) .. So take some guidance on what would suit your frame and overall look ...............Jordon and her footballs are a joke !! I'd climb over her to get to Peter Andre!!

c) very small frame ladies consider the "under the chest muscle" option ... IMO its is a winner almost every time - very difficult to spot and the breast itself is actually still 100% real.

So in conclusion ...........they should never appear "stuck on" ........and personally I believe you really should not be able to tell by looking at a photo .....the only sign would be the small scar under the boob. The vast majority of ( enhanced) ladies web sites almost scream 'boob job' at you before you even start.

However ...Viva les boobs!! ................I just love 'em !!

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Part of the attraction of punting to me is having access to 'super-women'. That's to say women with super-beautiful bodies who would not be available to me ordinarily. Enhanced boobs are part of this experience for me. While I've nothing against firm, natural breasts, quite often natural = floppy. Enhanced may be 'unnatural', but I just love the way a well-crafted pair still feels soft but, importantly, firm, and, best of all, they stand up on their own!

Until a few years ago I was only into DD cup and above, but since discovering the fuck-phenomena presented by petite Oriental girls, a nice enhanced C cup on a small Asian frame is perfect.

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Well I've had my enhanced boobs for five years now and I love them. When I first decided to have them done a couple of regs tried to persuade me out of it but I wanted it done for me and not for work. I'm so glad I did - and I still have my regs!

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There is life after the sauna or escort agency.
Indeed, there is even life before and during. Which makes this comment quite hilarious in the context of that 'real' world.
It is not all about what men want you know , what a load of rubbish you write , I had my boobs cos I wanted boobs , I love them , I couldn't give a FF what anyone else thinks about them.

Eve, honey, we're guys. We talk about 'tits 'n' football.' Do you really think your interest in your own body has the slightest relevance? :D

When a bloke talks to woman about 'her' decision to have breast enlargements, he naturally assumes, as in any other area of life, that her primary concern will be what he wants, likes and desires. Or what other members of his dominant gender are likely to want, like and desire. Mostly this comes down to her ability to gratify him sexually, especially perhaps when raised on a PN thread. (And btw, depending on material used, many implants feel exceedingly natural, almost undetectable.)

A woman however, sees totally different advantages. Imagine she could be six inches taller. Imagine she had a natural gender edge when it came to employment prospects. Imagine, in other words, that she could be a man.

Larger breasts make a woman stand out (if you'll excuse the pun). They get attention in a crowd. Even a man on the hunt who has a mild preference for smaller breasts cannot fail to notice her. And getting that undivided attention is maybe all the opening gambit she needs. Some women naturally abuse such power. "Can you change the tyre on my car please, to help poor helpless me?" And others are very aware that they will be attacked for even standing up tall enough to assert themselves.

Of course a woman doesn't get bigger breasts to satisfy you, dickhead :D. She gets them to even the 'balance' of power. :D

Is she wrong for just saying, "This feels right."? (pun intended). Or for allowing us the fantasy that it is all about giving us a better sexual experience? Evolution be damned!

With apologies to anyone whose eyes have glazed over during this little diatribe - please go and bury your head in a large bosom somewhere. :D

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It is not all about what men want you know , what a load of rubbish you write , I had my boobs cos I wanted boobs , I love them , I couldn't give a FF what anyone else thinks about them

My reply was directed, accurately, at the precise question the original poster asked. I quote from his first sentence:-

" .... to attract more business."

"Attracting more business" is 100% about what men want. My advice was, effectively:- "Don't do it for that reason, because you will lose as much business as you will gain". I would now add:- "You will lose many good customers, like the original poster, who still genuinely think of you primarily as a human being even though you sell sexual services for a living. Some of the "regulars" amongst these good customers might even become personal friends. These genuine and good customers will be replaced by others who think of you only as a giant pair of FF knockers. Given the circumstances that made you decide to sell sex for money, is this what you really want from life? Or is this going too far?". One personal friend (such as the original poster seems to be) is worth a thousand who think of you only as a pair of FF Bristols"

I would make a similar reply to Highland Stormcock, whose post (the one immediately preceding this reply) attempted to ridicule my statement "There is life after the sauna or escort agency". Bearing in mind the statement that the original poster made about her doing it "to attract more business", my wording still seems appropriate, to me at any rate.

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Don Juan - some extra smileys should have been included in my post - I found some extra meanings - amusing ones - by re-Reading the words of your post. No attempt to ridicule. In fact if you read what I put you'll find that it agrees with what you said about power, though we might differ on whether the enlargements are effective in attracting business at the outset. I always laugh at myself (and my supposed cleverness in finding new meanings). No attempt to ridicule anyone. If anything it is a compliment lol. :D

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To be honest I thought of having it done a while back, only a very small top up though! lol I changed my mind because really I am quite happy with what I have. There are some really nasty boob jobs out there but there are some amazing ones too. As long as the girl does her research on her surgeon, has thought about it thoroughly and is doing it for herself it doesnt really matter what anyone else thinks if it makes her happy.

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