Lynn

You Don't Like What You See.....

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We have had all the threads about clients turning up on in call visits and when the door opens

she is not what you expected/hoped for/saw in the photos etc....

So you either go through with it and chalk it to experience or make your excuses and do an about turn.

But if you are in your own home or a hotel room and she knocks at your door....

you open it and are very disappointed at what you see...

It can not be nearly as easy to refuse the lady if she is standing on your doorstep or in the hotel

corridor .... the risk of her being upset/angry and causing a scene would be rather worrying.

What would you or did you do?

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Never had an Outcall to my house - way too risky IMHO - visitors would immediately know my poverty level & run a mile lol!!!

Have found girls (mainly EE coincidentally) that do Outcalls only to be extremely reliable, provide v accurate profiles & excellent services :-)

The best 2 (in my experience) both operated on the basis of witheld nos on their BBs so I never even found out the phone nos - no complaints as their services were as remarkable as their looks :-)

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just tell 'um to fuck off - saying it wasnt't you that ordered them, it must be some kind of wind up or joke. Two can play at the lying game!

simple rule - never punt from home with a new WG you have not seen before!

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We have had all the threads about clients turning up on in call visits and when the door opens

she is not what you expected/hoped for/saw in the photos etc....

So you either go through with it and chalk it to experience or make your excuses and do an about turn.

But if you are in your own home or a hotel room and she knocks at your door....

you open it and are very disappointed at what you see...

It can not be nearly as easy to refuse the lady if she is standing on your doorstep or in the hotel

corridor .... the risk of her being upset/angry and causing a scene would be rather worrying.

What would you or did you do?

1. Pay her at the door and say you need to go to work as it is emergency. Result = no trouble.

2. As another poster says 'tell 'em to f off'. Result = trouble. Trouble = all neighbours/police find out what she was doing there in the first place. This in fact could mean the end of your reputation/marriage, work colleagues may find out.

Advice = go with 1.

I say this from experience.

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1234, I can appreciate why you'd rather spend the money than take a chance that the girl has more balls than you and will make a big scene. But don't forget option #3: Pay her, tell her to shove off, then log straight into Punternet to post a warning in the relevant section

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1234, I can appreciate why you'd rather spend the money than take a chance that the girl has more balls than you and will make a big scene. But don't forget option #3: Pay her, tell her to shove off, then log straight into Punternet to post a warning in the relevant section

Pay for something you know you will not receive? Why part with your hard earned cash? If you can't right an FR about a bait and switch, just warn your fellow punters via pm's, blogs, or whatever means of contact you have. Hopefully that will spread the word.

A few months ago I met a gentleman who told me he had been a victim of bait and switch.

He booked an EE for an outcall to his hotel. The woman who turned up was nothing like the photo, so he did the right thing and refused to allow her in. She left.

A few minutes later there's a knock on the door. He answers to 2 big thugs. They 'made' him pay the girls fee. Not a nice situation to be in.

Many men have no idea sites such as this one exist. I'd say over 90% of my gents have never heard of pnet. I myself only discovered it a 4 years after I started escorting.

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On the other side of the coin in my 2 years I have had three men show up at mine and then tell me I am not what they were looking for a buggered off. My pics are real, not airbrushed or old, it's me they look at and me they get but they still didn't fancy me in reality. Whilst I'm tough enough not to be offended (well not much) it's still really frustrating and I've never been brave enough to ask for some money for wasting my time- maybe I should do!

The point I'm making is that reasons for a fella changing his mind might not be because the girl is not who he thought or be a bait and switch jobbie hence no need for naming and shaming.

I also wonder if the chaps just bottled out and prefer to 'blame' me than admit they've got cold feet.

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just tell 'um to fuck off - saying it wasnt't you that ordered them, it must be some kind of wind up or joke. Two can play at the lying game!

simple rule - never punt from home with a new WG you have not seen before!

It may seem incredible but there are many guys out there who are quite happy

to have a lady visit while the wife/girlfriend is out or away for the night.

These are ladies he has never seen before and can be with agencies he has no

or little knowledge of.

I used to visit a man in broad daylight while his other half was doing her shift

at work. His neighbours could see anyone coming along the road and turning into

his drive. I know he used to book many girls that way and some of them were young

and dressed... let's say........ not quite discreetly.

Amazing isn't it?

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Never had an Outcall to my house - way too risky IMHO - visitors would immediately know my poverty level & run a mile lol!!!

Have found girls (mainly EE coincidentally) that do Outcalls only to be extremely reliable, provide v accurate profiles & excellent services :-)

The best 2 (in my experience) both operated on the basis of witheld nos on their BBs so I never even found out the phone nos - no complaints as their services were as remarkable as their looks :-)

I agree its way too risky but for me its because i wish to be anoynmous when punting unless i decide to tell people and having an outcall to my home doesnt offer that, to me its basic security not to do so which in 28 years i havent and i wont do so in the future. :)

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1. Pay her at the door and say you need to go to work as it is emergency. Result = no trouble.

2. As another poster says 'tell 'em to f off'. Result = trouble. Trouble = all neighbours/police find out what she was doing there in the first place. This in fact could mean the end of your reputation/marriage, work colleagues may find out.

Advice = go with 1.

I say this from experience.

There is a far safer option, dont punt on your own doorstep and especially if you have a partner.

I say this out of logic and common sense.

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Pay for something you know you will not receive? Why part with your hard earned cash? If you can't right an FR about a bait and switch, just warn your fellow punters via pm's, blogs, or whatever means of contact you have. Hopefully that will spread the word.

A few months ago I met a gentleman who told me he had been a victim of bait and switch.

He booked an EE for an outcall to his hotel. The woman who turned up was nothing like the photo, so he did the right thing and refused to allow her in. She left.

A few minutes later there's a knock on the door. He answers to 2 big thugs. They 'made' him pay the girls fee. Not a nice situation to be in.

Many men have no idea sites such as this one exist. I'd say over 90% of my gents have never heard of pnet. I myself only discovered it a 4 years after I started escorting.

A punter can post a thread on here about a bait and switch punt but it doesnt help punters that they cant do a FR about such punts unless money changed hands in my opinion, i do appreciate though that its Galahads rules.

Your anecdote here is why from a punters point of view i wouldnt get myself in this situation. I have had a number of outcalls to my hotel from Indies in the past and met them in the bar or lobby so i could vet them first, none asked for my room number so on the one occassion i didnt like the WGs unfriendly and cold demeaner plus i didnt fancy the real her as opposed to her pictures so my logic tells me if she is this cold before i have given her my money the punt is unlikely to be good, and i dont fancy her, so i made my excuses and she left. Nowadays i only do Incalls.

Its certainly the case only a small precentage of punters and indeed WGs i have punted with have heard about Pnet so your 90% figure is no surprise to me. :)

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Really cannot see why guys would pay them to keep quiet :blink:

A polite “sorry but you are not what you portray on your website” will do and close the door :P

Worried about her kicking up a fuss or security then you shouldn’t punt from home

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There is a far safer option, dont punt on your own doorstep and especially if you have a partner.

Worried about her kicking up a fuss or security then you shouldn’t punt from home

Wise words gents. I can see why a single guy might feel more comfortable indulging in some afternoon delight in his own home, but I just don't understand why a married guy would. Surely all of the security issues mentioned above plus the inherent sense of wrongness make for an uncomfortable time.

AND incalls tend to be cheaper than outcalls. I only do outcalls when I am in a hotel away from home.

I just don't get it I guess :blink: .

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Sure, no one wants to intentionally hurt someone's feelings and men aren't using to rejecting women, it's usually the other way around. However, if i had an outcall and the lady was not what i expected and didn't want to go through with it i wouldn't. I'm not going to pay someone to have sex with them if i don't fancy them, even if they have travelled all that way. Then should i compensate her for her travels? What if it was a blatent bait and switch, certainely not. If it was just me getting cold feet maybe i would.. Someone on dragons den had this site to stop unfair parking tickets, they questioned her so now i've got to pay £40?! She replied, better then paying £80..

Tough one. There have been times earleir in my pnting 'career' in Amsterdam where my weed goggles had taken effect and once i was in there i was like what the hell but i wouldn't doo that again now.

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1234, I can appreciate why you'd rather spend the money than take a chance that the girl has more balls than you and will make a big scene. But don't forget option #3: Pay her, tell her to shove off, then log straight into Punternet to post a warning in the relevant section

The girl isn't the problem, it is who is behind the girl that is the potential problem. If you cant afford to lose 100 quid, don't punt.

There is no point in posting a warning because one does not fancy the lady concerned. It happens.

I genuinely think you're irresponsible if you're advising punters to report a lady simply because she is not what was wanted. Moreso if the lady, or her mates, read punternet they may well turn up at the punters home and do serious damage.

Let it go, and move on.

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Outcalls do and should have cancellations fees for wasted petrol at the very least, it's a person knocking at the door not a pizza.

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It may seem incredible but there are many guys out there who are quite happy

to have a lady visit while the wife/girlfriend is out or away for the night.

These are ladies he has never seen before and can be with agencies he has no

or little knowledge of.

I used to visit a man in broad daylight while his other half was doing her shift

at work. His neighbours could see anyone coming along the road and turning into

his drive. I know he used to book many girls that way and some of them were young

and dressed... let's say........ not quite discreetly.

Amazing isn't it?

It used to amaze me, until i thought about the men that hit on girls in nightclubs, take them home, complete strangers!! girlfriends/partners not there etc, her things lying around, then they add each other on social networking sites, scarey!! some girls get a kick out of it, makes them feel special, fools!

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Outcalls do and should have cancellations fees for wasted petrol at the very least, it's a person knocking at the door not a pizza.

That depends on whether the WG has lied to you or not. If the real her is not like her pictures she wouldnt get a penny off me as she should of been honest in the first place, its her fault for misleading me. As i said previously this scenario is not one i have any interest in nowadays anyway, only doing Incalls where i can walk if necessary very easily although fortunately its rare i need to.

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I don't agree with cancellation fees or travel costs being refunded

except under certain circumstances.

A girl could make a decent wage doing that alone! 2 or 3 out calls

per day when she knows the man won't let her in :D so she makes

£30 a time in cancellation cash.... that could be a good old scam couldn't it?

Ridiculous of course and it is not likely to happen but if a lady is not at all

what the guy expected when he opens the door then he has every right to say no thanks

without parting with a penny and if the lady or agency is any good at all they will

accept that without a question.

However if the man has a sudden emergency or simple change of mind due to nerves etc

then a polite offering of some of the funds would be fairly reasonable.... specially if

she has travelled a good distance or paid a driver.

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Cancelation fees for outcalls do get charged, it's to stop 'I've changed my mind', 'your not my type' 'somerhings come up you can not come in' or just ignoring the door, not about bait and switch or lies on profiles, it's for timewasters, not happened to me because I don't do outcalls now but some girls advertise £40 cancelation fee if there hourly rate is £150.

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Cancelation fees for outcalls do get charged, it's to stop 'I've changed my mind', 'your not my type' 'somerhings come up you can not come in' or just ignoring the door, not about bait and switch or lies on profiles, it's for timewasters, not happened to me because I don't do outcalls now but some girls advertise £40 cancelation fee if there hourly rate is £150.

So how is this cancellation fee actually paid?

Does he invite her in and get the wallet out?

Is he waiting at the door with the cancellation fee?

All sounds a bit strange to me.

There is absolutely no way a cancellation fee can be insisted on. There is no contract or written agreement.

I wouldn't dream of charging one myself.

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So how is this cancellation fee actually paid?

Does he invite her in and get the wallet out?

Is he waiting at the door with the cancellation fee?

All sounds a bit strange to me.

There is absolutely no way a cancellation fee can be insisted on. There is no contract or written agreement.

I wouldn't dream of charging one myself.

Years ago when i worked for an agency i got a group booking, it was a 3 hour in a hotel, when me and two other girls arrived at the hotel there was 6 other girls there, he only wanted three, he looked at us and decided to go ahead with me and the 2 other girls i was with, he then let us in, the other girls asked for a cancelation fee, it was paid in cash at the door, your right there is no written contract, but i here hotel outcalls are attract alot of timewasters hence a cancelation fee being stated and charged.

I've experienced this on incalls, it's very frustrating and i don't know why but i do beleave the guys that do it get a kick out of it, i have just shut the door, number gets stored in phone appropriately etc, however, i have also been told of clients wanting to leave after 15 mins on an incall for what ever reason, i know girls that have charged for this and i would charge if that happened to me.

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So how is this cancellation fee actually paid?

Does he invite her in and get the wallet out?

Is he waiting at the door with the cancellation fee?

All sounds a bit strange to me.

There is absolutely no way a cancellation fee can be insisted on. There is no contract or written agreement.

I wouldn't dream of charging one myself.

It can be insisted on but if the punter says no way thats it unless the WG involved resorts to other methods like trying to embarrass him into paying or making threats, which i assume most wouldnt do. :)

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There is a far safer option, dont punt on your own doorstep and especially if you have a partner.

I say this out of logic and common sense.

I think some married guys enjoy the thrill of shaggin hookers In the marital bed, and can be reckless to the point of getting caught.

I don't do Outcalls either, but just like Incalls, If the lady arrived at the door and she was nothing like her photos I'd say no chance, especially If she's used bait & switch, no cancellation fee or bus fare home.

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Perhaps stay dressed and ready to run with a ready excuse...if she is not the girl in the pictures...I mean REALLY not the girl then just hand her £50 and say you are terribly sorry but something has come up and you will be sure to call her soon as you are gutted. Give her enough time to get to the lift then just leave the room. If you are worried heavies may be on the way up just go up to the next floor and wait a few minutes then go to the bar for a stiff one.

To be honest though, the number of times i have had guys question a description of a girl they have booked..she is the blonde one right..err no, she is brunette...but the pictures are blonde...no they are not etc I do wonder if sometimes some guys leaf through so many pictures on so many websites that they cant remember which phone number goes with which face or name.

Point in fact...I met a particular guy at annabellas 5 years ago when i first started there, he stuck in my mind because he tried to blag that he was a friend of mr and mrs d and that he owned the building the convent was in. When I spoke to them they said no, that was not him lol....so he stuck in my head.

Roll on a few years and i am at my first day at hod south ken...I walk into the bedroom and there is mr i own the convent. Hello Chloe he says, how are you blah blah blah...had a quick chat about the first time we met etc

Roll on several months later and I was now at hod every monday...I walk into the bedroom and mr i own the convent is there. Hello is says, how have you been, I answer, we chat a minute then he says, Sorry but you are not chloe....err yes i am...no, no you definatley are not...hod chloe is much taller with bigger boobs and redder hair !!!??? errr listen love, this is the third time i have met you, annabellas remember...several months ago in this very room remember..yes he says, but that was a different girl not you.

I pointed out that i was the only chloe hod had for about 3and a half years but he wouldnt have it and tbh i was not too polite to him in the end.

So...had this been an outcall he would have claimed i was not chloe!...when indeed i am lol.x He would have claimed it was a bait and switch,...which it was not.

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