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I was talking with a friend of mine a couple of days ago and the topic of children came up as it usually does when we talk, it's a bit of a sore subject for both of us but we understand each other. She asked me if I would carry on working if I had a child and my immediete reaction was 'Of course I bloody would!'.. but since saying this it's been playing on my mind constantly, I have heard that there are a few escorts who are mums and I would really like to hear how you do it, is it practical, have you lost potential work due to less flexibility with the hours you do, if you keep your hours flexible is it hard to find babysitters at short notice? And anything else you can add and discuss would be much appreciated :) I'm not likely to have children but id really like to hear if it's possible to carry on with this job while being a mum.

Thank you x

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I was talking with a friend of mine a couple of days ago and the topic of children came up as it usually does when we talk, it's a bit of a sore subject for both of us but we understand each other. She asked me if I would carry on working if I had a child and my immediete reaction was 'Of course I bloody would!'.. but since saying this it's been playing on my mind constantly, I have heard that there are a few escorts who are mums and I would really like to hear how you do it, is it practical, have you lost potential work due to less flexibility with the hours you do, if you keep your hours flexible is it hard to find babysitters at short notice? And anything else you can add and discuss would be much appreciated :) I'm not likely to have children but id really like to hear if it's possible to carry on with this job while being a mum.

Thank you x

Many WGs i have punted with have been mothers and being a WG has suited them as they can work flexible hours so as to suit their lifestyles, it was an advantage to them to be able to do this which their previous jobs didnt offer. :)

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Thanks for the reply smiths :) I can see how it would be an advantage in that sense.. but if you are going from being able to escort full time, to having to juggle escorting with parenting, it must mean that some things have got to give?

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Thanks for the reply smiths :) I can see how it would be an advantage in that sense.. but if you are going from being able to escort full time, to having to juggle escorting with parenting, it must mean that some things have got to give?

Same as millions of working mothers, your child or children is looked after by family, friends or a child minder while your working. I assume for some WGs it might mean an end to touring or overnighters or longer but depends on what suits them. :)

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I can only speak for the ladies that I have met .. but several of them seem to be Mums as well as work.

It seems to fit astonishly well tbh. The lady can choose when, where and how to work. Not tied by long hours or shifts etc

As they would earn significantly more that several other occupations, they can afford to use the services of a nanny or minder.

A regular who I have seen for well over 2 years, has two children (She is seperated from the Childrens father) and she fits it all in remerakbly well and is able to afford both a decent lifestyle and some nice holidays for her kids on top of it all. She, like a lot of Mum's ... seeems to do a remarkable job of juggling stuff and putting the kids as high priority, So I absolutely respect and admire her for that. She chooses to work having tried other stuff and it works for her.

When she is working she is 1st rate at that too !! :-) a delightful real life MILF.

So Working ...........Just like any other job really ... except more flexibility and as it generates a higher income (probably) can afford to work less.

Good luck to all working Mum's.

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Thanks for the reply smiths :) I can see how it would be an advantage in that sense.. but if you are going from being able to escort full time, to having to juggle escorting with parenting, it must mean that some things have got to give?

Why does anything have to "give", what is the difference between working as an escort long hours and working at a "normal" job for long hours? If anything you would have to work less to make decent money escorting as oppose to another job. The country is full of working mum's, I see escorting as no different other than you can pick and choose which days you work or if indie which hours you work.

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Why does anything have to "give", what is the difference between working as an escort long hours and working at a "normal" job for long hours? If anything you would have to work less to make decent money escorting as oppose to another job. The country is full of working mum's, I see escorting as no different other than you can pick and choose which days you work or if indie which hours you work. There is no potential lost just because you have had children.

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Thanks for the replies everyone, Chloe I didn't mean something would have to give as in be an escort or be a mum.. but for example, if I had a baby I can imagine it being very difficult for me to take short notice bookings since I don't work any particular hours which is why I wondered about flexibility being lost (this is of course on the assumption that the baby wouldn't be in a nursery every day). If I had someone phone up and ask to see me in an hours time for half an hour I would have to either find a babysitter or turn them away. I'm really talking about the baby stages rather than when they are in school when you can say you're available between 9 and 2 most days. :)

So, do you only work between set hours and arrange care for those hours/days? Or have baby at home with you until you get a booking and have an arrangement with a babysitter who is able to provide care at short notice?

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I was talking with a friend of mine a couple of days ago and the topic of children came up as it usually does when we talk, it's a bit of a sore subject for both of us but we understand each other. She asked me if I would carry on working if I had a child and my immediete reaction was 'Of course I bloody would!'.. but since saying this it's been playing on my mind constantly, I have heard that there are a few escorts who are mums and I would really like to hear how you do it, is it practical, have you lost potential work due to less flexibility with the hours you do, if you keep your hours flexible is it hard to find babysitters at short notice? And anything else you can add and discuss would be much appreciated :) I'm not likely to have children but id really like to hear if it's possible to carry on with this job while being a mum.

Thank you x

Many ladies I have visited have been Mothers, often single Mothers where they get little help from the Government. Some have had very young Children who are being cared for by friends whilst they are 'at work', some primary School which rather limits visits during School holidaya and other with grown up kids.

One lass with Children I visited has a Mother who works, thay are both cool about each other working and when they get together it is with the Children and Grand Children and Grandmother.

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Hi Cora,

I am a mum... however my son is 19 years old today. :) I know some of you will go :o as I know, I know, I don't look old enough to have a 19 year old :D

I originally started working 11 years ago when he was about 8 years old. I would work during school hours and in the school holidays, I would work when I had childcare for him. So it was hours that suited me. I was never short of work. There are clients that wanted appointments all day long.

It really is the same for whatever job a working mother does... and you cope because you have to.

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Thanks so much for that Louisa :) and happy birthday to your son!

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I was talking with a friend of mine a couple of days ago and the topic of children came up as it usually does when we talk, it's a bit of a sore subject for both of us but we understand each other. She asked me if I would carry on working if I had a child and my immediete reaction was 'Of course I bloody would!'.. but since saying this it's been playing on my mind constantly, I have heard that there are a few escorts who are mums and I would really like to hear how you do it, is it practical, have you lost potential work due to less flexibility with the hours you do, if you keep your hours flexible is it hard to find babysitters at short notice? And anything else you can add and discuss would be much appreciated :) I'm not likely to have children but id really like to hear if it's possible to carry on with this job while being a mum.

Thank you x

Some of the ladies who work for me have kids. It has never been a problem. Girls usually stick to regular days and can sort child minder in advance. Of course sometimes mums need to cancel their days due to child sickness, but cancelling shifts happens even with the girls who don’t have kids...

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Thanks :) so it is basically just having to have set work days or hours while they are at nursery/school rather than finding reliable babysitters?

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I'm not likely to have children but id really like to hear if it's possible to carry on with this job while being a mum.

I've met several ladies who have been abruptly abandoned by the fathers of their child (usually only one), and who have made a rational decision that the only trade that they could jump straight into and earn a sufficient amount to cover the mortgage and school (then university) fees was this one! For them it wasn't therefore whether they could fit the two together, but simply that they had to! (And I'd add that each of the three, that I'm immediately thinking of, are magnificent as WGs.)

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I've met several ladies who have been abruptly abandoned by the fathers of their child (usually only one), and who have made a rational decision that the only trade that they could jump straight into and earn a sufficient amount to cover the mortgage and school (then university) fees was this one! For them it wasn't therefore whether they could fit the two together, but simply that they had to! (And I'd add that each of the three, that I'm immediately thinking of, are magnificent as WGs.)

I'd agree Irgendiener, I've met some magnificent genuine MILF escorts. I tend to punt with ladies from late twenties to early forties, so perhaps meet more escorting mums than many, but I often find that they genuinely love the job for the flexibility it offers in terms of hours. I think that a fair degree of organisation on the lady's part is required, but this is true of any working mum. Set working days, childminders and the odd day off for childhood ailments are the order of the day.

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I'd agree Irgendiener, I've met some magnificent genuine MILF escorts. I tend to punt with ladies from late twenties to early forties, so perhaps meet more escorting mums than many, but I often find that they genuinely love the job for the flexibility it offers in terms of hours. I think that a fair degree of organisation on the lady's part is required, but this is true of any working mum. Set working days, childminders and the odd day off for childhood ailments are the order of the day.

Its undoubtedly that this work offers certain amount of flexibility. However on the "normal" civilian job hours are always set on the certain time, so there is no problem to employ the childminder for this precise hours.

With escorting its more difficult, as the booking time of the appointments can be unpredictable and in the short notice. Its a hell lot of juggling required.

My friend Lana once broke into the tears, when she had few confirmed bookings in the week, every time drove her son 20 miles away to the childminder, only to find out later that appointments were cancelled hour or so prior booking. She still after to pay to childminder of course. Some of this guys just don't realise, what effort girls go through to be able to attend the meeting.

Thats why I understand, why its so much easier for girls who have children, work in the parlour in the particular days and time, so they can organise child care on those precise days. If WG with the kid/kids working independently, as well as her her husband/partner works long hours, and with a random bookings: its so much more complex.

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Thanks Xenia thats exactly the sort of scenario I was thinking of when I meant flexibility would be difficult if you have to arrange childcare at short notice. I can't imagine what your friend must have felt when the men didn't turn up :(

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I'd have thought that the biggest worry for a single mother being an escort would be the constant fear of being outed as an escort, particularly if that "outing" is done by a classmate of the child's at school. Kids can be pretty cruel once they've reached puberty while nosey neighbours can be as bad or worse.I appreciate that ladies will take every precaution and have convincing cover stories but there are always unfortunate coincidences that can lead to gossip and conjecture. I can fully understand why escorts with children don't show their faces on their websites.

Do any ladies on here worry unduly about being outed or do you simply take the attitude that it's as likely to happen as inadvertantly walking in front of a bus?

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Most of the Ladies I visit are 35 plus and I would hazard a guess that at least 75% of them are Mothers albeit with grown up children. I seem somehow to get on talking terms with them and they tell me about their children (sometimes to the extent that they tell me their names) and even discuss their schooling with me. As you will all know I am an old guy so perhaps they regard me as a "father figure" as much as a client :):)

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I'd have thought that the biggest worry for a single mother being an escort would be the constant fear of being outed as an escort, particularly if that "outing" is done by a classmate of the child's at school. Kids can be pretty cruel once they've reached puberty while nosey neighbours can be as bad or worse.I appreciate that ladies will take every precaution and have convincing cover stories but there are always unfortunate coincidences that can lead to gossip and conjecture. I can fully understand why escorts with children don't show their faces on their websites.

Do any ladies on here worry unduly about being outed or do you simply take the attitude that it's as likely to happen as inadvertantly walking in front of a bus?

I agree about kids being cruel, one can just imagine the taunting in the playground.

And what about the other Parents at the school gates? How judgemental would they be?

One of my regulars was found out by her sister in law and she was threatened with being outed on Facebook and to her School where her 8 and 10 year old girls went.

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I'd have thought that the biggest worry for a single mother being an escort would be the constant fear of being outed as an escort, particularly if that "outing" is done by a classmate of the child's at school. Kids can be pretty cruel once they've reached puberty while nosey neighbours can be as bad or worse.I appreciate that ladies will take every precaution and have convincing cover stories but there are always unfortunate coincidences that can lead to gossip and conjecture. I can fully understand why escorts with children don't show their faces on their websites.

Do any ladies on here worry unduly about being outed or do you simply take the attitude that it's as likely to happen as inadvertantly walking in front of a bus?

Its not the kids you have to worry about its the so called "respectable" (in their eyes only ) mums at the school gate or your neighbourhood. I was outed at a previous address years ago and the mums would openly discuss and slag me off in front of their kids and then their kids in turn would do the same to my children. Children do not know what this job entails unless some evil bored with their own so perfect lives mothers tell them what it entails. One ex friend printed a copy of my pictures off and gave them to her kids to hand around my sons school. Luckily my son was a popular boy and this womans son ended up getting several kickings from class mates because of his mothers nasty actions. Luckily not a single child or teacher believed it was me anyway (face blurred and no stretchmarks...apparently they thought it impossible to be me as I have 3 kids lol) but I really do have no stretch marks :D :D

anyway, Xenia and LadyDiva are correct, a lot of mums do work in parlours or do the parties, they are set hours on set days so far more easy to arrange childcare for although the late hours still do present problems sometimes, you just have to find the right childminder.

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Hi Cora,

I am a mum... however my son is 19 years old today. :) I know some of you will go :o as I know, I know, I don't look old enough to have a 19 year old :D

I originally started working 11 years ago when he was about 8 years old. I would work during school hours and in the school holidays, I would work when I had childcare for him. So it was hours that suited me. I was never short of work. There are clients that wanted appointments all day long.

It really is the same for whatever job a working mother does... and you cope because you have to.

No! you do not look it honi!!! :-))) unbelievable xxxx

I do not have children, have got all that to come!! :-) having met a lot of escorts

that do have children, they just lead normal day to day lifes where they juggle and balance work with social life etc,.

Escorting is probably more intimate then the average job lol so yes going back to work after having a baby is when the time is right and an individual choice.

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I agree about kids being cruel, one can just imagine the taunting in the playground.

And what about the other Parents at the school gates? How judgemental would they be?

One of my regulars was found out by her sister in law and she was threatened with being outed on Facebook and to her School where her 8 and 10 year old girls went.

You just can't imagine how cruel people can be until it happens to you. Nobody, out there in the world where punting is abhorred, understands. I was outed to my family and the pain and humiliation is indescribable.

These days, after a name change, and a lot of smokescreen 'other jobs', I find it almost impossible to work. My children constantly watch me, and call me up to find out 'where are you'.

I have to hide things from them all the time, and sometimes wonder is it all worth it?

These days, the job has become a sort of therapy for me because I can loose myself in the work, and pretend I am someone else.

One good thing to come out of it is when people ask me what do you do - I simply answer that I do not work, and that is more than accepted since I seem to be at home all of the time apart from short gaps here and there where I am stealing some hidden fun.

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Called time management skills that mother hood entails in bucket loads I worked when my child was of school age yes I had to be flexiable regarding hours but the profession and my method of working suited that more so than a salaried job would

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